Episode #8 Show Notes

Hosts: Jinda Reinig and Kimberly Willess

Special Guest: Warren Lamb

Summary

In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Jinda and Kimmy are joined once again by our resident soul-care expert Warren Lamb, who explores the intersection of trauma, biblical counseling, and mental health. They discuss how biblical counseling approaches trauma differently from mainstream psychology, emphasizing the normalcy of trauma responses and the importance of understanding suffering through a scriptural lens. The conversation highlights key biblical principles for healing, the role of identity in recovery, and practical strategies for trauma survivors. Warren shares insights on how trauma impacts faith and perception of God, and they conclude with a discussion on the future of biblical counseling in addressing trauma.

Takeaways

• Trauma is a normal response to abnormal circumstances.
• Biblical counseling does not label trauma as a disorder.
• Suffering is a part of the human experience post-Genesis 3.
• The Bible provides the best framework for understanding and healing from trauma.
• Healing is an ongoing process, not a one-time event.
• Identity in Christ is crucial for trauma recovery.
• God is present in our suffering and offers hope.
• Trauma-informed care must be replaced with biblically grounded trauma-wise care.
• The body does not “keep the score;” it responds to what the mind believes and the heart desires.
• Redemption of trauma is possible, and our history does not define our future.

Relevant Links

• Truth in Love Biblical Counseling
• Warren's Blog
• Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ

Warrenism of the Week: "History is not destiny. Our history does not define us; it merely explains us. Our history is not who we are; it is where we are from.”

Episode #7 Show Notes

Host: Jinda Reinig

Special Guest: Warren Lamb

Summary

In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Jinda and Warren discuss the concept of the sufficiency of Scripture, emphasizing its role as the primary resource for soul care and counseling. They discuss the definition of sufficiency, the authority of Scripture, and how it applies to various life situations. The conversation contrasts secular psychology with biblical counseling, highlighting the importance of relying on Scripture for guidance in mental health and emotional well-being. They also explore the implications of believing in the sufficiency of Scripture and how it can transform lives by providing a clear understanding of identity and purpose in Christ.

Takeaways

• The Bible is the God-breathed, inerrant, and fully sufficient Word of God.
• Sufficiency means nothing else is needed for matters of life and faith.
• Scripture addresses all human experiences and challenges.
• The authority of Scripture is foundational in counseling.
• Psychology often lacks the certainty that Scripture provides.
• The focus of biblical counseling is on honoring God, not just improving life.
• Understanding one's worth in Christ is crucial for healing.
• The church must avoid integrating secular philosophies.
• Properly interpreted Scripture properly applied is the primary tool for soul care.

Relevant Links

• Truth in Love Biblical Counseling
• Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ

Warrenism of the Week: "Biblical counseling is a sacred space we are invited to share with God and the person He has us counseling.”

Episode #6 Show Notes

Hosts: Jinda Reinig and Kimberly Willess

Special Guest: Warren Lamb

Summary

In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Jinda, Kimmy, and Warren Lamb delve into the complexities of marriage from a biblical historically Christian perspective. They explore the concept of marriage as a stewardship rather than a possession, emphasizing the importance of self-reflection for both singles and couples. The discussion highlights the dynamics of sanctification in marriage, the impact of expectations, and the necessity of effective communication. Listeners are encouraged to seek God's guidance in their relationships and to approach marriage with a heart of service and love.

Takeaways

• Marriage is a stewardship, not a possession.
• Unsurrendered expectations can lead to disappointment and resentment.
• Self-reflection is crucial for both singles and couples.
• Sanctification occurs through the challenges of marriage.
• Communication ought to be gentle and understanding.
• God must be at the center of every marriage.
• The heart motive behind marriage decisions matters.
• Couples ought to focus on one-anothering each other biblically.
• It's important to change our language about expectations.
• Finding God as an ally can help navigate marital challenges.

Relevant Links

• Intimate Allies: Rediscovering God's Design for Marriage and Becoming Soul Mates for Life
• Truth in Love Biblical Counseling
• Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ

Warrenism of the Week: "Marriage is a sacred trust from God that we are in, not something we have."