• EPISODE 40 - Lynn Singer: Breaking Into Brilliance
    Sep 2 2024

    The minute you hear her voice you know you're experiencing an otherworldly gift.

    She's worked with Academy Award-winning actors, taught at Yale, and rubbed shoulders with the New York elite.

    But a psychotic break nearly ended her life.

    A toxic mixture of acid and marijuana unleashed latent mental illness and insights, "I wasn't ready for."

    Catching up to herself; refusing to give in to the darkness; and embracing her innate spiritual gifts have given Lynn Singer a unique platform.

    She helps people find their authentic voices.

    "Your voice broadcasts a blueprint of your spirit," she shares in this intriguing interview.

    Learn more about Lynn's work at lsvoicworks.com.


    The ideas and opinions shared by guests on The Alchemy of Pain are theirs alone and do not reflect the host/producer of this program.

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    39 mins
  • Episode 39 - Michelle Kuei: From Crutches to Courage
    Aug 19 2024

    She was celebrating the end of the school day and running toward her mother when a taxicab struck 11-year-old Michelle Kuei.


    Catapulted 100 feet by the impact, she spent the next four years in and out of hospitals. Rehab was grueling, but the pre-teen years presented the greatest challenge.


    "Do I even belong here?"


    Shorter and walking with a limp, Michelle so desperately wanted to fit in she'd wear stockings and pants on stifling hot days, just to hide the scars that shamed her. Facing the rejection of her peers eventually triggered a rebellious, "I'll just be weird" persona that also didn't quite "fit."


    After a series of failed relationships, Michelle's true "Aha!" happened in her 40's. "I finally decided to treasure myself."


    That decision led to baby steps...first a Pilates ball...then a fitness coach...then...


    She decided to climb Machu Picchu using her CRUTCHES. Each step was a push-up, but once accomplished, she would never be the same. "I knew there was more for me."


    Learn about how Michelle reclaimed hope and built a life that inspires. If you've ever been bullied or felt like you didn't "fit in" in this world, you'll be encouraged by this episode.


    Discover more about Michelle Kuei's work as a marketing coach, motivational speaker, and author at www.elevatelifecoaching.org.

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    38 mins
  • EPISODE 38 - Sarah Morgan: The Survivorship Portrait Project
    Aug 5 2024

    "Cancer wraps itself around a person...and changes them."

    Sarah Morgan knows.

    Her grandmother, mother, best friend, former fiance...it seemed everywhere she turned, someone else she loved was diagnosed.

    Back in the 80's when she discovered a lump on her breast, she thought it was a death sentence, because she walked with a cloud of fear over her life regarding the "c" word.

    Fortunately, much has changed since the 80's. And so has Sarah's fear.

    A professional photographer, she now donates her talents to capture the before and after moments of a person's breast cancer journey.

    This completely free service includes lighting, makeup, hair, and of course, photography that reminds her subjects that they are beautiful in every stage of their journey.

    "It takes energy to love yourself in difficult times."

    When those who participate in her Survivorship Portrait Project see their photos, they see the beauty that remains, even as cancer has transformed them.

    Find out more about this unique and wonderful project at www.sarahmorganphotography.com.

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    28 mins
  • EPISODE 37 - Kris Hammons: Leveraging Your Limitations
    Jul 22 2024

    "You can't overcome what you're not willing to face." Kris Hammons is 4’ 5’’ tall and was born with dwarfism. Doctors told his parents he would never make it. After he survived, doctors then told his mom to place him in an institution because he'd never walk, talk, or live a “normal” life. It didn’t turn out that way. “Challenge accepted” has been his mantra. So has faith in God and His ability to help Kris through anything. Here are just a few of the impossibilities that Kris has accomplished: → Recovering from 20+ surgeries all under the age of 20 → Graduating high school in 2001 → Going to college → Teaching himself how to design, code, and media production → Starting multiple small businesses → Building a career in tech as a developer and now a product manager → Getting married → Having 4 kids, 2 with dwarfism They also told his mother he might never speak. Now he is a motivational speaker! Maybe the doctors were right about one thing, after all. His life is far from “normal."

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    30 mins
  • EPISODE 36 - Michael Anderson: Resisting Fatherhood
    Jul 8 2024

    Everyone told him it would be the happiest time in his life.

    "You'll see your child and feel a love like never before."

