In this episode, the Connection Codes team talks about the realities of love and marriage, pushing back against the lie that relationships are only about finding "The One." They discuss how feelings of love change over time, as well as the importance of safety and connection in maintaining a healthy relationship. They also go into the science behind emotions, experiences, and the impact of life stages like early parenthood on a couple’s bond. Tune in to hear a fresh perspective on what it takes to keep love alive and thriving through the ups and downs of married life. Links and Resources: Book a discovery call for Overwhelm Overhaul: https://calendly.com/tera-wages/30min To download the Core Emotion Wheel: https://tinyurl.com/rnyne5jf To enroll in Foundations use the code PODCAST for 20% off: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tinyurl.com/rnyne5jf Learn more about becoming a Certified Connection Codes Coach: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.connectioncodes.co/certified-coach (If links aren't working, please copy and paste.) Chapters 00:00:00 - Kicking Off: Do Feelings Really Change After Marriage? 00:01:28 - The Quest for 'The One': Unpacking the Myth 00:03:47 - From Love to Lows: Understanding Emotional Shifts 00:07:38 - The Chemistry of Love: What Science Says About Emotions 00:12:45 - True Tales: Navigating Love's Complex Journeys 00:16:00 - The Impact of Cultural Differences on the Concept of Love 00:19:15 - Unprocessed Pain in Relationships: A Silent Barrier to Love 00:21:10 - Understanding Emotional Disconnect and Reconnecting 00:26:33 - Joy Interrupted: When Happiness Fades in Relationships 00:28:51 - Reviving Joy: How to Bring Fun Back into Marriage 00:30:30 - Counseling Power: A Lifeline for Troubled Times 00:33:30 - Staying Intentional: Keys to Thriving Together 00:36:20 - Adventures Await: Facing Fears, Finding Joy 00:39:52 - Pain and Joy: How Acknowledging Hurt Leads to Happiness 00:43:57 - Emotional Tools: Discovering the Core Emotion Wheel 00:51:12 - Closing Thoughts: Encouragement for the Journey Ahead