
A Single Mom's Guide to Raising Black (Gentle) Men
Failed to add items
Add to Cart failed.
Add to Wish List failed.
Remove from wishlist failed.
Adding to library failed
Follow podcast failed
Unfollow podcast failed
$0.99/mo for the first 3 months

Buy for $6.95
No default payment method selected.
We are sorry. We are not allowed to sell this product with the selected payment method
-
Narrated by:
-
Sanya Simmons
-
Clayton "Tommy" Duffie
-
Matthew Duffie
-
By:
-
Sanya Simmons
About this listen
Narrated by the author, with special contributions from her sons, A Single Mom's Guide to Raising Black (Gentle) Men is an impactful book that shows you how to persevere and ultimately raise young men who are confident, accountable, and capable of facing whatever life throws at them.
Throughout her book, author Sanya Simmons dives deeply into the real issues single moms face when raising Black sons. Full of practical tips and real-life examples, this book addresses a wide range of topics. This includes the role a mom plays in raising a man, educational challenges and stereotypes, talking to your son about sex, sexual orientation, and gender identity, balancing parenting with your own needs, and much more. Written by a single mom for single moms, this is an authentic, matter-of-fact, and necessary book for women raising sons of all ages.
©2022 Sanya Simmons (P)2022 Sanya SimmonsListeners also enjoyed...
-
The Black Girl's Guide to Financial Freedom
- Build Wealth, Retire Early, and Live the Life of Your Dreams
- By: Paris Woods
- Narrated by: Paris Woods
- Length: 5 hrs and 21 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Are you tired of spinning your wheels following financial advice that leaves you feeling broker than before? Are you pulling your hair out trying to follow the complicated instructions offered by the gurus? In The Black Girl's Guide to Financial Freedom, Paris Woods takes the guesswork out of wealth-building and presents a plan that anyone can follow. This audiobook is perfect for Black women of any age, including young professionals just starting to set financial goals and mid-career women who are tired of following the same old rules.
-
-
If you want to hear stories.
- By Melissa H. on 10-21-22
By: Paris Woods
-
Feeding the Soul (Because It's My Business)
- Finding Our Way to Joy, Love, and Freedom
- By: Tabitha Brown
- Narrated by: Tabitha Brown
- Length: 5 hrs and 49 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Tabitha Brown's path to stardom was a long and winding one. For years she pursued acting while raising a family and dealing with undiagnosed chronic autoimmune pain. Before she became vegan, her condition made her believe she wouldn't live to see forty. Now she's one of the most popular personalities in the world, with millions of followers on TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook whom she inspires to live and eat well with her blend of homespun wisdom and delicious home cooking. With her relatable personality and health struggles, Tabitha connects with a good story and gentle hand.
-
-
Honey Verrrry Good Auntie Tab!!!!
- By Desiree on 09-29-21
By: Tabitha Brown
-
The Whole-Brain Child
- 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind
- By: Daniel J. Siegel M.D., Tina Payne Bryson
- Narrated by: Daniel J. Siegel M.D., Tina Payne Bryson
- Length: 6 hrs and 14 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In this pioneering, practical book, Daniel J. Siegel, neuropsychiatrist and author of the bestselling Mindsight, and parenting expert Tina Payne Bryson offer a revolutionary approach to child rearing with twelve key strategies that foster healthy brain development, leading to calmer, happier children. The authors explain—and make accessible—the new science of how a child’s brain is wired and how it matures.
-
-
Several comments on the brain were incorrect.
- By Abelle on 04-18-23
By: Daniel J. Siegel M.D., and others
-
Woman Evolve
- Break Up with Your Fears and Revolutionize Your Life
- By: Sarah Jakes Roberts
- Narrated by: Sarah Roberts
- Length: 6 hrs and 13 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Who would imagine being friends with Eve - the woman who’s been held responsible for the fall of humanity (and cramps) for thousands of years? Certainly not Sarah Jakes Roberts. That is, not until Sarah discovered she is more like Eve than she cares to admit. Everyone faces trials, and everyone will mess up. But failure should not be the focus. Your focus should not be on who you were but rather the pursuit of who you can become.
