Them Before Us
Why We Need a Global Children's Rights Movement
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You probably have a pretty good idea of the adult viewpoints on marriage, infertility, reproductive technologies, same-sex parenting, divorce, and adoption.
But have you ever considered the kids’ perspective?
Them Before Us blazes a new trail through the difficult terrain of marriage and family issues. It’s the only book that filters the complexities of marriage, familial relationships, and reproductive technologies through the lens of a child’s right to be raised by both their mother and father.
This book features the real-life stories of children by the hundreds, and every story makes the irrefutable case that a child’s mother and father are critical to their mental, physical, and emotional well-being.
Them Before Us dispels prevalent myths concerning children’s rights, such as:
- Kids only need love and safety - moms and dads are optional.
- Love makes a family; biology is irrelevant.
- Marriage is a vehicle for adult fulfillment - it has nothing to do with kids.
- Children are resilient and will “get over” divorce.
- Studies show that kids with same-sex parents fare “no different” than kids with a mom and dad.
- Sperm and egg donor kids are fortunate because they are so wanted.
- Surrogacy is a great way to help wannabe parents have a baby.
- Reproductive technologies are no different than adoption.
This well-researched book identifies the wide-ranging harms resulting from mother- and father-loss, and it provides a roadmap for effective children’s rights advocacy. Whether you’re seeking to make sense of your own fractured childhood, or yearn to prevent similar struggles for the next generation, Them Before Us will equip you to be the adult who should have advocated for you as a child.
By defending children’s rights, we protect the heart of every child and set a course that will decimate a myriad of the social ills currently plaguing our world.
©2021 Katy Faust, Stacy Manning (P)2021 Black Hills Audiobooks LLCListeners also enjoyed...
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Loved it!
- By Ethan on 03-21-18
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The Sibling Effect
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- By: Jeffrey Kluger
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Nobody affects us as deeply as our brothers and sisters - not parents, not children, not friends. From the time we - and they - are born, our siblings are our collaborators and co-conspirators, our role models and cautionary tales. They teach us how to resolve conflicts and how not to, how to conduct friendships and when to walk away.
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This is the only book I never finished
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The Feminine Mistake
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Women are constantly being told that it's simply too difficult to balance work and family, so if they don't really "have to" work, it's better for their families if they stay home. Not only is this untrue, Leslie Bennetts says, but the arguments in favor of stay-at-home motherhood fail to consider the surprising benefits of work and the unexpected toll of giving it up. It's time, she says, to get the message across: combining work and family really is the best choice for most women.
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couldn't get into it.
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Based on extensive research, and handled with Dr. Dobson's trademark down-to-earth approach, Bringing Up Girls will equip parents like you to face the challenges of raising your daughters to become healthy, happy, and successful women who overcome challenges specific to girls and women today and who ultimately excel in life.
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Solid concepts, poor presentation
- By honuhunter on 12-06-18
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Born for Love
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From birth, when babies' fingers instinctively cling to those of adults, their bodies and brains seek an intimate connection - a bond made possible by empathy, the remarkable ability to love and to share the feelings of others. In this unforgettable book, award-winning science journalist Maia Szalavitz and renowned child psychiatrist Bruce D. Perry explain how empathy develops, why it is essential both to human happiness and for a functional society, and how it is threatened in a modern world.
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Born for Love is a Rallying Call for Caring and Cry for Help
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The Way We Never Were
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Leave It to Beaver was not a documentary, a man's home has never been his castle, the "male breadwinner marriage" is the least traditional family in history, and rape and sexual assault were far higher in the 1970s than they are today. In The Way We Never Were, acclaimed historian Stephanie Coontz examines two centuries of the American family, sweeping away misconceptions about the past that cloud current debates about domestic life. The 1950s do not present a workable model of how to conduct our personal lives today, Coontz argues.
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fantastic report on the dangers of nostalgia
- By Richard Stine on 06-29-21
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The Open-Hearted Way to Open Adoption
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Open adoption isn't just something parents do when they exchange photos, send emails, share a visit. It's a lifestyle that may feel intrusive at times, be difficult or inconvenient at other times. Tensions can arise even in the best of circumstances. But knowing how to handle these situations and how to continue to make arrangements work for the child involved is paramount. This book offers listeners the tools and the insight to do just that.
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Who is talking?
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This highly anticipated debut from Matt Walsh of The Blaze demands that conservative voters make a last stand and fight for the moral center of America. The Trump presidency and Republican Congress provides an urgent opportunity to stop the Left's value-bending march to destroy the culture of our country. Republican control of the presidency, senate, and House of Representatives for the next two years is a precious - and fleeting - gift to conservatives.
