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Asking for It
- The Alarming Rise of Rape Culture - and What We Can Do About It
- Narrated by: Erin Bennett
- Length: 8 hrs and 55 mins
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From Congressman Todd Akin's "legitimate rape" gaffe to the high school rapists of Steubenville, Ohio, to the furor at Vanderbilt, sexual violence has been so prominent in recent years that the feminist term "rape culture" has finally entered the mainstream. But what exactly is it? And how do we change it?
In Asking for It, Kate Harding answers those questions in the same blunt, no-nonsense voice that has made her a powerhouse feminist blogger. Combining in-depth research with practical knowledge, Asking for It makes the case that 21st-century America - where it's estimated that out of every 100 rapes only five result in felony convictions - supports rapists more effectively than victims. Harding offers ideas and suggestions for addressing how we as a culture can take rape much more seriously without compromising the rights of the accused.
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In his #1 New York Times best seller, Bias, Emmy Award-winning journalist Bernard Goldberg created a national firestorm when he exposed the liberal biases of the so-called mainstream media. Now, in his new blockbuster, Goldberg goes even further. He not only takes on Big Journalism, but offers a twelve-step program to help the media elites overcome their addiction to bias.
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wow
- By Douglas on 11-11-03
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90s Bitch
- Media, Culture, and the Failed Promise of Gender Equality
- By: Allison Yarrow
- Narrated by: Allison Yarrow
- Length: 11 hrs and 33 mins
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To understand how we got here, we have rewind the VHS tape. 90s Bitch tells the real story of women and girls in the 1990s, exploring how they were maligned by the media, vilified by popular culture, and objectified in the marketplace. Trailblazing women like Hillary Clinton, Anita Hill, Marcia Clark, and Roseanne Barr were undermined. Newsmakers like Monica Lewinsky, Tonya Harding, and Lorena Bobbitt were shamed and misunderstood. The advent of the 24-hour news cycle reinforced society's deeply entrenched sexism.
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A surprising look back
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Chokehold
- Policing Black Men
- By: Paul Butler
- Narrated by: JD Jackson
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Cops, politicians, and ordinary people are afraid of black men. The result is the Chokehold: laws and practices that treat every African American man like a thug. In this explosive new book, an African American former federal prosecutor shows that the system is working exactly the way it's supposed to. Black men are always under watch, and police violence is widespread - all with the support of judges and politicians.
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Good but not amazing
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Whoever Fights Monsters
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- Narrated by: Tom Perkins
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Face-to-face with some of America's most terrifying killers, FBI veteran and ex-Army CID colonel Robert Ressler learned from them how to identify the unknown monsters who walk among us - and put them behind bars. Now the man who coined the phrase "serial killer" and advised Thomas Harris on The Silence of the Lambs shows how he has tracked down some of the nation's most brutal murderers. Join Ressler as he takes you on the hunt for America's most dangerous psychopaths. It is a terrifying journey you will not forget.
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Murderino checking in
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By: Robert K. Ressler, and others
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Galileo's Middle Finger
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A powerful defense of intellectual freedom told through the ordeals of contemporary scientists attacked for exploring controversial ideas, by a noted science historian and medical activist.
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Engrossing but...
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Down Girl
- The Logic of Misogyny
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Misogyny is a hot topic, yet it's often misunderstood. What is misogyny, exactly? Who deserves to be called a misogynist? How does misogyny contrast with sexism, and why is it prone to persist - or increase - even when sexist gender roles are waning? This book is an exploration of misogyny in public life and politics by the moral philosopher Kate Manne. It argues that misogyny should not be understood primarily in terms of the hatred or hostility some men feel toward all or most women. Rather, it's primarily about controlling, policing, punishing, and exiling the "bad" women.
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Five Star Book w/bad Narration
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By: Kate Manne
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The Anatomy of Motive offers a dramatic, insightful look at the development and evolution of the criminal mind. The famed former chief of the FBI's Investigative Support Unit, John Douglas was the pioneer of modern behavioral profiling of serial criminals. Working again with acclaimed novelist, journalist, and filmmaker Mark Olshaker, and using cases from his own fabled career as examples, Douglas takes us further than ever before into the dark corners of the minds of arsonists, hijackers, bombers, poisoners, serial killers, and mass murderers.
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Smuckers jelly narration. Still good.
- By Thad Ames on 11-07-17
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You have NEVER seen Ann Coulter like this before! Coulter is uncensored, unapologetic, and unflinching in her ruthless mockery of liberals, sissies, morons, hypocrites, and all other species of politician.Coulter doesn't stop at the politicians, though. Hear her skewer pundits, salesmen, celebrities, and bureaucrats with ruthlessness and hilarity. No topic is safe! This is Coulter at her most incisive, funny, and brilliant, featuring irreverent and hilarious material her syndicators were too afraid to print!
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Disappointed at Non-Author Narrator
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Profiler Roy Hazelwood is one of the world's leading experts on the strangest and most dangerous of all aberrant offenders - the sexual criminal. In Dark Dreams he reveals the twisted motive and thinking that go into the most reprehensible crimes. He also catalogs the innovative and remarkably effective techniques that allow law enforcement agents to construct psychological profiles of the offenders who commit these crimes.
