In this powerful episode of The Lost Boy Scouts Podcast, Tyler and Danny dive deep into the complexities of aging as men and explore what it means to remain "dangerous" as we get older. Inspired by a poignant quote from Act of Valor, the hosts discuss the sacred nature of living by a code, the role of masculinity as it evolves, and the tension between relevance and wisdom. Along the way, they break down the recent Tyson vs. Jake Paul fight and whether it was staged, touching on age, athleticism, and legacy.

This episode blends humor, heartfelt reflection, and honest insights into the struggles and triumphs of getting older, staying relevant, and passing on wisdom to the next generation.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

The Sacred Badge of Danger:

The Act of Valor quote and its resonance with modern manhood.
Why being “dangerous” is a sacred concept and how it evolves with age.
Breaking Down the Tyson vs. Jake Paul Fight:

Was the fight staged, and how did age play a role?
The intersection of spectacle, legacy, and athleticism.
What this fight says about manufactured vs. authentic danger.
The Evolution of Masculinity:

How men adapt to physical decline with age and transform danger into wisdom.
Living by a code and passing it on to younger generations.
The balance between resilience and acceptance in aging.
The Importance of Tribe and Mentorship:

Finding your tribe of like-minded men who inspire growth.
The role of mentors in shaping young men and fostering a sense of purpose.
Personal Stories and Reflection:

Danny’s insights from coaching wrestling and the lessons of resilience.
Tyler’s solo trip to Moab and Durango and how reconnecting with nature-inspired introspection.

In this episode of The Last Boy Scouts Podcast, Danny and Tyler dive deep into the concept of ownership, exploring how taking responsibility for our actions and choices—good and bad—can transform our lives. They discuss many men's struggles in seeking help, learning from mistakes, and building accountability in their relationships. Through candid stories, humor, and insights from their journeys, they shed light on the challenges of self-improvement, the courage needed to ask for support, and the essential role of accountability in building resilience. Tune in for a raw, inspiring conversation about stepping up, seizing the moment, and finding strength in living intentionally.

Topics Covered:

• [0:02] Welcome back to the studio (and ongoing technical challenges)
• [3:45] The bus setup: Bringing the podcast on the road
• [5:23] Why we struggle to accept constructive feedback as men
• [10:14] "The Need for Good Men": Finding support and role models
• [14:52] Taking ownership vs. blaming others for setbacks
• [19:08] The concept of homeostasis and managing highs and lows
• [23:47] Breaking down the peaks and valleys of men's mental health
• [29:32] “Soundboarding” as a powerful tool in friendships
• [35:55] The evolving studio setup and learning from mistakes
• [41:02] Taking feedback as guidance, not criticism
• [45:10] The role of jiu-jitsu in teaching humility and resilience
• [51:20] Jiu-jitsu classes as a lesson in asking questions and taking risks
• [56:18] Challenging the perception of "toxic masculinity"
• [1:01:10] The power of extreme ownership in shaping relationships
• [1:05:03] Breaking generational cycles by embracing accountability
• [1:10:49] Redefining masculinity in today's world
• [1:15:23] Facing hardships: Taking ownership instead of blaming others
• [1:20:11] “Stand on Business”: Embracing your role in conflicts and resolutions
• [1:25:05] How owning mistakes builds stronger bonds with family
• [1:30:34] Navigating disagreements and conflict with grace
• [1:35:18] The importance of kindness and grace in owning up to mistakes
• [1:40:00] Wrapping up: How small actions of ownership can transform your life
• [1:43:30] Final thoughts: Why “Owning the Moment” matters in a man’s journey

Ever struggled with tech? Yeah, same here! In this episode, Tyler and Danny come clean about last week’s audio mishaps (don’t worry, we think we’ve got it sorted). From the joys of learning podcasting on the go to deeper conversations about wrestling, jiu-jitsu, and navigating life’s unexpected lessons, the guys explore how to embrace imperfection and keep laughing through the challenges—on and off the mat.

Set against the crisp backdrop of Utah’s mountains, they discuss life’s rapid pace, wrestling with perfectionism, and the importance of staying grounded in the present. They also explore the role of mentorship and how it reflects life’s highs and lows, reminding us that real growth often comes from the hardest lessons.

Grab your winter coat (or, if you’re like Tyler, your flip-flops) and join the conversation as The Lost Boy Scouts continue their journey through the beautiful chaos of manhood, learning, and everything in between.