We're thrilled to spotlight Gabie Benson, owner and founder of Sprout Fundraising, our insightful fundraising and leadership coach, who has been pivotal in elevating our nonprofit endeavors with her expert guidance and empathetic approach.

Have you considered starting a nonprofit in honor of your journey with your child's medical challenges? If so, you aren't alone and that's why we invited Gabie to speak to you today. With over 20 years of nonprofit fundraising experience, she shares a passion for empowering nonprofit founders, especially those who feel like underdogs. Gabie and Ashlyn share personal stories, from the challenges faced with our children's medical needs to the societal complexities of parenting, resonate deeply with the struggles of many parents. Through empathy and shared experiences, we celebrate the resilience and grace required to thrive in these roles, all while exploring the unexpected joys of helping others achieve their missions.

For those contemplating launching a nonprofit, this episode offers a wealth of knowledge to guide you through the essential steps. From researching community needs and establishing a strong board to crafting a clear mission and vision, we lay out the groundwork for creating a successful organization. We delve into the emotional complexities of fundraising, emphasizing the importance of community support and resilience. With insights from Gabie Benson, we aim to inspire and equip you with the tools needed to embark on your own nonprofit journey, fostering a network of support and hope along the way.

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Get your copy of She is Charlotte: A Mother’s Physical, Emotional, and Spiritual Journey with Her Child with Medical Complexities by Emily K Whiting on Amazon

"What did I do wrong?"
"How did I cause this?"
"Is this my fault?"

Some form of this question is the first thing to cross the mind of almost every single parent at what we refer to as "the moment of impact" - the moment a parent learns their child is not ok and requires medical intervention.

Take a trip back with us to our original episode of Empowered by Hope as we share our emotional journeys through parenting children with complex medical needs, focusing on the ever-present shadow of guilt. Ashlyn opens up about the life-altering decision to venture into medical tourism, seeking a transformative surgery for her daughter Emery in London. Meanwhile, Emily reflects on her tireless efforts to provide the best care for her daughter Charlotte, navigating a labyrinth of specialists and daily challenges. Together, we explore the heartache and resilience that come with these struggles, offering our insights and support to those walking a similar path.

Unravel the heavy emotions that accompany a challenging diagnosis as we dissect the guilt that often haunts parents of children with medical complexities, no matter the diagnosis or severity. Through candid discussions, we emphasize that such feelings are not a reflection of parental inadequacy but rather a natural part of the journey. We tackle the difficult reality of balancing heart-wrenching medical decisions with the love for our children, and how guilt can blur the truth of our devotion. By sharing our personal experiences, we aim to provide clarity and reduce self-judgment, allowing parents to navigate their path with more confidence and self-compassion.

Community and connection are lifelines in these challenging times, and we emphasize their importance by encouraging open communication and shared stories. We discuss practical strategies for managing guilt and finding hope, such as writing letters to oneself or seeking solace in spiritual beliefs. Our goal is to create a welcoming space where listeners feel seen and understood, reinforcing that no one is alone in their journey. We invite you to connect with us, share your stories, and spread the support to others who might benefit from these heartfelt conversations.

And please, remember, your child's diagnosis is NOT your fault.

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Finding it hard to imagine your child transforming their fear of medical appointments into proud moments of bravery? This episode of Empowered by Hope illuminates that journey through the inspiring story of Charlotte, Emily’s daughter, who recently earned a bravery award for her courage.

Navigating the complexities of medical procedures with your child is never easy, but preparation and self-care can make a world of difference. Ashlyn opens up about her own experiences with Emery, sharing pivotal moments that taught her the importance of being a calming presence. From the significance of clear communication with healthcare providers to the simple yet profound act of staying in the room during traumatic procedures, discover strategies that can help alleviate both your child's and your own anxiety during these challenging times.

Empowering children in medical settings is crucial, and proactive steps such as creating a "poke plan" can turn anxiety into confidence. Learn how involving child life specialists and practicing at home can transform a child’s experience, as illustrated by Ashlyn who made ultrasounds enjoyable for Emery, by incorporating her love for animals and superheroes. Celebrate the small victories and the strength that comes from supportive connections, and remember, you are not alone on this journey. Subscribe for more insights and share your own stories to help sustain this empowering community.