-
-
Truly a blessing to women all over the world
- By wendy on 05-03-21
-
A Guide to Raising Sons to Manhood
- Blueprint to Raise a Good Black Man
- By: Clay Cowan
- Narrated by: Danny Swopes
- Length: 2 hrs and 36 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
You hold your son in your arms for the first time. As you look at his perfect hands and fingers, he grabs onto your thumb. You smile as tears start streaming down your face. You can’t believe this moment has come; the moment you can finally hold your son in your arms. “I will never let you go”, you start to tell your son, “I promise, I will always be there for you. I promise to do whatever I can to help you succeed”.
-
-
Finding My Path as a Dad
- By Robert Jessica on 04-26-25
By: Clay Cowan
-
The Autobiography of Malcolm X
- As Told to Alex Haley
- By: Malcolm X, Alex Haley
- Narrated by: Laurence Fishburne
- Length: 16 hrs and 52 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Experience a bold take on this classic autobiography as it’s performed by Oscar-nominated Laurence Fishburne. In this searing classic autobiography, originally published in 1965, Malcolm X, the Muslim leader, firebrand, and Black empowerment activist, tells the extraordinary story of his life and the growth of the Human Rights movement. His fascinating perspective on the lies and limitations of the American dream and the inherent racism in a society that denies its non-White citizens the opportunity to dream, gives extraordinary insight into the most urgent issues of our own time.
-
-
it's Nearly perfect
- By Kerry on 09-16-20
By: Malcolm X, and others
-
The Black Girl's Guide to Financial Freedom
- Build Wealth, Retire Early, and Live the Life of Your Dreams
- By: Paris Woods
- Narrated by: Paris Woods
- Length: 5 hrs and 21 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Are you tired of spinning your wheels following financial advice that leaves you feeling broker than before? Are you pulling your hair out trying to follow the complicated instructions offered by the gurus? In The Black Girl's Guide to Financial Freedom, Paris Woods takes the guesswork out of wealth-building and presents a plan that anyone can follow. This audiobook is perfect for Black women of any age, including young professionals just starting to set financial goals and mid-career women who are tired of following the same old rules.
-
-
If you want to hear stories.
- By Melissa H. on 10-21-22
By: Paris Woods
-
Feeding the Soul (Because It's My Business)
- Finding Our Way to Joy, Love, and Freedom
- By: Tabitha Brown
- Narrated by: Tabitha Brown
- Length: 5 hrs and 49 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Tabitha Brown's path to stardom was a long and winding one. For years she pursued acting while raising a family and dealing with undiagnosed chronic autoimmune pain. Before she became vegan, her condition made her believe she wouldn't live to see forty. Now she's one of the most popular personalities in the world, with millions of followers on TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook whom she inspires to live and eat well with her blend of homespun wisdom and delicious home cooking. With her relatable personality and health struggles, Tabitha connects with a good story and gentle hand.
-
-
Honey Verrrry Good Auntie Tab!!!!
- By Desiree on 09-29-21
By: Tabitha Brown
-
The Whole-Brain Child
- 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind
- By: Daniel J. Siegel M.D., Tina Payne Bryson
- Narrated by: Daniel J. Siegel M.D., Tina Payne Bryson
- Length: 6 hrs and 14 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In this pioneering, practical book, Daniel J. Siegel, neuropsychiatrist and author of the bestselling Mindsight, and parenting expert Tina Payne Bryson offer a revolutionary approach to child rearing with twelve key strategies that foster healthy brain development, leading to calmer, happier children. The authors explain—and make accessible—the new science of how a child’s brain is wired and how it matures.
-
-
Several comments on the brain were incorrect.
