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Insights from the Couch - Mental Health at Midlife

Insights from the Couch - Mental Health at Midlife

By: Colette Fehr Laura Bowman
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Do you ever wish you had two therapists on call to answer your most pressing questions? Questions like, 'How do I prepare for the empty nest?', 'How do I create my second act?', and 'How do I reconnect with my partner?' We're going to dive into it all. This is Insights from the Couch with Colette Fehr, licensed couples therapist, and Laura Bowman, licensed individual therapist. These are the conversations we have all the time as close friends, and that we have every day with women just like you in therapy. We're here to unpack the most pressing, private issues you're grappling with, like 'I can't stand my partner', 'I think I have a drinking problem', or 'I'm afraid something's off with my child' and explore them honestly, out loud with you. As therapists and as women experiencing many of the same challenges, we'll bring you thoughtful conversations, expert interviews, and real women's stories. We'll help you make sense of these issues, demystify them, explore them, and offer you the best of what we know as therapists and the best of what we think as women, so you don't have to navigate these things alone. Join us for the first season of Insights from the Couch, with new episodes airing every Wednesday. Tune in wherever you listen, and make sure to visit our website at insightsfromthecouch.org for tools and resources. So, come join us and let's go deep.

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Episodes
  • Ep.50: One Year Anniversary! Just Start: How to Bring Big Ideas to Life (Without Having it All Figured Out)
    Jun 4 2025

    Hey friends! We cannot believe we’re saying this—but it's officially been ONE YEAR since we launched Insights from the Couch! Not only are we celebrating our podcast anniversary, but this is also our 50th episode, and we're taking a moment to reflect on the wild, messy, beautiful journey that brought us here. Spoiler alert: we had no idea what we were doing when we started, but we’re proof that big things can happen when you leap before you feel "ready."

    In this episode, we open up about the highs, the facepalms, and everything in between—from our tech-challenged beginnings to what we’ve learned about confidence, commitment, distress tolerance, and doing the damn thing scared. Whether you're dreaming of launching your own podcast, writing a book, or finally going after that idea you've been sitting on, we promise this episode will light a fire under you. And yes, we get vulnerable about our own fears and insecurities—because that’s just how we roll.

    Episode Highlights:

    [0:00] - Celebrating our one-year podcast anniversary and our 50th episode.
    [1:28] - The unexpected start and original podcast name that didn’t make the cut.
    [3:06] - Why we felt called to fill a gap for midlife women’s voices.
    [4:39] - Our “just go for it” launch story—no formal course, all in on action.
    [6:07] - Why starting before you’re ready is the key to unlocking clarity.
    [7:50] - A powerful discussion on perfectionism and how it holds women back.
    [9:35] - The underrated magic of willingness and how it drives everything.
    [13:55] - Colette’s wild Cornell summer and learning through discomfort.
    [16:00] - What distress tolerance really looks like in everyday life.
    [18:44] - Building confidence through action, not waiting to “feel ready”.
    [24:43] - Laura’s real talk on growing your work capacity and attention.
    [26:58] - Colette’s TEDx talk moment and learning to survive embarrassment.
    [31:48] - Riding the cringe: how to show up, even when it’s uncomfortable.
    [33:07] - Behind the scenes of our partnership and working styles.
    [34:35] - Announcing our new Midlife Master Class group (coming soon!).
    [36:45] - The Top 5 Regrets of the Dying and why we’re not waiting anymore.
    [38:00] - A call for listener questions—let us know how we can support YOU.

    Resources:

    • Visit our website: https://www.insightsfromthecouch.org
    • Submit your questions or topics for future episodes: info@insightsfromthecouch.org

    We’re beyond grateful to each of you who has listened, shared, or supported Insights from the Couch over this past year. You’ve helped us build something truly special, and we can’t wait to grow even more together. If you loved this episode, please take a moment to rate, follow, share, and review—it means the world to us.

    See you next week!

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    39 mins
  • Ep.49: Glow Up at Midlife: What Works, What Doesn’t, and What’s Worth It With Dermatologist Dr. Mary Alice Mina
    May 28 2025

    What actually works for healthy, vibrant skin—and what’s just hype? In this episode, we sit down with the brilliant and refreshingly honest Dr. Mary Alice Mina, Harvard-trained dermatologist and host of The Skin Real podcast. We dive deep into what midlife skin really needs, what treatments are worth the money, and how hormonal changes can shake up everything we thought we knew about our skincare routines.

