Did you know that having an unhealed father wound deeply affects your ability to let love in?

In this episode, I share how having an unhealed father wound as a woman interferes with our ability to trust and feel safe with men as adults, essentially blocking our ability to receive the love we crave from the masculine and divine father. I reflect on how distant or emotionally unavailable fathers can leave lasting scars that make it hard to feel worthy of the love we deserve.

I share my healing journey through therapy, trauma work, and the spiritual teachers who helped me dig even deeper into my wounds and reveal the deepest, darkness shadow work I’ve ever faced: confronting the negative animus. This is an unconscious masculine energy that sabotages our relationships and projects our wounds onto all of our partners. Putting this energy in its rightful place is essential if we want to call in a high-level soul mate.

Together, let’s explore how facing these wounds opens us up to more love and connection. I hope to offer you some insights and encouragement on your healing path.

Key Topics:

- Understanding the father wound and its impact on relationships

- How distant fathers affect our sense of self-worth

- My healing journey through therapy and trauma work

- The role of negative animus in blocking love and connection

- How facing old wounds makes room for divine love

- Healing the inner masculine allows trust from the outer masculine

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Are you sick and tired of shaming and judging yourself constantly?

This Alive & Awake podcast episode dives deep into my recent experience where I confronted the shame and self-judgment I unconsciously carried from my past. Being the alchemist that I am, knowing we cannot reject any parts of ourselves if we want to feel whole, I dove into the healing work.

During this solo cast, I share a powerful dream where I was faced with an energy that wounded my inner child from my father's bloodline. I revealed the process of working with this part of me who never felt loved, accepted, or wanted as a little girl. Essentially shaming any part of me that was messy, wild, and imperfect. Something most women can relate to.

If you’re on a path of self-discovery or trying to overcome feelings of unworthiness, this episode is for you. I hope my story helps you look at your own inner child and embrace the parts of yourself that you may have pushed away. Tune in as I share insights and personal breakthroughs that I believe will resonate with anyone looking to connect more deeply with themselves and are ready to get off the shame train.

Key Topics:

- How to overcome shame and self-judgment

- Why healing past wounds is important for personal growth

- How embracing all parts of yourself leads to true self-fulfillment

- Why integrating your inner child can transform your life

- How to let go of unworthiness and guilt for a happier life

- Why living authentically helps you break free from negative patterns

- How reclaiming your power can change your relationships

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What if you could access a spiritual library that holds the entire history of your soul?

In this episode, I explore the world of the Akashic Records with my spiritual teacher Candice Rasa. Together, we break down what the records are, how they reveal the deeper meaning behind our earthly experiences, and how they can help us understand ourselves.

Candice shares how tapping into the Akashic Records provides insight into healing trauma, overcoming karma, and knowing your soul's journey. She explains how this spiritual wisdom can guide you to reconnect with your higher self and find peace in the midst of life’s challenges. It’s a powerful tool for those seeking clarity, growth, and truth.

Join us as we uncover how the Mysterious Akashic Records offer healing and a path toward spiritual enlightenment. This episode is packed with insights that could shift how you view yourself, your purpose, and your soul's journey.

Key Discussions:

- Understanding the soul’s journey through the Akashic Records

- How the Akashic Records help with clarifying trauma

- Deeper insight into the dark night of the soul and ego deaths

- Connecting with your higher self for a deeper meaning to life

- Using the Akashic Records to figure out your purpose

- Understanding karma and intergenerational trauma

- How to overcome fear during times of uncertainty here on earth

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Have you ever felt torn between your faith and trusting the voice inside of you?

In this episode, Singer, Song Writer Amanda Hughey opens up about her profound journey, grappling with intense confusion, questioning God, and difficult self-discovery. We explore the challenges of balancing personal truth with religious expectations, touching on the emotional impact of conversion therapy and the search for self-acceptance.

We also discuss the role of music in healing and expression, as Amanda Hughey shares insights on how creative outlets can provide comfort during times of inner conflict. Finally, we reflect on the power of vulnerability, trust in something greater than you, and embracing one’s true identity amidst societal pressures.

Her story is one of resilience, surrender, and the constant search for personal truth, offering insight for anyone struggling with similar challenges.

Key Discussions:

- Navigating personal truth over religious control

- The emotional impact of conversion therapy on one's psyche

- Balancing personal desires with biblical structures

- Finding and trusting intuition over a dominated belief system

- The power of vulnerability to work through toxic shame

- Embracing love from community over systemic rules

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Have you ever wondered why so many people are starting to use plant medicine to transform their lives?

In this episode, I sit down with Shannon Morehead, a registered nurse and licensed massage therapist turned Ayahuasca birth doula, who shares her profound journey of healing and self-discovery through this medicinal plant. We delve into the intricacies of how Ayahuasca found her and led her to embrace her true calling as a medicine woman, plant whisperer, and spiritual alchemist who is healing the collective, one heart at a time.