- By Abelle on 04-18-23
By: Daniel J. Siegel M.D., and others
-
Woman Evolve
- Break Up with Your Fears and Revolutionize Your Life
- By: Sarah Jakes Roberts
- Narrated by: Sarah Roberts
- Length: 6 hrs and 13 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Who would imagine being friends with Eve - the woman who’s been held responsible for the fall of humanity (and cramps) for thousands of years? Certainly not Sarah Jakes Roberts. That is, not until Sarah discovered she is more like Eve than she cares to admit. Everyone faces trials, and everyone will mess up. But failure should not be the focus. Your focus should not be on who you were but rather the pursuit of who you can become.
-
-
Truly a blessing to women all over the world
- By wendy on 05-03-21
-
A Guide to Raising Sons to Manhood
- Blueprint to Raise a Good Black Man
- By: Clay Cowan
- Narrated by: Danny Swopes
- Length: 2 hrs and 36 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
You hold your son in your arms for the first time. As you look at his perfect hands and fingers, he grabs onto your thumb. You smile as tears start streaming down your face. You can’t believe this moment has come; the moment you can finally hold your son in your arms. “I will never let you go”, you start to tell your son, “I promise, I will always be there for you. I promise to do whatever I can to help you succeed”.
-
-
Finding My Path as a Dad
- By Robert Jessica on 04-26-25
By: Clay Cowan
-
The Autobiography of Malcolm X
- As Told to Alex Haley
- By: Malcolm X, Alex Haley
- Narrated by: Laurence Fishburne
- Length: 16 hrs and 52 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Experience a bold take on this classic autobiography as it’s performed by Oscar-nominated Laurence Fishburne. In this searing classic autobiography, originally published in 1965, Malcolm X, the Muslim leader, firebrand, and Black empowerment activist, tells the extraordinary story of his life and the growth of the Human Rights movement. His fascinating perspective on the lies and limitations of the American dream and the inherent racism in a society that denies its non-White citizens the opportunity to dream, gives extraordinary insight into the most urgent issues of our own time.
-
-
it's Nearly perfect
- By Kerry on 09-16-20
By: Malcolm X, and others
-
Sis, Don't Settle
- How to Stay Smart in Matters of the Heart
- By: Faith Jenkins
- Narrated by: Faith Jenkins
- Length: 8 hrs and 20 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
By day, Faith Jenkins is the host of the nationally syndicated TV show Divorce Court; by night, she’s a happily married newlywed who navigated these dating streets for years before learning how to attract the love of her dreams.
-
-
Modern Day Heroine
- By Roxana LaKay Butler on 01-16-23
By: Faith Jenkins
-
We Should All Be Millionaires
- A Woman’s Guide to Earning More, Building Wealth, and Gaining Economic Power
- By: Rachel Rodgers
- Narrated by: Rachel Rodgers
- Length: 8 hrs and 40 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Only 10 percent of the world’s millionaires are women, making it difficult for women to wield the economic power that will create lasting equality. Whatever is stopping you from having seven figures in the bank - whether it’s shaky confidence, knowledge gaps when it comes to wealth-building tactics, imposter syndrome, a janky mindset about money (it’s okay, we’ve all been there!), or simply not knowing where to begin - this book shows you how to clear every obstacle in your way, show up, and glow up.
-
-
Some Good Content In Between the Opinions
- By bhdhlh on 05-26-21
By: Rachel Rodgers
-
I Almost Forgot About You
- A Novel
- By: Terry McMillan
- Narrated by: Terry McMillan
- Length: 11 hrs and 12 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In I Almost Forgot About You, Dr. Georgia Young's wonderful life--great friends, family, and successful career--aren't enough to keep her from feeling stuck and restless. When she decides to make some major changes in her life, including quitting her job as an optometrist and moving house, she finds herself on a wild journey that may or may not include a second chance at love. Georgia’s bravery reminds us that it’s never too late to become the person you want to be, and that taking chances, with your life and your heart, are always worthwhile.
-
-
I Almost Forgot About You
- By Brown Sugar Carolyn on 06-11-16
By: Terry McMillan
-
365 Badass Black Girl Affirmations
- Positive Thoughts to Create Success, Wealth, and Higher Self-Esteem for Powerful Women
- By: Jasmine Greene
- Narrated by: Yasmine Johnson
- Length: 1 hr and 3 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Do you want to become a powerful black women while only dedicating a few minutes of your time each day? It’s no secret that the happiest and most successful people all have habits that they incorporate into their lives that help them stay focused and positive when things are difficult. It doesn't matter where you are now or where you used to be; you have the opportunity to empower yourself and become the women you are meant to be.
