Non-Toxic Masculinity
Recovering Healthy Male Sexuality
Failed to add items
Add to Cart failed.
Add to Wish List failed.
Remove from wishlist failed.
Adding to library failed
Follow podcast failed
Unfollow podcast failed
Get 2 free audiobooks during trial.
Buy for $17.49
No default payment method selected.
We are sorry. We are not allowed to sell this product with the selected payment method
-
Narrated by:
-
Mike Chamberlain
-
By:
-
Zachary Wagner
About this listen
Dismissals such as "boys will be boys" and "not all men" are ingrained in our world. And the purity culture of our youth sold the same excuses with a spiritual spin. Can we break the toxic cycle and recover a healthy identity for men?
In Non-Toxic Masculinity, Zachary Wagner tells men, "If you are in Christ, this is your problem—and you should be part of the solution."
Reflecting on his own coming of age in the purity culture movement and ongoing recovery from sexual shame, Wagner confronts harmful teaching from the American church that has distorted desire, sex, relationships, and responsibility. For those—both men and women—who feel disillusioned and adrift, this book offers a renewed vision for Christian male sexuality founded in empathy and selflessness.
©2023 Zachary C. Wagner (P)2023 eChristianListeners also enjoyed...
-
The Woman They Wanted
- Shattering the Illusion of the Good Christian Wife
- By: Shannon Harris
- Narrated by: Shannon Harris
- Length: 5 hrs and 43 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
As a twenty-three-year-old singer and the soon-to-be wife of youth pastor Joshua Harris, nothing in Shannon Harris's secular upbringing prepared her to enter the world of conservative Christianity. Soon Joshua's bestselling book I Kissed Dating Goodbye helped inspire a national purity movement, and Shannon's identity became "pastor's wife." The Woman They Wanted recounts Shannon's remarkable experience inside Big Church—where she was asked to live within a narrow definition of womanhood for almost two decades—and her journey out of that world and into a more authentic version of herself.
-
-
Her Story is Our Story
- By Amazon Customer on 11-04-23
By: Shannon Harris
-
She Deserves Better
- Raising Girls to Resist Toxic Teachings on Sex, Self, and Speaking Up
- By: Sheila Wray Gregoire, Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach, Joanna Sawatsky
- Narrated by: Sheila Wray Gregoire, Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach
- Length: 7 hrs and 28 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
What if the goal of raising a Christian girl was about more than keeping her virginity intact? What if it was about raising a strong, independent young woman who knows who she is, uses her voice, and confidently steps into the life God has for her? From the authors of The Great Sex Rescue comes this evidence-based book grounded on surveys of over 28,000 women to offer moms a fresh, freeing, and biblically grounded message of sexuality and self-worth for their daughters that is less about the don'ts and more about the dos.
-
-
If you are a parent or ministry leader of women or young girls, I plead with you to read this book
- By Kirsten Salgado on 05-08-24
By: Sheila Wray Gregoire, and others
-
Tell Her Story
- How Women Led, Taught, and Ministered in the Early Church
- By: Nijay K. Gupta, Beth Allison Barr - foreword
- Narrated by: Nijay K. Gupta
- Length: 7 hrs and 22 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Women were there. For centuries, discussions of early Christianity have focused on male leaders in the church. But there is ample evidence right in the New Testament that women were actively involved in ministry, at the frontier of the gospel mission, and as respected leaders. Nijay Gupta calls us to bring these women out of the shadows by shining light on their many inspiring contributions to the planting, growth, and health of the first Christian churches.
-
-
Biblical exploration of women’s role in the Bible
- By Adam Shields on 08-18-23
By: Nijay K. Gupta, and others
-
The Bible vs. Biblical Womanhood
- How God's Word Consistently Affirms Gender Equality
- By: Philip Barton Payne
- Narrated by: Josh Childs
- Length: 5 hrs and 57 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
"Biblical womanhood" is the idea that the Bible teaches God-ordained male leadership and female submission in the home and subordination in the church. Some say this hierarchy of authority is sufficiently evidenced by examples of male leadership (and lack of female leadership) in the Bible: the first human was male, Israel's official priests were male, most authors of Scripture were male, Jesus was male and chose twelve male Apostles. God is addressed as Father. Wives are commanded to submit to their husbands.
-
-
Excellent
- By Julia on 07-22-23
-
The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
- Because Good Guys Make the Best Lovers
- By: Sheila Wray Gregoire, Keith Ronald Gregoire
- Narrated by: Sheila Wray Gregoire, Keith Gregoire
- Length: 6 hrs and 43 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
A candid companion to the best-selling guide for women, The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex gives you suggestions for a fulfilling sex life for both you and your wife, whether you're just starting out or simply want to make your sex life what you've always hoped it would be and aren't sure how to get there.
-
-
Religion-based.
- By JR on 08-02-23
By: Sheila Wray Gregoire, and others
-
Does the Bible Support Same-Sex Marriage?
- 21 Conversations from a Historically Christian View
- By: Preston Sprinkle
- Narrated by: Preston Sprinkle
- Length: 4 hrs and 51 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Many arguments are made for and against same-sex marriage that end with divisiveness and confusion instead of thoughtful conversation. New York Times-bestselling author Dr. Preston Sprinkle provides a resource that will encourage respectful and thoughtful conversations around the question “Does the Bible support same-sex marriage?” Equipped with thorough research, history, and biblical context, this book will enable you to wade into some of the main arguments against the historically Christian view of marriage.
