• Cruising with Leo Herrera - 55
    Jul 23 2025

    Welcome back, Booty Gang, to another eye-opening episode of BUTT HONESTLY

    This week, the boys are lubed up and locked in with a butt dial from a listener who signs off as Confused in Connecticut—he’s in his first monogamous relationship and wondering if he's doing it right... or if he is the red flag. Dr. Carlton and Dangilo give their unfiltered thoughts, therapy-adjacent advice, and probably make it worse (in the best way).

    The guys welcome a very special guest: Leo Herrera—filmmaker, activist, queer historian, and author of POST and (analong) Cruising. Get ready for a raw, sexy, and deeply intellectual kiki about preserving queer culture, pleasure activism, and why the ghosts of our queer ancestors are probably rolling their eyes at your text game.

    Of course, it wouldn’t be Butt Honestly without a new crop of Hit It and Quit It questions that'll leave you clutching your pearls and your prep. Topics this week include everything from topping fatigue to anal ambition and one listener who just wants to know if his dick has too much charisma.

    The boys wrap it all up with their Love Language of the Week—because nothing says romance like overanalyzing your emotional availability between butt stuff convos. 💞

    So sit back and press play—because this episode is giving you education, entertainment, and a little bit of existential thirst. 🧠🍆💦


    https://www.amazon.com/Analog-Cruising-Manual-Leo-Herrera/dp/B0DJGPQYLC



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    1 hr and 11 mins
  • Have A Little Bit Of PRIDE-54
    Jul 16 2025

    Welcome back to BUTT HONESTLY, the podcast where no hole goes unexplored and no topic is too taboo! 🩺🍑

    This week, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo are back with another episode full of the kind of honesty only a queer medical professional and a guy who has done stuff...lots of stuff can provide. The Butt Dials are ringing off the hook:

    📬 A letter from an ER nurse looking for real talk about compassionate care in queer spaces (Dr. Carlton takes it verypersonally—in the best way).

    💋 A listener dealing with post-hookup cold sore chaos is looking for answers—and mouthwash.

    💉 And a Specialist Level Booty Gang member gets down and dirty asking about Dr. Carlton’s TriMix Kit—because why not turn your dick into a syringe-based science experiment?

    PLUS, it’s time to bend over and confess, because there’s a new batch of juicy READY SET CONFESSstories!

    The guys also dish on their San Diego Pride plans—glitter, harnesses, questionable decisions—and break down the do’s and don’ts of straight people entering queer spaces(spoiler: don’t act like you’re at a bachelorette party in a petting zoo).

    Come for the science, stay for the sass.

    Press play and remember: if you can’t laugh at yourself... call in and let us do it for you.



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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • Old Guys Having Sex- 53
    Jul 9 2025

    Welcome back, Booty Gang! Episode 53 of Butt Honestly is dripping with steamy stories, heartfelt questions, and some... creative uses of pool toys. Dr. Carlton is fresh off another veryhands-on pool party, while Dangilo had a weekend so wholesome it practically needs a halo emoji.

    This week’s mailbag is bursting with goodies:

    📱 A listener in India wants to up his BJ game

    💋 A straight woman is looking to curate a little gay magic

    🍆 A Wilton Manors hottie has questions about C-rings and how not to lose one mid-thrust

    And you know what’s back? That’s right: HIT IT AND QUIT IT returns with more fire than a bottom after Taco Tuesday. Topics include:

    1️⃣ Topping performance anxiety in open relationships

    2️⃣ How big is big enough before your first bottoming adventure?

    3️⃣ Favorite cock sizes—don’t act like you’re not curious

    4️⃣ Numbing creams: pleasure enhancer or vibe killer?

    5️⃣ Is mixing PrEP + Viagra risky with high blood pressure?

    🧻 And the age-old question: can you un-loosen a loose hole?

    PLUS, a heartstring-tugging letter from a listener in love with their best friend. Should they shoot their shot or just keep scrolling?

    We wrap it all up with a spicy READY SET CONFESS, and of course, your favorite weekly cuddle: Love Language of the Week.

    Whether you're rock-hard or soft-hearted, this episode is serving knowledge, nonsense, and just the right amount of nipple play. Hit play, and let’s get honest—butt honestly. 🍑🎧




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    57 mins
  • Juice & Cookies-52
    Jul 2 2025

    Hello, Booty Gang! Welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY, where your favorite butt-educated besties, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo, once again dive deep—sometimes too deep—into the hard-hitting (and occasionally soft-nippled) questions you’ve been dying to ask.

    This week, things get… sensitive. We start off by addressing a message from a very well-endowed listener (humble brag much?) who’s finding it emotionally hard to connect with bottoms—yes, size can be a blessing and a curse. The guys unpack that dilemma with compassion, sass, and the perfect amount of lube.

    Then, we take a quick pit stop at Fiber Town—because one listener wants to know just how much is too much ?

    From there, we crank up the kink with a question about "wired nips"—and we’re not talking Bluetooth-enabled areolas, folks. Whether you’re curious, confused, or just a fan of a good chest zap, Dr. Carlton has thoughts... and a safe word.

    And just when you thought modern dating couldn’t get any worse, the guys break down a brand-new toxic trend: “Floodlighting.” Is it love bombing’s messier cousin? Is it gaslighting in booty shorts? Either way, beware the man who overshares on date one.

    As always, we round things out with your favorite weekly check-in: the Love Language of the Week—because even in the chaos, there’s room for connection, care, and maybe a well-timed cuddle after a fiber-fueled night.

