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Men: Are you in a sexless marriage?
Divorced and don’t want to go through that nightmare again?
You're not alone.
There are a lot of men out there not happy with their sex lives.
What is going on? Is the tried-and-true stereotype of the undersexed husband and the cold, bossy wife inevitable? Are monogamous relationships doomed to such a pitiful state? Is that just the way marriage is?
I don't think so.
To cut a long story short, several years ago, I was married for 15 years, discovered infidelity, quickly divorced, and found myself newly single and sharing custody of three little kids. I, then, started a website: dadstartingover.com. After chatting with many men in my situation, I slowly started to notice patterns of behavior. Most men experienced long “dead bedroom” periods in their relationship, prior to their divorce. Many of these men later discovered infidelity.
Simply put, nobody seems to know what to do to keep the fire going in their long-term relationship. Most of us experience a “honeymoon phase” of intimacy and then, watch it quickly fade as the stress of life and the boredom of familiarity settle in.
It doesn’t have to be this way.
My audience are fixers, and they have tried everything under the sun to light a fire in their wife again. Some have already lost their marriage battle and don’t want to go down that awful road again. What they all tell me: The Dead Bedroom Fix is the best, no bullshit, no fluff guide to getting your self, and consequently, your sex life back on track.
It works.
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- Ronnie
- 04-16-20
Truth
It’s the truth that we need to hear. We are all good guys but ladies are attracted to the bad boys! Time to be a hybrid!
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- Gerhard
- 02-14-21
must read for long married men
I you have been married for more that 10 years you have to read this book. We fall to the home guy and forget to be lovers.
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- Perry Coon
- 01-29-21
A True Eye Opener!
Just what every man in a relationship needs to hear. Excited to put this knowledge to work.
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- Vincenzo Caraglia
- 06-24-23
Awsome!!!
This hit the nail on the head for many different scenerios! any husband in search of knowledge or validation if they are on
right or wrong path should listen!!
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- Bryan Thomas
- 12-10-24
Save your $ on counseling, buy this book.
After years of marriage counseling with little success (other than emptying my wallet), this book had a more profoundly positive effect on my marriage than anything ever had. You’ll work your butt off (literally) but end in such a better place both personally and in your relationship (even if you decide to end it).
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- ScottFam
- 10-24-20
Armed with information!
Thanks for getting right to the point instead of forcing us to listen to a 45 min video only to find out you have to "pay to play". You gave me straight to the point advice. The truth will set you free but first it will piss you off!
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- Scott Hostetler
- 05-21-20
Wow..
So many harsh truths..
I am trying to engrain this stuff into my mind right now. While at first it was so brutally honest, I found myself becoming enraged, I eventually got to the point where I told myself, wow.. I really need to be about this and really take this with a grain of salt.. life really is kill or be killed and this book really does a great job of outlining the dos and don'ts and carefully and throughly explain all the nuances.
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- Audiobookaddict1
- 01-29-21
I can't say enough good things
This is a life-changing book and a must read for any married man. If you are married is healthy stable with an awesome sex life or if your marriage is struggling and hanging on its last thread. either way, this book is a must read for any married man. our wives do not want a wimp as a husband. while listening to this book I asked myself a question: If my wife were single would she find me attractive? In some ways I know that she would but not attractive in the way that she did when she was dating me. What this book taught me was that I still have to be that man. I have to play the role of a man who is worthy of that love and affection.
sitting around, gaining weight, farting and burping, stuff needs to be done around the house but I'm not doing it...reminding her when I do the laundry or when I do the dishes as if I'm expecting some brownie points. no no no. none of that anymore. when I do the dishes, when I mow the lawn, when I do the laundry, when I clean the garage, I don't mention any of it to her. It's for me. I'm doing it for me because I'm the one improving. It's amazing how this book has ripped through the veneer and the lie that I've been telling myself for the last 20 years in just 3 hours.
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- Anonymous User
- 11-28-22
Honest and true
Thank you DSO for this massage for awareness for assertiveness and masculinity which is rare these days
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- Grega
- 10-19-23
A real eye opener!
This book will really give you a new perspective on the problem! A true eye opener with no bullshit! Really great, listened to it several times!
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