
Everybody's Normal Till You Get to Know Them
How Community Pays Tremendous Dividends in Happiness, Health, Support, and Growth
Failed to add items
Add to Cart failed.
Add to Wish List failed.
Remove from wishlist failed.
Adding to library failed
Follow podcast failed
Unfollow podcast failed

Get 2 free audiobooks during trial.
Buy for $22.49
No default payment method selected.
We are sorry. We are not allowed to sell this product with the selected payment method
-
Narrated by:
-
Jay Charles
-
By:
-
John Ortberg
About this listen
Unpack the secrets of strong, thriving communities and relationships.
When we enter relationships with the illusion that people are normal, we resist the truth that "normal" does not exist and that the very idea of normality runs counter to Scripture. We enter an endless attempt to fix others, control them, or pretend that they are what they're not. One of the great marks of maturity is to accept the fact that everybody comes "as is."
In Everybody's Normal Till You Get to Know Them, teacher and bestselling author John Ortberg zooms in on the things that make community work. You’ll get a thought-provoking look at God’s heart, at others, and at yourself. And you’ll gain wisdom and tools for drawing closer to others in powerful, impactful ways as Ortberg walks you through the secrets of strong, Christ-like relationships, unpacking qualities of healthy communities, such as:
- Forgiveness
- Confrontation
- Inclusion
- Gratitude
With humor, insight, and a gift for storytelling, Ortberg shows how community pays tremendous dividends in happiness, health, support, and growth. It’s where all of us weird, unwieldy people encounter God’s love in tangible ways and discover the transforming power of being loved, accepted, and valued just the way we are.
©2003 John Ortberg (P)2003 ZondervanListeners also enjoyed...
-
If You Want to Walk on Water, You've Got to Get Out of the Boat
- 10 Lessons to Trusting God
- By: John Ortberg
- Narrated by: Maurice England
- Length: 7 hrs and 51 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Deep within you lies the same faith and longing that sent Peter walking across the wind-swept Sea of Galilee toward Jesus. In what ways is the Lord telling you, as he did Peter, "Come"? Out on the risky waters of faith, Jesus is waiting to meet you in ways that will change you forever, deepening your character and your trust in God. The experience is terrifying. It's thrilling beyond belief. It's everything you'd expect of someone worthy to be called Lord.
-
-
The Most Annoying Narrator, EVER
- By Reza Molavi on 03-08-11
By: John Ortberg
-
The Life You've Always Wanted
- Spiritual Discipline for Ordinary People
- By: John Ortberg
- Narrated by: Jay Charles
- Length: 7 hrs and 29 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
The Life You've Always Wanted offers modern perspectives on the ancient path of the spiritual disciplines. But it is more than just a book about things to do to be a good Christian. It's a road map toward true transformation that starts not with the individual, but with the person at the journey's end - Jesus Christ.
-
-
Easy to Identify with - Good Practical Examples
- By Tim on 01-10-05
By: John Ortberg
-
The Me I Want to Be
- Becoming God's Best Version of You
- By: John Ortberg
- Narrated by: John Ortberg
- Length: 6 hrs and 43 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
The Me I Want to Be will help you discover spiritual vitality like never before as you learn to "live in the flow of the spirit." Pastor and best-selling author John Ortberg first helps gauge your spiritual health and measure the gap between where you are now and where God intends you to be. Then he provides detailed tasks and exercises to help you live in the flow of the Spirit, circumventing real-world barriers - pain and sorrow, temptations, self-doubt, sin - to flourish even in a dark and broken world.
-
-
Have listened several times
- By Thomas on 03-20-11
By: John Ortberg
-
God Is Closer Than You Think
- How Intimacy with God Can Happen Right Now
- By: John Ortberg
- Narrated by: John Ortberg
- Length: 4 hrs and 34 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
The Bible is filled with examples of an intimate God, a God keenly interested in connecting with ordinary people. He promises to be with us. He says he will personally guide us. Yet somehow, intimacy with God eludes us. Caught up in the mainstream of life, we know we're missing something vital. But how do we attain it?
-
-
Great listen again and again
- By Leslie on 09-18-07
By: John Ortberg
-
All the Places to Go...How Will You Know?
- God Has Placed Before You an Open Door. What Will You Do?
