Episode #8 Show Notes

Hosts: Jinda Reinig and Kimberly Willess

Special Guest: Warren Lamb

Summary

In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Jinda and Kimmy are joined once again by our resident soul-care expert Warren Lamb, who explores the intersection of trauma, biblical counseling, and mental health. They discuss how biblical counseling approaches trauma differently from mainstream psychology, emphasizing the normalcy of trauma responses and the importance of understanding suffering through a scriptural lens. The conversation highlights key biblical principles for healing, the role of identity in recovery, and practical strategies for trauma survivors. Warren shares insights on how trauma impacts faith and perception of God, and they conclude with a discussion on the future of biblical counseling in addressing trauma.

Takeaways

• Trauma is a normal response to abnormal circumstances.
• Biblical counseling does not label trauma as a disorder.
• Suffering is a part of the human experience post-Genesis 3.
• The Bible provides the best framework for understanding and healing from trauma.
• Healing is an ongoing process, not a one-time event.
• Identity in Christ is crucial for trauma recovery.
• God is present in our suffering and offers hope.
• Trauma-informed care must be replaced with biblically grounded trauma-wise care.
• The body does not “keep the score;” it responds to what the mind believes and the heart desires.
• Redemption of trauma is possible, and our history does not define our future.

Relevant Links

• Truth in Love Biblical Counseling
• Warren's Blog
• Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ

Warrenism of the Week: "History is not destiny. Our history does not define us; it merely explains us. Our history is not who we are; it is where we are from.”

Episode #7 Show Notes

Host: Jinda Reinig

Special Guest: Warren Lamb

Summary

In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Jinda and Warren discuss the concept of the sufficiency of Scripture, emphasizing its role as the primary resource for soul care and counseling. They discuss the definition of sufficiency, the authority of Scripture, and how it applies to various life situations. The conversation contrasts secular psychology with biblical counseling, highlighting the importance of relying on Scripture for guidance in mental health and emotional well-being. They also explore the implications of believing in the sufficiency of Scripture and how it can transform lives by providing a clear understanding of identity and purpose in Christ.

Takeaways

• The Bible is the God-breathed, inerrant, and fully sufficient Word of God.
• Sufficiency means nothing else is needed for matters of life and faith.
• Scripture addresses all human experiences and challenges.
• The authority of Scripture is foundational in counseling.
• Psychology often lacks the certainty that Scripture provides.
• The focus of biblical counseling is on honoring God, not just improving life.
• Understanding one's worth in Christ is crucial for healing.
• The church must avoid integrating secular philosophies.
• Properly interpreted Scripture properly applied is the primary tool for soul care.

Relevant Links

• Truth in Love Biblical Counseling
• Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ

Warrenism of the Week: "Biblical counseling is a sacred space we are invited to share with God and the person He has us counseling.”

Episode #6 Show Notes

Hosts: Jinda Reinig and Kimberly Willess

Special Guest: Warren Lamb

Summary

In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Jinda, Kimmy, and Warren Lamb delve into the complexities of marriage from a biblical historically Christian perspective. They explore the concept of marriage as a stewardship rather than a possession, emphasizing the importance of self-reflection for both singles and couples. The discussion highlights the dynamics of sanctification in marriage, the impact of expectations, and the necessity of effective communication. Listeners are encouraged to seek God's guidance in their relationships and to approach marriage with a heart of service and love.

Takeaways

• Marriage is a stewardship, not a possession.
• Unsurrendered expectations can lead to disappointment and resentment.
• Self-reflection is crucial for both singles and couples.
• Sanctification occurs through the challenges of marriage.
• Communication ought to be gentle and understanding.
• God must be at the center of every marriage.
• The heart motive behind marriage decisions matters.
• Couples ought to focus on one-anothering each other biblically.
• It's important to change our language about expectations.
• Finding God as an ally can help navigate marital challenges.

Relevant Links

• Intimate Allies: Rediscovering God's Design for Marriage and Becoming Soul Mates for Life
• Truth in Love Biblical Counseling
• Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ

Warrenism of the Week: "Marriage is a sacred trust from God that we are in, not something we have."

Episode #5 Show Notes

Host: Kimberly Willess and Dr. warren Lamb

Guest: Dave Peterson

Summary

In this conversation, Dave Peterson shares his unique journey from a non-believer in the Navy to becoming a Navy chaplain and then Operations Director for the Biblical Counseling Coalition. He discusses the essence of biblical soul-care, the role of a chaplain, and the challenges faced in the field of biblical counseling today. Dave emphasizes the importance of community and collaboration among counselors and highlights emerging trends in biblical soul-care that focus on holistic approaches to mental and spiritual health.

Takeaways

• Dave Peterson's journey into biblical counseling began after his conversion in the Navy.
• Biblical counseling is rooted in a biblical worldview and aims to provide hope and healing.
• The essence of soul-care includes confronting sin and encouraging the weak.
• Community is vital for counselors to share burdens and find support.
• There is a growing tension in defining biblical counseling within the biblical counseling community.
• Emerging trends in counseling focus on holistic approaches that integrate physical and spiritual health.
• The church is beginning to acknowledge past shortcomings in addressing issues like domestic violence.
• Collaboration among different counseling organizations is essential for growth and understanding.

