Goal setting "F" words.

Family

Fitness

Finances

Faith

Fun

Future

Friends

You can use these "F" words as a jumping off point to create objects/ intentions/ goals for your life and marriage.

We also challenge you to create a mission statement to share this Valentine's Day.  Simply write out what's important to you in your marriage and share it with your partner. 

Here's the deal. We can't take it personal. It's natural for girl's to want to cling to their famlies. (As long as their healthy.) AND . . . It's natural for the fellas to go wherever their wives lead. This can often cause unwelcome emotions during the holidays. But it doesnt have to. Tune in to listen to how we find balance and peace while shariung the kids. 

Segment 1- "How we met."

Brandy and Kyle share there individual 

Segment 2- "We couldn't make this ship up."

 Introducing a new reoccurring segment, called “We couldn’t make this ship up.”

This is where K & B share a situation they recently found themselves in and how they handled it. You are invited to give your  advice over on Instagram.

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Segment 3- "Dear Kyle." 

Episode 2 question: "Dear Kyle, when I ask my wife what she wants for holidays and her birthday she always says she doesn’t care. But It seems like she never really like what I get her. Or maybe she just likes returning stuff or giving it away to her sister. What the hell do I do with that? " 

As alway's Kyle gives shares some kind thoughts and Brandy shares an insensitive opinion.

If you would like to send in a “Dear Kyle” question, just shoot us an email at themarriagerenovation@gmail.com

Segmant 4- "Marriage Self-Help" exercise to  review.

Last episode K & B  chose an exercise from marriage.com that they nick-named the “Passive Aggressive Appreciation list”. They tried it each day for two weeks. It is still undetermined if it's a do or a dud,  but they did discover they have less to comoplain about then they had imagined.

This episode’s activity to try:

Each spouse gets to choose one thing they know they do that annoys their spouse. For the allotted time period ( two weeks ) they are going to try their best to “not” do the thing that annoys our spouse. They will not mention the habits at all during the time period. Hopefully by simply directing attention to the negative habit they will help direct change.

Ending Quote:

“Most people fail not because of a lack of desire but because of a lack of commitment.” Vince Lombardi