-
-
The long answer
- By K-MOG on 07-07-24
By: Preston Sprinkle
-
The Woman They Wanted
- Shattering the Illusion of the Good Christian Wife
- By: Shannon Harris
- Narrated by: Shannon Harris
- Length: 5 hrs and 43 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
As a twenty-three-year-old singer and the soon-to-be wife of youth pastor Joshua Harris, nothing in Shannon Harris's secular upbringing prepared her to enter the world of conservative Christianity. Soon Joshua's bestselling book I Kissed Dating Goodbye helped inspire a national purity movement, and Shannon's identity became "pastor's wife." The Woman They Wanted recounts Shannon's remarkable experience inside Big Church—where she was asked to live within a narrow definition of womanhood for almost two decades—and her journey out of that world and into a more authentic version of herself.
-
-
Her Story is Our Story
- By Amazon Customer on 11-04-23
By: Shannon Harris
-
She Deserves Better
- Raising Girls to Resist Toxic Teachings on Sex, Self, and Speaking Up
- By: Sheila Wray Gregoire, Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach, Joanna Sawatsky
- Narrated by: Sheila Wray Gregoire, Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach
- Length: 7 hrs and 28 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
What if the goal of raising a Christian girl was about more than keeping her virginity intact? What if it was about raising a strong, independent young woman who knows who she is, uses her voice, and confidently steps into the life God has for her? From the authors of The Great Sex Rescue comes this evidence-based book grounded on surveys of over 28,000 women to offer moms a fresh, freeing, and biblically grounded message of sexuality and self-worth for their daughters that is less about the don'ts and more about the dos.
-
-
If you are a parent or ministry leader of women or young girls, I plead with you to read this book
- By Kirsten Salgado on 05-08-24
By: Sheila Wray Gregoire, and others
-
Tell Her Story
- How Women Led, Taught, and Ministered in the Early Church
- By: Nijay K. Gupta, Beth Allison Barr - foreword
- Narrated by: Nijay K. Gupta
- Length: 7 hrs and 22 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Women were there. For centuries, discussions of early Christianity have focused on male leaders in the church. But there is ample evidence right in the New Testament that women were actively involved in ministry, at the frontier of the gospel mission, and as respected leaders. Nijay Gupta calls us to bring these women out of the shadows by shining light on their many inspiring contributions to the planting, growth, and health of the first Christian churches.
-
-
Biblical exploration of women’s role in the Bible
- By Adam Shields on 08-18-23
By: Nijay K. Gupta, and others
-
The Bible vs. Biblical Womanhood
- How God's Word Consistently Affirms Gender Equality
- By: Philip Barton Payne
- Narrated by: Josh Childs
- Length: 5 hrs and 57 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
"Biblical womanhood" is the idea that the Bible teaches God-ordained male leadership and female submission in the home and subordination in the church. Some say this hierarchy of authority is sufficiently evidenced by examples of male leadership (and lack of female leadership) in the Bible: the first human was male, Israel's official priests were male, most authors of Scripture were male, Jesus was male and chose twelve male Apostles. God is addressed as Father. Wives are commanded to submit to their husbands.
-
-
Excellent
- By Julia on 07-22-23
-
The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
- Because Good Guys Make the Best Lovers
- By: Sheila Wray Gregoire, Keith Ronald Gregoire
- Narrated by: Sheila Wray Gregoire, Keith Gregoire
- Length: 6 hrs and 43 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
A candid companion to the best-selling guide for women, The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex gives you suggestions for a fulfilling sex life for both you and your wife, whether you're just starting out or simply want to make your sex life what you've always hoped it would be and aren't sure how to get there.
-
-
Religion-based.
- By JR on 08-02-23
By: Sheila Wray Gregoire, and others
-
Does the Bible Support Same-Sex Marriage?
- 21 Conversations from a Historically Christian View
- By: Preston Sprinkle
- Narrated by: Preston Sprinkle
- Length: 4 hrs and 51 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Many arguments are made for and against same-sex marriage that end with divisiveness and confusion instead of thoughtful conversation. New York Times-bestselling author Dr. Preston Sprinkle provides a resource that will encourage respectful and thoughtful conversations around the question “Does the Bible support same-sex marriage?” Equipped with thorough research, history, and biblical context, this book will enable you to wade into some of the main arguments against the historically Christian view of marriage.
-
-
The long answer
- By K-MOG on 07-07-24
By: Preston Sprinkle
-
How Far to the Promised Land
- One Black Family's Story of Hope and Survival in the American South
- By: Esau McCaulley
- Narrated by: Esau McCaulley
- Length: 5 hrs and 47 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
For much of his life, Esau McCaulley was taught to see himself as an exception: someone who, through hard work, faith, and determination, overcame childhood poverty, anti-Black racism, and an absent father to earn a job as a university professor and a life in the middle class.
-
-
An excellent story of Redemption
- By James Carmichael on 09-23-23
By: Esau McCaulley
-
The Toxic War on Masculinity
- How Christianity Reconciles the Sexes
- By: Nancy R. Pearcey
- Narrated by: Susan Hanfield
- Length: 14 hrs and 29 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
How did the idea arise that masculinity is dangerous and destructive? Bestselling author Nancy Pearcey leads you on a fascinating excursion through American history to discover why the script for masculinity turned toxic—and how to fix it. Pearcey then turns to surprising findings from sociology. Religion is often cast as a cause of domestic abuse. But research shows that authentically committed Christian men test out as the most loving and engaged husbands and fathers. They have the lowest rates of divorce and domestic violence of any group in America.
-
-
A lot of good stuff, with one issue.