    Together, we unpack skin minimalism, sunscreen truths (spoiler: it really matters), and the difference between aging gracefully and chasing the next trending procedure. We also get personal—sharing our own frustrations about neck bands, droopy brows, and that “face falling” feeling—and ask Dr. Mina everything from estrogen creams to slugging and Botox.

    Episode Highlights:

    [0:02] - Welcoming Dr. Mary Alice Mina and diving into hormonal changes and midlife skin shifts.
    [3:38] - Our own candid stories about "face falling" and dry, aging skin.
    [5:00] - The psychological toll of aging and the importance of internal confidence.
    [8:10] - What “skin minimalism” actually means—and why less really can be more.
    [11:37] - Estrogen’s role in skin hydration and how perimenopause changes everything.
    [13:53] - Sunscreen strategy: how often to reapply, the importance of hats, and Dr. Mina’s favorite brands.
    [19:07] - Retinoids 101: how and when to use them for best results.
    [20:26] - All about neck bands: what works (and what doesn’t).
    [26:09] - Estrogen creams for the face: what Dr. Mina prescribes and how it works.
    [28:58] - Why sleep is skin care and how sleep deprivation shows up on your face.
    [30:58] - Sunscreen myths, TikTok fads, and Dr. Mina’s biggest dermatology pet peeves.
    [33:59] - Genetics vs. skincare habits—what really makes the difference.
    [40:16] - Starting or restarting retinoids without overwhelming your skin.
    [40:39] - Why annual skin checks are essential and how to talk to your dermatologist.
    [43:31] - How to connect with Dr. Mina and find your “skin style” through her quiz.

    Resources:

    • Dr. Mary Alice Mina’s Podcast: The Skin Real
    • Find your skin style quiz: https://www.theskinreal.com/style
    • Skincare Compounding: Skin Medicinals (estriol cream)
    • Sunscreen favorites: EltaMD, La Roche-Posay, Neutrogena Stick
    • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drminaskin
    • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drminaskin
    • YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@drminaskin
    • Titktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drminaskin
    • Medium: https://medium.com/@drminaskin
    • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drminaskin/
    • Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.ph/06k6qtsxj4uvtpulz6w5ghdc8l2gwo/

    Make sure to visit the “Resources” page on our website www.insightsfromthecouch.org to download the worksheet and take ways that accompany each episode. This is hugely important as we are now creating a download that is unique to each episode and working hard to create an email list to support our programming offerings moving forward.

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    45 mins
  • Ep.48: Beyond Survival Mode: How to Stop Playing Small and Start Living Big with Debbie Weiss
    May 21 2025

    What happens when you spend your whole life taking care of others, and suddenly realize you’ve lost yourself in the process? In this powerful episode, we sit down with Debbie R. Weiss, bestselling author, entrepreneur, and inspirational speaker, who shares how she spent decades as a family caregiver—first to her father, then to her son with autism, and later to her husband battling mental illness and cancer. At 50, she had an epiphany: if she didn’t start prioritizing herself, she’d keep putting her own life on hold.

    Debbie opens up about her journey of shifting from a victim mentality to taking ownership of her life, making small mindset shifts that led to massive transformation. We dive into breaking limiting beliefs, overcoming life’s toughest challenges, and chasing dreams—even when you’re not sure what they are yet. If you’ve ever felt stuck in your circumstances, this conversation will leave you inspired and ready to take action.

    Episode Highlights:

    [0:02] – Meet Debbie R. Weiss: Author, speaker, and lifelong caregiver.
    [2:28] – Becoming a caregiver at 17: navigating life after her father’s stroke.
    [5:41] – Running a business while balancing caregiving and family responsibilities.
    [9:39] – The devastating moment when her husband was diagnosed with terminal cancer.
    [12:12] – Breaking free from the victim mentality and taking responsibility.
    [17:43] – The mindset shift that finally led to lasting weight loss.
    [24:55] – How small, consistent actions can transform your life.
    [31:16] – What Debbie’s life looks like now: embracing new possibilities.
    [38:35] – The power of saying yes and how it led her to writing.
    [41:22] – Debbie’s best advice for women who feel stuck in their circumstances.

    Resources:

    Debbie Weiss’s Website: https://www.debbierweiss.com

    Make sure to visit the “Resources” page on our website www.insightsfromthecouch.org to download the worksheet and take ways that accompany each episode. This is hugely important as we are now creating a download that is unique to each episode and working hard to create an email list to support our programming offerings moving forward.

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    46 mins
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