In this episode, I sit down with Sathiya Sam, founder of Deep Clean, to discuss his journey from porn addiction to freedom and personal growth. Sathiya shares how he struggled with ineffective solutions and the shame tied to his addiction. Over time, he realized true recovery meant focusing on personal and spiritual development rather than just quitting porn.

We explore the connection between physical well-being and mental health, emphasizing how activities like exercise and journaling can aid recovery. Sathiya also highlights the importance of understanding one's identity and purpose, offering practical steps for overcoming shame and fostering a healthier lifestyle. Join us for a powerful and inspiring conversation on whole-man healing.

For more information on Sathiya and his resources, visit DeepCleanCoaching.com.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Personal journey of recovery from pornography addiction
• Ineffective solutions encountered during the recovery process
• Shift in focus from eliminating pornography to personal growth and spiritual development
• Connection between recovery, physical well-being, and mental health
• Importance of identity and purpose in the recovery journey
• The impact of physical activities on emotional states and lifestyle choices
• Neurochemical aspects of recovery and the concept of "red zone" vs. "green zone"
• Overcoming shame associated with body image and sexuality
• Practical steps for fostering a healthy relationship with one's body
• The significance of valuing one's body for enhancing relationships and personal fulfillment

More Resources:

• Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for Men
• Grace-Based Recovery Online Groups
• The Last Relapse* by Sathiya Sam

Related Podcasts:

• The Last Relapse with Sathiya Sam
• Helping Men Overcome Porn and Get Emotionally Fit
• Keys to Long-Term Freedom from Unwanted Behaviors

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In this episode, Stephen Cervantes and I dive into the crucial topic of expectations in marriage, focusing on the difference between assumed and discussed expectations. We share lots of personal stories and insights, highlighting how unspoken assumptions can lead to misunderstandings and conflicts.

Our conversation focuses on the importance of open communication and dialogue to foster a healthier relationship. I reflect on my own marriage, illustrating how discussing expectations can transform a relationship from merely coexisting to truly sharing life. We encourage you, if you’re married, to engage in meaningful discussions about expectations to avoid the pitfalls of unspoken assumptions.

For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• The distinction between assumed expectations and discussed expectations in marriage.
• The impact of unspoken assumptions on misunderstandings and conflicts in relationships.
• The importance of open communication and dialogue in addressing expectations.
• Personal anecdotes illustrating the challenges of navigating expectations in marriage.
• The influence of family backgrounds on partners' expectations and roles.
• The collaborative process of navigating expectations as a couple.
• The necessity of ongoing discussions about expectations as relationships evolve.
• The role of awareness and perception in understanding each other's viewpoints.
• Strategies for initiating meaningful discussions about expectations in marriage.
• The overall message that couples are better together through intentional communication and collaboration.

More Resources:

• The Deep-Rooted Marriage* by Dan Allender and Steve Call
• Renewing Us Couples Retreat
• Find a Counselor or Coach

Related Podcasts:

• Breaking Down Barriers: The Art of Active Listening
• The Deep-Rooted Marriage: Cultivating Intimacy, Healing, and Delight
• 4 Skills to Transform Your Marriage

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In this episode, we invite back one of our favorite counselors, Jessica McDaniel, who runs a private practice in Austin, TX with her husband, Ryan. We dive into the crucial collaboration between therapists and pastors, especially when helping couples deal with infidelity and betrayal trauma.

Jessica shares how both therapeutic and pastoral support are essential for comprehensive healing. We discuss the importance of creating safe environments, clear communication, and breaking down the stigma around mental health in church settings. Jessica also offers practical advice for building strong, collaborative relationships between therapists and church leaders to better support couples in crisis.

To learn more about Jessica and Ryan’s counseling practice, visit McDanielCounseling.com.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Collaboration between therapists and pastors in addressing infidelity and betrayal trauma.
• The importance of integrating therapeutic and pastoral support for couples.
• Challenges individuals face in choosing between confiding in a pastor or a therapist.
• The divide between "church life" and therapeutic needs, and its impact on seeking help.
• Creating a safe environment for individuals to discuss sensitive issues with church leaders.
• The necessity of dual support from both therapists and pastors for couples in crisis.
• Addressing misconceptions and biases between therapists and pastors.
• The role of communication and regular updates in collaborative support.
• The stigma surrounding mental health issues in church settings and the need for normalization.
• Encouraging proactive relationship-building between therapists and church leaders for better support networks.

More Resources:

• Find a Counselor
• Couples Intensives
• Church Resources

Related Podcasts:

• Becoming a Healing Church
• Talking About Taboo (with Mike Novotny)
• Can the Church Be a Safe Place for Healing and Transformation?

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