
Every Heart Restored
A Wife's Guide to Healing in the Wake of a Husband's Sexual Sin
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Carla Mercer-Meyer
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Lyle Blaker
About this listen
Wholeness and Healing for Women Caught in the Crossfire.
As the wife of a man who is addicted to lust, pornography, or masturbation, you are not alone. Millions of men can't get through the day or the week without clicking on to their favorite Internet porn sites, thumbing through adult magazines, or watching sensual videos - and millions of wives suffer as a result.
Over the past decade, nearly 400,000 men have found inspiration and hope in Every Man's Battle, the best-selling men's guide to victory over sexual sin. Now, here at last is the book for every woman who has become a casualty in the fight for sexual purity. Every Heart Restored offers godly guidance and wisdom for a woman facing such personal betrayal.
- "What does God expect from me?"
- "How can I trust again?"
- "Is it possible to overcome pain and unforgiveness?"
- "Can my marriage be rebuilt?"
- "What if I just want out?"
Filled with stories from wives and husbands at every stage in the struggle for sexual purity, Every Heart Restored addresses the questions and real-life issues that matter to you most. Whether you are facing the startling new revelation of your husband's sin, dealing with a long-term problem, or cleaning out an old wound, Every Heart Restored will meet you where you are and guide you to healing greater than you imagine possible.
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- kathryn marshall
- 06-04-20
loved the book
i feel hopeful but alone. my husband cheats all the time and picks up prostitutes women & men . trys to force 3 somes on me saying if i loved him.
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- Jordan Moore
- 09-09-20
Great Resource
Although, as a hurting wife, I struggled in the beginning, maybe because I started it too soon on my journey of healing or maybe just because some facts presented are disgusting and heartbreaking. I had to take about a month break after I started it. Don’t let the start make you think it’s just a book of excuses. It comes back around. Once I was ready and picked the book back up, it was a great resource. The book truly carries on with some great hope, encouragement, and throughly-provoking questions. It is also filled with scripture and other couple’s stories.
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- 07-10-22
WOMEN GET OUT AND STAY OUT UNTIL GOD DEALS WITH HI
I am here to state that it is not a wife's responsibility to fight her husband's sin.
As a man and leader and priest of your home it is YOUR responsibility to go to Your God and deal with YOUR sin.
God made women the weaker vessel...like precious china. You are to live, honor and protect her.
If you are practicing sexual sin you are opening demonic doors that you cannot see that WILL affect your household. You are not a helpless participant.
If YOU are watching porn, masturbating, having sex with other women, men, children or animals THEN
YOU need to give your life to God for real, fast, pray, repent and choose to do the right thing and do not subject your wife and children to this rubbish. If you choose not to then that's between YOU and God not your wife.
Wives I know you want to save your marriage and the pain and embarrassment of a divorce but have you considered why this is the only reason God recognizes divorce? This is spiritual murder to your soul. Get out and let God have a conversation with HIM. You can't stop this. Save yourself and your children. Trust me God will help you. DO NOT ALLOW HIM TO PLAY THE HELPLESS VICTIM. PERIOD.
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- MVZ
- 03-04-20
Healing power
Full of tremendous healing power. Highly recommend to men and women to bring about the healing God desires in marriages.
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- hcmontessori
- 03-11-21
Good Book, However...
This is NOT the book you want to be reading if you are newly experiencing PTSD from a recent marital trauma due to porn / infidelity. For that, you NEED to get the book "Intimate Deception" by Dr. Sheri Keffer, another Christian author, who delves deeper into the subject on healing, rather than just restoring the marriage. But in this book, if I had just experienced a new trauma and was searching for some help, this is not the book. For sure, buy it, and when you've made the decision to repair the marriage, then read this book because it helps you walk through the process for doing just that and all the when's, what's, why's and hows. But if you're looking for ways to HEAL and need answers to why you feel crazy and worthless when a marital trauma happens to you, get "Intimate Deception" by Dr. Sheri Keffer. And only buy this one when your man has shown PROOF to you that he is actually ready to be your one and only. If you're not at that step in your journey yet, this book will make you angry and probably make things worse for you as the woman, because you can't just expect a man who isn't doing his own work to meet you half way. Just an FYI. But as for me, this actually DID help, as we were at a point in our journey to repair our marriage, almost 3 years past D-Day (discovery day), so this was a safe book to venture into. It took me 2 years to heal my trauma and find that I was not the cause. And if the marital infidelity landed on you like that too, you most likely have PTSD, too. Anyhow, this book had some good insight into why men are made the way they are, and how they operate. Buy it, and put it on your shelf (or virtual shelf), but save it until you are at the point where you are BOTH ready to heal your marriage... don't read it until then.
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