In this episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, Tim and Ruth Olson dive deep into the challenges of fostering fondness and admiration in relationships despite obstacles like resentment, stress, and complacency. Drawing insights from Gottman's 7 Principles for Healthy Relationships, they explore how unresolved conflicts can build barriers to appreciation between partners.

The Olsons share practical strategies to help couples address these issues, emphasizing the importance of consistent positive actions even when emotions don't align. Through engaging discussions, they highlight how minor conflicts can escalate if not addressed, ultimately leading to deeper resentment.

Listeners are invited to implement small daily practices to combat these challenges, such as expressing gratitude and rediscovering their partner's admirable qualities. With the episode's guidance, couples can transform their relationships, reconnect on deeper levels, and nurture a renewed sense of admiration and fondness.

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Welcome to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, the podcast where hosts Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists and trauma experts, guide you in transforming life's challenges into opportunities for personal growth and healthier relationships. In this insightful episode, Tim and Ruth explore Gottman's second principle: nurturing fondness and admiration, a key to cherishing your partner and celebrating their good qualities.

Discover how couples can deepen their connection and resilience through consistent fondness and admiration, offering a cushion during conflicts and stress. Whether navigating trauma or difficult transitions, these practices help maintain a positive outlook towards your partner's attributes and intentions.

The episode covers practical strategies like daily appreciation moments, creating a fondness and admiration jar, mindful compliments, memory lane conversations, and check-ins. These tactics are designed to reinforce positive interactions, making you and your partner lean into a loving and supportive relationship.

The conversation sets the stage for a deeper dive in the next episode, focusing on overcoming obstacles to fondness and admiration. Tune in and start practicing the art of seeing your partner through a positive lens, making a profound impact on your relationship.

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Join hosts Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists, as they take you on a journey to deepen your connection through the art of love mapping. Based on the research of Dr. John Gottman, this episode explores the importance of understanding your partner's inner world, from their likes and dislikes to their dreams and fears.

You will discover practical tips for strengthening your love map, such as creating rituals, practicing active listening, and checking in after conflicts. The Olsons also delve into common pitfalls to avoid, like assuming you know everything, turning love mapping into an interrogation, and forgetting to reciprocate.

If you're seeking to enhance your relationship, improve communication, and build lasting love, listen in as Tim and Ruth share their expert insights and strategies. Don't miss the next episode, where they will dive into nurturing fondness and admiration, another critical aspect of Gottman's relationship success principles.

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Welcome to another insightful episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where hosts Tim and Ruth Olson delve into the transformative concept of love maps. Discover how understanding your partner's inner world can strengthen your relationship, foster healthy communication, and build enduring love.

This week, we explore the foundational ideas of love maps, inspired by the work of Dr. John Gottman, and how they serve as an emotional blueprint for your partner’s emotions, dreams, fears, and experiences. Learn practical strategies to update and maintain these maps, ensuring you stay connected and navigate life's challenges together.

Join us as we unravel the layers of establishing more profound intimacy with your partner, and gain insights into avoiding emotional landmines, practicing vulnerability, and building deeper levels of trust. Tune in and transform adversity into triumph, all by taking a keen interest in each other's evolving worlds. Let’s embark on this journey of discovery and connection together.

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Welcome back to the Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast. In today's episode, we delve into the transformative journey of healing complex trauma and PTSD using EMDR. With Tim and Ruth Olson, seasoned therapists proficient in trauma recovery, you'll uncover how this technique helps individuals, like Alex, break free from cumulative emotional pain and negative beliefs.

Through Alex's experiences of emotional abuse, bullying, and abusive relationships, you'll learn how EMDR targets multiple layers of trauma, gradually dissolving chronic anxiety, mistrust, and internal emotional turmoil. Discover how healing past wounds and reshaping negative beliefs fosters healthier relationships, boundaries, and a renewed sense of self.

Whether you're seeking relief from complex PTSD or want to understand the process of overcoming multiple traumas, this episode offers hope and insights into living a more connected, satisfying life. Explore how EMDR transforms adversities into triumphs and sets the stage for enduring mental well-being.

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Welcome to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where hosts Tim and Ruth Olson guide you through transforming life's challenges into growth opportunities. In this episode, explore how EMDR therapy assists in healing from a singular traumatic event, such as a car accident, through the personal story of Elaine. Learn about the techniques and processes involved in overcoming the fears and anxieties associated with trauma, leading to personal empowerment and restored confidence. Tune in to discover practical strategies and insights into managing and healing from trauma on the road to recovery.

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Welcome to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, your podcast for turning life's challenges into personal growth and stronger relationships. Join your hosts, Tim and Ruth Olson, experienced marriage and family therapists, as they guide you through this week's episode focusing on codependency and self-worth.

This time, meet Marco, who learned to appease others at the cost of his own needs in a chaotic family setting, developing codependent tendencies. Explore Marco's journey through therapy, where he realizes his interactions are governed by a negative belief that he is unlovable.

Witness how EMDR therapy helps Marco to reprocess these foundational fears, allowing him to embrace a new narrative of lovability. Discover the process of overcoming negative beliefs, recognizing toxic relationships, and setting healthier boundaries for a fulfilling life. Tune in to gain insights and strategies toward healing and embracing your own worth.

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Welcome to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where licensed therapists Tim and Ruth Olson guide you through transforming life's challenges into opportunities for personal growth and healthier relationships. This episode explores the profound impact of EMDR therapy, helping individuals like Sarah overcome crippling negative beliefs and reshape their emotional responses. Through real-life scenarios, discover how EMDR can heal both major traumas and everyday disturbances, leading you to a life filled with confidence and healthy connections. Join us and start your journey towards healing and growth.

[Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]

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