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No Visible Bruises
- What We Don't Know About Domestic Violence Can Kill Us
- Narrated by: Rachel Louise Snyder
- Length: 12 hrs and 19 mins
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An award-winning journalist's intimate investigation of the true scope of domestic violence, revealing how the roots of America's most pressing social crises are buried in abuse that happens behind closed doors.
We call it domestic violence. We call it private violence. Sometimes we call it intimate terrorism. But whatever we call it, we generally do not believe it has anything at all to do with us, despite the World Health Organization deeming it a 'global epidemic'. In America, domestic violence accounts for 15 percent of all violent crime, and yet it remains locked in silence, even as its tendrils reach unseen into so many of our most pressing national issues, from our economy to our education system, from mass shootings to mass incarceration to #MeToo. We still have not taken the true measure of this problem.
In No Visible Bruises, journalist Rachel Louise Snyder gives context for what we don't know we're seeing. She frames this urgent and immersive account of the scale of domestic violence in our country around key stories that explode the common myths - that if things were bad enough, victims would just leave; that a violent person cannot become nonviolent; that shelter is an adequate response; and most insidiously that violence inside the home is a private matter, sealed from the public sphere and disconnected from other forms of violence.
Through the stories of victims, perpetrators, law enforcement and reform movements from across the country, Snyder explores the real roots of private violence, its far-reaching consequences for society and what it will take to truly address it.
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At age 19, Natasha Trethewey had her world turned upside down when her former stepfather shot and killed her mother. Grieving and still new to adulthood, she confronted the twin pulls of life and death in the aftermath of unimaginable trauma and now explores the way this experience lastingly shaped the artist she became. With penetrating insight and a searing voice that moves from the wrenching to the elegiac, Pulitzer Prize-winning poet Natasha Trethewey explores this profound experience of pain, loss, and grief.
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poetic
- By Amazon Customer on 08-03-20
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Surviving
- Why We Stay and How We Leave Abusive Relationships
- By: Beverly Gooden
- Narrated by: Beverly Gooden
- Length: 8 hrs and 9 mins
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Surviving is unlike any memoir of survivorship, given its nuance, compassion, and candor. Above all, it is an exquisitely powerful testament to Gooden’s healing, survivorship, and dedication to helping others do the same.
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Excellent Healing Guide
- By n.o. on 07-23-22
By: Beverly Gooden
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Coercive Control in Children's and Mothers' Lives
- By: Emma Katz
- Narrated by: Katherine Anderson
- Length: 13 hrs and 51 mins
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Coercive control is a form of domestic violence experienced by millions of children. It involves a perpetrator using a range of tactics to intimidate, humiliate, degrade, exploit, isolate, and control a partner or family member. Some coercive control perpetrators use violence, others do not. Drawing on interviews with children and mothers who have experienced coercive control-based domestic violence, this book sheds light on the impacts of coercive control on children, how it is perpetrators who must be held accountable for those impacts, and how resistance by children and mothers occurs.
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Trauma and Recovery
- The Aftermath of Violence - from Domestic Abuse to Political Terror
- By: Judith Lewis Herman MD
- Narrated by: Alison Mathews, Xe Sands
- Length: 12 hrs and 30 mins
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Trauma and Recovery is revered as the seminal text on understanding trauma survivors. By placing individual experience in a broader political frame, Harvard psychiatrist Judith Herman argues that psychological trauma is inseparable from its social and political context. Drawing on her own research on incest, as well as a vast literature on combat veterans and victims of political terror, she shows surprising parallels between private horrors like child abuse and public horrors like war.
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Answers to many "why" questions.
- By Bruja on 06-21-22
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Children of Coercive Control
- By: Evan Stark
- Narrated by: Mike Lenz
- Length: 17 hrs and 27 mins
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Children of Coercive Control extends Evan Stark's path-breaking analysis of interpersonal violence to children, showing that coercive control is the most important cause and context of child abuse and child homicide outside a war zone, as well as of the sexual abuse, denigration, exploitation, isolation, and subordination of children. The book provides a working model of the coercive control of children and illustrates its dynamics and consequences with dramatic cases drawn from the headlines and Dr. Stark's forensic practice.
By: Evan Stark
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Assume Nothing
- A Story of Intimate Violence
- By: Tanya Selvaratnam
- Narrated by: Tanya Selvaratnam
- Length: 6 hrs and 9 mins
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Award-winning filmmaker Tanya Selvaratnam bravely recounts the intimate abuse she suffered from former New York State Attorney General Eric Schneiderman, using her story as a prism to examine the domestic violence crisis plaguing America. Sensitive and nuanced, Assume Nothing details how Tanya’s relationship devolved into abuse, how she found the strength to leave - risking her career, reputation, and life - and how she reclaimed her freedom and her voice.