- By: John Ortberg
- Narrated by: Todd Busteed
- Length: 6 hrs and 56 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Very rarely in the Bible does God command someone to "stay". He opens a door, and then he invites us to walk through it—into the unknown. And how we choose to respond will ultimately determine the lives we will lead and the people we will become. In fact, to fail to embrace the open door is to miss the work God has made for us to do. In All the Places to Go...How Will You Know?, best-selling author John Ortberg opens our eyes to the countless doors God places before us every day.
-
-
Really enjoyed this!
- By Tobi Stone on 07-20-16
By: John Ortberg
-
The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry
- How to Stay Emotionally Healthy and Spiritually Alive in the Chaos of the Modern World
- By: John Mark Comer, John Ortberg - foreword
- Narrated by: John Mark Comer, Kris Koscheski
- Length: 5 hrs and 20 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
"Who am I becoming?" That was the question nagging pastor and author John Mark Comer. Outwardly, he appeared successful. But inwardly, things weren’t pretty. So, he turned to a trusted mentor for guidance and heard these words: "Ruthlessly eliminate hurry from your life. Hurry is the great enemy of the spiritual life." It wasn’t the response he expected, but it was - and continues to be - the answer he needs. Within this audiobook, you’ll find a fascinating road map to staying emotionally healthy and spiritually alive in the chaos of the modern world.
-
-
Pedantic and Patronizing
- By Hannah Raveling on 08-06-20
By: John Mark Comer, and others
-
If You Want to Walk on Water, You've Got to Get Out of the Boat
- 10 Lessons to Trusting God
- By: John Ortberg
- Narrated by: Maurice England
- Length: 7 hrs and 51 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Deep within you lies the same faith and longing that sent Peter walking across the wind-swept Sea of Galilee toward Jesus. In what ways is the Lord telling you, as he did Peter, "Come"? Out on the risky waters of faith, Jesus is waiting to meet you in ways that will change you forever, deepening your character and your trust in God. The experience is terrifying. It's thrilling beyond belief. It's everything you'd expect of someone worthy to be called Lord.
-
-
The Most Annoying Narrator, EVER
- By Reza Molavi on 03-08-11
By: John Ortberg
-
The Life You've Always Wanted
- Spiritual Discipline for Ordinary People
- By: John Ortberg
- Narrated by: Jay Charles
- Length: 7 hrs and 29 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
The Life You've Always Wanted offers modern perspectives on the ancient path of the spiritual disciplines. But it is more than just a book about things to do to be a good Christian. It's a road map toward true transformation that starts not with the individual, but with the person at the journey's end - Jesus Christ.
-
-
Easy to Identify with - Good Practical Examples
- By Tim on 01-10-05
By: John Ortberg
-
The Me I Want to Be
- Becoming God's Best Version of You
- By: John Ortberg
- Narrated by: John Ortberg
- Length: 6 hrs and 43 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
The Me I Want to Be will help you discover spiritual vitality like never before as you learn to "live in the flow of the spirit." Pastor and best-selling author John Ortberg first helps gauge your spiritual health and measure the gap between where you are now and where God intends you to be. Then he provides detailed tasks and exercises to help you live in the flow of the Spirit, circumventing real-world barriers - pain and sorrow, temptations, self-doubt, sin - to flourish even in a dark and broken world.
-
-
Have listened several times
- By Thomas on 03-20-11
By: John Ortberg
-
God Is Closer Than You Think
- How Intimacy with God Can Happen Right Now
- By: John Ortberg
- Narrated by: John Ortberg
- Length: 4 hrs and 34 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
The Bible is filled with examples of an intimate God, a God keenly interested in connecting with ordinary people. He promises to be with us. He says he will personally guide us. Yet somehow, intimacy with God eludes us. Caught up in the mainstream of life, we know we're missing something vital. But how do we attain it?
-
-
Great listen again and again
- By Leslie on 09-18-07
By: John Ortberg
-
All the Places to Go...How Will You Know?
- God Has Placed Before You an Open Door. What Will You Do?
- By: John Ortberg
- Narrated by: Todd Busteed
- Length: 6 hrs and 56 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Very rarely in the Bible does God command someone to "stay". He opens a door, and then he invites us to walk through it—into the unknown. And how we choose to respond will ultimately determine the lives we will lead and the people we will become. In fact, to fail to embrace the open door is to miss the work God has made for us to do. In All the Places to Go...How Will You Know?, best-selling author John Ortberg opens our eyes to the countless doors God places before us every day.