- By Jared Hageman on 07-26-23
By: Nancy R. Pearcey
-
Five Lies of Our Anti-Christian Age
- By: Rosaria Butterfield, Kevin DeYoung - foreword
- Narrated by: Rosaria Butterfield
- Length: 11 hrs and 33 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Modern culture is increasingly outspoken against a biblical understanding of what it means to be a woman. Even some Christians, swayed by the LGBTQ+ movement, have rejected God’s word on issues of sexuality and gender in favor of popular opinion. In light of these pressures, it’s more important than ever to help women see the truth about who God created them to be. In this powerful book, Rosaria Butterfield uses Scripture to confront 5 common lies about sexuality, faith, feminism, gender roles, and modesty often promoted in our secular culture today.
-
-
I will update this
- By Brianna Elyssa on 11-19-23
By: Rosaria Butterfield, and others
-
Women and the Gender of God
- By: Amy Peeler
- Narrated by: Amy Peeler
- Length: 7 hrs and 54 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
While many Christians would readily affirm this truth, the widely held assumption that the Bible depicts a male God persists—as it has for centuries. This misperception of Christianity not only perniciously implies that men deserve an elevated place over women, but also compromises the glory of God by making God appear to be part of creation, subject to it and its categories, rather than in transcendence of it.
-
-
thought provoking book
- By Martin Homan on 08-11-24
By: Amy Peeler
-
How Not to Be an *ss
- Essays on Becoming a Good & Safe Man
- By: Andrew J. Bauman
- Narrated by: Adam Naranjo
- Length: 2 hrs and 46 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
I am a recovering ass. Of course, at times I still am one, but it's less often. I now recognize my “assness” more quickly, recalibrate, and take action to make amends for my poor behavior. It's important to acknowledge the truth of our mistakes without turning toward self-contempt, shame, or beating ourselves up for the harm we have caused to those we love. Yet, we must take full responsibility for our poor behavior and fully own what we have done and learn to live differently, becoming men who bring life rather than further heartache.
-
-
Men like Christ
- By Heather S on 11-05-24
By: Andrew J. Bauman
-
Losing Our Religion
- An Altar Call for Evangelical America
- By: Russell Moore
- Narrated by: Russell Moore
- Length: 6 hrs and 46 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
American evangelical Christianity has lost its way. While the witness of the church before a watching world is diminished beyond recognition, congregations are torn apart over Donald Trump, Christian nationalism, racial injustice, sexual predation, disgraced leaders, and covered-up scandals. Left behind are millions of believers who counted on the church to be a place of belonging and hope. As greater and greater numbers of younger Americans bleed out from the church, even the most rooted evangelicals are wondering, “Can American Christianity survive?”
-
-
A Prophetic Call to Renewal
- By Rachel Stanton on 07-26-23
By: Russell Moore
-
The Sexually Healthy Man
- Essays on Spirituality, Sexuality, & Restoration
- By: Andrew J. Bauman
- Narrated by: Adam Naranjo
- Length: 2 hrs and 13 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
I grew up in the Southern Baptist church of the '90s during the height of the True Love Waits movement, accompanied by Joshua Harris’ best seller, I Kissed Dating Goodbye. If you don’t know what I am referring to, consider yourself blessed. Many of the ideas perpetuated by this culture were infused with fear and shame, offering no practical help or guidance in equipping young people to become healthy sexual human beings.
-
-
The fact that even people who seem perfect have a past.
- By Elisabeth Louise Mizner on 06-07-24
By: Andrew J. Bauman
-
Beautiful Union
- How God's Vision for Sex Points Us to the Good, Unlocks the True, and (Sort of) Explains Everything
- By: Joshua Ryan Butler
- Narrated by: Joshua Ryan Butler
- Length: 7 hrs and 31 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Beautiful isn’t likely the first word that comes to mind when we think about sex. Our reactions are as varied as our experiences and backgrounds. Around us, our culture is divided by this topic. On one side, “progressive” voices seek to dismantle historic Christian teachings to fit current norms. On the other side, “conservative” voices can reinforce messages of shame, judgement, and repression. Beautiful Union offers a third way, one that is both true and beautiful.
-
-
This Hit Different
- By robbie on 11-25-23
-
The Evangelical Imagination
- How Stories, Images, and Metaphors Created a Culture in Crisis
- By: Karen Swallow Prior
- Narrated by: Susan Hanfield
- Length: 10 hrs and 19 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Acclaimed author Karen Swallow Prior examines evangelical history, both good and bad. By analyzing the literature, art, and popular culture that has surrounded evangelicalism, she unpacks some of the movement's most deeply held concepts, ideas, values, and practices to consider what is Christian rather than merely cultural. The result is a clearer path forward for evangelicals amid their current identity crisis—and insight for others who want a deeper understanding of what the term "evangelical" means today.
-
-
Fantastic Content, Unfortunate Narration
- By Matthew Carson on 09-02-23
-
The Meaning of Marriage
- Facing the Complexities of Commitment with the Wisdom of God
- By: Timothy Keller
- Narrated by: Lloyd James, Marguerite Gavin
- Length: 8 hrs and 15 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Few subjects are as compelling-or as endlessly variable-as love and marriage. The Bible is filled with references to husbands and wives, from the story of Adam and Eve to advice in the New Testament, each open to interpretation. In The Meaning of Marriage, Timothy Keller, pastor of New York's Redeemer Presbyterian Church and bestselling author of The Reason for God, uses the scriptures as his guide to show readers what God's call to marriage is, and why this is such a powerful call.
-
-
Now my most recommended book on marriage
- By Adam Shields on 01-26-12
By: Timothy Keller
-
American Idolatry
- How Christian Nationalism Betrays the Gospel and Threatens the Church
- By: Andrew L. Whitehead
- Narrated by: Andrew L. Whitehead
- Length: 6 hrs and 47 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Power. Fear. Violence. These three idols of Christian nationalism are corrupting American Christianity. Andrew Whitehead is a leading scholar on Christian nationalism in America and speaks widely on its effects within Christian communities. In this book, he shares his journey and reveals how Christian nationalism threatens the spiritual lives of American Christians and the church.
