In this two-parter, Behind the paddle dives deep into the intersection of technology and the world of kink, sex and sex work. Porcelain Victoria and Emily Sin unravel the intriguing advancements shaping intimate experiences today.

Virtual realms and AI innovations, from the rise of hentai vtubers and AI Dommes to the sensual allure of chatbots like Replika. They also explore second life's infamous slave island, where fantasy meets digital freedom with real life stakes.

Shifting gears to tech-driven physical connections, including Lovense toys, wireless-controlled chastity devices, camming gadgets, and gaming-integrated butt plugs. The duo also examines the ethics and future of sex doll brothels and the evolving landscape of tech-fueled intimacy.

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In this episode of *Behind the Paddle*, host Porcelain Victoria shares her recent experience at the highly anticipated Femdom Ball, an exclusive event organized by Madame Caramel. This three-part gathering included a meet and greet with fellow mistresses, an elegant high tea, and, of course, the main event—the Femdom Ball. Porcelain Victoria gives us a glimpse into the luxurious, empowering, and unforgettable atmosphere of the evening.

Host Victoria then asks Emily about attending Gynarchy Gathering, a new Femdom event curated by Mistress Tess in Sandy, Bedfordshire. Listen in as they explore the unique dynamics, highlights, and their personal experiences from these remarkable events in the Femdom community.

This isn’t sponsored we just absolutely loved these events!

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In this episode we will be continuing the story of Gentleman Jack, where we uncover the captivating life of Anne Lister and her trailblazing romance with Ann Walker, celebrated as the first recorded lesbian marriage in the UK. Through Anne's detailed diaries, we follow the couple’s passionate journey, from their secret marriage vows to their daring travels across Europe, all the way to Anne’s untimely death. This episode offers an intimate glimpse into their shared life, the challenges they faced, and the adventurous spirit that made Anne a revolutionary figure in LGBTQ+ history.

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In this episode, we dive into the world of Halloween costumes, slut-shaming, and the evolution of gender norms around dressing up. We'll unpack the origins of the “sexy costume” as a queer culture celebration, explore Halloween’s roots and the influence of gender stereotypes, and examine the fortune-telling rituals of 1800s Scotland and Ireland when busy women sought glimpses of their future husbands. Join us as we challenge assumptions, celebrate self-expression, and uncover the fascinating history that shapes our modern Halloween traditions.

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In this episode we explore the extraordinary life of Anne Lister better known as Gentleman Jack, a daring lesbian diarist from the early 1800s, who documented her romantic, carnal adventures and pioneering spirit across Europe. Known for her sharp wit, rebellious nature, and a unique secret code she developed at private school, Lister's diaries reveal the boldness of a woman who defied society’s norms. Autistic-coded, gothic, and unapologetically tomboyish, Anne balanced her love for high society with scaling mountain ranges in her signature black petticoats and men's boots all while recording over 1 million words in her many diaries which she systematically filled throughout her life. Join us as we uncover the hidden life and love stories of this trailblazing figure in LGBTQIA+ history!

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In this episode, Emily Sin continues to interview Porcelain Victoria, a professional dominatrix and sex worker, to explore the dynamics of client etiquette in the world of BDSM and sex work. Victoria shares candid insights into her experiences, discussing the fine line between a respectful client and one that crosses boundaries. With real-life stories from her work, she delves into what makes an ideal client—respectful, communicative, and mindful of consent—versus the challenges posed by her most difficult encounters. Tune in for an open, eye-opening conversation on etiquette, boundaries, and the realities of her profession.

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In this episode, Emily Sin interviews Porcelain Victoria, a professional dominatrix and sex worker, to explore the dynamics of client etiquette in the world of BDSM and sex work. Victoria shares candid insights into her experiences, discussing the fine line between a respectful client and one that crosses boundaries. With real-life stories from her work, she delves into what makes an ideal client—respectful, communicative, and mindful of consent—versus the challenges posed by her most difficult encounters. Tune in for an open, eye-opening conversation on etiquette, boundaries, and the realities of her profession.

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In this episode, we take a deep dive into the world of unusual kinks and paraphilias, from age play to puppy play and beyond. Porcelain Victoria, shares intriguing stories from her experiences in the sex work and kink community, shedding light on how these practices emerge in her work. Plus, we invite you to play along as we try to guess different kinks based on their scientific names. Join us for a fun, insightful, and open-minded exploration of diverse sexual expressions!

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