• Episode 49: 11 Steps to Understanding Your Curls (And Why Your Stylist Isn’t to Blame)
    Jun 24 2025

    Welcome back to It’s Not About Your Hair: Talking All Things Hair, Heart, and Happiness!

    In this episode, we’re busting curly hair myths wide open and diving into what’s really causing curl confusion.

    Have you ever left the salon thinking, “This isn’t what I wanted”?

    You might be asking for one thing—and getting exactly that—but realizing it’s not what your curls actually need.

    We’ll cover:

    • The top myths that confuse curlies (and stylists)

    • What questions you should be asking your stylist

    • My 11-step method for truly understanding your curls

    • Why it might not be your stylist’s fault they don’t get your hair

    This episode is your curl awakening—whether you’re new to the journey or deep in it and still frustrated.

    If this helps you, share it with a curl friend, hit subscribe, and drop me a comment below. What part hit home for you?

    If this resonates, please subscribe, leave a review, or reach out. I’d love to hear from you. Let’s heal and grow together.

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    Let’s connect:

    Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/vossthecurlboss/profilecard/?igsh=N21odHBhM21ucGxo

    Website | https://www.vossthecurlboss.com/home

    Course | Cultivate Your Curl Confidence Behind the Chair https://www.vossthecurlboss.com/cultivatingyourcurlconfidence

    Hair, Heart and Happiness Tracker https://www.vossthecurlboss.com/offers/ooTuLW2h/checkout

    Free Stylist Course: Consultation Confidence +Mindset Shifts to Move You Forward

    https://www.vossthecurlboss.com/consultation-confidence-opt-in


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    27 mins
  • Episode 48: The Free Training Every Stylist Needs to Hear About
    Jun 17 2025

    Welcome to another episode of It’s Not About Your Hair — and part of our It’s Not Your Business mini-series. This time, I’m breaking down something close to my heart: my free training for stylists called Consultation Confidence and Mindset Shifts to Move You Forward.

    Let’s be real: You didn’t become a stylist to feel stuck, burned out, or question your gifts. Whether you’re brand new or a seasoned pro, this episode will walk you through why your next breakthrough starts not with changing your clients, but with changing your approach.

    We’ll talk about:

    • Why listening is your superpower behind the chair

    • The mindset blocks that may be holding you back

    • How a few key shifts can unlock confidence, clarity, and connection

    If this resonates, please subscribe, leave a review, or reach out. I’d love to hear from you. Let’s heal and grow together.

    Subscribe + Follow

    Don’t forget to rate and review—it helps more heart-led listeners find us.

    Let’s connect:

    Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/vossthecurlboss/profilecard/?igsh=N21odHBhM21ucGxo

    Website | https://www.vossthecurlboss.com/home

    Course | Cultivate Your Curl Confidence Behind the Chair https://www.vossthecurlboss.com/cultivatingyourcurlconfidence

    Hair, Heart and Happiness Tracker https://www.vossthecurlboss.com/offers/ooTuLW2h/checkout

    Free Stylist Course: Consultation Confidence +Mindset Shifts to Move You Forward

    https://www.vossthecurlboss.com/consultation-confidence-opt-in


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    13 mins
  • Episode 47:Rejection Is Protection: Healing the Hurt and Rewriting the Story
    Jun 10 2025

    In Episode 47 of It’s Not About Your Hair, I’m getting real and raw about something that hits deep—rejection. This episode is a personal one, where I share how work-related rejection and a couple of mean social media comments stirred up old wounds, causing me to shrink back from love, connection, and showing up fully.

    Even if you’re not online, we all face moments when we internalize the one negative voice over the many positive ones. They say it takes seven affirmations to cancel out one criticism—but in a world where we often talk harshly to ourselves, it can feel like a mountain to climb.

    I share how I caught myself seeking external affirmation instead of turning inward, and how I’m learning to anchor my worth in something deeper. Because the truth is: rejection often protects us, redirects us, and teaches us. But only when we choose to heal and stop believing the lie that we’re not enough.

    Let this be your reminder—you are worthy, you are loved, and you don’t need outside approval to believe that.

    If this resonates, please subscribe, leave a review, or reach out. I’d love to hear from you. Let’s heal and grow together.

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    Don’t forget to rate and review—it helps more heart-led listeners find us.

    Let’s connect:

    Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/vossthecurlboss/profilecard/?igsh=N21odHBhM21ucGxo

    Website | https://www.vossthecurlboss.com/home

    Course | Cultivate Your Curl Confidence Behind the Chair https://www.vossthecurlboss.com/cultivatingyourcurlconfidence

    Hair, Heart and Happiness Tracker https://www.vossthecurlboss.com/offers/ooTuLW2h/checkout

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    11 mins
  • Episode 46:The Sober Stylist: Jodi Heafner on Sobriety, Curls, and Creating a Life You Love
    Jun 3 2025

    Welcome back to It’s Not About Your Hair and this week’s It’s Not Your Business mini-series episode—where we get real about the stories behind the stylist.

    This week, I’m honored to introduce you to one of my dearest friends and an absolute curly hair queen, Jodi Heafner of Razzberry Curls in North Carolina. But this episode isn’t just about hair—it’s about healing.

    In this powerful conversation titled The Sober Stylist, Jodi opens up about her journey through addiction, alcoholism, and the road to sobriety that led her to build a career and a life she truly loves. Her vulnerability, strength, and humor make this an episode you won’t forget—especially if you’ve ever wondered how to keep going when life feels too hard.