We explore the powerful ways in which Ayahuasca can not only transform the limited thinking of the mind but completely heal the body on a cellular level. Putting into question what we’ve been told about our innate capability and challenging traditional views of Western Medicine. Shannon shares personal stories of how this sacred plant has helped her overcome physical ailments and emotional blocks, emphasizing the deep connection between our physical and energetic bodies.

This conversation is a must-listen for anyone curious about the transformative potential of Ayahuasca. Shannon’s experiences offer insightful perspectives on how embracing the guidance of this ancient medicine can lead to profound personal growth and alignment with real, universal wisdom. Tune in to discover the hidden truths that come from trusting in the medicine and allowing it to reveal your highest path for healing in this life.

Key Discussions:

- How Ayahuasca Heals the Mind and Body

- The Journey from Nurse to Ayahuasca Doula

- Personal Growth Through Plant Medicine

- Overcoming Emotional Blocks with Ayahuasca

- Discovering True Purpose with Ayahuasca

- Connecting to Your True Self with Plant Medicine

- The Power of Ayahuasca in Healing and Transformation

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“Anonymous Awakenings with Ayahuasca: Stories of Transformation” by Shannon Morehead https://greatspiritfarm.org/anonymous-awakenings/

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Have you ever felt like you’re carrying the weight of everyone else’s expectations while losing sight of your own desires?

In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Tamara McMillian to explore the journey of reclaiming our sovereignty and supporting one another as women. We dive into the significance of breaking free from oppressive expectation to rise above the competition mindset and step into open-hearted connection and collaboration- setting a standard for this next level of feminine consciousness.

Dr. McMillian shares her insights on building a community where women can boldly express their true selves without fear of judgment. We discuss the concept of “being bold together” and how it empowers women to embrace their authentic selves while navigating life’s challenges. Her approach is both practical and transformative, offering real tools to help women move from self-doubt to self-assurance.

Join us as we explore the power of connection, the value of investing in oneself, and the freedom that comes from living authentically. This episode is a call to action for every woman to assess her life, shed what no longer serves her, and step boldly into her brilliance.

Key Discussions:

- Reclaiming Personal Power in Everyday Life

- Breaking Free from Societal Norms for Women

- Building a Strong Community of Supportive Women

- Embracing Your Authentic Self with Confidence

- Practical Tools for Women to Overcome Self-Doubt

- The Importance of Investing in Yourself

- How to Live Boldly and Authentically

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Have you ever found yourself reacting intensely to a situation, only to look back and say “what the hell was I thinking?”

In this episode, I dive deep into the idea that our triggers are our greatest teachers. I share personal stories about how I navigate emotional reactions, especially around the “perceived” pressure of time and how our external world is a mirror for our inner work.

Through candid reflections, I explore how these triggers are not just random occurrences but are often connected to unresolved issues from our past. By becoming aware of these patterns, we can start to heal and respond differently, moving towards a state of peace, compassion and empowerment. This journey isn't about perfection and getting it right all the time, it is about how we evolve along the way.

Join me as I discuss practical steps to recognize when you're triggered and how to shift your state of mind in the moment. By facing these challenges head-on, we can transform our emotional reactions into opportunities for personal growth and deeper self-awareness. If you want to be enlightened, you must know thyself!

Key Topics:

- Understanding triggers and their deeper meaning

- How to recognize and manage intense emotional reactions

- The connection between past experiences and current upsets

- Steps to shift your mindset when feeling emotionally charged

- The importance of self-compassion in personal growth

- Practical ways to heal and move towards inner peace

- Using relationships as a tool for personal awareness and growth

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What happens when your soul’s true calling collides with the expectations of others?

In this episode, I sit down with Angela Wetzel, a trauma-informed relationship coach, as we dive into the complex journey of self-discovery. We explore how childhood experiences shape our attachment styles and the sometimes tumultuous path to finding our true purpose.

Angela shares her story of navigating family dynamics, career choices, and personal challenges, all while striving to stay true to her dreams. We discuss the impact of trauma on relationships, the importance of self-awareness, and the courage it takes to step into your authentic self despite the noise around you.

This conversation is a deep exploration of the inner work required to heal and grow. Angela’s insights remind us that our journey is uniquely ours and that embracing our past is key to unlocking our future. Join us as we uncover the layers of what it means to live a life aligned with your soul’s purpose.

Key Discussions:

- How to Find Your True Purpose in Life

- Understanding the Impact of Childhood on Relationships

- Overcoming Family Expectations to Achieve Your Dreams

- Exploring Attachment Styles and Trauma in Relationships

- Healing from Past Wounds for Personal Growth

- The Journey of Self-Discovery and Self-Awareness

- Embracing Your Authentic Self for a Fulfilling Life

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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/angela-wetzel-86667234/

Instagram: www.instagram.com/epicinitiator/

Website: www.epicinitiator.com

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