• Episode 181: How Managers Can Create Safe, Productive Performance Review Conversations (Backed by Personality Patterns) with Steven Kessler
    Nov 21 2024
    ‘Tis the season for performance reviews. I can picture it from my corporate days, gathering questions and scheduling meetings to have performance discussions with my employees. But with that comes nerves, excitement, worry, doubt. So how can managers prime the environment to ensure a safe and productive conversation happens for both parties? Psychotherapist of 40 years and author, Steven Kessler, will teach you how by applying the five personality patterns. Kessler is the author of two books: The 5 Personality Patterns and How to Have Better Relationships. In his first novel, Kessler explains the five personality patterns: Leaving, Merging, Enduring, Aggressive, and Rigid. They don’t depict who you are, but rather what you do. They’re safety strategies we lean on. In his second novel, he explains how these safety strategies and patterns can impact relationships. Specifically, in this Your Brilliant Difference Podcast episode, we’ll be diving into how these patterns can impact a manager’s performance review conversation with an employee. We walk you through a workplace scenario and give managers tips on how to detect their employees’ personality patterns, as well as how to handle them. The Agenda for Today’s Episode: 00:00 — An Introduction to the 5 Personality Patterns 03:03 — Understanding Safety Strategies and Personality Development 05:58 — Exploring the Leaving Pattern 09:04 — The Merging Pattern Explained 11:51 — The Enduring Pattern and Its Implications 14:51 — The Aggressive Pattern and Its Dynamics 17:56 — The Rigid Pattern and Its Characteristics 21:06 — Self-Awareness and Patterns in Relationships 24:03 — Utilizing Patterns as Gifts in Professional Settings 26:51 — Navigating Difficult Conversations in the Workplace 32:41 — The Power of Connection and Feedback 39:03 — Understanding Different Patterns in Communication 46:45 — Managing Energy in Interactions 55:11 — Grounding Techniques for Different Patterns 01:03:02 — The Importance of Presence in Life Previous Episode with Steven Kessler Episode 136: Exploring the 5 Personality Patterns with Steven Kessler Connect With Steven Kessler https://the5personalitypatterns.com/ Share Your Voice, Forge a Brilliant Workplace I’m on a mission to build a brilliant workplace where everyone thrives and career dreams turn into reality, but I need your help! Fill out a quick anonymous, 7-minute survey to contribute to my first-ever Career Advancement Report (coming end of year). Share what’s top of mind for you at work and inform a resource that will help you rise and shine at work in 2025. [Access Your Survey]
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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • Episode 180: Finding a Balance of Feminine and Masculine Energy at Work
    Nov 14 2024

    Regardless of gender, everyone brings a mixture of feminine or masculine energy. Some people lean on one more than the other. Masculine energy is described as “doing” and acting based on logic, knowledge, results, and reason. On the flip side, feminine energy is defined as “being,” acting based on intuition and emotions. Words that often describe masculine energy include confrontation, aggression, and control, whereas words related to feminine energy include oversensitive and co-dependant. So, you can see how these energies aren’t actually tied to a gender—a woman can be aggressive and a man can sensitive. Neither of these energies are wrong. In fact, there are several benefits to both. But it’s about finding a balance at work.

    In episode 180 of the Your Brilliant Difference Podcast, Finka shares a personal workplace story where, during a particular situation, there was a dominance in masculine energy and how leaning on her feminine energy as a Brilliant Difference created a meaningful change her workplace needed. Suddenly, people were more comfortable, had open communication, and shared their vulnerabilities, building trust and strong relationships.

    Remember, both energies are good, but consider: which should you bring at work? Apply this to situations as you experience them.

    Share Your Voice, Forge a Brilliant Workplace

    I’m on a mission to build a brilliant workplace where everyone thrives and career dreams turn into reality, but I need your help! Fill out a quick anonymous, 7-minute survey to contribute to my first-ever Career Advancement Report (coming end of year). Share what’s top of mind for you at work and inform a resource that will help you rise and shine at work in 2025.

