
Tearing Us Apart
How Abortion Harms Everything and Solves Nothing
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The political philosopher Ryan T. Anderson, bestselling author of When Harry Became Sally: Responding to the Transgender Moment, teams up with the pro-life journalist Alexandra DeSanctis to expose the catastrophic failure—social, political, legal, and personal—of legalized abortion.
Hope in the Ruins of Roe
With the Supreme Court poised to return abortion law to the democratic process, a powerful new book reframes the coming debate: Our fifty-year experiment with unlimited abortion has harmed everyone—even its most passionate proponents.
Women, men, families, the law, politics, medicine, the media—and, of course, children (born and unborn)—have all been brutalized by the culture of death fostered by Roe v. Wade.
Abortion hollows out marriage and the family. It undermines the rule of law and corrupts our political system. It turns healers into executioners and “women’s health” into a euphemism for extermination.
Ryan T. Anderson, a compelling and reasoned voice in our most contentious cultural debates, and the pro-life journalist Alexandra DeSanctis expose the false promises of the abortion movement and explain why it has made everything worse. Five decades after Roe, everyone has an opinion about abortion. But after listening to Tearing Us Apart, no one will think about it in the same way.
©2022 Ryan T. Anderson and Alexandra DeSanctis (P)2022 Black Hills AudiobooksListeners also enjoyed...
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- None ya bizness
- 02-08-24
Informative and Heart-breaking
A thought-provoking and descriptive account of how America has become what it is today in regards to the abortion debate. This book will challenge the abortion supporter and call the pro-life to action.
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- TheRaynZ
- 07-31-22
Excellent content
Excellent examination of the tentacles of abortion. Unfortunately, I found the narrator's voice inflections annoying. Still recommend the book for its content.
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- Lisa
- 09-17-22
Will read this more than once!
This book nails the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth concerning the damage abortion inflicts medically, emotionally, psychologically, financially, politically, legally, morally, sociologically, and much more. So informed!
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- Jonathan Keller
- 07-17-22
Fantastic overview of where we are and how we got here
The authors do a wonderful job of summarizing the history of abortion in the United States. I really appreciate how nonpartisan the book was, and how they acknowledge failures on both sides of the aisle when it comes to addressing the needs of the unborn and their mothers.
Highly recommend this for anybody wondering where we go from here now that Roe v. Wade is on the ash heap of history.
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- Stephen O'Neil
- 07-04-22
Complete review
This is the most complete review I have seen about the way abortion affects all of society. A fantastic witness.
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- Paul Adams
- 07-18-22
Outstanding!
Well reasoned and comprehensive, coherent argument supported by detailed evidence, this is an invaluable resource. It addresses economic, political, moral, and cultural aspects of this lethal violence against human life.
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