• Staying Connected: Balancing Family & Busy Seasons
    Oct 25 2024

    Do you ever feel like life’s busyness is pulling your family in different directions? In this episode, we unpack the challenge of maintaining meaningful connections amidst work, schedules, and the chaos that comes with raising teenagers. Whether it’s reclaiming family dinners, embracing intentional moments, or balancing personal goals with relationships, we’ve got practical insights to help you reconnect.

    Join us as we discuss:

    • Navigating the Shift: How to adjust when teenagers start working and schedules get hectic.
    • Replacing Busy with Intentionality: Why swapping “busy time” for “together time” makes all the difference.
    • Avoiding Relational Drift: How to stay emotionally connected even during long, hard seasons.
    • Productivity vs. Presence: Finding a healthy balance between achieving goals and making space for loved ones.
    • Practical Tips to Reconnect: From family walks to casual errands—small actions that build deeper bonds.

    Whether you’re in the thick of raising kids, pursuing personal goals, or simply feeling disconnected from loved ones, this episode offers relatable stories and helpful advice.

    Resources Mentioned:

    • Family Dinner Rituals – Why creating consistent time matters.
    • Tips for Intentional Breaks – Making space for each other amidst busy schedules.
    • Personal Reflections on Parenting and Marriage – How we’ve stayed connected through life’s ups and downs.

    #FamilyBalance #IntentionalLiving #ParentingTeens #PodcastLife #StayConnected #BusySeason #MarriageTips #RelationshipsMatter #FamilyFirst #Reconnect #ChristianPodcast

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    22 mins
  • Episode 46 - 3 Signs of a Miserable Marriage (And How to Fix It)
    Sep 27 2024

    In this eye-opening episode of Marriage Monthly, Gabe and Melissa dive into the three critical signs that indicate a marriage may be heading toward misery. With compassion and practical advice, they help listeners identify these signs and provide actionable steps to restore joy and connection in their relationships.


    Key Topics Covered:

    • Sign 1: Emotional Disconnect: Learn to recognize when communication breaks down and feelings of loneliness set in. Gabe and Melissa discuss the importance of prioritizing emotional intimacy and engagement.
    • Sign 2: Constant Conflict: Understand how frequent arguments can erode the foundation of a marriage. They share strategies for navigating conflicts constructively and turning disagreements into opportunities for growth.
    • Sign 3: Lack of Commitment: Explore the signs of complacency and disengagement. Gabe and Melissa emphasize the necessity of recommitting to one another and share practical tips for reigniting passion and dedication.
    • Actionable Solutions: For each sign, the couple provides concrete steps couples can take to address issues and enhance their marriage, fostering a deeper connection and understanding.


    Resources Mentioned:

    • Biblical Reference: Ephesians 4:2-3, focusing on humility and patience in relationships.
    • Practical Exercises: Suggestions for activities that couples can do together to strengthen their bond.


    If you found this episode helpful, please like, share, and subscribe to Marriage Monthly. Leave a comment or question below, and let us know your thoughts. Your feedback helps us create more valuable content for couples striving to build stronger marriages.

    Join us next month for another impactful episode where we continue to explore the challenges and triumphs of marriage. Together, we can make every relationship stronger and more fulfilling.

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    23 mins
  • Episode 45 - How to Maintain Tenderness and Love in Marriage
    Aug 24 2024

    In this heartwarming episode of Marriage Monthly, Gabe and Melissa are joined by a very special couple—Melissa's father, Pastor Ken Wooten, and his wife, Luetta. Together, they share invaluable insights on how to keep the sweetness alive in marriage, drawing from decades of personal experience and a deep commitment to each other.

    Key Topics Covered:

    • Sweetness in Marriage: Discover how small, daily acts of kindness can transform your relationship. From holding hands to bringing morning coffee in bed, Gabe and Melissa highlight the power of these simple gestures.
    • Influence of Upbringing: Pastor Ken and Luetta discuss how their upbringing influenced their approach to marriage and how they consciously chose to build a loving, peaceful home.
    • Importance of Positivity: Learn how a positive attitude and laughter can lead to a sweeter, more fulfilling relationship. The couple shares practical advice on avoiding sharp words and mean looks, emphasizing the impact of staying positive.
    • Practical Tips: From daily rituals like praying together to creating time for just the two of you, this episode is packed with actionable advice to keep your marriage strong and loving, even amidst the busyness of life.

