**TRIGGER WARNING: Miscarriage**

Finding Strength and Community in the Fertility Journey: Priscilla's Infertility Story

Join me in this heartfelt conversation with Priscilla Guasso, an HR leader, coach, mom, and author, who bravely shares her eight-year journey through infertility. Priscilla opens up about her battles with PCOS, the emotional toll of multiple miscarriages, and the IVF process. Discover how she and her husband supported each other, the importance of community, and maintaining a positive mindset. Priscilla highlights the emotional ups and downs, touching on anxiety and depression, and shares how she found strength through faith and affirmations. This heartfelt episode offers hope, inspiration, and support to anyone navigating infertility, IVF, loss, grief, and the pursuit of motherhood. Can’t wait for you to tune in and let me know what you think!

TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Introduction and Mission

00:25 Meet Priscilla: A Journey of Resilience

00:43 Early Struggles and Miscarriages

04:15 Discovering PCOS and Health Challenges

06:24 Building a Support System

07:59 Coping with Miscarriages

13:45 Deciding on IVF

14:55 Navigating the IVF Process

30:57 Communication and Relationship Challenges

32:29 Navigating Family Dynamics and Mutual Respect

33:05 Deciding to Have a Child: Challenges and Choices

34:28 The Role of Therapy and Personal Growth

35:04 Recommitting to Parenthood and Communication

37:43 Balancing Parenthood and Personal Aspirations

40:08 Coping with Anxiety and Depression

48:05 Finding Joy and Support During IVF

54:26 Building a Community and Career After Miscarriages

01:03:08 Final Thoughts and Words of Encouragement

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IG: @priscillaguasso & @latinasinhr

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/priscillaguasso/

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In this episode, I chat with Emma D'Souza as she shares her personal journey through infertility, mental health challenges, and motherhood. Emma discusses her experiences with PCOS, IVF, and managing fibromyalgia and bipolar disorder while navigating these life changes. She emphasizes the importance of self-care, support systems, and advocating for oneself. Emma's story is a testament to resilience and the power of sharing one's journey to inspire and support others.

TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction

01:02 Emma's Background and Mental Health Journey

03:16 Navigating Infertility and Career Shifts

05:47 Challenges and Realities of IVF

09:34 Support Systems and Mental Health

12:27 Communication and Relationship Dynamics

15:35 Embracing the Suckiness

16:06 Navigating Emotional Pain

16:40 Financial and Emotional Struggles

17:31 Trusting the Process

18:20 Exploring Other Paths to Parenthood

20:09 Deciding When to Take a Break

22:29 Maintaining Joy and Lightness

25:09 Future Generations and Fertility Awareness

26:59 Advice for Those Facing Infertility

28:12 Transitioning to Motherhood

30:13 Support and Services

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IG: @momtherapywithem

Website: https://emmadesouza.ca/

TikTok: @itsemma.desouza

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In this episode, Violeta, founder of MoneyChisme, talks about her surrogacy journey. Violeta shares her struggles with infertility due to endometriosis, the emotional complexities of considering different family-building options, and the significant financial planning required. She offers insights into how her expertise in personal finance, especially within the Latinx community, helped her navigate the expensive process of IVF and surrogacy. They also discuss practical advice about utilizing grants, credit cards, and real estate investments to fund fertility treatments, and the importance of having a supportive community. This episode aims to provide strength, hope, and practical tips for anyone facing similar challenges.

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Guest

01:11 Violeta's Surrogacy Journey Begins

03:31 Discovering Infertility and Financial Planning

06:21 Deciding on Surrogacy and Financial Strategies

10:56 Navigating the Surrogacy Process

21:02 Support Systems and Mental Health

27:03 Community and Support Groups

29:22 Navigating the Loneliness of Surrogacy

30:06 Personal Growth Through the Surrogacy Journey

30:41 Living in the Moment

31:12 Support Systems and Therapy

36:45 Financial Strategies for Surrogacy

41:24 Unexpected Costs and Final Thoughts

44:22 Connecting and Resources

46:44 Fin!

Referenced in episode:

Violeta's Invest in Rental Property Guide here!

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Instagram: @moneychisme

Podcast: MoneyChisme Podcast

Website: moneychisme.com

Email: info.moneychisme@gmail.com

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In this episode, we talk about the emotional toll of infertility and revisit the key questions from the previous episode on finding clarity through infertility. The episode highlights the importance of deep self-reflection on what one truly desires, whether it's experiencing pregnancy, having a family, or defining personal dreams.

And we do that through using the "Mindset Reset Framework" which focuses on finding your ways to rest, recover, and reconnect with yourself and your partner.

It is also noted how vital it is to your recovery to remove the guesswork and actually do the research into the alternate options to building your family and EXPLORE your feelings around each of those. Part of the recover phase is to figure out where you truly stand with each option and Rachel shares key questions to help do that.

