In this enlightening episode of the Buckets of Change podcast, hosts Nick Goblirsch and Linda Payne dive into the intricate topic of how time influences our personal and professional reinvention. Episode 27 kicks off with Nick reminiscing about the recent transition from summer to the start of a new school year, focusing on how these predictable yet impactful changes shape our routines and mindsets. Linda shares her insights on how her family adapts to the school year's start and how she instills a sense of opportunity and renewal in her children during these periods.

The conversation takes a deep dive into significant moments of reinvention, both from Nick's and Linda's perspectives. Nick candidly discusses his journey through entrepreneurial painting and recent realizations about re-entering the HR space. Linda recounts her career pivot from corporate America to law school and then to litigation, describing the profound impact these changes had on her personal and professional life. The hosts also explore the importance of maintaining a strong sense of self-worth and the power that past successes and experiences can instill in us as we navigate through periods of change.

• Embrace Predictable Change: The transition periods like the start of a new school year or a new calendar year are natural opportunities for reinvention and self-assessment.

• Significant Career Shifts: Both hosts discuss their pivotal career changes, emphasizing the importance of aligning professional roles with personal values and aspirations.

• Revisiting Past Roles: Nick explores the idea of returning to HR, likening it to revisiting an old relationship with newfound maturity and perspective.

• Empowerment through Feedback: How feedback from peers and mentors can significantly impact your career trajectory and help you realize your untapped potential.

• Balancing Core Strengths and New Ventures: The importance of recognizing and leveraging past experiences and skills while stepping into new professional territories.

CONTACT Nick & Linda directly, via email, to schedule your free 20 minute change chat to see if they can offer the guidance an coaching you need to begin your journey towards making and managing chasnge in your life. Remember to put "CHANGE" in the subject line and they will get back to you right away.

EMAIL:

nick@bucketsofchange.com

lpayne@lpdivorce.com

OTHERS WAYS to connect with the show:

Linda Payne

Web: www.lpdivorce.com

Instagram & Facebook: @lp_divorce

Facebook: LP Divorce Services, LLC

Nick Goblirsch:

Instagram: @bucketsofchange and @iheartpaintingnj

Facebook: @iheartpaintingnj and https://www.facebook.com/iheartpaintingnj

TikTok: @nickgoblirsch

Music on this composed and performed by Esme Cruz - "Testing Kites (Instrumental)". So grateful for your talented tunes.

In this episode of the Buckets of Change Podcast, hosts Nick Goblirsch and Linda Payne explore the intricate and often misunderstood topic of narcissism. They provide a deep dive into what narcissism is, how it manifests in relationships and the workplace, and the strategies that can be employed to deal with narcissistic behavior.

Drawing from their extensive backgrounds in HR and family law, Nick and Linda unravel the complexities of narcissistic traits, offering real-life examples and actionable advice. Topics covered include the difference between overt and covert narcissism, the concept of gaslighting, and the challenges of dealing with narcissists in both personal and professional settings. By the end of this episode, listeners will have a clearer understanding of how to identify narcissistic behavior and the steps they can take to protect their own mental health and well-being.

• Understanding Narcissism: Narcissism is a spectrum and not a disease. It can manifest as either overt grandiosity or covert victimhood, often stemming from childhood trauma.

• Gaslighting: A classic tactic used by narcissists to distort reality and make the victim question their own perceptions and feelings.

• Gray Rock Method: A strategy for dealing with narcissists by minimizing emotional reactions and interactions, thereby reducing the narcissist's power.

• Impact in the Workplace: Narcissistic traits among leaders can create toxic work environments. Employees can employ strategies to manage interactions and protect their mental health.

• Self-Awareness: Recognizing one's own susceptibility to narcissistic influence is crucial, as is setting realistic expectations about the ability to change a narcissist.

CONTACT Nick & Linda directly, via email, to schedule your free 20 minute change chat to see if they can offer the guidance an coaching you need to begin your journey towards making and managing chasnge in your life. Remember to put "CHANGE" in the subject line and they will get back to you right away.

EMAIL:

nick@bucketsofchange.com

lpayne@lpdivorce.com

OTHERS WAYS to connect with the show:

Linda Payne

Web: www.lpdivorce.com

Instagram & Facebook: @lp_divorce

Facebook: LP Divorce Services, LLC

Nick Goblirsch:

Instagram: @bucketsofchange and @iheartpaintingnj

Facebook: @iheartpaintingnj and https://www.facebook.com/iheartpaintingnj

TikTok: @nickgoblirsch

Music on this composed and performed by Esme Cruz - "Testing Kites (Instrumental)". So grateful for your talented tunes.

In this engaging episode of the Buckets of Change Podcast, hosts Nick Goblirsch and Linda Payne introduce their new podcast venture and dive deep into their professional journeys and the significance of coaching in their lives. Nick shares his unique transition from HR to house painting and then into coaching, emphasizing the importance of leveraging one’s expertise to help others navigate change. Linda recounts her fascinating shift from being a family law attorney to a divorce coach, providing an insightful perspective on the underappreciated value of coaching.

Throughout the episode, Nick and Linda discuss the nuances of coaching, explaining how it differs from traditional therapy and the vital roles coaches play in guiding individuals through significant life changes. They touch upon various aspects of coaching, including the importance of having a mentor and the unique experiences that coaching offers. By weaving personal anecdotes and professional insights, the hosts paint a compelling picture of how coaching can lead to profound personal and professional transformations.

• The Power of Coaching: Coaching is an individualized and motivational service that can guide individuals through both personal and professional changes, often in ways traditional therapy cannot.

• Finding the Right Coach: The synergy between coach and client is crucial. Not every coach will connect with every client, and it's essential to find someone who resonates with you on a personal level.

• Expertise Matters: Leveraging one’s professional expertise in coaching can provide more targeted and effective guidance, as seen in Linda’s legal background and Nick’s HR experience.

• The Role of Mentors: Having mentors or confidants during times of change is invaluable, as they offer support and advice without judgment.

• Adaptability in Change: Both hosts highlight the importance of being adaptable when change occurs, whether it is self-initiated or imposed by external circumstances.

LISTEN to our friend and mentor Allison Gallagher on her own podcast "You Get To Decide" HERE or wherever you listen to this show.

CONTACT Nick & Linda directly, via email, to schedule your free 20 minute change chat to see if they can offer the guidance an coaching you need to begin your journey towards making and managing chasnge in your life. Remember to put "CHANGE" in the subject line and they will get back to you right away.

EMAIL:

nick@bucketsofchange.com

lpayne@lpdivorce.com

OTHERS WAYS to connect with the show:

Linda Payne

Web: www.lpdivorce.com

Instagram & Facebook: @lp_divorce

Facebook: LP Divorce Services, LLC

Nick Goblirsch:

Instagram: @bucketsofchange and @iheartpaintingnj

Facebook: @iheartpaintingnj and https://www.facebook.com/iheartpaintingnj

TikTok: @nickgoblirsch

Music on this composed and performed by Esme Cruz - "Testing Kites (Instrumental)". So grateful for your talented tunes.