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    19 mins
  • Episode 179: The Simpatico Communication Method: How to Communicate and Lead with an Aware, Loving Heart with Arnie Buss
    Nov 7 2024

    With different personalities, professional and personal backgrounds, and communication preferences, you’re bound to experience conflicting conversations at work. So, how can you handle situations where you don’t see eye-to-eye with someone, in a way that supports your career growth and relationship progression? Through the Simpatico Communication Method.

    Who better to talk about the Simpatico Communication Method than Arnie Buss, its co-founder. Arnie is also a Research Associate Professor, a relationship coach, and the co-author of Hear Here: Engaging With Our Aware, Loving Heart. He is passionate about communication and how it impacts workplace relationships.

    In this Your Brilliant Difference Podcast episode, you’ll learn about what the Simpatico Communication Method is, how to apply it, and how to become a stronger communicator to rise in your career, even when you don’t necessarily agree with people.

    The Agenda for Today’s Episode:

    02:38 — Arnie’s Journey in Academia and Military Education

    06:22 — The Concept of Vocation in Career Choices

    09:09 — Finding Purpose in Corporate Work

    11:22 — Communication Dynamics in Military Leadership

    20:27 — How Hear Here Came to Be

    26:44 — The Power of Empathetic Communication

    27:34 — Simple vs. Ease in Communication

    29:02 — The Role of the Sender and Receiver

    30:32 — Requesting Change: Language to Use

    35:25 — Energy Matching in Communication

    44:12 — Transforming Conflict into Connection

    Connect With Arnie Buss

    • Arnie Buss on LinkedIn
    • No More Arguments Report

    Share Your Voice, Forge a Brilliant Workplace

    I’m on a mission to build a brilliant workplace where everyone thrives and career dreams turn into reality, but I need your help! Fill out a quick anonymous, 7-minute survey to contribute to my first-ever Career Advancement Report (coming end of year). Share what’s top of mind for you at work and inform a resource that will help you rise and shine at work in 2025.

    [Access Your Survey]

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    47 mins
  • Episode 178: 4 Strategies to Advance in Your Career Using Your Brilliant Difference Brand
    Oct 31 2024

    For four years, you work through four levels of high school. With each new grade, you get more specific about who you are and what you want to do with the rest of your life. You graduate and choose a profession, dedicating another 2-4+ years to learning and growing. Then you graduate again, but this time into the workforce, without a roadmap to help you know how to make it all work and traverse to the destinations you desire.

    They don’t teach you how to advance in your career in school but feeling inspired after coming back from a client event, I’m sharing with you four strategies that will make your journey clearer and more successful.

    They key is using your Brilliant Difference brand, a personal branding method that flips the script from “me” to “we” so you can focus on how you make a difference, a meaningful impact, in the world.

    In episode 178 of the Your Brilliant Difference Podcast, here are the four strategies I discuss:

    1. Give yourself permission to shine.

    2. Invite others to shine with you.

    3. Bring your whole self.

    4. Make it personal.

    What do these mean and how can you apply these career advancement strategies to get noticed and rise along the corporate ladder? Tune in! I even share real-time workplace stories embodying each strategy in action.

    The Agenda for Today:

    01:30 — Leadership Development Program: The Inspiration Behind the Episode

    08:33 — What is Your Brilliant Difference?

    08:49 — Strategy 1: Give Yourself Permission to Shine

    12:27: — Strategy 2: Invite Others to Shine With You

    16:33 — Strategy 3: Bring Your Whole Self

    21:15 — Strategy 4: Make It Personal

    Want More Support in Elevating Your Personal Brand to Achieve Your Desired Career Results? Join the Your Brilliant Difference Bootcamp Waitlist!

    Your Brilliant Difference Bootcamp is a cutting-edge program for corporate professionals, like yourself. Within this program, you’ll discover how to excel in your career and leadership by learning and applying a personal branding method that actually works: Your Brilliant Difference.

    Through course materials, coaching, and community, you’ll uncover exactly what your Brilliant Difference is and how to leverage your personal brand at work to get promoted and noticed.

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    30 mins
  • Episode 177: Top 5 Current Career Barriers and How to Overcome Them
    Oct 24 2024

    The workplace is constantly evolving. In 2020, remote work was the norm. Shortly after, hybrid settings took over, and now full-time in-office may be the status quo once more. Artificial intelligence is starting to take over certain jobs in specific industries. People are no longer just tired—they’re burnt out. These are just some of the challenges standing in your way of advancing in your career.