00:00 Introduction and Recap

00:57 Mindset Reset Framework

01:43 Rediscovering Dreams and Societal Expectations

05:01 Recovery and Physical Therapy Analogy

08:09 Exploring Fertility Options

12:56 Building a Supportive Community

24:07 Navigating Emotional Triggers and Resetting

CLICK HERE for the questions mentioned in this episode to help guide you in exploring your feelings around other options to motherhood you've considered.

*I'd love feedback to know if it was helpful for you so send me a DM on IG to let me know!

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In this episode, we dive into the common mental hurdles faced by those navigating infertility and the desire for certainty in their fertility journey. With a focus on rediscovering personal and partnership goals, we explore essential questions to help you align your life vision, values, and family-building aspirations. Whether considering surrogacy, adoption, or any other option, this discussion emphasizes the importance of personal clarity and aligning with your partner for a fulfilling motherhood experience. Tune in to gain insights and learn how coaching can support your journey towards making empowered, confident decisions.

TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Welcome and Introduction

00:01 The Struggle with Uncertainty

01:26 Reflecting on Your True Desires

02:26 Reassessing and Communicating with Your Partner

05:29 Commitment and Decision Making

08:23 Personal Experience with Adoption

11:19 Empowerment Through Coaching

14:47 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

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In this episode, I discuss my recent family trip to Europe and reflect on the challenges and joys of parenting in different time zones.

I share candid experiences about feeling judged by others and the emotional toll it can take. The episode then goes into how I was thinking of you during my trip when I was facing some crazy challenges as a mom traveling with kids. Because as a mom of 4 through surrogacy and adoption (never carrying them) I will always be their mom. And sharing this lens can hopefully help you on your infertility journey if you're struggling with how to overcome thoughts about not being able to carry your children.

I share my thoughts on how motherhood goes beyond genetics and how I moved through my own infertility journey with that same fear. I go into the importance of flexibility, understanding personal desires, and leaning on a support system. Whether you're grappling with mental hurdles or striving to feel like yourself again, I provide some good insightful nuggets for you to take with you as you navigate your unique family building journey to and THROUGH motherhood.

TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Introduction and Welcome Back

00:05 Trip Recap: Rhode Island, Amsterdam and London travels

00:11 Parenting Realities: Traveling with Kids

02:07 Cultural Differences and Empathy

04:05 Today's Topic: Overcoming Infertility Challenges

06:32 Empowering Truths and Personal Growth

07:53 The Reality of Parenting and Flexibility

14:22 Visualizing Your Future and Making Decisions

17:35 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

30:16 Ways I Can Support You!

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IT’S HERE!!!! The final episode to the 3 part mini series of Infertility Burnout - How to Overcome It.

To wrap up this mini series, I review our plan to get you out of infertility burnout and on a path to healing — rest, recover, reconnect and ruthlessly prioritize.

At the top of your priority list is YOU and your emotional and mental well-being. It’s the one thing that is constantly put on the back burner because there’s so much to keep up with - fertility shots, cycles, work schedules that line up with family planning, attending multiple doctor appointments a week, finding specialists and scheduling those appointments and simply trying to stay on top of ALL of it on top of regular life things is EXHAUSTING.

If you’re feeling drained and beyond exhausted that you feel it in your bones…you are burnt out from infertility.

So dive into this mini series as my way to support you in getting to a place where you can nourish yourself verses pushing through it all because when you’re feeling your best, you’re able to make more aligned decisions, speak up for yourself, and feel confident in your family building journey.

Lean heavily into celebrating how far you’ve come to see how much better you’ve become at handling the hardest parts of infertility pain, loss and grief. Recognizing how much you’ve grown stronger and more resilient so that you can have the courage to keep going but from a more aligned place. And find your people to support you and celebrate you too! People that will get you because they’ve been through infertility and have seen the other side feeling burnout from it.

When you prioritize your mental and emotional health throughout verses waiting til you’re already burnt out, you can make bigger progress to growing your family. If you’re feeling like you want this so badly but can’t seem to get out of it on your own and your close circle of support isn’t what you need at the moment, that’s okay and I’m glad you found this podcast. Sometimes depending on which season of life you’re in, your support system can change as well.

With infertility, connecting with people that are currently or have been through infertility can be scary but I promise you, it makes a HUGE difference in helping you feel lighter and more capable of managing the big emotional rollercoaster you’ve been on alone.

I invite you to reach out to me if you’d like to get 1-1 coaching to dig deeper and customize support to your personal circumstances

Til next time!

Rach

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Part 2 is here! Tune into today’s episode to dig deeper into navigating infertility burnout. When truly coming down and back to yourself, you’ve set yourself up back into the drivers seat of your fertility journey. You’ve reclaimed power as the resilient and determined woman that you have always been and just lost track for a bit. So now what?

We ruthlessly prioritize! Find all the missing gaps. Identify and research your options on your terms and really get in tune with yourself to guide you on making decisions that feel more aligned than ever. But keeping our goals small and achievable to avoid future burnout.

9:23 - I reference a coffee chat and I wanted to get the number correct! My friend, Rosie, confirmed it takes FIVE years to recover from burnout.

And then tune into part 3 on how to keep that going!

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