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Welcome to the Mr. and Mrs. Therapy podcast, hosted by licensed marriage and family therapists, Tim and Ruth Olson. This week, we tackle an issue that quietly threatens marriages across busy households: the erosion of intimacy amidst a flurry of obligations. Dive into an in-depth discussion on how life's busy seasons, filled with kids' activities, work, and errands, can create emotional disconnection, build resentment, and dampen physical intimacy.

In this insightful episode, we explore the subtle ways busyness creeps into marital unity, often unnoticed, leading couples to become no more than ships passing in the night. We discuss the pitfalls of transactional conversations and the dangers of neglecting emotional check-ins, showing how these patterns can sap the vibrancy out of intimate relationships.

With practical advice and real-world examples, Tim and Ruth guide listeners in recognizing signs of emotional detachment, such as prioritizing urgent tasks over important relational connections. They offer valuable insights on shifting dynamics, like managing the mental load and addressing resentment that arises from an uneven distribution of responsibilities.

Listeners will also learn the impact of declining physical closeness and gain strategies to maintain simple yet essential gestures of affection amidst chaos. Tune in to discover how busy couples can avoid the trap of becoming mere roommates and instead nurture enduring love.

Stay tuned for our next episode where we will discuss actionable steps to reignite intimacy, ensuring that busy seasons enrich rather than detract from your relationship. Don't forget to share your thoughts and join our community via the Facebook group linked below the episode!

[Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]

{Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}

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Welcome to another insightful episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where licensed therapists Tim and Ruth Olson guide you through the complexities of healing from trauma and fostering healthy relationships. In this episode, the focus is on reclaiming faith through the powerful trauma therapy known as EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing). Building upon their previous discussion on religious trauma, the Olsons delve deeper into how EMDR can facilitate healing by separating negative religious experiences from one’s relationship with God.

Understand how EMDR works by helping the brain to reprocess and release painful memories and beliefs such as feeling unlovable unless perfect, or fearing divine punishment for not following every rule. The discussion touches on how childhood experiences or sermons engrained negative beliefs that affect one's interactions not only with God but also with other people. As these beliefs are addressed and reprocessed, they lose their grip, leading to more positive interactions and a healthier spiritual life.

Drawing from real-life examples and client experiences, Tim and Ruth explain how EMDR is not about altering faith but about removing emotional barriers that hinder spiritual growth. Discover the transformative moments when clients report feeling God’s presence during EMDR sessions, experiencing newfound connections and insights related to their spiritual journeys.

The episode also addresses common concerns from Christian individuals regarding EMDR, clarifying misconceptions and explaining its compatibility with Christian beliefs. Whether you're dealing with religious trauma or general trauma, learn how EMDR could help in restoring peace, embracing grace, and distinguishing between fallible human actions and divine love.

Join the Olsons as they explore key mental shifts facilitated by EMDR, such as redefining God’s character from a punisher to a protector, and replacing the need for perfection with an understanding of divine grace. Episode highlights include practical exercises, like reframing, which can aid healing, alongside the assurance that EMDR therapy can be a holy work towards renewing one’s spiritual life.

So, if feelings of fear and anxiety dominate your faith journey, this episode provides informational insights into how EMDR can help you dismantle those barriers. Stay tuned to learn about the options available for starting your own EMDR therapy journey.

[Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]

{Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}

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Welcome to the latest episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where your hosts, Tim and Ruth Olson, delve into the sensitive and often overlooked topic of religious trauma. In this enlightening discussion, the Olsons, who are licensed marriage and family therapists with expertise in trauma and mental health, share their professional insights and personal experiences related to the impact of religious environments that harm rather than heal.

The episode begins by defining religious trauma and identifying sources such as fear-based teachings, legalism, and experiences of abuse or manipulation within the church. Tim and Ruth emphasize the importance of differentiating between flawed human behavior and the essence of divine teachings, encouraging listeners not to judge God by the actions of individuals within the church community.

As the conversation progresses, they explore how unresolved religious trauma can manifest in feelings of chronic guilt, anxiety, and difficulty trusting spiritual leaders. The hosts offer practical strategies for reframing negative beliefs and perceptions about God and the church, helping individuals bridge the gap between intellectual understanding and emotional experience through methods like EMDR therapy.

Tim and Ruth candidly share personal anecdotes of both positive and negative experiences within the church, highlighting that while human imperfection can lead to hurt and trauma, there is also potential for profound healing and growth. They stress the importance of anchoring one's faith in personal experience rather than the flawed actions of others, and they remind listeners of the importance of seeking professional help as needed.

Tune in to learn valuable strategies for turning pain into an opportunity for deeper connection and healing, and join them for the next episode where they will further explore EMDR therapy's role in recovering from religious trauma. Remember, as the Olsons say, your mind is a powerful thing, and with guidance, hope, and help are within reach.

[Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]

{Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}