    Plug in and prep up, fam—this one’s a wild ride with a high-fiber finish! 🍑💡💥



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    57 mins
  • Boot N Mud - 51
    Jun 25 2025

    Hello, Booty Gang! Welcome back to another delightfully unhinged episode of BUTT HONESTLY, where things get sweaty, sticky, and a little bit windy—depending on who’s getting pounded and where.

    This week, we’re broadcasting coast-to-coast chaos. Dr. Carlton is fresh from a naked pool party (because SPF is best applied by strangers), and Dangilo is recording from the only hotspot he could find—his sweltering car in the middle of nowhere. Will the heatstroke kick in before the punchlines? Only time will tell.

    We kick things off with a brand-new round of Hit It or Quit It, featuring your burning questions like:

    • Is Ozempic Dick a real side effect or just a myth made up by someone with commitment issues?

    • What happens when you're full of hot air... and we’re not talking about your personality?

    • And can too much breeze during a bang kill the mood—or just inflate your ego?

    We also read a couple of juicy Ready, Set, Confess messages (your kinks are getting spicier, FYI), and bring you the latest update from our favorite serial dater, Trampaige, who once again proves that love is a battlefield—and sometimes it’s booby-trapped.

    From naked cannonballs to awkward air bubbles, we’ve got everything your earbuds never knew they needed. And of course, we wrap it all up with our signature Love Language of the Week—because no matter how weird things get, we still believe in love... or at least a good cuddle after the chaos.

    Hit play and hold your cheeks—this one’s a bumpy ride! 🍑💦🔥



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    59 mins
  • Big Ass P***y-50
    Jun 18 2025

    Pop the champagne BUTT HONESTLY has hit Episode 50, and the boys are back where they belong: in the same room, no guests, and no idea how we made it this far without being flagged by the FCC.

    This week, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo reunite to catch up on all things hole and heart, and let’s just say—it gets real... and real itchy. We’re diving into:

    🍆 A juicy Booty Call from a listener who wants to know if he fumbled the STI disclosure convo or if the guy just wasn’t ready to ride the honesty train.

    🌽 A fiber-fueled text message about the etiquette of tossing salad (because nothing says romance like “Did you eat today?” and “Was it quinoa?”).

    🩸 Double Butt Dials about the inflamed, the irritated, and the downright cranky: hemorrhoid horror stories that may make you sit gently for the rest of the day.

    ✈️ Dangilo’s travel sexcapades — because sometimes the best souvenirs are small-town dick and a punch card from the local adult arcade.

    📣 The guys also discuss the No Kings protest in San Diego

    And of course, they wrap things up with the beloved Love Language of the Week—serving a side of sweetness after all that spice (and fiber).

    So, whether you're nursing a hemorrhoid, questioning your post-fiber protocol, or just here for the D’Angilo giggles and Dr. Carlton wisdom, hit play. Episode 50 proves that when it comes to butts, honesty really is the best policy.




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    49 mins
  • Willam Belli- 49
    Jun 11 2025

    Brace yourselves, Booty Gang—this week on BUTT HONESTLY, we are joined by none other than WILLAM: the drag superstar, singer-songwriter, actor, podcaster, producer, and walking scandal in heels. You’ve seen them in A Star Is Born, you’ve laughed with them on UNCONVENTIONAL, and you’ve gagged on Hot Goss over on the MOGULS OF MEDIA network. Now? They’re bringing that same unfiltered fabulousness right here. And it’s everything.

    Dr. Carlton and Dangilo dive deep with Willam on:

    • Pride Season survival tactics and how they stay fabulous from gig to gig
    • Trans rights and why advocacy isn’t optional.
    • A definitive answer to the age-old question: What city has the best D?
    • And of course—how to keep your hole ready while living that tour bus life. (Because a true professional stays ready.)

    Meanwhile, Dr. Carlton breaks down a groundbreaking new study using nanoparticles to target dormant HIV—science fiction? Nope. Just science.

    Then, it’s time for the return of HIT IT AND QUIT IT, featuring:

    • A long-distance lover looking for hope.
    • A scarred chicken pox survivor wondering if his dots are still hot.
    • And one brave soul experimenting with figging (yes, the thing with ginger root—Google wisely).

    As if that wasn’t enough, the guys read a steamy listener story that’ll fog your glasses and possibly ruin your couch.

    Finally, they wrap it all up with their Love Lounge of the Week, reminding us that beneath the glitter, gags, and ginger root, this show’s still about love… and butts.

    So go on—press play, open your heart, and maybe your legs. Willam insists. 💋



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    58 mins
  • Gonorrhea, Good Vibes & Post IML-48
    Jun 4 2025

    This week on BUTT HONESTLY, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo are back with an episode so juicy.

    We’re kicking things off with some Butt Dials, including:

    • A listener whose body bends… but not the way you’d think.
    • Another listener who’s too protected? Is that a thing? The guys break down risk, safety, and the fine line between cautious and cocooned.
    • And a rare treat: a feel-good booty call that'll leave your cheeks—both sets—smiling.

    Dr. Carlton also dishes on some steamy and heart warming moments from IML (International Mr. Leather)

    Then, it’s time to get nerdy: what’s the latest tea on the world’s first gonorrhea vaccine? Could this be the prick we’ve all been waiting for? The guys talk science, slut health, and what this could mean for your next Grindr meet-up.

    Of course, they bring it all home with their signature Love Language of the Week—because after all the kinks, dildos, and dials, we’re still softies at heart.

    So buckle up, bend carefully, and get ready for another episode that’s equal parts hilarious, heartfelt, and medically fascinating. Press play, spread love, not infections. 💙



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    1 hr and 11 mins