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Behind The Smile by John Sternfels and Melissa Roberts is a real-life story of how one of John's clients, Melissa Roberts, overcame the horrors of being abused, traumatized, and sexually betrayed. As a result, Melissa experienced many psychological complexities, often behind a facade of happiness.

The book is designed to offer readers a deeper understanding of the disconnect between the external image people project and their internal realities.

Sternfels and Roberts guide readers on a journey to uncover the truth behind their own smiles, encouraging them to confront unresolved emotions and heal from past wounds. Together they provide practical tools and strategies for fostering authenticity in relationships, building trust, and achieving genuine emotional intimacy.

Behind The Smile is not just a book for those struggling with personal issues; it’s also a valuable resource for therapists, counselors, and anyone interested in understanding the deeper aspects of human behavior and emotional health. Sternfels and Roberts's empathetic approach and clear, accessible writing make this book a transformative guide for anyone seeking to live a more authentic and fulfilled life.

John Sternfels, LPC, NCC, CSAT, CMAT, CCPS, C-SASI
Owner/Clinical Director of NorthPoint Professional Counseling
Counselor and Author

Books Available:
A Partner's Guide To Truth & Healing
Behind The Smile: Healing From Abuse, Trauma, and Betrayal.
DOWNLOAD for Parents (available late 2024)

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In this podcast, counselor and author, John Sternfels examines the complexities of gender identity and gender dysphoria in children and adolescents. John discusses from a Christian perspective, how to discuss this complex topic with children in a sensitive and informed manner.

Talking to children who struggle with gender identity and gender dysphoria challenges requires sensitivity, openness, and support. By approaching the conversation with empathy, respect, and a willingness to understand, parents can play a crucial role in supporting their children through their gender identity journey.

John Sternfels, LPC, NCC, CSAT, CMAT, CCPS, C-SASI
Owner/Clinical Director of NorthPoint Professional Counseling
Counselor and Author

Books Available:
A Partner's Guide To Truth & Healing
Behind The Smile: Healing From Abuse, Trauma, and Betrayal.
DOWNLOAD for Parents (available late 2024)

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A Comprehensive Examination of Mental Health

Introduction
Mental health encompasses emotional, psychological, and social well-being, influencing how individuals think, feel, and act. It affects daily functioning, relationships, and physical health. Mental health is not merely the absence of mental illness but also involves the presence of positive characteristics such as resilience, self-esteem, and the ability to manage stress.

Historical Context
Historically, mental health has been misunderstood and stigmatized. Early civilizations often attributed mental disorders to supernatural forces, leading to inhumane treatments. The 19th and 20th centuries saw the emergence of more scientific approaches, with the development of psychiatry and psychology as distinct fields. The deinstitutionalization movement of the mid-20th century aimed to improve care by closing large psychiatric hospitals and emphasizing community-based services.

Current Understanding
Today, mental health is recognized as a critical aspect of overall health. The World Health Organization (WHO) defines mental health as a state of well-being where individuals realize their abilities, cope with normal life stresses, work productively, and contribute to their community.

Challenges and Barriers
Despite advances in understanding and treatment, several challenges remain:

• Stigma: Societal stigma can prevent individuals from seeking help and can negatively affect their self-esteem and recovery.
• Access to Care: There is a significant disparity in the availability of mental health services, particularly in low-income and rural areas.
• Integration with General Healthcare: Mental health care is often siloed from general health care, despite the interconnection between mental and physical health.

Future Directions
The future of mental health care lies in integrated, personalized approaches. Advances in neuroscience and genetics hold promise for more targeted treatments. Public health initiatives must focus on reducing stigma, improving access to care, and promoting mental health literacy. Additionally, technology, including telemedicine and digital mental health tools, can expand access to services and support.

Meditation for Mental Self-Care
Meditation is a powerful tool for mental self-care, promoting relaxation, reducing stress, and enhancing overall well-being. By incorporating meditation into daily routines, individuals can foster a greater sense of peace and mental clarity.

Meditation is a valuable practice for mental self-care, offering numerous benefits for emotional health, stress reduction, and overall well-being. By incorporating various meditation techniques into daily routines, individuals can cultivate a more mindful, peaceful, and resilient mindset.

Conclusion
Mental health is a vital component of overall well-being, influencing all aspects of life. Understanding its complexities and addressing the challenges associated with mental health disorders requires a comprehensive, compassionate approach.

John Sternfels, LPC, NCC, CSAT, CMAT, CCPS, C-SASI
Owner/Clinical Director of NorthPoint Professional Counseling
Counselor and Author

Books Available:
A Partner's Guide To Truth & Healing
Behind The Smile: Healing From Abuse, Trauma, and Betrayal.
DOWNLOAD for Parents (available late 2024)