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FINALLY SOME NEW AND INTERESTING CASES!
- By leelee8888 on 10-16-16
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One of the enduring legacies of the 2012 Presidential campaign was the demise of the white American male voter as a dominant force in the political landscape. On election night, after Obama was announced the winner, a distressed Bill O'Reilly lamented that he didn't live in "a traditional America anymore". He was joined by others who bellowed their grief on the talk radio airwaves, the traditional redoubt of angry white men. Why were they so angry?
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Interesting book; Wrong reader
- By Carolina A. Miranda on 05-02-18
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In Stupid Black Men, Larry Elder takes on the mind-set of those people who always capture the most media attention - as well as masses of public money - people who say that racism is the root of all problems and who end up hurting precisely those they claim to be helping.
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Feminism isn't dead. It just isn't very cool anymore. Enter Full Frontal Feminism, a book that embodies the forward-looking messages that author Jessica Valenti propagated as founder of the popular website, Feministing.com. This revised edition includes a new foreword by Valenti, reflecting upon what’s happened in the five years since Full Frontal Feminism was originally published.
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I'd recommend it!
- By Jacqueline Camero on 10-05-16
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- Marla Leonard
- 02-22-17
Just Wow!
Every man and woman on this planet should be required to read this book. If they were, sexual assault would become a thing of the past. It really is that simple.
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- Aimee
- 02-16-17
Incredibly Important Read
The author uses research, legal examples, and outstanding logic to portray that rape not only happens, it is also a crime that for some reason isn't treated as such. I work in the legal system. Did you know I once saw a woman get 20 years for providing a fake alibi but saw no conviction for the guy who was caught by FIVE witnesses raping and unconscious woman? Better yet, the second guy ADMITTED it in text messages, but the jury decided that somehow those texts weren't relevant. This is the world we live in. READ THIS.
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- Sunshine
- 04-15-24
Story makes you relive the terror
Listening to this book was actually traumatizing for me. It made you feel like you were actually there and experiencing it firsthand. If you’ve ever been raped or sexually assaulted, this may trigger or traumatize you. Some parts I could very much relate to, others just made me seething angry! I commend the author for her bravery and bringing awareness to this. No one should be made to feel guilty for coming forward. Punish the perpetrators!!
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- MotleyMayhem
- 05-18-16
understanding rape culture, 101 level
Concise, accessible, with concrete examples and tools. Kate Harding sheds light on how systemic rape culture affects our everyday lives, and how we can push back.
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- Jessica
- 09-06-15
Nailed It
It's books like these that make me feel hopeful that justice will finally be served for people like me who have been victims of the "rape culture" that surrounds us.
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- Ryan R.
- 12-06-22
A must to understand rape culture.
Highly recommended if you have interest in criminological theory! Harding has a unique perspective into sexual assault.
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- AliKay
- 03-01-17
READ!!
Anyone, everyone, of all ages, genders, races and classes MUST read or listen to this book. It will BLOW YOUR MIND!!
It will break your heart, make you laugh out loud at Harding's witty remarks and explanations. She doesn't hold back at all her writing so modern, daring and brave. The narrator, too, was WONDERFUL.
I laughed, I cried, I want to share this with everyone I know. It's effing brilliant!!
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- Lisa A.
- 11-06-19
Intense but truthful!
Opened my eyes to this culture that we live in. Must read for change to happen!
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- Customer
- 04-30-22
Hard to Hear Harder to Put Down
I love how up front yet informative the author is about the content, she never holds back and the narrator delivers that emotion flawlessly. The experiences she recounts are pretty horrifying but its important to know and crucial to keep an open dialogue on.
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- Benjamin Zeinz
- 10-02-15
Such an important book on an important topic
Would you listen to Asking for It again? Why?
I already have. It's one of those that when I got to the end I started over again.
What was the most compelling aspect of this narrative?
As a lifelong feminist I am no stranger to the concept of rape culture. However, this book brought sharply into focus the current incarnation of systemic rape culture - how our institutions around law enforcement, professional sports, education, and media support and propagate rape culture. I appreciate the author's stated focus on staying away from telling too many individual stories of rape (important though that may be) except for those that illustrate a point she is making. In our hyper-connected world, it is extremely important that we look critically at how our institutions help create and propagate rape culture. And I'm also so glad she ended with what should be giving us hope that now that we've started exposing rape culture we can find a way to limit it.
What does Erin Bennett bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you just read the book?
Erin Bennett expertly handles the author's wit and humor. This can be some pretty horrifying concepts to hear about, and the levity provided by the author's wit is very helpful in getting through all of it without feeling overwhelmed.
Was there a moment in the book that particularly moved you?
I suppose "all of them" is not a useful answer. I suppose the most devastating part of the book is the statistical discussion of law enforcement officers attitudes towards those that report rape.
Any additional comments?
Anyone who is a potential victim of rape (also know as "everyone") or knows someone who could be a potential victim of rape (everyone, again) should read this book.
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