    It didn't happen.

    And the disconnection between "What I should feel and what I did feel" grew as Michael Anderson hid behind being busy.

    A crisis point in his marriage forced him to look at his own need for healing. "Parenthood shines a light on all of the unhealed places in your soul."

    Michael now serves as a therapist helping parents feel more connected with their families. This fascinating discussion offers gems of wisdom regarding handling our internal critic with curiosity, how to empower children to face mistakes and frustrations healthily, and underscores that perfection isn't the path to true connection.

    "Connection is on the other side of vulnerability. And vulnerability is on the other side of discomfort," he shares.

    Stopping to be silent and to reflect on the emotions that make us feel uncomfortable can help us reconnect with ourselves and then others.

    Michael Anderson's first children's book, Jungle Tails: No More Mistakes offers families a wonderful opportunity to share the truth that messing up is normal and a necessary part of the learning process. Get your copy here: https://a.co/d/fgMP6YX and follow Michael on LinkedIn.

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    41 mins
  • EPISODE 35 - Ron Wittman: When You Lose Your Four-Legged Friend
    Jun 24 2024

    This is a love story about a man and his dog, Rafa the Frenchie. Rafa's sensitive tummy (as well as his brother, Roddick's) inspired a man whose background was NOT baking to create healthy treats for them. It's always a joy to see the smiling face of Ron Wittman at the La Jolla and Little Italy farmers markets in San Diego. But for several weeks in 2024, he just couldn't bring himself to bake. Quite unexpectedly, Rafa succumbed to cancer. Losing his constant companion was a crushing blow, but something beautiful to honor Rafa's life was birthed: A fundraiser to support the National Canine Cancer Foundation. Though the loss of a pet is at the heart of this interview, Ron's story includes inspiration for anyone who has had to reinvent their lives or who has entrepreneurial dreams. He also shares his own cancer diagnosis and how he not only survived but thrived. For the healthy dog treats he creates, visit www.squishyfaceandco.com, and to honor Rafa and contribute to the National Canine Cancer Foundation, visit https://www.squishyfaceandco.com/community.

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    32 mins
  • EPISODE 34 - Kim "Kid" Curry: Choosing Acceptance Over Anger
    Jun 10 2024

    A successful disc jockey with fans in DC, San Antonio, and all over the country, "Kid" Curry had reached the pinnacle of his career running the #1 rated radio station in Miami.

    He was 50 and in the sweet spot of success... ...when the diagnosis came. Multiple Sclerosis (MS). Within three years he went from walking with a cane to using crutches to needing a wheelchair. Not only affecting his body, MS made him feel like his brain was "on fire" and his personality turned angry. That's when his wife said, "You've got to stop being angry at being in this wheelchair." This shift from anger to acceptance is only part of Kim "Kid" Curry's MS story. It's about a beautiful partnership with his wife, who never left his side and who he now cheers on as she operates as a hugely successful CEO. This new chapter of her success and the three books he's written since leaving broadcasting would have never happened without MS. Kim's commitment to a positive outlook shines through this interview, which covers a host of other topics, like why men don't talk about MS, the impact of vitamin D on his medication, how repealing The Fairness Doctrine changed broadcasting, and how he decided what was once scary is now "really pretty good." Learn more about Kim and his books at https://www.krcurry.com.

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    33 mins
  • EPISODE 33 - Evans Duren: Making Peace With Purpose
    May 27 2024

    If you've ever struggled with the question, "Am I fulfilling my purpose in life?" you'll find this interview with Evans Duren thought-provoking.

    Author of the book, Send Me, he recounts the tension between thinking "serving God" had to look one particular way - a way quite different than the hugely successful sales career he'd established.

    For a Christian like himself, Evans equated ministry with the confines of a church, congregation, or pulpit. For those not fitting within that mold, too often, they can judge themselves harshly and feel outside of "the will of God."

    Breaking down those old paradigms and making peace with using his unique gifts and talents is just part of the story he tells.

    This conversation covers church hurt, the universal calling to love, the importance of not judging, and how he made peace with his purpose.

    "Between your ears and your heart, a lot is going on," Evans shares.

    And when working through these weighty topics, he encourages reaching out for help.

    Find out more at www.evansduren.com. The book, Send Me, is available on Amazon at https://a.co/d/h1qBOha.

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    39 mins