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We dig into conflict resolution, particularly between spouses or close partners. The speakers go in-depth on how individuals approach and react to disagreements differently, often compelled by personal histories and emotions. They emphasize that the goal should be achieving mutual understanding rather than 'winning'. Various techniques are suggested such as the 'SEW method' (Sensation, Emotion, and Want), the importance of non-verbal communication, taking turns to speak and listen, and listing non-negotiables versus flexible points to find common ground. Notably, they underline that many conflicts may be unresolvable, highlighting the need for flexibility, compromise, mutual respect and understanding.

00:05 Navigating Differences in a Relationship During a Pandemic

00:57 Understanding the Dynamics of Spousal Disagreements

01:58 Common Mistakes in Resolving Disputes

02:19 The Importance of Avoiding Personal Attacks

03:26 Understanding the Concept of Stonewalling

05:26 Strategies for Effective Communication

08:42 The Importance of Understanding the 'Why' Behind Disagreements

10:25 The Three Levels of Arguments

19:02 The Importance of Body Language in Communication

20:39 Understanding Unresolvable Conflicts

21:37 Practical Strategies for Navigating Disagreements

23:38 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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Lane Kawaoka is a multi-family syndicator who owns 10,000+ rental units and is the leader of “Hui Deal Pipeline Club” which has acquired over $2.1 Billion AUM of real estate by syndicating over $186 Million Dollars of private equity since 2016.

Lane uses his Engineering degree to reverse engineer the wealth building strategies that the rich use in the Top-50 Investing Podcast, The Wealth Elevator.

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