
Doing Time
How to Be Free in Your Marriage
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Regina Nelson
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Meri Horton
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Are you miserable in your marriage? If you are struggling in a painfully difficult marriage, you're not alone, and the story doesn't have to end there. In Doing Time, Meri Horton will teach you how to live a bondage-free marriage. Recognize and dismiss the lies that hold you hostage. Understand your behavior. Take responsibility for your actions. Make decisions that can have an enduring, positive effect on you and your spouse.
I believe that in every troubled marriage, individuals can take positive steps that have the potential to change the environment in their marriage. By the end of this book, you’ll be aware that it is possible to be free and have joy in your marriage. If you are ready to learn to be free in your marriage, continue listening.
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