Dr. Dana Borchert sits down with Rob and Dave to push back on their views about toxic masculinity, non-violent communication, and more. It’s a fun, honest conversation where Dana offers fresh insights and challenges the guys to think differently about some things they’ve said before. Hit play and join the conversation! 🎧🧠

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Timestamps

(00:00) - Coming up
(00:26) - Introduction: Who is Dr. Dana Borchert?
(04:06) - Rob's wall update
(05:16) - Dana challenges our take on toxic masculinity
(12:52) - Rob's conversation with his wife
(16:06) - The problem with the term "toxic masculinity"
(22:23) - Non-violent communication
(26:39) - The benefits of non-violent communication
(28:53) - Facing our insecurities
(33:04) - What is toxic femininity?
(36:34) - The trad wife movement
(41:16) - Raising emotionally aware boys & the "Mrs. degree"
(43:22) - Why do we need rules and restraints in conversations?

In this episode of Shrink Space, we explain the psychology of loyalty in politics, the workplace, and personal relationships through the lens of one of today’s most polarizing geopolitical dynamics: Donald Trump vs. Volodymyr Zelensky.

- What drives loyalty, even in the face of conflict?
- How do political leaders influence public trust and allegiance?
- What parallels can we draw between political loyalty and commitment in our personal and professional lives?

Tune in for a discussion about the psychological and social factors that shape who we stand by and why.

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How does someone become an abuser? Is it trauma, control issues, or something even darker? In this episode, psychologists Dave and Rob break down the psychology behind abusive behavior—what creates someone like Brian Laundrie, what triggers violence, and whether abusers even recognize what they’re doing.

They also explain the cycle of abuse, the mistakes police made when they encountered Gabby Petito, and the similarities between abusers and cult leaders. If you want to understand the warning signs before it’s too late, this is the episode for you.

David and Rob are speaking on this topic using their backgrounds in psychology. However, the purpose of this podcast is informational and entertainment. As a result, the information presented here is not intended as psychological advice.

If you think you might be in an abusive relationship or are concerned that someone you know might be, you can find resources at https://www.thehotline.org