-
-
Excellent & Much Needed
- By David Dominguez on 04-30-24
-
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
- Creating a Marriage That's Both Holy and Hot
- By: Sheila Wray Gregoire
- Narrated by: Sheila Wray Gregoire
- Length: 6 hrs and 46 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Whether you're about to walk down the aisle or you've been married for decades, this revised and expanded edition of The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex by popular blogger and award-winning author Sheila Wray Gregoire will lead you on a wonderful journey of discovery toward the amazing sex life God designed you for.
-
-
tbush.jbush@yahoo.com
- By Tara Bush on 03-05-23
Related to this topic
-
Chasing Love
- Sex, Love, and Relationships in a Confused Culture
- By: Sean McDowell
- Narrated by: Chris Abell
- Length: 3 hrs and 57 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
The love that the world tells us to pursue is all about self, about following your heart’s desires. But what is the Christian worldview on love? When we follow Jesus, we realize that he invites us to reorient the focus of our lives, so instead of chasing love primarily for our own happiness, we are first and foremost to give love - to God and to others.
-
-
good stuff
- By chad johnson on 10-02-23
By: Sean McDowell
-
Still Time to Care
- What We Can Learn from the Church’s Failed Attempt to Cure Homosexuality
- By: Greg Johnson
- Narrated by: Tom Parks
- Length: 12 hrs and 18 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
At the start of the gay rights movement in 1969, evangelicalism's leading voices cast a vision for gay people who turn to Jesus. It was C.S. Lewis, Billy Graham, Francis Schaeffer, and John Stott who were among the most respected leaders within theologically orthodox Protestantism. We see with them a positive pastoral approach toward gay people, an approach that viewed homosexuality as a fallen condition experienced by some Christians who needed care more than cure.
-
-
Massively helpful book
- By rebecca on 04-11-22
By: Greg Johnson
-
Born Again This Way
- Coming Out, Coming to Faith, and What Comes Next
- By: Rachel Gilson
- Narrated by: Rachel Gilson
- Length: 3 hrs and 58 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In this powerful and personal book, author Rachel Gilson describes her own unexpected journey of coming out and coming to faith... and what came next. As she does so, she addresses many of the questions that Christians living with same-sex attraction are wrestling with: Am I consigned to a life of loneliness? How do I navigate my friendships? Will my desires ever change? Is there some greater purpose to all this?
-
-
BEST of the MANY I’ve read about SSA
- By Anonymous User on 02-12-21
By: Rachel Gilson
-
Rethinking Sexuality
- God’s Design and Why It Matters
- By: Dr. Juli Slattery, Gary Thomas - Foreword by
- Narrated by: Dr. Juli Slattery
- Length: 6 hrs and 6 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Sexual abuse, sex addiction, gender confusion, brokenness, and shame plague today's world, and people are seeking clarity and hope. By contesting long-held cultural paradigms, this book equips you to see how sexuality is rooted in the broader context of God's heart and his work for us on earth. Instead of arguing with the world about what's right and wrong about sexual choices, this practical resource equips you to share the love and grace of Jesus as you encounter the pain of sexual brokenness - your own or someone else's.
-
-
Raw, Real, & Honest
- By Bianca on 05-02-19
By: Dr. Juli Slattery, and others
-
Real Marriage
- The Truth About Sex, Friendship, and Life Together
- By: Mark Driscoll, Grace Driscoll
- Narrated by: Tavia Gilbert, William Dufris
- Length: 8 hrs and 51 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Pastor Mark Driscoll and his wife, Grace, talk about sex and marriage in down-to-earth terms, hitting issues other Christian books won't. While a wonderful wedding day is important, it's the last day of marriage that really counts. Will the last day of your marriage come prematurely through divorce? Will it be filled with regrets as you sit at the funeral of your spouse? Or, by God's grace, will the last day be a time to rejoice in the life you lived together?
-
-
Great Marriage Book!! Read, Don't Listen...
- By Stephen and Julie George on 05-20-12
By: Mark Driscoll, and others
-
People to Be Loved
- Why Homosexuality Is Not Just an Issue
- By: Preston Sprinkle, Wesley Hill - foreword
- Narrated by: Adam Verner
- Length: 6 hrs and 37 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Christians who are confused by the homosexuality debate raging in the US are looking for resources that are based solidly on a deep study of what Scripture says about the issue. In People to Be Loved, Preston Sprinkle challenges those on all sides of the debate to consider what the Bible says and how we should approach the topic of homosexuality in light of it.
-
-
Shallow Empathy
- By Taylor on 02-18-21
By: Preston Sprinkle, and others
-
Chasing Love
- Sex, Love, and Relationships in a Confused Culture
- By: Sean McDowell
- Narrated by: Chris Abell
- Length: 3 hrs and 57 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
The love that the world tells us to pursue is all about self, about following your heart’s desires. But what is the Christian worldview on love? When we follow Jesus, we realize that he invites us to reorient the focus of our lives, so instead of chasing love primarily for our own happiness, we are first and foremost to give love - to God and to others.
-
-
good stuff
- By chad johnson on 10-02-23
By: Sean McDowell
-
Still Time to Care
- What We Can Learn from the Church’s Failed Attempt to Cure Homosexuality
- By: Greg Johnson
- Narrated by: Tom Parks
- Length: 12 hrs and 18 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
At the start of the gay rights movement in 1969, evangelicalism's leading voices cast a vision for gay people who turn to Jesus. It was C.S. Lewis, Billy Graham, Francis Schaeffer, and John Stott who were among the most respected leaders within theologically orthodox Protestantism. We see with them a positive pastoral approach toward gay people, an approach that viewed homosexuality as a fallen condition experienced by some Christians who needed care more than cure.