-
-
Dear Black Woman
- By Brycelyn on 06-02-23
By: Jasmine Greene
-
Divine Feminine Energy
- How to Manifest with Goddess Energy & Feminine Energy Awakening Secrets They Don’t Want You to Know About (Manifesting for Women & Feminine Energy Awakening - 2 in 1 Collection)
- By: Angela Grace
- Narrated by: Alana Marie Cheuvront
- Length: 6 hrs and 23 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Are you sick and tired of missing out in life and seeing everyone around you succeed? While you’re left behind; broke in a job you hate, in a toxic relationship, or trapped in a body you’re unhappy with? Do you finally want to say goodbye to all of your wasted time and see what actually works for you? If so, then it’s not by chance that you’re reading this! You see, manifesting all of your wants and desires doesn’t have to be difficult, even if you feel like you’ve tried every other manifesting book and YouTube video already.
-
-
1st time thoroughly dissatisfied with a book
- By LeighAnn Macias on 11-12-21
By: Angela Grace
-
The 5 Love Languages of Children
- The Secret to Loving Children Effectively
- By: Gary Chapman, Ross Campbell
- Narrated by: Chris Fabry
- Length: 5 hrs and 48 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Every child has a unique way of feeling loved. When you discover your child's love language - and how to speak it - you can build a solid foundation for your child to trust you and flourish as he or she grows. In this audiobook for parents, teachers, single parents, and more, Drs. Gary Chapman and Ross Campbell offer practical advice for how to discover and speak your child's love language - in dozens of ways!
-
-
"good content beware, heavy on religion "
- By Langenbergs on 02-15-20
By: Gary Chapman, and others
-
Strong Mothers, Strong Sons
- Lessons Mothers Need to Raise Extraordinary Men
- By: Meg Meeker
- Narrated by: Marguerite Gavin
- Length: 12 hrs and 53 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
From the moment a mother holds her newborn son, his eyes tell her that she is his world. But often, as he grows up, the boy who needs her simultaneously pushes her away. Calling upon thirty years of experience as a pediatrician, Meg Meeker, MD, a highly sought-after national speaker, assistant professor of clinical medicine, and mother of four, shares the secrets that every mother needs to know in order to strengthen-or rebuild-her relationship with her son.
-
-
Update of wording in your book is required
- By danamc on 08-27-18
By: Meg Meeker
-
The 5 Love Languages of Teenagers
- The Secret to Loving Teens Effectively
- By: Gary Chapman
- Narrated by: Chris Fabry
- Length: 8 hrs and 25 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Never before has raising teens been so perplexing. If you are wondering what on earth you're doing wrong, you're not alone. But there is hope. By learning to meaningfully express love amid your teens' many changes, you can stay connected, maintain influence, and help them grow into healthy adults.
-
-
If implemented? Magnificent!
- By Miniak07 on 05-12-17
By: Gary Chapman
-
Doing Life with Your Adult Children
- Keep Your Mouth Shut and the Welcome Mat Out
- By: Jim Burns PhD
- Narrated by: Wayne Campbell
- Length: 4 hrs and 18 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
If you've raised a child, you know that parenting doesn't stop when they turn eighteen. In many ways, your relationship gets even more complicated--your heart and your head are as involved as ever, but you can feel things shifting, whether your child lives under your roof or rarely stays in contact. Doing Life with Your Adult Children helps you navigate this rich and challenging season of parenting. Speaking from his own personal and professional experience, Burns offers practical answers to the most common questions he's received over the years.
-
-
Some good points but...