-
-
Really enjoyed this!
- By Tobi Stone on 07-20-16
By: John Ortberg
-
The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry
- How to Stay Emotionally Healthy and Spiritually Alive in the Chaos of the Modern World
- By: John Mark Comer, John Ortberg - foreword
- Narrated by: John Mark Comer, Kris Koscheski
- Length: 5 hrs and 20 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
"Who am I becoming?" That was the question nagging pastor and author John Mark Comer. Outwardly, he appeared successful. But inwardly, things weren’t pretty. So, he turned to a trusted mentor for guidance and heard these words: "Ruthlessly eliminate hurry from your life. Hurry is the great enemy of the spiritual life." It wasn’t the response he expected, but it was - and continues to be - the answer he needs. Within this audiobook, you’ll find a fascinating road map to staying emotionally healthy and spiritually alive in the chaos of the modern world.
-
-
Pedantic and Patronizing
- By Hannah Raveling on 08-06-20
By: John Mark Comer, and others
-
I'd Like You More If You Were More like Me
- Getting Real About Getting Close
- By: John Ortberg
- Narrated by: Dean Gallagher
- Length: 8 hrs and 37 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
I'd Like You More If You Were More like Me takes on one of life's most important questions: How can I get closer to God and other people? We were created for deep connections. When people have deep connections, says John Ortberg, they win in life. When they don't have deep connections, they cannot win in life. I'd Like You More If You Were More like Me offers help in overcoming one of the biggest obstacles to making deep connections: the fact that we're so different. Different from God and different from each other.
-
-
Terrible Title Fabulous Book!
- By 3boymama on 10-03-18
By: John Ortberg
-
Life Changing Love
- Moving God's Love From Your Head to Your Heart
- By: John Ortberg
- Narrated by: John Patrick Walsh
- Length: 6 hrs and 33 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In Life Changing Love, John Ortberg reveals the God you've longed to encounter: a Father head over heels in love with you, his child, who is intensely committed to your highest joy. Ortberg takes you to the very core of God's being to discover a burning, passionate love that gives and gives and gives. He explores the life-changing ways this love has expressed itself through Jesus.
-
-
Decent book, below average narration
- By Jake on 02-07-17
By: John Ortberg
-
Soul Keeping
- Caring for the Most Important Part of You
- By: John Ortberg
- Narrated by: Tommy Cresswell
- Length: 6 hrs and 8 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
When is the last time you thought about the state of your soul? Bestselling author John Ortberg guides you through practical steps to restoring your soul so you can finally experience a life of wholeness, balance, and hope.
-
-
Dallas Willard for Dummies
- By Marty Villa on 06-29-15
By: John Ortberg
-
Who Is This Man?
- The Unpredictable Impact of the Inescapable Jesus
- By: John Ortberg
- Narrated by: Arthur Morey
- Length: 7 hrs and 40 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Best-selling author John Ortberg shares how Jesus' influence has swept over history and how his vision of life continues to impact humanity today. Jesus' impact on our world is highly unlikely, widely inescapable, largely unknown, and decidedly double-edged. It is unlikely in light of the severe limitations of his earthly life; it is inescapable because of the range of impact; it is unknown because history doesn't connect dots; and it is doubled-edged because his followers have wreaked so much havoc, often in his name.
-
-
NOT narrated by John Ortberg, sadly
- By T. Harris on 08-15-12
By: John Ortberg
-
Love Beyond Reason
- Moving God's Love from Your Head to Your Heart
- By: John Ortberg
- Narrated by: John Patrick Walsh
- Length: 6 hrs and 33 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Reveals the God you've longed to encounter: a Father head-over-heals in love with you and committed to your highest joy.
-
-
Love Beyond Reason (Unabridged)
- By Tim on 09-21-09
By: John Ortberg
-
Seasons of Sorrow
- The Pain of Loss and the Comfort of God
- By: Tim Challies
- Narrated by: Tim Challies
- Length: 5 hrs and 56 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
On November 3, 2020, Tim and Aileen Challies received the shocking news that their son Nick had died. A twenty-year-old student at The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary in Louisville, Kentucky, he had been participating in a school activity with his fiancée, sister, and friends, when he fell unconscious and collapsed to the ground. Neither students nor a passing doctor nor paramedics were able to revive him. His parents received the news at their home in Toronto and immediately departed for Louisville. While on the plane, Tim began to process his loss through writing.
