Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

By: Headgum & Nicole Byer
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  • Love and dating can be messy—so let’s talk about it! On this multi-award-winning podcast, comedian Nicole Byer explores romantic highs, lows, and all the juicy stuff in between, alongside comedians, experts, and sometimes an ex or two. Tune in for dating mishaps, heartbreak confessions, and the real talk you never knew you needed. New episodes every Friday!
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  • Childbirth Nightmares, Public or Private Proposal? (w/ Melissa Hunter)

    Childbirth Nightmares, Public or Private Proposal? (w/ Melissa Hunter)
    Apr 11 2025
    Writer Melissa Hunter (Santa Clarita Diet, She-Hulk, Home Economics) joins Nicole to talk through the messy reality of childbirth - including her 32-hour labor, an unexpected unmedicated birth after her epidural failed, and shitting on the table. They also get into whether proposals should be private or public (including Nicole’s dream proposal), the red flags of dating someone who won’t drop the bits, and the time Nicole got scammed by a hot Instagram dating coach.WATCH this episode on YouTube at: youtu.be/j990cfqbO6wWrite to Nicole! Send your dirty messages to whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com with the subject line "Dirty Message" and Nicole may read it in a future episode.Support this podcast an get discounts by checking out our sponsors:» Quince: Upgrade your closet this year without the upgraded price tag. Go to quince.com/dateme for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order!» OneSkin: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code DATEME at oneskin.co #oneskinpod» Helix Sleep: Go to helixsleep.com/DATEME for 20% off sitewide.» BetterHelp: This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/DATEME and get on your way to being your best self.View all of our sponsors and discounts codes at wwydm.notion.site/sponsors.Follow:YouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod Instagram: @nicolebyerX: @nicolebyerNicole's book, #VERYFAT #VERYBRAVE: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746This is a Headgum podcast. Follow Headgum on Twitter, Instagram, and Tiktok. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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    50 mins
  • The Funny Guy Trap (w/ Wayne Brady)

    The Funny Guy Trap (w/ Wayne Brady)
    Apr 4 2025

    Comedian Wayne Brady (Whose Line Is It Anyway?, What If? podcast) joins Nicole to talk about the struggles of dating when everyone expects you to be the funny guy from TV. He opens up about being an introvert, and how his dates sometimes get disappointed when he's not his 'persona' they know him for. Wayne shares the wild story of dating someone whose parent was openly racist, the struggles he's faced navigating racism in relationships, and what it's like dating as a single father. Plus, the crazy story of how he got fired from Disneyland playing Tigger... the day before landing his big break.


    WATCH this episode here: youtu.be/9GIwjGwhpxs


    Check out Nicole's episode of Wayne Brady's podcast here: youtu.be/FGykSL24GZU?si=Vu9oYhPdpgPK2wLr


    See Nicole do stand-up at a city near you. See all dates and tickets at linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken.


    Write to Nicole! Send your dirty messages to whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com with the subject line "Dirty Message" and Nicole may read it in a future episode.


    Follow:

    YouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcast

    TikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod

    Instagram: @nicolebyer

    X: @nicolebyer

    Nicole's book, #VERYFAT #VERYBRAVE: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

    View all of our sponsors and discounts codes at wwydm.notion.site/sponsors.


    This is a Headgum podcast. Follow Headgum on Twitter, Instagram, and Tiktok. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.

    See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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    1 hr and 13 mins
  • Chubby Chasers (w/ Jana Schmieding)

    Chubby Chasers (w/ Jana Schmieding)
    Mar 28 2025

    Comedian Jana Schmieding (Reservation Dogs, Rutherford Falls) joins Nicole to discuss chub chasers, the difference between being fetishized and being genuinely wanted, and what it was like to date a man with body shame. She shares what it was like to date a sacred Native man, including a agonising "breakup ceremony" he put her through. Plus, they break down Curvy Wife Guy’s BBW bop, try to understand whatever the hell is happening between Kanye and Bianca Censori, and Jana shares her new daily ritual - a 6 seconds kiss on the lips to keep love alive.

    Watch this episode on YouTube at: https://youtu.be/LfXEys73G_U


    Write to Nicole! Send your dirty messages to whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com with the subject line "Dirty Message" and Nicole may read it in a future episode.


    Follow:

    YouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcast

    TikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod

    Instagram: @nicolebyer

    X: @nicolebyer

    Nicole's book, #VERYFAT #VERYBRAVE: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

    View all of our sponsors and discounts codes at wwydm.notion.site/sponsors.


    This is a Headgum podcast. Follow Headgum on Twitter, Instagram, and Tiktok. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.

    See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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    1 hr and 4 mins
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Kindred in the Worst Way!

Unfortunately we share the same singleness curse. Maybe too open with our sexual needs and a little too witty for the average dude. Nicole is fantastic and brings out a different side to her guests. Love her cuteness and vocalizations. Yay!!

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Nicole is my source for all things entertainment

It’s light and funny until Nicole has her heart broken but another uncreative tinder match.


Try her other 29 podcasts! Best friends ❤️

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Never laughed so hard!

I love this podcast so much. My favorite episodes are the live versions and this one had me rolling. Hilarious wise cracks between friends, hilarious questions from audience members, a little surprise in there too! A must listen episode!

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Always entertaining and informative

I listen all the time driving down the road. It's like hanging out with you crazy friends that talk about anything and everything. You will laugh a genuine laugh each episode. You should tune in and listen even if you think this won't be for you. Surprise, it's for everyone.

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Silly, fresh and funny!

I have listened to this podcast for several years. i absolutely LOVE Nicole Byer! She talks about modern dating, therapy, and her life as a working actor and comedian with such humor and honesty. I feel like I have been a fly on the wall while Nicole has gotten more and more successful and happy. She makes me laugh amd I love her!

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