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Who Asked You?

By: Terry McMillan
Narrated by: Terry McMillan, Carole DeSanti, Phylicia Rashad, Michael Boatman
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Publisher's summary

From the number one New York Times best-selling author.

Betty Jean already has her hands full when her grown daughter leaves her two young sons in her care. In between dealing with her other adult children, two opinionated sisters, an ill husband, and her own postponed dreams - BJ still manages to hold down a job delivering room service at a hotel.

Her son Dexter is about to be paroled from prison; Quentin, the family success, can’t be bothered to lend a hand; and taking care of two lively grandsons is the last thing BJ thinks she needs. But who asked her?

©2013 Terry McMillan (P)2013 Penguin Audio
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Critic reviews

"A well-crafted story of acceptance, forgiveness, and hope. McMillan deftly weaves her tale of a black Los Angeles family’s disharmony around the narratives of bickering sisters Betty Jean, Arlene, and Venetia as they watch their kids stumble into adulthood.... Strong-hearted kids lead the family back to each other - but McMillan’s story belongs to the middle-aged steel magnolias who value loyalty above all." (Publishers Weekly)

"McMillan writes jauntily and with customary good humor.... Her story affirms the value of love and family, to say nothing of the strength of resolute women in the absence of much strength on the part of those few men who happen to be in the vicinity.... A solid, well-told story." (Kirkus Reviews)

“Remember Getting to Happy, Waiting to Exhale, and How Stella Got Her Groove Back? Well, you won’t likely forget Terry McMillan’s Who Asked You? either” (Raleigh News & Observer)

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Who Asked You? Very Good Listen

What did you love best about Who Asked You??

It was so down to earth. It was like real life. Like my life.

Who was your favorite character and why?

Betty Jean!!! She is my mom. Everything about her is my mom. My mom is raising her two grandchildren. She has some of the same struggles as Betty Jean.

Which scene was your favorite?

When Luther read the letter to Betty Jean. I couldn't stop crying....

Was there a moment in the book that particularly moved you?

When Betty Jean lost her daughter.. That was hard for her!

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WOWZER!!!

Where does Who Asked You? rank among all the audiobooks you’ve listened to so far?

This is the best audio book thus far. I think Terry McMillan, did a outstanding job. The characters,I could personally relate to. I even cried,when her sister finally came to herself and admitted,why she was the way she was.

Which character – as performed by the narrators – was your favorite?

Betty jean=Phylicia Rashad. I hope I spelled her name correctly. She really made this book come to life for me.

If you could take any character from Who Asked You? out to dinner, who would it be and why?

Betty Jean she seems like a "best girlfriend" I enjoyed her. I felt as if I could tell Betty anything and she had the ear to be truthful but not to judgemental.

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Great book!

The book was very entertaining. well thought out I loved the characters. would recommend absolutely l.

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This book was a great read. I loved how the reader was able to see each character's perspective and view, which made it emotional at times especially from Bj and the boys. The narrators read each chapter so well that I was able to imagine the scenes in my head so vividly.

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REALITY CHECK

As usual a gripping and oh so real listen. One feels as if they can predict the end but still has the ability to surprise.

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Great Book

Good book. it was long but it kept me interested. Highly recommended. Great narrative & good listen.

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top ten

love this book. Hated that it ended. hope they make the movie with Phylicia Rashad as the star.

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loved this book !

What did you love best about Who Asked You??

The characters

What other book might you compare Who Asked You? to and why?

The people in the church

Have you listened to any of the narrators’s other performances before? How does this one compare?

ALL ARE AWESOME SHES ONE OF MY FAVORITES AND Phylicia Rashad WAS AWESOME

Did you have an extreme reaction to this book? Did it make you laugh or cry?

LAUGH

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LOVE THIS BOOK

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I really loved it!!

A lot of the story was like listening to my life and what I'm going though .

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Interesting Read!

Would you consider the audio edition of Who Asked You? to be better than the print version?

Yes I would. The narration was great!

What did you like best about this story?

The way the family was so relatable and it was easy to follow.

Which character – as performed by the narrators – was your favorite?

The narrators did a great job!

Did you have an extreme reaction to this book? Did it make you laugh or cry?

There were parts that made me cry and laugh.

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