-
-
Massively helpful book
- By rebecca on 04-11-22
By: Greg Johnson
-
Born Again This Way
- Coming Out, Coming to Faith, and What Comes Next
- By: Rachel Gilson
- Narrated by: Rachel Gilson
- Length: 3 hrs and 58 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In this powerful and personal book, author Rachel Gilson describes her own unexpected journey of coming out and coming to faith... and what came next. As she does so, she addresses many of the questions that Christians living with same-sex attraction are wrestling with: Am I consigned to a life of loneliness? How do I navigate my friendships? Will my desires ever change? Is there some greater purpose to all this?
-
-
BEST of the MANY I’ve read about SSA
- By Anonymous User on 02-12-21
By: Rachel Gilson
-
Rethinking Sexuality
- God’s Design and Why It Matters
- By: Dr. Juli Slattery, Gary Thomas - Foreword by
- Narrated by: Dr. Juli Slattery
- Length: 6 hrs and 6 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Sexual abuse, sex addiction, gender confusion, brokenness, and shame plague today's world, and people are seeking clarity and hope. By contesting long-held cultural paradigms, this book equips you to see how sexuality is rooted in the broader context of God's heart and his work for us on earth. Instead of arguing with the world about what's right and wrong about sexual choices, this practical resource equips you to share the love and grace of Jesus as you encounter the pain of sexual brokenness - your own or someone else's.
-
-
Raw, Real, & Honest
- By Bianca on 05-02-19
By: Dr. Juli Slattery, and others
-
Real Marriage
- The Truth About Sex, Friendship, and Life Together
- By: Mark Driscoll, Grace Driscoll
- Narrated by: Tavia Gilbert, William Dufris
- Length: 8 hrs and 51 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Pastor Mark Driscoll and his wife, Grace, talk about sex and marriage in down-to-earth terms, hitting issues other Christian books won't. While a wonderful wedding day is important, it's the last day of marriage that really counts. Will the last day of your marriage come prematurely through divorce? Will it be filled with regrets as you sit at the funeral of your spouse? Or, by God's grace, will the last day be a time to rejoice in the life you lived together?
-
-
Great Marriage Book!! Read, Don't Listen...
- By Stephen and Julie George on 05-20-12
By: Mark Driscoll, and others
-
People to Be Loved
- Why Homosexuality Is Not Just an Issue
- By: Preston Sprinkle, Wesley Hill - foreword
- Narrated by: Adam Verner
- Length: 6 hrs and 37 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Christians who are confused by the homosexuality debate raging in the US are looking for resources that are based solidly on a deep study of what Scripture says about the issue. In People to Be Loved, Preston Sprinkle challenges those on all sides of the debate to consider what the Bible says and how we should approach the topic of homosexuality in light of it.
-
-
Shallow Empathy
- By Taylor on 02-18-21
By: Preston Sprinkle, and others
-
On Our Best Behavior
- The Seven Deadly Sins and the Price Women Pay to Be Good
- By: Elise Loehnen
- Narrated by: Elise Loehnen
- Length: 11 hrs and 54 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
We congratulate ourselves when we resist the donut in the office breakroom. We celebrate our restraint when we hold back from sending an email in anger. We feel virtuous when we wake up at dawn to get a jump on the day. We put others’ needs ahead of our own and believe this makes us exemplary. In On Our Best Behavior, journalist Elise Loehnen explains that these impulses—often lauded as unselfish, distinctly feminine instincts—are actually ingrained in us by a culture that reaps the benefits, via an extraordinarily effective collection of mores known as the Seven Deadly Sins.
-
-
Autobiography in Disguise
- By Lindsey on 06-11-23
By: Elise Loehnen
-
Holy Sexuality and the Gospel
- Sex, Desire, and Relationships Shaped by God's Grand Story
- By: Christopher Yuan
- Narrated by: Christopher Yuan
- Length: 7 hrs and 24 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Dr. Christopher Yuan explores the concept of holy sexuality - chastity in singleness or faithfulness in marriage - in a practical and relevant manner, equipping listeners with an accessible yet robust theology of sexuality. Whether you want to share Christ with a loved one who identifies as gay or you're wrestling with questions of identity yourself, this book will help you better understand sexuality in light of God's grand story and realize that holy sexuality is actually good news for all.
-
-
Hands down the best book on this topic
- By Kindle Customer on 07-11-22
By: Christopher Yuan
-
Stop Calling Me Beautiful
- Finding Soul-Deep Strength in a Skin-Deep World
- By: Phylicia Masonheimer
- Narrated by: Carla Mercer-Meyer
- Length: 5 hrs and 34 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
If you're tired of hearing the watered-down Christian teaching and hungry for a deeper spiritual life - one that gives real answers to your hardest questions - Stop Calling Me Beautiful teaches you how. Jesus doesn't offer a powerless salvation. He makes your brokenness part of his whole redemption story - if you allow him to. Don't settle for a feel-good faith. If you want victory over insecurity, fear, shame, and the circumstances you are facing, it's time to embrace Jesus. All of him.
-
-
not what I expected, in a good way!!
- By Kristin on 09-03-20
-
God Believes in Love
- Straight Talk About Gay Marriage
- By: Gene Robinson
- Narrated by: Gene Robinson
- Length: 5 hrs and 55 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
From Gene Robinson, the Bishop of the Diocese of New Hampshire in the Episcopal Church, the first openly gay person elected (in 2003) to the historic episcopate and the world's leading religious spokesperson for gay rights and gay marriage, comes a groundbreaking book that lovingly and persuasively makes the case for same-sex marriage. It establishes a commonsense, reasoned, religious argument, made by someone who holds the religious text of the Bible to be holy and sacred.