Additional Resources

• Contact Dave Peterson Dave@biblicalcc.org,
• Coastal Church (https://www.gocoastal.org/)
• Biblical Counseling Coalition (https://biblicalcc.org)
• Truth in Love Biblical Counseling (https://tilbcc.com)
• Words Matter: Refining the Conversation (Dr. Warren Lamb – pastorlamb.com)

Episode #4 Show Notes

Host: Jinda Reinig, Dr. Warren Lamb

Guest: Pastor Iljin Cho

Summary

In this conversation, Pastor Iljin Cho discusses the importance of hermeneutics in biblical counseling and soul-care. He shares his journey from traditional psychological counseling to a reliance on Scripture, emphasizing the sufficiency and clarity of the Bible in addressing mental health issues. The discussion highlights the challenges contemporary churches face in applying biblical principles effectively and the need to properly interpret Scripture to avoid poor hermeneutics that can lead to misunderstanding and spiritual harm. The role of the Holy Spirit in guiding understanding and application of Scripture is also emphasized, along with the importance of equipping church members for effective soul-care.

Takeaways

• Proper hermeneutics is essential for understanding Scripture correctly.
• The sufficiency of Scripture is often questioned in modern counseling.
• Clarity of Scripture allows everyone to understand God's Word.
• Poor hermeneutics often leads to spiritual and emotional issues.
• The Holy Spirit aids in interpreting and applying Scripture.
• Understanding context is crucial for proper interpretation.
• Churches need to reclaim the role of Scripture in counseling.
• Training in hermeneutics boosts confidence in interpreting and applying Scripture.
• Pastors must be equipped to address mental health issues biblically.

Additional Resources

• Faith Bible Church
• Truth in Love Biblical Counseling
• Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ
• Words Matter: Refining the Conversation

Episode #3 Show Notes

Hosts: Jinda Reinig and Kimberly Willess

Special Guest: Warren Lamb

Summary

In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Kimberly, Jinda, and Warren discuss the Whole-Person Ministry approach to biblical counseling, emphasizing a focus on the combination of physical, emotional, and spiritual health. They explore how foundational beliefs impact counseling practices, the importance of nutrition and gut health, and the need for counselors to consider the whole person in their approach. The conversation highlights the significance of rest, the theology of food, and the role of lifestyle choices in mental, emotional, and spiritual health, ultimately advocating for a holistic view of well-being in counseling.

Takeaways

Key takeaways from the discussion include:

• The Whole-Person Ministry approach blends theology, philosophy, and practical anthropology.
• Understanding human identity and purpose is crucial for healing.
• Physical health significantly impacts emotional and spiritual well-being.
• Counselors need to consider diet, rest, and activity in their practice.
• Gut health is foundational to overall health.
• A biblical “theology of food” connects spiritual and physical nourishment.
• Rest is a command, not a suggestion, in Scripture.
• Counseling ought to address the whole person, not just parts.
• Healthy habits need to be instilled from a young age.
• Awareness of nutritional needs can lead to better health outcomes, including counseling outcomes.

Relevant Links

• Truth in Love Biblical Counseling
• Whole-Person Ministry Training
• Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ

Warrenism of the Week: "Being content in our circumstances is not the same as being content with our circumstances. The first is driven by our trust in God. The latter is driven by our focus on our own desires."

Episode #1 Show Notes

Hosts: Jinda Reinig and Dr. Warren Lamb

Special Guest: Christine Chappell

Summary

In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, hosts Jinda Reinig and Warren Lamb welcome back Christine Chappell to discuss her new mini-book on postpartum depression. They explore the importance of sharing personal experiences, the challenges of motherhood, and the need for grace and understanding in the face of struggles. Christine emphasizes the significance of acknowledging both physical and spiritual aspects of mental health, the impact of societal expectations, and the necessity of lamenting and grieving. The conversation highlights the importance of community support and the hope found in God's Word during difficult seasons.

Takeaways

Key takeaways from the discussion include:

• Christine's writing is deeply rooted in her personal experiences.
• Postpartum depression is a common struggle that needs to be normalized.
• Self-talk and societal expectations can heavily influence a mother's mental health.
• It's essential to recognize the interplay between physical and spiritual challenges.
• Living in the gray area of life is a reality that many face.
• Shoulding ourselves leads to toxic shame and unrealistic expectations.
• Accepting God's grace and mercy is crucial for healing.
• Lamenting and grieving are important aspects of processing pain.
• Community support is vital for mothers experiencing postpartum struggles.

Bibliography:

Postpartum Depression: Hope for a Hard Season

(New Growth Press, August 2024)

Misericordia En La Oscuridad: Caminando Con Dios a Través de la Depresión En La

Maternidad

(P&R Publishing, 2024)

Midnight Mercies: Walking with God Through Depression in Motherhood

(P&R Publishing, 2023)

Help! I’ve Been Diagnosed with a Mental Disorder

(Shepherd Press, 2021)

Help! My Teen is Depressed

(Shepherd Press, 2020)

Clean Home, Messy Heart: Promises of Renewal, Hope, and

Change for Overwhelmed Moms

(WestBow Press, 2016)

Social Media:

facebook.com/cleanhomemessheart

twitter.com/chappellwrites

instagram.com/christinemchappell

Hope + Help Podcast:

christinemchappell.com/podcast

Navigating Depression On-Demand Video Workshops:

christinemchappell.com/workshops

Warrenism of the Week: “Stop shoulding yourself; shoulding equals shaming.”