    But don’t worry. In this Your Brilliant Difference Podcast episode, you’ll learn exactly what the top 5 current career barriers are and how to overcome them to reach success. When you’re done listening, you’ll know exactly what you need to do to harness your personal brand (Brilliant Difference) to get noticed and promoted and shine in your work.

    The Agenda for Today’s Episode:

    00:00 — Embracing Your Brilliant Difference

    03:10 — Identifying Career Barriers

    05:53 — The Impact of Burnout and Disengagement

    09:04 — Navigating Remote and Hybrid Workplaces

    11:56 — The Importance of Digital Presence

    14:45 — Understanding the Role of AI

    18:13 — The Need for Continuous Skill Upgrades

    28:41 — Essential Skills for Career Advancement

    31:27 — The Importance of Personal Branding

    36:47 — Building Your Brilliant Difference Brand

    46:39 — Transformative Personal Branding Success Stories

    51:12 — The Path to Career Growth and Leadership

    Want More Support in Elevating Your Personal Brand to Achieve Your Desired Career Results? Join the Your Brilliant Difference Bootcamp Waitlist!

    Your Brilliant Difference Bootcamp is a cutting-edge program for corporate professionals, like yourself. Within this program, you’ll discover how to excel in your career and leadership by learning and applying a personal branding method that actually works: Your Brilliant Difference.

    Through course materials, coaching, and community, you’ll uncover exactly what your Brilliant Difference is and how to leverage your personal brand at work to get promoted and noticed.

    [Join the Waitlist]

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    1 hr
  • Episode 176: Your Power Unleashed: How to Get Promoted and Noticed with Kisha Wynter
    Oct 17 2024

    You have ambitious career goals, and you deserve to achieve them. But let’s face it. Getting there and making them happen is easier said than done. Thanks imposter syndrome and self-doubt, to name a few.

    But in this Your Brilliant Difference Podcast episode, Kisha Wynter, Founder of Wynter Rich Enterprises and Author of debut novel, Your Power Unleashed: How Savvy Women Use Courage to Get Promoted, Get Paid, and Find Fulfillment, teaches you her famous DIVA method and how it can help you get promoted and noticed at work, despite doubt and uncertainty.

    Wynter Rich Enterprises is a boutique leadership consulting firm where Kisha helps mission-driven companies create healthy coaching cultures where all talent thrives regardless of background. A leadership consultant, executive coach, author, and speaker, she’s a trailblazer in women’s leadership strategy. She has over two decades of corporate experience with a track record of developing and training leaders in over 50 countries.

    How lucky are you to be exposed to 2 decades of leadership consulting and executive coaching expertise? Kisha talks about the mindset blocks she’s experienced in her own career, and how her method and coaching can help you break through those blocks too, to finally own your power and make your career dreams a reality.

    Here’s What We’ll Be Talking About Today:

    00:00 — Unlocking Your Power and Potential

    02:32 — The Journey to Authorship

    06:47 — Overcoming Doubts and Embracing the Writer Within

    12:59 — The Writing Process: From Inspiration to Publication

    18:20 — Navigating Feedback and Building Resilience

    25:46 — Core Themes of the Novel, Your Power Unleashed

    30:36 — The DIVA Method Overview

    39:33 — Investing in Yourself: The Key to Growth

    41:55 — Words of Wisdom for Aspiring Writers

    Connect With Kisha Wynter

    • Kisha Wynter on LinkedIn
    • Your Power Unleashed Website

    Find Your Brilliance Beyond the Podcast

    Diving into and honing your Brilliant Difference (personal brand) is a constant work in progress. While this episode is a great start, there’s more content to help support you on your career journey: Finka Jerkovic’s Find Your Brilliance Newsletter.

    Once per week, get a fresh content round up delivered right to your inbox with insight, stories, and collaborative expertise to help you rise and shine in your career.