-
-
He nailed it!
- By Jamie on 12-27-12
By: Gene Robinson
-
The Holy Longing
- The Search for a Christian Spirituality
- By: Ronald Rolheiser
- Narrated by: Bill Loran
- Length: 9 hrs and 34 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Listeners will be fully engaged in a unique and altogether fascinating discussion of Christian spirituality. Rolheiser seeks to reconcile the rift between a smorgasbord of spiritual voices and an authentic Christian discipleship by the use of anecdotes, personal examples and a wide range of literary and cultural references. His starting point is the desire within us that longs irresistibly for fulfillment.
-
-
Great content
- By Allison Winter on 11-07-23
By: Ronald Rolheiser
-
Party of One
- Truth, Longing, and the Subtle Art of Singleness
- By: Joy Beth Smith
- Narrated by: Madeleine Rose
- Length: 5 hrs and 49 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Did you enter adulthood thinking marriage would find you, only to end up at a second-cousin's wedding, dodging yet another bouquet the night before you turned 30? Maybe you've started wondering if this the best the single life has to offer. Joy Beth Smith says it's not - that single life doesn't have to leave you constantly waiting for real life to begin. If you let go of the tired lies weighing you down, you can turn toward truth.
-
-
Have hope, but don’t wait...
- By Jules on 10-20-18
By: Joy Beth Smith
-
Loving Him Well
- Practical Advice on Influencing Your Husband
- By: Gary Thomas, Lisa Thomas - foreword
- Narrated by: Gary Thomas
- Length: 8 hrs and 4 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Women: you're not alone in your marriage. You never have been, and you never will be. While it may not always feel like it, God desires for you to have a relationally healthy, emotionally engaged, and spiritually mature husband with whom you can share your days. In Loving Him Well, Gary Thomas builds on concepts from his best-selling book Sacred Marriage to reveal the inner workings of a man's heart and mind. He delves into Scriptures that help women gain biblical insight to influence their husbands.
-
-
A must read for any wife!
- By James on 04-03-18
By: Gary Thomas, and others
-
No Perfect People Allowed
- By: John Burke
- Narrated by: Tom Casaletto
- Length: 12 hrs and 36 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
How do we live out the message of Jesus in today’s ever-changing culture? The church is facing its greatest challenge - and its greatest opportunity - in our postmodern, post-Christian world. God is drawing thousands of spiritually curious “imperfect people” to become his church - but how are we doing at welcoming them? No Perfect People Allowed shows you how to deconstruct the five main barriers standing between emerging generations and your church by creating the right culture.
-
-
No Perfect People Allowed
- By Robin on 04-19-09
By: John Burke
-
Lies Women Believe
- And the Truth That Sets Them Free
- By: Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth
- Narrated by: Pamela Klein
- Length: 9 hrs and 7 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In the best-selling Lies Women Believe, Nancy exposes these areas of deception most commonly believed by Christian women - lies about God, sin, priorities, marriage and family, emotions, and more. She then sheds light on how we can be delivered from bondage and set free to walk in God's grace, forgiveness, and abundant life. Nancy offers the most effective weapon to counter and overcome Satan's lies: God's truth!
-
-
The truth shall set you free
- By sprinkle on 09-30-18
-
Befriend
- Create Belonging in an Age of Judgment, Isolation, and Fear
- By: Scott Sauls
- Narrated by: Dean Gallagher
- Length: 6 hrs and 22 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Is real friendship too risky? We live in a world where real friendship is hard to find. Suspicious of others and insecure about ourselves, we retreat into the safety of our small, self-made digital worlds. Tragically, even the church can become a place that reinforces this isolation. Jesus models a much richer vision of friendship. Scott Sauls, pastor and teacher, invites you to see the breadth of Christ's love in this audiobook, Befriend.
-
-
Great post election therapy.
- By Manoli on 12-20-16
By: Scott Sauls
-
The 4 Habits of Joy Filled Marriages
- How 15 Minutes a Day Will Help You Stay in Love
- By: Marcus Warner, Chris Coursey
- Narrated by: Marcus Warner, Chris Coursey
- Length: 2 hrs and 51 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Discover the secrets behind deeper relational bonds and more consistent happiness in this new book about marriage by Marcus Warner and Chris Coursey. Healthy relationships regularly produce joy, and joy keeps the relationship healthy. But this kind of happiness and health in marriage isn't just for the lucky few who stumble upon it. It turns out that certain relational skills boost your happiness. Marcus Warner and Chris Coursey will teach you how to develop those skills.
-
-
A Book For Men
- By Emily on 12-01-21
By: Marcus Warner, and others
-
Divine Design
- God's Complementary Roles for Men and Women
- By: John MacArthur
- Narrated by: Maurice England
- Length: 6 hrs and 39 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
We're facing an identity crisis. For decades our culture has tried to blur the lines between men and women, to make gender irrelevant, all in the name of equality. It’s a message that has slowly infiltrated our marriages, our homes, and even our churches. Yet instead of creating harmony, this message has only caused confusion, ultimately leading to a tragic breakdown of relationships and families. Divine Design calls us back to God’s original intent for men and women.
-
-
I am a wife and mother
- By Elle Bee on 02-12-16
By: John MacArthur
People who viewed this also viewed...
-
The Sex Talk You Never Got
- Reclaiming the Heart of Masculine Sexuality
- By: Sam Jolman, John Eldredge
- Narrated by: Sam Jolman, John Eldredge
- Length: 8 hrs and 41 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Men today are starved for sexual formation. They've been failed by parents, churches, and culture alike, leading to widespread shame, confusion, and brokenness in the area of sexuality. In The Sex Talk You Never Got, therapist Sam Jolman helps men reconnect their God-given sexuality with innocence, awe, and joy, and shows listeners how to celebrate--instead of struggle against--the gift of sexual desire.
