Episodes

  • Should You Wait: Is putting your life on hold for your partner the right thing to do

    Should You Wait: Is putting your life on hold for your partner the right thing to do
    Feb 6 2024
    This week Alyssa and Chasity discuss the ultimate question of if you should wait on a significant other or not. They will share life experiences and reason they have learned not to wait, but also why just MAYBE you should consider waiting. Be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your preferred platform. Follow us on social media (@shelikesit_hard) for updates and send in questions to shelikesithardpodcast@gmail.com for future episodes.
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    49 mins
  • Is It Time to Move?

    Is It Time to Move?
    Jan 30 2024

    Chasity will dive into her life experiences she has had with moving, ranging from picking the right location to embracing a new environment. Alyssa will take you through her move to and from Atlanta, and her experience of being homesick to regret of leaving.

    Be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your preferred platform. Follow us on social media (@shelikesit_hard) for updates and send in questions to shelikesithardpodcast@gmail.com for future episodes.
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    53 mins
  • Approaching 30: The Struggles of Becoming an Adult

    Approaching 30: The Struggles of Becoming an Adult
    Jan 23 2024

    Join Chasity and Alyssa as they unpack their emotions approaching 30 but not feeling like an "adult". With traditional milestones approaching the two reflect on what it is that has them feeling mentally unprepared for "adulthood".

    Be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your preferred platform. Follow us on social media (@shelikesit_hard) for updates and send in questions to shelikesithardpodcast@gmail.com for future episodes.

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    55 mins
  • Catch Up with Chas

    Catch Up with Chas
    Jan 16 2024
    Welcome back! Today, we're gonna talk about what Chasity has been up to. From crazy bumble bff dates to flights to Mexico. Tune in now and let's get started! Be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your preferred platform. Follow us on social media (@shelikesit_hard) for updates and send in questions to shelikesithardpodcast@gmail.com for future episodes.
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    44 mins
  • Dating in Your Late 20s: Expectations vs. Reality

    Dating in Your Late 20s: Expectations vs. Reality
    Jan 2 2024
    Dating in your late 20s marks a transitional phase to life's next chapter. With school and early career milestones likely achieved, questions arise around relationships, settling down, and timelines given biological realities. In this week’s episode, we unpack the unique priorities and pressures facing twenty-somethings in today’s dating landscape. We’ll discuss shrinking singleness, self-discovery, and strategies to maximize this period, from reasonable expectations to effective communication. While new dynamics emerge, embracing the adventure positions us to find compatibility, confidence and clarity. We’ll cover our personal stories, statistical trends and tangible tips. Tune in for a lively conversation on mindsets, tradeoffs and best practices for navigating modern dating in our late twenties. Be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your preferred platform. Follow us on social media (@shelikesit_hard) for updates and send in questions to shelikesithardpodcast@gmail.com for future episodes.
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    42 mins
  • Mo' Money, Mo' Problems?

    Mo' Money, Mo' Problems?
    Dec 19 2023
    What if more money brought more problems? We open this financial health episode by reflecting on the well-worn assumption that money buys happiness. Yet the truth is far more nuanced. From strained relationships to lofty expectations, increased wealth can burden as much as liberate. Join us as we explore the underbelly of prosperity. You’ll hear candid stories of how money can both connect and isolate. We’ll discuss the pressures that accompany outsized income as well as strategies to avoid “golden handcuffs.” Though the comforts of wealth are undeniable, you’ll learn how some struggle with emptiness, imposter syndrome, and fear of loss. Be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your preferred platform. Follow us on social media (@shelikesit_hard) for updates and send in questions to shelikesithardpodcast@gmail.com for future episodes.
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    41 mins
  • Going with the Flow: The Impact of Groupthink

    Going with the Flow: The Impact of Groupthink
    Dec 12 2023
    Explore the pervasive phenomenon of groupthink—a psychological trap driven by the human desire to belong. Delve into notorious instances of collective misjudgment. Uncover the factors fostering groupthink, such as diffused responsibility and the pressure to conform, and understand why the pursuit of harmony can lead to closed-mindedness. Discover how to recognize and confront groupthink, encouraging a constructive challenge to prevailing opinions. Let’s cultivate mindfulness in navigating the delicate balance between collective unity and individual discernment to sidestep the pitfalls of prioritizing group harmony over sound judgment. Be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your preferred platform. Follow us on social media (@shelikesit_hard) for updates and send in questions to shelikesithardpodcast@gmail.com for future episodes.
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    38 mins
  • The Grass is Greener Effect

    The Grass is Greener Effect
    Dec 5 2023
    We've all been there - you're into someone who doesn't seem that interested at first. But as soon as you pull back or start dating other people, their interest is suddenly piqued. What causes this phenomenon? We explore the psychological drivers behind it in this week's episode. Be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your preferred platform. Follow us on social media (@shelikesit_hard) for updates and send in questions to shelikesithardpodcast@gmail.com for future episodes.
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    37 mins