    Resources and References:

    • Marriage Seminars: The couple talks about attending seminars early in their marriage to learn how to build a strong relationship.
    • Bible Verses: 1 Corinthians 13:4 - "Love suffers long and is kind," and how it applies to marriage.
    • Books & Tools: Mention of marriage enrichment resources that have helped shape their relationship.

    If you found this episode helpful, please like, share, and subscribe to Marriage Monthly. Leave a comment below to share your thoughts and experiences. Let's work together to spread love, kindness, and sweetness in marriages everywhere!

    Join us next month for more inspiring stories and practical advice on building a marriage that stands the test of time.

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    27 mins
  • Episode 44 - Why Couples Cheat and How to Recover: A Guide to Restoring Trust in Marriage
    Jul 20 2024

    In this powerful episode of Marriage Monthly, Gabe and Melissa delve into one of the most difficult challenges in relationships: infidelity. With compassion and insight, they explore the complex reasons why couples cheat and provide a comprehensive guide on how to recover from broken trust.

    Key Topics Covered:
    - Understanding Infidelity: Dive deep into the reasons behind cheating, from distorted views of sexuality to emotional dissatisfaction within the marriage.
    - Biblical Perspectives: Learn about the biblical principles surrounding marriage, trust, and restoration, emphasizing that God honors the process of rebuilding a relationship.
    - Impact of Culture: Discuss how modern culture, including the influence of pornography and changing sexual norms, affects marital fidelity.
    - Setting Boundaries: Practical advice on establishing physical, relational, spatial, emotional, and technological boundaries to safeguard your marriage.
    - Healing and Recovery: Steps to forgive, rebuild trust, and create a marriage recovery plan. Hear real-life success stories of couples who have overcome infidelity.

    Staying Connected:
    Tips on keeping your marriage vibrant, including flirting, dating, and maintaining emotional and physical intimacy.

    Resources Mentioned:
    Documentary: "Ashley Madison: Sex, Lies & Cyber Attacks"
    Survey Data: From Today's Christian Woman and The Gospel Coalition
    Bible Verses: Exodus 20:14, Proverbs 6:32, Matthew 5:27-28, 1 Corinthians 7:5

    If you found this episode helpful, please like, share, and subscribe to Marriage Monthly. Leave a comment or question below, and let us know your thoughts. Your feedback helps us create more valuable content for you and other couples striving to build stronger marriages.

    Join us next month for another impactful episode where we continue to explore the challenges and triumphs of marriage. Together, we can make every relationship stronger and more fulfilling.

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    34 mins
  • Episode 43 - Healthy Households | June 2024
    Jun 15 2024

    In this episode, we discuss the importance of maintaining a healthy household and share tips for a happy marriage.

    Whether you're a newlywed or have been married for years, this podcast is a must-listen for anyone looking to strengthen their relationship. Tune in to Marriage Monthly for more marriage tips and advice from a Christian perspective.

    LINKS & RESOURCES:
    FREE GUIDE: Healthy Households https://www.westsidecommunitychurch.com/freeguide
    SUBSCRIBE to always see our content and improve your marriage: https://www.youtube.com/@marriagemonthlypodcast

    Visit us any Sunday at 8:30am, 10am & 11:30am here: https://www.westsidecommunitychurch.com

    STAY CONNECTED:
    Gabe: https://www.instagram.com/gabekolstad/?hl=en
    Melissa: https://www.instagram.com/melissa_b_kolstad/?hl=en

    Thanks so much for joining us!

    #MarriageMonthly #MarriageTips #MarriageAdvice #RelationshipGoals #ChristianPodcast #Podcast #Sex #Sexy #GabeKolstad #MelissaKolstad #CouplesTherapy #MarriageCounseling #CommunicationSkills #LoveAndMarriage #HappilyEverAfter #MarriageGoals #HealthyRelationships

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    34 mins
  • Episode 42 - How To Keep It Hot | May 2024
    May 17 2024

    Learn how to keep things spicy in your relationship with these helpful tips! Don't let the spark die.

