Richard Martin joins Rich Clarke to share the story of a love that shaped his life.

At university, Richard fell deeply in love with another man. It was a relationship full of hope, but lived in secrecy at a time when being gay was illegal. When his partner returned to America, Richard stayed behind and tried to move on. Years later, they saw each other again, both married to women, and the meeting was painfully strange.

Richard went on to to live a life of marriage, children, and silence. But in his 60s, he finally came out.

This is a story of first love, quiet heartbreak, and finally becoming who you really are.

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Rich Clarke sits down with Isobel - a remarkable trans woman who underwent gender-affirming surgery at 80.

Isobel reflects on a lifetime of hiding her true self, trying to meet the expectations of others as a sailor, firefighter, husband, and father. With honesty and warmth, she shares how her wife Margaret, now living with dementia, offered her the support and permission to finally live as herself.

Now, two years after surgery, Isobel describes the profound joy and peace she’s found in her body. She talks about identity, love, family, and the courage it takes to become who you really are... at any age.

This is a powerful story of truth, transformation, and the freedom that comes with finally being seen.

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Stonewall

• Offers support and resources for LGBTQ+ individuals and their families.
• Website: stonewall.org.uk

Open Table Network

• Phone: 07501753618
• Website: opentable.lgbt

Mental Health & Suicide Prevention

Samaritans

• For anyone in distress, struggling to cope, or at risk of suicide.
• Phone: 116 123 (Free, 24/7)
• Website: samaritans.org

Mind

• Provides advice and support for anyone experiencing a mental health problem.
• Phone: 0300 123 3393
• Website: mind.org.uk

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Shout

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Rich Clarke speaks with Dame Kelly Holmes, double Olympic gold medallist, former soldier, and proud gay woman, about the reality of hiding her sexuality for 34 years.

Kelly reflects on her time in the British Army, when being gay was still illegal, and the constant fear of discovery. She opens up about the emotional toll of living in silence, the pressure of public life, and the lasting impact on her mental health.

She also discusses survivor’s guilt... the belief that if she’d been discharged for being gay, she might never have become an Olympic champion... and the inner conflict of being celebrated while concealing such a significant part of her identity.

This is a conversation about fear, identity, and the unseen weight of silence

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Switchboard – LGBTQ+ Helpline

• A confidential helpline for LGBTQ+ people to talk about sexuality, gender identity, and more.
• Phone: 0800 0119 100
• Website: switchboard.lgbt

Stonewall

• Offers support and resources for LGBTQ+ individuals and their families.
• Website: stonewall.org.uk

Open Table Network

• Phone: 07501753618
• Website: opentable.lgbt

Mental Health & Suicide Prevention

Samaritans

• For anyone in distress, struggling to cope, or at risk of suicide.
• Phone: 116 123 (Free, 24/7)
• Website: samaritans.org

Mind

• Provides advice and support for anyone experiencing a mental health problem.
• Phone: 0300 123 3393
• Website: mind.org.uk

PAPYRUS – Prevention of Young Suicide

• Support for people under 35 experiencing suicidal thoughts, and for those concerned about someone else.
• Phone: 0800 068 41 41
• Website: papyrus-uk.org

Shout

• A free, confidential mental health text support service.
• Text: SHOUT to 85258 (24/7, free text service)
• Website: giveusashout.org