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The Power of Friendship
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A celebration of friendship and community from bestselling author Mark Nepo
In this book, New York Times bestselling author Mark Nepo turns his attention to the value of community, offering another insightful and inspiring take on our shared human experience. You Don’t Have to Do It Alone is an earnest exploration and joyous affirmation of one of the most important aspects of being human: friendship.
Sharing examples from history, mythology, and his own life, Mark unravels the nuances of close friendships, and reveals how a true friend can be the key to our own aliveness―because only in the presence of unconditional love can we feel safe enough to be who we truly are. Journal prompts and thought-provoking quotes from notable philosophers enhance Mark’s reflections, providing readers with the tools necessary to understand and cultivate the friendships in their own lives.
Mark Nepo explores all that it takes to love another and be loved, ultimately showing that―despite what we’ve been taught―you don’t have to do it alone.
©2024 Mark Nepo (P)2024 Brilliance Publishing, Inc., all rights reserved.Listeners also enjoyed...
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