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    44 mins
  • Episode 175: Engineering an Opportunistic and Emotionally Intelligent Workforce with Khristian Jones
    Oct 10 2024

    There are two important concepts that make the workplace sphere go round: emotional intelligence (EQ) and giving back to the upcoming generations to ensure their success in our footsteps. But how can you lead those younger than you and embed emotional intelligence to create a safe, thriving environment?

    Khristian Jones will teach you how. As the Co-Founder of the Patti Grace Smith Fellowship and an Interiors Engineer at United Airlines, she’s passionate about diversifying the aerospace industry and opening space for all people. Through the fellowship, she leads and guides students in the aerospace field to ensure they have the most stress-free, successful career pathways from entering post-secondary, to graduating, to entering the field.

    While Khristian’s perspective brings a unique STEM twist to the Your Brilliant Difference Podcast, the concepts and tips can be applied throughout many industries. Tune in to see how you can level up your leadership through EQ and mentoring younger generations.

    Here’s What We’ll Be Talking About Today:

    01:23 — Khristian’s Career Journey in STEM

    06:32 — The Patty Grace Smith Fellowship: Empowering People in Aerospace

    12:20 — Outcomes of the Fellowship and Giving Back to Youth

    17:22 — The Importance of Emotional Intelligence in Aerospace

    21:40 — Challenges in the Aerospace Industry

    26:14 — The Power of Emotional Intelligence in Leadership

    31:43 — Tips for Increasing Proficiency in Emotional Intelligence

    Connect With Khristian Jones

    • Khristian Jones on LinkedIn

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    In this Keynote presentation, Finka Jerkovic will teach you exactly how to use the Your Brilliant Difference Method to uncover your personal brand, so you can understand how you’re uniquely wired to add value to the workplace, helping you stand out and get noticed.

    REGISTER HERE.

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    40 mins
  • Episode 174: Ditch Work Stress for Wellness with Lori Saitz: How to Use Meditation for Decision-Making and Career Advancement
    Oct 3 2024
    We live in a world where we’re constantly off to the races. Off to the next project. Off to the next meeting. Off to the next social media post. Off to the next promotion. But when was the last time you slowed down and took a beat? You probably can’t recall, right? You’re not alone, but continuing this way can make it harder to overcome workplace and personal stress, preventing you from excelling in your career. In this week’s Your Brilliant Difference Podcast episode, you’ll learn the tools to turn things around from stressful to blissful from the Founder of Zen Rabbit, Lori Saitz. As the founder of the Zen Leadership Program for results-focused professionals, she is a leading authority on improving productivity and engagement through workplace well-being. With a comprehensive background in wellness and communication strategies, Lori helps executives create focused, resilient, and collaborative teams that can move projects forward with less stress and drama. You can listen to Lori on her own podcast too, Fine is a 4-Letter Word, where she engages guests in conversations about how they've grown from a time in their lives when things were decidedly NOT fine. We’re constantly a work in progress (our career journeys and personal brands), which means we need to navigate through all the situations, good or bad. Tune into this podcast episode to help you swap workplace stress for wellness, so you can rise in your career. Here’s What We’ll Be Talking About Today: 00:00 — An Introduction to Workplace Well-being 02:59 — The Power of Authentic Communication 09:09 — The Evolution of Zen Rabbit 15:05 — The Interplay of Well-being and Communication 17:57 — Our Individual Responsibility in Well-being 20:53 — Meditation: A Tool for Focus and Clarity 27:01 — The Importance of Taking Breaks 29:52 — How to Live a Sabbatical Life and Find Balance Mentioned Resources: Staying Calm in Chaos (digital audio program) Connect With Lori Saitz Lori Saitz on LinkedIn Register for Personal Branding Keynote In this Keynote presentation, Finka Jerkovic will teach you exactly how to use the Your Brilliant Difference Method to uncover your personal brand, so you can understand how you’re uniquely wired to add value to the workplace, helping you stand out and get noticed. REGISTER HERE. Become the Next Your Brilliant Difference™ Podcast Guest Have a brilliant story you want to share that surrounds leadership, team building, communication skills, or leaning on your brilliance and strengths to drive meaningful results? Click HERE to fill out the application form, and our team will be in touch!
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    44 mins