    Whether you're a newlywed or have been married for years, this podcast is a must-listen for anyone looking to strengthen their relationship. Tune in to Marriage Monthly for more marriage tips and advice from a Christian perspective.

    LINKS & RESOURCES:
    SUBSCRIBE to always see our content and improve your marriage: https://www.youtube.com/@marriagemonthlypodcast

    Visit us any Sunday at 8:30am, 10am & 11:30am here: https://www.westsidecommunitychurch.com

    STAY CONNECTED:
    Gabe: https://www.instagram.com/gabekolstad/?hl=en
    Melissa: https://www.instagram.com/melissa_b_kolstad/?hl=en

    Thanks so much for joining us!

    #MarriageMonthly #MarriageTips #MarriageAdvice #RelationshipGoals #ChristianPodcast #Podcast #Sex #Sexy #GabeKolstad #MelissaKolstad #CouplesTherapy #MarriageCounseling #CommunicationSkills #LoveAndMarriage #HappilyEverAfter #MarriageGoals #HealthyRelationships

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    33 mins
  • Episode 41 - From Power Trips To Partnership | April 2024
    Apr 13 2024

    In this episode, we discuss the transition from power trips to partnership in relationships. Tune in for valuable insights and tips on how to build a strong and healthy partnership with your significant other.

    Whether you're a newlywed or have been married for years, this podcast is a must-listen for anyone looking to strengthen their relationship. Tune in to Marriage Monthly for more marriage tips and advice from a Christian perspective.

    LINKS & RESOURCES:
    SUBSCRIBE to always see our content and improve your marriage: https://www.youtube.com/@marriagemonthlypodcast

    Visit us any Sunday at 8:30am, 10am & 11:30am here: https://www.westsidecommunitychurch.com

    STAY CONNECTED:
    Gabe: https://www.instagram.com/gabekolstad/?hl=en
    Melissa: https://www.instagram.com/melissa_b_kolstad/?hl=en

    Thanks so much for joining us!

    #MarriageMonthly #MarriageTips #MarriageAdvice #RelationshipGoals #ChristianPodcast #Podcast #Sex #Sexy #GabeKolstad #MelissaKolstad #CouplesTherapy #MarriageCounseling #CommunicationSkills #LoveAndMarriage #HappilyEverAfter #MarriageGoals #HealthyRelationships

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    30 mins
  • Episode 40 - Unlocking the Secrets to a Balanced Marriage: The 3 Types of Love You Need | March 2024
    Mar 16 2024

    In this eye-opening episode of Marriage Monthly, Gabe and Melissa Kolstad dive deep into the heart of what it means to say "I love you" in a marriage. Discover the three essential types of love - Eros, Phileo, and Agape - and learn why your marriage might feel out of balance without them. From the passionate beginnings with Eros to the deep friendship of Phileo and the unconditional, sacrificial Agape love, the Kolstads share personal insights and biblical wisdom on how to nurture each type of love in your relationship. Whether you're newlyweds or celebrating decades together, this episode will inspire you to look at your love life in a whole new way. Tune in to explore how these loves work together and why getting them in the right order can transform your marriage. Don't miss this blend of humor, honesty, and practical advice that could be the key to deepening your connection and ensuring your love thrives through the years.

    Whether you're a newlywed or have been married for years, this podcast is a must-listen for anyone looking to strengthen their relationship. Tune in to Marriage Monthly for more marriage tips and advice from a Christian perspective.

    LINKS & RESOURCES:
    SUBSCRIBE to always see our content and improve your marriage: https://www.youtube.com/@marriagemonthlypodcast

    Visit us any Sunday at 8:30am, 10am & 11:30am here: https://www.westsidecommunitychurch.com

    STAY CONNECTED:
    Gabe: https://www.instagram.com/gabekolstad/?hl=en
    Melissa: https://www.instagram.com/melissa_b_kolstad/?hl=en

    Thanks so much for joining us!

    #MarriageMonthly #MarriageTips #MarriageAdvice #RelationshipGoals #ChristianPodcast #Podcast #Sex #Sexy #GabeKolstad #MelissaKolstad #CouplesTherapy #MarriageCounseling #CommunicationSkills #LoveAndMarriage #HappilyEverAfter #MarriageGoals #HealthyRelationships


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    19 mins