-
-
Gritty and Healing - Immediately Reading Again
- By Lance Sellon on 11-15-24
By: Sam Jolman, and others
-
The Sexually Healthy Man
- Essays on Spirituality, Sexuality, & Restoration
- By: Andrew J. Bauman
- Narrated by: Adam Naranjo
- Length: 2 hrs and 13 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
I grew up in the Southern Baptist church of the '90s during the height of the True Love Waits movement, accompanied by Joshua Harris’ best seller, I Kissed Dating Goodbye. If you don’t know what I am referring to, consider yourself blessed. Many of the ideas perpetuated by this culture were infused with fear and shame, offering no practical help or guidance in equipping young people to become healthy sexual human beings.
-
-
The fact that even people who seem perfect have a past.
- By Elisabeth Louise Mizner on 06-07-24
By: Andrew J. Bauman
-
She Deserves Better
- Raising Girls to Resist Toxic Teachings on Sex, Self, and Speaking Up
- By: Sheila Wray Gregoire, Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach, Joanna Sawatsky
- Narrated by: Sheila Wray Gregoire, Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach
- Length: 7 hrs and 28 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
What if the goal of raising a Christian girl was about more than keeping her virginity intact? What if it was about raising a strong, independent young woman who knows who she is, uses her voice, and confidently steps into the life God has for her? From the authors of The Great Sex Rescue comes this evidence-based book grounded on surveys of over 28,000 women to offer moms a fresh, freeing, and biblically grounded message of sexuality and self-worth for their daughters that is less about the don'ts and more about the dos.
-
-
If you are a parent or ministry leader of women or young girls, I plead with you to read this book
- By Kirsten Salgado on 05-08-24
By: Sheila Wray Gregoire, and others
-
The Great Sex Rescue
- The Lies You’ve Been Taught and How to Recover What God Intended
- By: Sheila Wray Gregoire, Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach, Joanna Sawatsky
- Narrated by: Sheila Wray Gregoire
- Length: 7 hrs and 9 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Based on a groundbreaking in-depth survey of 22,000 Christian women, The Great Sex Rescue unlocks the secrets to what makes some marriages red hot while others fizzle out. Generations of women have grown up with messages about sex that make them feel dirty, used, or invisible, while men have been sold such a cheapened version of sex, they don't know what they're missing. The Great Sex Rescue hopes to turn all of that around, developing a truly biblical view of sex where mutuality, intimacy, and passion reign.
-
-
Controversial message from questionable material
- By Sarah on 06-30-21
By: Sheila Wray Gregoire, and others
-
The Man They Wanted Me to Be
- Toxic Masculinity and a Crisis of Our Own Making
- By: Jared Yates Sexton
- Narrated by: Jared Yates Sexton
- Length: 6 hrs and 42 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Based on his provocative and popular New York Times op-ed, The Man They Wanted Me to Be is both memoir and cultural analysis. Jared Yates Sexton alternates between an examination of his working class upbringing and historical, psychological, and sociological sources that examine the genesis of toxic masculinity and its consequences for society. The Man They Wanted Me to Be examines how we teach boys what's expected of men in America, and the long-term effects of that socialization-which include depression, shorter lives, misogyny, and suicide.
-
-
An unpleasant and uninformative bore
- By Alan on 05-24-19
-
The Woman They Wanted
- Shattering the Illusion of the Good Christian Wife
- By: Shannon Harris
- Narrated by: Shannon Harris
- Length: 5 hrs and 43 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
As a twenty-three-year-old singer and the soon-to-be wife of youth pastor Joshua Harris, nothing in Shannon Harris's secular upbringing prepared her to enter the world of conservative Christianity. Soon Joshua's bestselling book I Kissed Dating Goodbye helped inspire a national purity movement, and Shannon's identity became "pastor's wife." The Woman They Wanted recounts Shannon's remarkable experience inside Big Church—where she was asked to live within a narrow definition of womanhood for almost two decades—and her journey out of that world and into a more authentic version of herself.
-
-
Her Story is Our Story
- By Amazon Customer on 11-04-23
By: Shannon Harris
-
The Sex Talk You Never Got
- Reclaiming the Heart of Masculine Sexuality
- By: Sam Jolman, John Eldredge
- Narrated by: Sam Jolman, John Eldredge
- Length: 8 hrs and 41 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Men today are starved for sexual formation. They've been failed by parents, churches, and culture alike, leading to widespread shame, confusion, and brokenness in the area of sexuality. In The Sex Talk You Never Got, therapist Sam Jolman helps men reconnect their God-given sexuality with innocence, awe, and joy, and shows listeners how to celebrate--instead of struggle against--the gift of sexual desire.
-
-
Gritty and Healing - Immediately Reading Again
- By Lance Sellon on 11-15-24
By: Sam Jolman, and others
-
The Sexually Healthy Man
- Essays on Spirituality, Sexuality, & Restoration
- By: Andrew J. Bauman
- Narrated by: Adam Naranjo
- Length: 2 hrs and 13 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
I grew up in the Southern Baptist church of the '90s during the height of the True Love Waits movement, accompanied by Joshua Harris’ best seller, I Kissed Dating Goodbye. If you don’t know what I am referring to, consider yourself blessed. Many of the ideas perpetuated by this culture were infused with fear and shame, offering no practical help or guidance in equipping young people to become healthy sexual human beings.
-
-
The fact that even people who seem perfect have a past.