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Assume Nothing
- By Diane Freaney on 11-08-21
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Everything I Never Dreamed
- My Life Surviving and Standing Up to Domestic Violence
- By: Ruth M. Glenn
- Narrated by: Ruth M. Glenn
- Length: 10 hrs and 23 mins
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Ruth M. Glenn wasn’t surprised the first time her husband beat her. She was hurt and disappointed but after a childhood in a broken and violent home, she was not surprised. After all, this was just the way things were, right? It was only after she lay bleeding in a carwash parking lot, after being shot three times by him, that Glenn resolved—if she managed to survive—to spend the rest of her life standing up to domestic violence.
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he incredible story of survival and thriving after domestic violence.
- By Gaylene Sevy on 05-08-24
By: Ruth M. Glenn
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We Were Once a Family
- A Story of Love, Death, and Child Removal in America
- By: Roxanna Asgarian
- Narrated by: Suehyla El-Attar
- Length: 7 hrs and 34 mins
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On March 26, 2018, rescue workers discovered a crumpled SUV and the bodies of two women and several children at the bottom of a cliff beside the Pacific Coast Highway. Investigators soon concluded that the crash was a murder-suicide, but there was more to the story: Jennifer and Sarah Hart, it turned out, were a white married couple who had adopted the six Black children from two different Texas families in 2006 and 2008. Behind the family's loving facade, however, was a pattern of abuse and neglect that went ignored.
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Biased
- By Amazon Customer on 10-05-23
By: Roxanna Asgarian
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Dear Sister
- A Memoir of Secrets, Survival, and Unbreakable Bonds
- By: Michelle Horton
- Narrated by: Michelle Horton
- Length: 11 hrs and 9 mins
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In this "incendiary" memoir, a woman fights the criminal justice system to release her incarcerated sister after she kills her longtime abuser (Publishers Weekly).
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Must listen!
- By Erin Wheeler on 02-04-24
By: Michelle Horton
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Crazy Love
- A Memoir
- By: Leslie Morgan Steiner
- Narrated by: Tanya Eby Sirois
- Length: 8 hrs and 44 mins
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Leslie Morgan Steiner met the love of her life at age 22, soon after graduating from Harvard and starting her first job at Seventeen magazine in New York. She fell for his self-deprecating wit and street smarts - and especially his unabashed worship of her. They married and spent four years together. At first Leslie felt like the woman of his dreams. Then she discovered her husband had been beaten as a child, taught by his parents that intimacy and rage danced together.
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Racist
- By Kevin Rice on 01-27-21
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When Dad Hurts Mom
- Helping Your Children Heal the Wounds of Witnessing Abuse
- By: Lundy Bancroft
- Narrated by: Randye Kaye
- Length: 10 hrs and 52 mins
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Can my partner abuse me and still be a good parent? Should I stay with my partner for my children's sake? How should I talk to my children about the abuse and help them heal? Am I a bad mother? Mothers in physically or emotionally abusive relationships ask themselves these questions every day. Whether it's physical or "just" emotional abuse, whether it's aimed at them or you, whether they see or hear it, your kids need you.
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Great information. Not the best narrator.
- By RT on 06-28-19
By: Lundy Bancroft
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If I am Missing or Dead
- A Sister's Story of Love, Murder, and Liberation
- By: Janine Latus
- Narrated by: Shelly Frasier
- Length: 8 hrs and 53 mins
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In April 2002, Janine Latus' youngest sister, Amy, wrote a note and taped it to the inside of her desk drawer. "Today Ron Ball and I are romantically involved", it read, "but I fear I have placed myself at risk in a variety of ways. Based on his criminal past, writing this out just seems like the smart thing to do. If I am missing or dead this obviously has not protected me...."
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All About Janine
- By Ellen on 07-02-07
By: Janine Latus
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The Verbally Abusive Man, Can He Change?
- A Woman's Guide to Deciding Whether to Stay or Go
- By: Patricia Evans
- Narrated by: Laural Merlington
- Length: 7 hrs and 20 mins
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Coupling stories of abused women and abusive men from her own case studies, Patricia Evans here gives you the tools you need to transform your relationship. Most important, she assures you that such a transformation is possible—given the right circumstances. Evans also helps you determine if your abuser really has changed—or if he’s merely creating the illusion of change. And if he hasn’t changed, Evans helps you decide whether it’s time to leave the relationship—and what to do when it is.
