
The Dude's Guide to Manhood
Finding True Manliness in a World of Counterfeits
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Jeremy Childs
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Discover the path to true masculinity—to an adventurous life of strength, purpose, and clarity.
Didn’t we used to understand manhood? Wasn’t there a time once when it was clear and straightforward? Are we lost?
Dudes, look around you: The trail we once traveled from boyhood to maturity is now so overgrown, it’s almost impossible to trace. Our vision is blurred, rendering the map that previous generations followed unreadable. Our compass needles are spinning in circles, making navigation impossible. We are stuck in dense, dangerous woods, and our communities—the wives, children, friends, and colleagues we could be influencing—are suffering as a result.
It can be tempting to give up and, like so many men today, simply exist, but take heart: Now is not the time for men to abandon our quest. We can discover the path to true masculinity—to an adventurous life of strength, purpose, and clarity.
In The Dude’s Guide to Manhood, pastor, author and dude Darrin Patrick charts a course back toward real manliness, mapping out a vision to help men find significance and influence in today’s broken, mixed-message culture. Revealing his own frailties and missteps, Patrick doesn’t preach at you but walks with you on a journey toward healing and wholeness.
Filled with timeless wisdom, accessible insights and practical guidance, The Dude’s Guide to Manhood issues an encouraging and doable call to all men, whatever your age or stage. We need not settle for wandering aimlessly through our days, wounded, weak, and passive. Instead, we can get back on the trail, embrace our gifts while facing our imperfections, and trust the God of new beginnings to lead us into all that we are destined to become: forgiven, connected, determined, teachable, content, heroic, and so much more.
©2014 Darrin Patrick, Willie Robertson, and Steven Jackson (P)2023 Thomas NelsonListeners also enjoyed...
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- Robert Davila
- 01-12-24
Must Read For Christian Men
So many lessons for Christian Men. You’ll be changed after reading it. It goes to the heart of Christ centered manhood.
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- Duane Stonehouse
- 05-07-23
Majored on the majors…..💪
I believe these chapters and points were all very relevant to what it means to truly look at the basics of masculinity…and then to grow in each area by mining your own material and then implementing practical solutions/strategies through these principles taught by Darrin. I appreciate the legacy Darrin left.
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- Lilith
- 03-27-24
not for teenagers
this book seemed more like for adults, and it used a lot of big words. I was hoping to give it to my teen nephew but I know that he would tune it out bcz of the elaborate explanations. but I enjoyed it very much myself
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