-
-
there is hope in loss and suffering
- By lorraine neri on 10-22-22
By: Tim Challies
-
A Tale of Three Kings
- By: Gene Edwards
- Narrated by: Paul Michael
- Length: 1 hr and 42 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
This modern classic will bring light, clarity, and comfort to the brokenhearted. Many Christians have experienced pain, loss, and heartache at the hands of other believers. To those believers, this compelling story offers comfort, healing and hope. Christian leaders and directors of religious movements throughout the world have recommended this simple, powerful, and beautiful story to their members and staff. You will want to join these other people who have been profoundly touched by this incomparable story.
-
-
A great way to see the scriptures.
- By comediancdawg on 10-14-21
By: Gene Edwards
-
All My Knotted-Up Life
- A Memoir
- By: Beth Moore
- Narrated by: Beth Moore
- Length: 8 hrs and 29 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
All My Knotted-Up Life is a beautifully crafted portrait of resilience and survival, a poignant reminder of God’s enduring faithfulness, and proof positive that if we ever truly took the time to hear people’s full stories . . . we’d all walk around slack-jawed.
-
-
Finished in one day
- By nedmac mama on 02-22-23
By: Beth Moore
-
The Emotionally Healthy Leader
- How Transforming Your Inner Life Will Deeply Transform Your Church, Team, and the World
- By: Peter Scazzero
- Narrated by: Peter Scazzero
- Length: 10 hrs and 54 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In The Emotionally Healthy Leader, bestselling author Peter Scazzero shows leaders how to develop a deep, inner life with Christ, examining its profound implications for surviving stress, planning and decision making, building teams, creating healthy culture, influencing others, and much more.
-
-
The book was good but could have been much better
- By Brian Richards on 05-03-18
By: Peter Scazzero
-
Live No Lies
- Recognize and Resist the Three Enemies That Sabotage Your Peace
- By: John Mark Comer
- Narrated by: John Mark Comer
- Length: 7 hrs and 12 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
We are at war. Not with a foreign government or domestic terrorists or a creepy new artificial intelligence hell-bent on taking over the world. No, it’s a war we feel deep inside our own chests: we are at war with lies. The problem isn’t so much that we tell lies but that we live them. We let them into our bodies, and they sabotage our peace.
-
-
Is this a political book?
- By Kickngrass on 11-30-21
By: John Mark Comer
-
Doing Life with Your Adult Children
- Keep Your Mouth Shut and the Welcome Mat Out
- By: Jim Burns PhD
- Narrated by: Wayne Campbell
- Length: 4 hrs and 18 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
If you've raised a child, you know that parenting doesn't stop when they turn eighteen. In many ways, your relationship gets even more complicated--your heart and your head are as involved as ever, but you can feel things shifting, whether your child lives under your roof or rarely stays in contact. Doing Life with Your Adult Children helps you navigate this rich and challenging season of parenting. Speaking from his own personal and professional experience, Burns offers practical answers to the most common questions he's received over the years.
-
-
Some good points but...
- By Millie on 06-15-19
By: Jim Burns PhD
-
The Spirit of the Disciplines
- Understanding How God Changes Lives
- By: Dallas Willard
- Narrated by: Robertson Dean
- Length: 9 hrs and 46 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Dallas Willard, one of today's most brilliant Christian thinkers and the author of The Divine Conspiracy ( Christianity Today's 1999 Book of the Year), presents a way of living that enables ordinary men and women to enjoy the fruit of the Christian life.
-
-
Drivel
- By Amazon Customer on 07-09-18
By: Dallas Willard
There are other books that I wish were available on audible.
Great Time Listening
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
outstanding
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
The need for community
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
Great read or listen.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
It explains just how were all a work in progress, and John will give you the steps to get yourself, & help others achieve community, on earth, as it is in heaven..
everybody normal till, you get to now them
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
Not his best book
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
Great book
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
Easy Read
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
This is an important book to read right now....
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
Practical
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.