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A gift to the emotionally violated
- By curious23m on 08-16-15
By: Patricia Evans
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- Amazon2
- 08-14-19
Story mixed w/ solutions for change.
So many great take aways and lots of insight into the painful world of domestic violance.
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- Taylor Saint John
- 08-31-22
A must read …
An eye-opening and painful look at Domestic violence, ever person should read this book to be aware of and perhaps help prevent DV
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- Eva Naser
- 02-26-23
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What a wonderful book. I learned a lot even as a DV expert. Thank you for all the information and inspiration!
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- J. Biggs
- 04-06-23
All the stars, must listen
All the stars for this book. And the book I wish existed while I did domestic violence advocacy for 8 years in my 20s. Rachel Snyder breaks down domestic violence to its core with stories of survivors, and many stories where there were no survivors. She explains why we judge, especially why women judge, women in these situations—saying they’d never be in the same situation “hit me once and I’ll be gone!”. But it’s not like that. It doesn’t start with a punch, it starts with what seems like “love”. I also love how she talks with perpetrators who are trying to turn their lives around, and showing how difficult it is to break that cycle. Citing that we need to offer more support to them, almost like AA, to open the doors on this cultural epidemic and not allow it to hide behind closed doors of shame.
I am proud to say that I worked for an amazing organization that provided much of the support she discussed in this book, but it also put roadblocks in front of women. Things seem to be getting better with that now, but the numbers aren’t decreasing.
Everyone should read this book, as everyone whether you know it or not, knows someone who is currently or has been abused by an intimate partner.
And if you need someone to talk to, call my friends at First Step in metro-Detroit ❤️ (734)722-6800
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- Anonymous User
- 06-25-23
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Sometimes a little one sided, but good information to have. It is old data, but that’s not surprising. I was thrilled that it was mentioned that not only women are domestic violence victims, as I have many male friends that are victims as well.
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- Family
- 05-18-23
For EVERYONE
So very eye-opening. I’m very grateful this book was recommended to me and I read it. Being read by the author made it even better. Will be telling everyone I know to read this. It should be read by everyone. Educating yourself is the first step to creating change.
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- Andrea Camacho
- 09-02-24
Outstanding & devastating
such a well written/well narrated piece on dv survivorship that deserves much more recognition. officially one of my favorite books on dv
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- Kyley Trimm
- 07-01-21
Learned so much, one bone to pick
I learned so much from this book, especially since it explains so much about the mentality of the abused. It is easy for people to say "if it was that bad, she would leave", but now I know that in most cases they stay because they are bargaining for their life and/or trying to give stability to their children. I would have never understood why the abused stay without this book. This book has given invaluable knowledge that I hope will make me better both professionally and personally. I have only one bone to pick: as a woman who owns an AR 15 and is planning on purchasing a hand gun, I hated that this book mentioned multiple times that the problem is the guns. Twice it mentions that there was a study where a guy asked 14 prisoners who murdered their spouses if they would have killed their wives if they didn't have a gun and 11 said "no". There is literally no way to prove that they would/or would not have killed their spouse without a gun, and I would take a murderer's words with a grain of salt. Also, in the afterward it mentioned that France and Spain have rising domestic violence, these two countries have some of the strictest gun laws in Europe, but don't take my word for it look it up. The problem begins with youth seeing violence and normalizing violence until adulthood, this book made that very evident. We need schools to teach the elements of healthy realtionships for both male and female adolescents. I feel empowered with my guns, and I truly believe that guns are the great equalizer. Guns can empower women if they go through training on how to use it and when to use it, especially women who have fled a domestic violence relationship and are starting their new life without the abuser. There are plenty of places that train women specifically on how to use guns, what kind is right for them, and when to use it. Other than the anti-gun agenda, I have gained invaluable knowledge from this book and will continue to reflect on all of these women's stories in hopes that one day domestic violence will have ZERO tolerance in our society. Thank you Rachel Snyder for sharing these stories and bringing light to this topic.
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- AvidReader
- 06-11-20
A must read for everyone
The statistics will blow your mind. This extremely timely book answers both questions: Why she stays and Why he doesn't leave and offers ways to help them both escape alive.
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- Saul LM Prombaum
- 08-15-19
A book with the power to transform men.
Any man who truly wants to be a better man, a more supportive partner and an effective parent, but doesn't know where to begin, should start with this book.
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