- By Elisabeth Louise Mizner on 06-07-24
By: Andrew J. Bauman
-
She Deserves Better
- Raising Girls to Resist Toxic Teachings on Sex, Self, and Speaking Up
- By: Sheila Wray Gregoire, Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach, Joanna Sawatsky
- Narrated by: Sheila Wray Gregoire, Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach
- Length: 7 hrs and 28 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
What if the goal of raising a Christian girl was about more than keeping her virginity intact? What if it was about raising a strong, independent young woman who knows who she is, uses her voice, and confidently steps into the life God has for her? From the authors of The Great Sex Rescue comes this evidence-based book grounded on surveys of over 28,000 women to offer moms a fresh, freeing, and biblically grounded message of sexuality and self-worth for their daughters that is less about the don'ts and more about the dos.
-
-
If you are a parent or ministry leader of women or young girls, I plead with you to read this book
- By Kirsten Salgado on 05-08-24
By: Sheila Wray Gregoire, and others
-
The Great Sex Rescue
- The Lies You’ve Been Taught and How to Recover What God Intended
- By: Sheila Wray Gregoire, Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach, Joanna Sawatsky
- Narrated by: Sheila Wray Gregoire
- Length: 7 hrs and 9 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Based on a groundbreaking in-depth survey of 22,000 Christian women, The Great Sex Rescue unlocks the secrets to what makes some marriages red hot while others fizzle out. Generations of women have grown up with messages about sex that make them feel dirty, used, or invisible, while men have been sold such a cheapened version of sex, they don't know what they're missing. The Great Sex Rescue hopes to turn all of that around, developing a truly biblical view of sex where mutuality, intimacy, and passion reign.
-
-
Controversial message from questionable material
- By Sarah on 06-30-21
By: Sheila Wray Gregoire, and others
-
The Man They Wanted Me to Be
- Toxic Masculinity and a Crisis of Our Own Making
- By: Jared Yates Sexton
- Narrated by: Jared Yates Sexton
- Length: 6 hrs and 42 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Based on his provocative and popular New York Times op-ed, The Man They Wanted Me to Be is both memoir and cultural analysis. Jared Yates Sexton alternates between an examination of his working class upbringing and historical, psychological, and sociological sources that examine the genesis of toxic masculinity and its consequences for society. The Man They Wanted Me to Be examines how we teach boys what's expected of men in America, and the long-term effects of that socialization-which include depression, shorter lives, misogyny, and suicide.
-
-
An unpleasant and uninformative bore
- By Alan on 05-24-19
-
The Woman They Wanted
- Shattering the Illusion of the Good Christian Wife
- By: Shannon Harris
- Narrated by: Shannon Harris
- Length: 5 hrs and 43 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
As a twenty-three-year-old singer and the soon-to-be wife of youth pastor Joshua Harris, nothing in Shannon Harris's secular upbringing prepared her to enter the world of conservative Christianity. Soon Joshua's bestselling book I Kissed Dating Goodbye helped inspire a national purity movement, and Shannon's identity became "pastor's wife." The Woman They Wanted recounts Shannon's remarkable experience inside Big Church—where she was asked to live within a narrow definition of womanhood for almost two decades—and her journey out of that world and into a more authentic version of herself.
-
-
Her Story is Our Story
- By Amazon Customer on 11-04-23
By: Shannon Harris
What listeners say about Non-Toxic Masculinity
Average customer ratingsReviews - Please select the tabs below to change the source of reviews.
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Steven Thiel
- 06-20-23
Time to order some copies for friends
Thank you for taking the time to write this. It hit a little too close to home. It was great to see some clarity around the culture that I was introduced to in my teens. Very helpful as I now have fatherhood responsibilities.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Angel Feet
- 05-18-23
Refreshing perspective on faithful masculinity
The book was challenging, yet provided hope for readers who seek the redemptive work of Christ through our masculinity. Grateful for this book!
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- karen gray
- 06-11-23
Very helpful
A thoughtful little ok at what the Bible calls us to live out as humans. Thank you for trying to take back from pop culture Christianity and live for the glory of God❤️
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Mommareviews
- 07-11-23
So helpful
I heard Zach on Preston Sprinkle’s podcast and was very intrigued by what he had to say. I have a 12 year old son who I want to teach well. I also grew up during the height of purity culture. A friend of mine and I have been waiting on the “middle way”. A way forward that didn’t embrace purity culture but also didn’t shun Christianity altogether. Zach’s combination of orthodox Christian beliefs and willingness to hear another side/find a healthier way forward are so helpful. I plan to listen again and then read it with my son. Here’s to raising a new generation of healthy boys and men! Thank you Zach for your work.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Jamin D. Bradley
- 09-01-23
Required Reading for Men
I have read a lot of Christian sex books and this one goes toward the top of my “best of” list. What’s especially remarkable about it is that it’s written by a man, but does not sound like all the other Christian sex and masculinity books written by men. Wagner does a terrific job of inviting us out of the worst of past teachings and he does it with both conviction and humility, making his words actually able to be heard.
Whether you are single, married or otherwise, this is a book that all men should read. Heck, I think it might even be beneficial for many women as it offers a better perspective on men than the macho and super-sexual teaching we’ve all been exposed to. It takes the best parts of the best books I’ve read on sex and complies them into something that I really think is helpful and healing for Christians to hear. I cannot recommend it enough.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- kalpana s.
- 10-25-24
The author's empathy is empowering to the faith based abused women.
I am grateful for Zachary and his wife Shelby's honesty and sharing their life stories. I found this book empowering. The author explains what we have endured for decades. he has needed fresh ideas that not only confront toxicity but empower those harmed by it and advocate for non toxic masculinity. Everyone reading will find it useful. Thank you for your input in the mutuality movement. Blessings to you both.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!