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An excellent read
- By Don Huslage on 12-18-19
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Men on Strike
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American society has become anti-male. Men are sensing the backlash and are responding. They're dropping out of college, leaving the workforce, and avoiding marriage and fatherhood at alarming rates. The trend is so pronounced that a number of books have been written about this man-child phenomenon, concluding that men have taken a vacation from responsibility. But why should men participate in a system that seems to be increasingly stacked against them?
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Finally, someone said it!
- By Stephen Reid Kidd on 11-07-17
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Black Women, Black Love
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According to the 2010 US census, more than 70 percent of Black women in America are unmarried. Black Women, Black Love reveals how four centuries of laws, policies, and customs have created that crisis. Dianne Stewart begins in the colonial era, when slave owners denied Blacks the right to marry, divided families, and, in many cases, raped enslaved women and girls. Later, during Reconstruction and the ensuing decades, violence split couples again as millions embarked on the Great Migration north.
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Cherry picked feminism
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God Believes in Love
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From Gene Robinson, the Bishop of the Diocese of New Hampshire in the Episcopal Church, the first openly gay person elected (in 2003) to the historic episcopate and the world's leading religious spokesperson for gay rights and gay marriage, comes a groundbreaking book that lovingly and persuasively makes the case for same-sex marriage. It establishes a commonsense, reasoned, religious argument, made by someone who holds the religious text of the Bible to be holy and sacred.
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He nailed it!
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Being There
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Compassionate and balanced, and focusing on the emotional health and well-being of children as well as that of the mothers who care for them, this book shows mothers and fathers how to give their children the best chance for developing into healthy and loving adults.
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Highly Recommended
- By Arocha on 03-09-18
By: Erica Komisar, and others
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- will
- 04-28-21
Excellent book
Well written back up with data for well round view of both the science and the lived experience! as a midwife seeing the impact of big fertility this is the great human rights travesty of our time! Marvellous book and insights would highly highly recommend!
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- Todd Lail
- 10-21-22
Opened my eyes
I have always considered myself pro-life, but I had never heard or thought about how so much of what is done to have children hurts the children. A much needed book in anyone’s library who wants to do what is right, even if not popular.
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- Milea Kirst
- 12-12-24
well...
While I would probably nuke my social life by saying this, she did have some good points. She definitely threw in some snark which could be off-putting attimes. I understand trying to throw in some humor, but the comments about career women waiting too long to have kids and being a victim of their own choices were just weirdly sexist and came off like she had a major chip on her shoulder. In spite of this, I think it's important to consider children's perspectives when our culture often considers it hate to question anything an adult desires. I do still support gay marriage because I don't think marriage is fully defined by having kids. We need to remember that these kids grow into adults too, and I think there should be a balance of needs. I would say yes, let's prioritize the kids in general, but I don't want their parents to live a totally miserable life either.
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- jgilly
- 09-25-21
life changing, very informative.
I have an idea why I opposed some things but affirmed others. Somehow I couldn't put into words exactly what I meant and why I believed exactly these ideas were valid. them before us authors put into words, action and real life scenarios all of my ideas and cause them to materialize. they were empathetic and very emphatic on every point and really give children the voice that has been stolen from them. their words were not empty phrases of fanatics but they gave proof to back their ideas, the reasons why their ideas was not only valid but necessary for the survival and well-being of all children.
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- margy
- 06-20-24
A new thought
I appreciate being introduced to thinking about a child’s rights above my own. This is not the way the average person thinks.
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- Phoebe
- 01-26-23
Awesome
With this book, my convictions about the importance of marriage, children needing both their mother and father and a stable home are confirmed to be correct. I am now equipped for having hard conversations maybe with my friends who are convinced otherwise. Thank you so much to Katy Faust, Stacy Manning and all who helped make this book!
These stories deserve to be heard as stories promoting satisfying adults' wants over children's needs always increases.
This movement is what we badly need. Children deserve better!
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- Betz
- 02-03-23
Awesome
One of the best books I’ve read. I highly recommend it. The authors are knowledgeable on this topic that is so important.
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- Warren
- 06-21-23
Incredible perspective truthfully detailed
Incredible perspective truthfully detailed, Them before Us needs to be read by all parents & those who wish to be parents in the future.
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- Amazon Customer
- 05-02-21
Absolutely necessary!
This book is a must read for anyone with children, anyone that wishes they had children, or anyone who once was a child. Unless we look at life through the eyes of a child we will never truly see.
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- Harris
- 11-12-21
Powerful
Powerful, eye opening, convicting. All around a fantastic book that will encourage you to defend the most vulnerable, and most precious among us. Children.
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