Mr and Mrs Therapy | EMDR Therapy, Trauma, PTSD, Healing Trauma, Communication, Anxiety, Depression, Relationship Podcast By Timothy Olson / Ruth Olson - Inspired by Brene Brown Mel Robbins Tony Robbins cover art

Mr and Mrs Therapy | EMDR Therapy, Trauma, PTSD, Healing Trauma, Communication, Anxiety, Depression, Relationship

Mr and Mrs Therapy | EMDR Therapy, Trauma, PTSD, Healing Trauma, Communication, Anxiety, Depression, Relationship

By: Timothy Olson / Ruth Olson - Inspired by Brene Brown Mel Robbins Tony Robbins
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 ***TOP 1.5% PODCAST*** Is your trauma consuming you? Are you tired of constantly having anxiety or depression? Are you struggling to stop negative self talk? Do you have past hurts that still haunts you? Are you fighting about the same things over and over again in your relationship? Do you have past hurts that still haunts you? In this podcast, you will find tools and resources to help you better understand yourself and your relationships. You’ll learn how to manage or even eliminate the constant anxiety, negative self talk, and feelings of overwhelm that you’ve been experiencing. Our mission is to equip you to be healthy mentally and relationally and to bring healing to past trauma that might be still affecting you today. If you’re ready to say yes to being the best version of yourself, have fulfilling and healthy relationships, and have a better life, - then you are in the right place! Hey, we’re Tim and Ruth! We’re licensed marriage and family therapists and trauma experts with over 30 years of combined experience. We’ve seen time and time again how people have tried to will themselves to be happy, muscle through it, and have ended up even worse off than when they began. We’ve noticed that people have experienced deep pain, whether it’s others who have hurt them or situations and the world just beating them down, and often they have turned that into an internal dialogue where they are mean...like really cruel in how they talk to themselves. They have anxiety, feel depressed and overwhelmed, all the while their self talk is telling them ”I’m not good enough, I’m a failure, I’m worthless, I’m not loveable, I cannot trust anyone, I am powerless, I’m not in control.” How emotionally exhausting! We’ve realized that people want to get out of that place, they just don’t know how. They feel lost, alone, and without hope. Mental health & recurring toxic relationships can feel like an uphill battle, but you are not alone in this, that’s where we come in! We offer specific steps, practical tools, strategies, and insights that will help you to overcome these ongoing battles and help you win the war! There is hope, and there certainly is healing! We can’t wait to share it with you! If you are ready to finally find ways to overcome your anxiety, stop your negative self talk, stop feeling like a burden, break free from co-dependency and toxic relationships, and stop letting your past run the show... and if you’re looking for changes that can transform your life, like improved mood, increased confidence, healthier relationships, and healing from the past that has kept you stuck for too long - this podcast is for you! Bring your drama and your trauma and lets get healing! We’d love to connect with you over in our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/mrandmrstherapypodcast/Copyright 2023 All rights reserved. Christianity Hygiene & Healthy Living Ministry & Evangelism Personal Development Personal Success Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Spirituality
Episodes
  • Ep 269 - Anxiety vs. Overthinking: Unraveling the Mental Maze

    Ep 269 - Anxiety vs. Overthinking: Unraveling the Mental Maze
    May 13 2025

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    Welcome back to the transformative journey on Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast, where today, licensed therapists Tim and Ruth Olson dive into the complex web of anxiety and overthinking. In this episode, they explore the question: "Is this anxiety or am I just overthinking?"

    The Olsons explain the clinical definitions of anxiety, detailing symptoms such as restlessness, fatigue, irritability, and sleep disturbances, and compare them with the non-clinical but equally impactful phenomenon of overthinking characterized by repetitive and unproductive thought loops. They highlight how these patterns are often reinforced in today’s fast-paced world, including social media influences, and emphasize the importance of proper diagnosis over self-diagnosing from online sources.

    Furthermore, listeners receive insights into the origins of anxiety and overthinking, often rooted in childhood experiences, and how these patterns develop into survival mechanisms. Tim and Ruth offer practical techniques to calm anxiety and overthinking, like naming the problem out loud, scheduling worry time, physical grounding techniques, movement, and engaging cognitive behavioral therapy reframes.

    Through relatable examples, like sending delicate emails to supervisors, they illustrate anxiety's broader impact on daily functioning versus overthinking's situational nature. This episode not only equips listeners with strategies to navigate these mental challenges but also fosters a community of support and healing through the Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Facebook group.

    Join the discussion in identifying anxiety’s role in your life, feeling reassured that help is available, and celebrate the power of understanding and transforming your mind, drawing you closer to meaningful, fulfilling connections.

    [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]

    {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
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    16 mins
  • Ep 268 - Breaking Free from Survival Mode

    Ep 268 - Breaking Free from Survival Mode
    May 8 2025

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    Welcome back to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast! In this compelling episode, your hosts Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists, dive into the pervasive issue of "survival mode," a state many people unknowingly live in due to past trauma or chronic stress. Discover how survival mode manifests in daily life, leaving individuals emotionally and physically drained even with ample rest.

    Tim and Ruth utilize their expertise in trauma therapy to break down the mechanics of a nervous system stuck on high alert, detailing its impact on your mental, physical, and emotional health. They illuminate common behaviors stemming from survival mode, such as chronic fatigue, persistent guilt for resting, and an inability to relax.

    The episode isn't just about identifying the problem but offers transformative strategies to help listeners shift out of survival mode. From grounding techniques and the importance of intentional rest to resetting false alarms and establishing healing rituals, Tim and Ruth provide actionable advice. They emphasize the significance of teaching your nervous system new patterns of safety and the role of therapy, especially EMDR, in aiding this transformation.

    Join the conversation on finding peacefulness amidst life's chaos, and learn how to reclaim your energy and mental peace one nourishing step at a time. Whether you're battling lingering childhood trauma or the pressures of adult responsibilities, this episode offers hope and practical tools to guide you back to a state of calm and control.

    [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]

    {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
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    17 mins
  • Ep 267 - Unmasking Relationship Conflicts: Surface vs. Story

    Ep 267 - Unmasking Relationship Conflicts: Surface vs. Story
    May 6 2025

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    Welcome back to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, the podcast that delves into turning life's challenges into avenues for growth and healthier connections. In this episode, your hosts, licensed marriage and family therapists Tim and Ruth Olson, delve into the dynamics of communication within relationships, particularly focusing on recurring conflicts.

    Are you and your partner repeatedly arguing over seemingly trivial issues like chores or phone usage? Tim and Ruth unravel the true nature of these conflicts, revealing that beneath the surface lies a deeper story or unmet emotional need. Together, they guide listeners through recognizing when they're arguing over the 'surface' and how to identify the underlying 'story' that fuels these debates.

    The episode provides practical steps to pause, reflect, and communicate effectively, transforming potential arguments into opportunities for understanding and connection. By examining real-life examples and offering strategies to reframe conversations, Tim and Ruth empower couples to explore and address the emotional narratives that impact their relationships.

    Whether you're winding down from a long day or navigating through emotional storytelling, join the conversation that encourages healing, empathy, and lasting love.

    [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]

    {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
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    19 mins
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