Whatever you're looking for, you're going to find. So the real question is: what are you choosing to look for?

So many of the women I work with can rattle off what’s not working in their marriage.

But when I ask what is working, they have to pause. Not because there’s nothing good, but because they haven’t been focused on it.

In this episode, I explore the quiet but powerful truth that whatever you’re looking for, you will find. And whatever you focus on becomes bigger in your experience.

If you keep searching for what’s wrong, your brain will gladly serve that up on repeat.

But if you can hold space for both what’s painful and what’s beautiful, and choose to focus - just for today - on something you genuinely value in your partner, your entire experience can begin to shift.

It’s not about ignoring the hard stuff. It’s about giving the good stuff a chance to grow.

Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

I’ve had so many women come to me feeling powerless in their lives, like everything is happening to them, and they’re stuck just reacting.

But what if there’s another way to see it? In this episode, I unpack what it really means to believe that life is happening through you, not to you.

We’ll explore the difference between victim mindset and empowered thinking, how your perspective shapes your experience, and why reclaiming your role in how life unfolds is the key to freedom.

This isn’t about blame - it’s about recognizing your agency, your power, and your ability to create the life and relationships you truly want.

"What you think, you become. What you feel, you attract. What you imagine, you create."

Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

When you discover that your partner has had an affair, it’s common to be overwhelmed by a rush of emotions… fear, anger, confusion, and shame.

The questions you ask in the heat of the moment, like "Did you love her?" or "Did you have sex with him?" reflect deep pain, but some questions can only make things worse by creating images that are impossible to unsee.

Healing after an affair requires more than just support from friends and family. You need a structured approach with someone who can help you process the pain and guide you through the difficult steps ahead.

The journey to healing is complex. The key is to find a safe space to process the pain, whether it’s with a coach, therapist, or support group.

Don’t carry this burden alone.

Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.