    Whether you’re a stylist, someone walking your own sober journey, or simply a human navigating life’s ups and downs—Jodi’s story will leave you inspired.

    Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who needs it.

    If this resonates, please subscribe, leave a review, or reach out. I’d love to hear from you. Let’s heal and grow together.

    Subscribe + Follow

    Don’t forget to rate and review—it helps more heart-led listeners find us.


    Let’s connect:

    Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/vossthecurlboss/profilecard/?igsh=N21odHBhM21ucGxo

    Website | https://www.vossthecurlboss.com/home

    Course | Cultivate Your Curl Confidence Behind the Chair https://www.vossthecurlboss.com/cultivatingyourcurlconfidence

    Hair, Heart and Happiness Tracker https://www.vossthecurlboss.com/offers/ooTuLW2h/checkout

    Free Stylist Course: Consultation Confidence +Mindset Shifts to Move You Forward

    https://www.vossthecurlboss.com/consultation-confidence-opt-in

    Jodi Hafner

    https://www.instagram.com/razzberrys_curls_?igsh=eDNieG43eXZ6eGxk


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    22 mins
  • Episode 45: Start Where You Are: One Step Can Change Everything
    May 27 2025

    In Episode 45 of It’s Not About Your Hair, I’m speaking to the hearts that feel stuck—the ones whispering, “I don’t know where to start.” Here’s the truth: you don’t need to know every step. You just need to start with what sets your soul on fire.

    I’m giving you a real-time update on a dream I shared in a past episode—the Hair, Heart & Happiness Tracker. What began as just an idea has now sold nearly 700 copies in six months. Why? Because I simply followed the nudge, took one step, and trusted the path to unfold.

    This week, I also share a powerful story about my husband Adam, who walked away from entrepreneurship and took a 75% pay cut to step into his dream job—and found more joy than ever. Sometimes the “slow down” leads to the most fulfilling shift.

    If you’ve been chasing someone else’s life, this is your reminder: fulfillment comes from knowing yourself, not keeping up. Tune in to explore how listening to your intuition, following what lights you up, and letting go of comparison can transform everything.

    Let this be your permission to dream big, trust your gut, and start exactly where you are.

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    Don’t forget to rate and review—it helps more heart-led listeners find us.

    Let’s connect:

    Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/vossthecurlboss/profilecard/?igsh=N21odHBhM21ucGxo

    Website | https://www.voss-thecurlboss.com/home

    Course | Cultivate Your Curl Confidence Behind the Chair https://www.voss-thecurlboss.com/cultivatingyourcurlconfidence

    Hair, Heart and Happiness Tracker https://www.voss-thecurlboss.com/offers/ooTuLW2h/checkout

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    22 mins
  • Episode 44: It’s Not Your Business – Trusting Your Inner Sense with Joanne Startman
    May 20 2025

    In this heart-opening episode, I sit down with my friend, mentor, and the visionary behind Innersense Organic Beauty—Ms. Joanne Startman. Joanne shares her incredible journey of building a clean beauty brand with purpose, all while navigating life as a special needs mom and deeply listening to the whispers of her soul.
    We talk about what it means to truly trust your Innersense—to surrender to the process of growth, healing, and expansion even when the path feels uncertain.
    Joanne isn’t just a powerhouse in business—she’s a light. If you’ve ever used Innersense Organic Beauty, this episode will make you love it even more. And if you haven’t yet… get ready to fall in love with the heart behind the brand.
    Want more? Check out Joanne’s own podcast, Trust Your Innersense.
    Listen now on Apple, Spotify, or YouTube—and don’t forget to subscribe, download, and leave a review.
    Let me know what resonated most with you. This one’s special.
    #ItsNotAboutYourHair #ItsNotYourBusiness #InnersenseOrganicBeauty #TrustYourInnersense #PodcastInterview #HairHeartHappiness

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    33 mins
  • Episode 43: Love Your Neighbor… But Do You Love Yourself?
    May 13 2025

    In Episode 43 of It’s Not About Your Hair, we’re leaning into some big heart questions: What does it really mean to love your neighbor as yourself—especially if self-love feels out of reach? Who is our neighbor, anyway? And how do manifestation and prayer overlap when it comes to aligning with the true desires of our hearts?

    We explore the difference between material desires and the soul-deep longing for peace, love, and purpose. I challenge you to look at unforgiveness in a new way—what if the grudge you’re holding against someone else is actually rooted in a hidden unforgiveness toward yourself?

    This episode is a reflection on faith, identity, and the freedom that comes with accepting that the same Creator who made this vast, beautiful universe also made you—with love, on purpose. And when you can fully receive that truth? You’re free to truly love others, too.

    Let’s talk heart, healing, and the kind of love that starts within.


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    18 mins
  • Episode 42: It's Not Your Business | What's Really Holding You Back Behind The Chair
    May 6 2025

    In this powerful session of It’s Not Your Business—a mini series of the It’s Not About Your Hair podcast—we’re talking mindset, burnout, and what might really be blocking you from the life and business you’ve always dreamed of behind the chair.

    I’m also sharing the heart behind my online course, created specifically for stylists who feel stuck, uncertain, or just plain exhausted. Whether you’re struggling with curl confidence, unsure of what your clients truly need, or questioning if this career can still light you up—this episode is for you.

    If you’re ready to shift your mindset, reconnect with your passion, and finally get clear on what’s next, let’s dive in together. You don’t have to do it alone.


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    11 mins