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Long-Term Leverage

Why Chasing Love Puts You in a Position of Weakness and Makes You Less Desirable

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Long-Term Leverage

By: Jesse Tyler
Narrated by: John Hammer
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A woman would rather be single than be with a man she’s not attracted to. Just because you are in a relationship with her doesn't mean the work is over. If you’ve ever been in a relationship with a woman, you may have noticed she loses attraction over time. This book reveals how to keep power long-term in your relationships with women. You need to understand the language of women and the realities of today’s dating environment to maintain leverage at all times.

Most men fall into the same traps in long-term relationships. They end up losing leverage and turning women off because they are not aware of the game they’re in—and they don’t even know it.

In this book, I’ll outline the rules required to maintain a woman’s attraction, respect, and genuine desire over time. I want you to have the power in the relationship, not her.

You’ll discover:

  • How to maintain attraction and leverage through the years so you are always in control
  • All the things men do wrong in long-term relationships
  • Why women stop respecting and desiring men over time—and the hidden behaviors that cause it
  • How to flip the dynamic when she’s losing attraction, but more importantly, how to avoid it from happening in the first place
  • How to maintain attraction and leverage when cohabitating and/or married
  • How over-validating a woman leads to contempt and disrespect over time
  • The feelings you need to maintain over time for her to keep being attracted to you
  • Why the harder you try to please her, the colder she becomes—and the simple shift that makes her chase you again
  • How to avoid her losing attraction for you and how to become the man she respects, desires, and wants to stay with long-term
  • Why women crave challenge and uncertainty from their man—even if they never admit it

If you want to understand how this works, stop what you are doing wrong, and regain her attraction, then scroll up and click the “Add to Cart” button now and I will help you figure this out.

©2025 Kevin Almiron (P)2025 Kevin Almiron
Love, Dating & Attraction Marriage & Long-Term Partnerships Personal Development Personal Success Relationships
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This audiobook opened my eyes to how chasing love can actually push people away. It explains things in a clear and honest way. I liked how it focuses on building self-respect and long term value instead of quick fixes. A good listen for anyone tired of feeling powerless in relationship.

Built My Confidence

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This is a controversial listen about finding and keeping love. Whilst I don’t necessarily agree with the dominant style or having leverage over someone, I do like keeping mutual attraction and keeping that attraction going. It does also talk about how to keep a love long term and keeping that attraction going with your partner. Worth a listen for sure!

A controversial listen about love

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I didn’t realize how much I was over investing in people who weren’t doing the same. This gave me a major mindset reset, less about “winning” someone over and more about valuing myself first. The way it breaks down the dynamic of chasing really clicked for me. I’ve started approaching relationships with way more confidence and way less stress. If you’ve ever felt like you’re always the one trying harder, this hits the nail on the head.

Completely Shifted How I See Dating

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I picked this up after another relationship didn’t work out, and it made me think differently about how I’ve been approaching love. It pointed out patterns I didn’t even realize I had—like always being the one chasing or overthinking things. The ideas were clear and made sense without trying too hard to impress. I’m now more focused on my own goals instead of trying to prove myself to someone else. Definitely gave me a new perspective.

Shifted How I View Dating

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This book made me take a hard look at how I’ve approached relationships. I used to constantly chase connection and approval, but it was exhausting and never worked out well. The insights here helped me shift my mindset and stop trying so hard. I’ve actually felt more confident and grounded since applying a few of the ideas. It’s not about playing games—it’s about valuing yourself first. Definitely gave me a new perspective I didn’t know I needed.

Helped Me Rethink Dating

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I went into Long Term Leverage thinking it might just be another don’t text first dating rant. Nope. It called me out in a good way. The idea that chasing love actually drains your power? That hit. I started noticing patterns in my own relationships I never questioned before. The narration felt like tough love from a smart older brother. It’s not about playing games it’s about playing smarter. Definitely reshaped how I show up in dating and life.

This Book Flipped My Perspective Hard

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Long-Term Leverage presents a bold take on dating and relationships, stating that chasing love weakens your position and desirability, While I didn’t fully agree with the idea that pursuing love automatically puts someone at a disadvantage, the author take encourages self-respect and emotional independence

The book touches on some valid points about boundaries, self-worth, and not settling for less.
It made me reflect on how I approach emotional connections, even if I walked away with a different perspective.

Thought-Provoking

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The author presents some strong opinions, but it's humorous and entertaining overall. I liked listening to how men can perceive women when they (the men) are desperate to be in a relationship. From that angle, the author's observations may well be accurate, although they may not be as accurate in absolute terms. If you are a man who feels he has to chase a woman, or a woman who tends to attract such men, definitely give this audiobook a try; you won't regret it.

Some fun thoughts

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Okay, I listened to this out of pure curiosity, but I’ll admit—some parts made me nod because I’ve seen this play out in real life. What stood out most was the bit about over-validating and how it slowly chips away at respect. I sent that part to my husband (in the most loving way possible), and it actually sparked a good conversation between us. It’s definitely more geared toward men, but as a middle-aged woman, I could see how this would be helpful for a lot of guys who genuinely want to understand the dynamic better.

Some insights my husband actually needed

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The relationship between men and women is very complicated, both emotionally and physically. I think that the differences are what make and maintain a relationship with the same goal of happiness, and there are many perspectives on how they look at and judge each other. When you are in a position where you are only chasing a single gesture to be recognized, such things no longer make the other person feel attracted. Your self-esteem decreases, which can eventually affect the other person. This is where you are advised to change your approach. Before trying to fit in with someone else, it helps you look at yourself with confidence. Along with the author's intention for the readers, it tells you about the influence and maintenance methods that men, in particular, should have in relationships between men and women.

Better relationship

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