Episodes

  • Financial Planning, Prenups, and Post-Divorce Recovery Strategies with Eric Brotman

    Financial Planning, Prenups, and Post-Divorce Recovery Strategies with Eric Brotman
    Sep 18 2024
    Jamie M. Lima welcomes Eric Brotman to discuss the multifaceted impacts of divorce. They delve into the emotional and financial repercussions, emphasizing the importance of financial planning and prenuptial agreements. The conversation covers prenups, title governance, and the role of financial literacy. They explore asset division, taxes, insurance, and the necessity of updating estate plans post-divorce. The discussion also highlights the effects of divorce on children, custody issues, and planning for holidays and college.
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    34 mins
  • Navigating Divorce Stigma, Co-Parenting, and Financial Decisions with Julia Hoffman

    Navigating Divorce Stigma, Co-Parenting, and Financial Decisions with Julia Hoffman
    Sep 11 2024
    Jamie M. Lima introduces Julia Hoffman, who shares her personal experiences with divorce. They discuss the cultural stigma and personal challenges faced during divorce, focusing on co-parenting dynamics and societal expectations. The importance of collaborative divorce and post-decision work is highlighted, along with building a support system. They explore navigating new partnerships and workplace support systems, making informed financial decisions, and understanding legal complexities.
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    41 mins
  • Conflict Resolution and Emotional Recovery During Divorce with Kat Newport

    Conflict Resolution and Emotional Recovery During Divorce with Kat Newport
    Sep 4 2024
    Jamie M. Lima introduces Kat Newport, highlighting her journey into conflict resolution. They discuss understanding priorities and setting agendas with empathy, as well as strategies for minimizing conflicts and building a supportive network. Kat shares insights on dealing with emotional burnout, rebuilding relationships post-divorce, and preventing past conflicts from affecting future relationships. The conversation covers effective communication strategies and the impact of tone during divorce.
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    23 mins
  • Navigating Chaotic Marriages and Financial Implications with Larry Bilotta

    Navigating Chaotic Marriages and Financial Implications with Larry Bilotta
    Aug 28 2024
    Jamie M. Lima is joined by Larry Bilotta to explore the complexities of relationships involving "chaos kids." They discuss the unique marital challenges and financial implications these individuals face. The conversation covers legal considerations, including mediation, and delves into issues like infidelity, narcissism, and midlife crises. Larry emphasizes the importance of fostering kindness and addresses the initial shock of divorce. They also discuss decision-making, letting go of the savior complex, and dealing with guilt.
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    35 mins
  • Transforming Divorce into Growth: Mindset and Vision with Joey Drolshagen

    Transforming Divorce into Growth: Mindset and Vision with Joey Drolshagen
    Aug 21 2024
    Jamie M. Lima introduces Joey A. Drolshagen, focusing on the critical role of mindset during divorce. They explore overcoming conditioning and emotional barriers, with a particular emphasis on the unique challenges and growth opportunities men face. Joey shares insights on creating a vision and managing finances post-divorce. They discuss the importance of seeking support, avoiding negativity, and overcoming victimhood while finding common ground. The episode concludes by highlighting the importance of professional help and offering closing thoughts for those navigating the divorce process.
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    25 mins
  • Leveraging Adversity and Mindset for Growth During Divorce with Liam Naden

    Leveraging Adversity and Mindset for Growth During Divorce with Liam Naden
    Aug 14 2024
    Jamie M. Lima welcomes Liam Naden, who shares his journey through divorce and rebuilding his life. They discuss leveraging adversity for growth and success, emphasizing the crucial role of mindset in overcoming divorce challenges. Liam explains how embracing uncertainty can enhance resilience, and they delve into the brain's role in navigating tough times. They conclude by stating the importance of building a support network and using available resources.
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    40 mins
  • Financial Stability and Empowerment Post-Divorce with Angela Duncan

    Financial Stability and Empowerment Post-Divorce with Angela Duncan
    Aug 7 2024
    Jamie M. Lima and Angela Duncan dive into the financial essentials for those navigating life post-divorce. Angela shares her background and provides practical advice on budgeting, building an emergency reserve, and avoiding debt. They discuss common financial mistakes, essential steps to achieve financial stability, and the importance of shifting your money mindset. The episode covers smart housing decisions, crafting a post-divorce investment strategy, and the role of a financial advisor. Listeners will learn about balancing financial goals with life enjoyment, core satellite investment approaches, and planning for passive income and retirement.
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    27 mins
  • Overcoming Stigma and Embracing Self-Care During Divorce with Melanie Yates

    Overcoming Stigma and Embracing Self-Care During Divorce with Melanie Yates
    Jul 31 2024
    Jamie M. Lima welcomes Melanie Yates to discuss overcoming isolation and addressing the stigma associated with divorce. They highlight the importance of self-care during divorce proceedings and introduce the emotional freedom technique (EFT). Melanie clarifies the difference between self-care and selfishness, emphasizing the need for personal goal-setting. A practical exercise with a priorities worksheet is shared, and they discuss delegating financial stress to professionals. The episode underscores the value of trusting experts and understanding the roles of financial advisors and attorneys.
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    40 mins