- By Millie on 06-15-19
By: Jim Burns PhD
-
Boundaries with Kids
- How Healthy Choices Grow Healthy Children
- By: Henry Cloud, John Townsend
- Narrated by: Henry O. Arnold
- Length: 7 hrs and 22 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
What the award-winning, best-selling Boundaries has done for adult relationships, Boundaries with Kids will do for you and your children. Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend provide the help and guidance you need for raising your kids to take responsibility for their actions, attitudes, and emotions. With wisdom and empathy, they take you through the ins and outs of instilling the kind of character in your children that will help them lead balanced, productive, and fulfilling adult lives.
-
-
I can already see a difference!
- By Stephen Theall on 10-11-19
By: Henry Cloud, and others
-
How to Raise Successful People
- Simple Lessons for Radical Results
- By: Esther Wojcicki
- Narrated by: Andrea Gallo
- Length: 10 hrs and 51 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
The godmother of Silicon Valley, legendary teacher, and mother of a super family shares her tried-and-tested methods for raising happy, healthy, successful children using trust, respect, independence, collaboration, and kindness: TRICK. How to Raise Successful People offers essential lessons for raising, educating, and managing people to their highest potential. Change your parenting, change the world.
-
-
Rushed, no depth, very disappointed
- By Bobby Canedy on 05-16-19
By: Esther Wojcicki
-
ScreamFree Parenting, 10th Anniversary Revised Edition
- How to Raise Amazing Adults by Learning to Pause More and React Less
- By: Hal Runkel LMFT
- Narrated by: Hal Runkel LMFT
- Length: 7 hrs and 32 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Parenting is not about kids; it's about parents. If you're not in control, then you cannot be in charge. What every kid really needs are parents who are able to keep their cool no matter what. Easier said than done? Not anymore, thanks to ScreamFree Parenting, the principle-based approach that's inspiring parents everywhere to truly revolutionize their family dynamics.
-
-
Eye opening
- By Mark on 09-12-07
By: Hal Runkel LMFT
What listeners say about A Single Mom's Guide to Raising Black (Gentle) Men
Average customer ratingsReviews - Please select the tabs below to change the source of reviews.
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Ele
- 10-02-24
I enjoyed this read
I like that the advice was very realistic and practical. I could really tell a lot of what she said. I’m gonna listen to this second time I have children, I have all boys and I need all the encouragement I can get, so that they can be strong man I know years to come.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Monet Lewis
- 02-09-23
What a wonderful book!
After 14 years of marriage, I found myself in the new roll of Single Mother. With my oldest daughter away at school I found myself alone struggling to give me son what I thought he needed. THANK YOU for sharing your story! I found it at the perfect time and now have such a broader perspective on how I CAN love, support, encourage and accept my son for who he is. Thank u!
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Gwen
- 09-01-22
Thank you
Great writing and thank you for sharing your story I especially enjoyed Tommy and Matthew’s expressions at the end to their wonderful mom
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Laura Wilkerson
- 04-16-24
Relevant and useful
I appreciate you guidance as a mother from a perspective I will be in 20 years from now. Your vulnerability was important to me to help me understand that my path will be challenging and will help provide perspective along my journey. Thank you for sharing your experience.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Niesha Carney
- 04-14-25
Helpful but conflicting with biblical truth
This book started off strong and provided valuable insights for raising our black sons. I appreciated the author’s honesty, transparency, and the love she clearly has for her kids. As a fellow Christian, I was drawn to her approach to parenting with grace and truth; however, I struggled when the story shifted into affirming a lifestyle that, according to Scripture, does not align with biblical teaching.
I wholeheartedly agree that we are called to love others unconditionally just as Christ loves us. But love does not require us to compromise truth. We are all born with sin nature and proclivities we must surrender to God. That includes every area of our lives. sexuality included. While I respect her journey and how she chose to support her son, I believe the message could have more clearly distinguished between loving a person and affirming choices that go against God’s Word.
As believers, we are to deny ourselves, pick up our cross, and follow Christ. That doesn’t mean we love our children any less, it means we love them the way Christ loves: fully, sacrificially, and truthfully.
This book may still offer some practical wisdom to parents, but I encourage Christian readers to approach it with discernment and a strong foundation in biblical truth. I would have rated it much higher apart from the mentions above.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!