We kindly ask that you share this podcast with other families who might benefit from our insights and support. Additionally, please consider leaving a review on your preferred podcast platform. Our goal is to reach as many families as possible who are navigating this challenging journey, so they can find our support circle and access the assistance they rightfully deserve. No one should walk this journey alone.

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Email: Contact@CharlottesHopeFoundation.org
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Get your copy of She is Charlotte: A Mother’s Physical, Emotional, and Spiritual Journey with Her Child with Medical Complexities by Emily K Whiting on Amazon

Receiving a life-altering diagnosis for your child reshapes everything. In this episode, Emily shares the emotional journey of discovering Charlotte’s rare condition—Hardikar Syndrome, a diagnosis with only nine documented cases worldwide at the time. We reflect on those heart-wrenching days and how hope and support helped Emily & Dan navigate the unknown. A key figure in our story is Dr. Alanna Strong, whose expertise and care have been invaluable.

We explore how using #hardikar on social media led us to a global network of 21 families affected by Hardikar Syndrome. What began as a few online connections has grown into a strong community. Together, we’ve deepened our understanding of the syndrome and doubled the patient population for research initiatives led by Dr. Strong. This episode highlights the power of genetic research and community-driven support.

Navigating a rare medical condition can be isolating, but it also brings moments of hope. We discuss how a diagnosis provides clarity, connection, and access to essential resources. No family should face this journey alone, and we invite listeners to share their stories and connect with us. Together, we can find strength in unity and spread a message of hope and resilience for families facing rare medical challenges.

Hardikar Resources:
1. "Charlotte has a Diagnosis!"
2. "Novel Insights into the Phenotypic Spectrum and Pathogenesis of Hardikar Syndrome"
3. Contact Dr. Alanna Strong
4. Private Hardikar Syndrome Support Group - click here to join this group if you are the parent of a child with Hardikar or you have Hardikar
5. Get your copy of She is Charlotte: A Mother’s Physical, Emotional, and Spiritual Journey with Her Child with Medical Complexities by Emily K Whiting on Amazon

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Imagine discovering that the best medical treatment for your child's rare condition is halfway across the globe. Join us, Ashlyn and Emily, as we recount the incredible journey of Ashlyn's daughter, Emery, who was born with bladder exstrophy. Ashlyn's advocacy journey for Emery led them to a life-changing procedure at Great Ormond Street Hospital in the UK, making Emery the first American to undergo the 20+ year old surgery. This episode of Empowered by Hope underscores the importance of global medical options and the pivotal role of empowered parenting and relentless advocacy in finding the best care for our children.

We detail our efforts to bring the revolutionary Kelly Continence procedure to the US, highlighting Charlotte's Hope collaboration with top surgeons Dr. Imran Mushtaq from London, Dr. Marc LeClair from France, and Dr. PJ Lopez at Rainbow Babies and Children's Hospital in Cleveland, Ohio. Learn about the collective quest to make this life-changing surgery accessible to more families, sparing them the daunting task of traveling abroad. We share highlights from a recent webinar where parents engaged with these world-leading experts, showcasing the power of advocacy in expanding medical horizons.

Navigating the journey of advocating for your child can be overwhelming, but you're not alone. We provide practical advice on trusting your instincts, seeking multiple opinions, and staying informed about new treatments. Our episode emphasizes the strength found in unity and the importance of connecting with others for support. We invite you to subscribe, share your personal journeys, and remember that even on the toughest days, you are doing an exceptional job. Share your story with us at contact@charlotteshopefoundation.org and join our community of empowered parents.

Additional Episode Resources:
Link to Bladder Exstrophy-Kelly Continence Procedure Webinar: https://www.uhhospitals.org/health-talks/articles/2024/09/care-for-children-with-bladder-exstrophy

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Imagine facing the overwhelming task of preparing your child with complex medical needs for school. Emily knows this journey all too well with her daughter Charlotte, and in this heartfelt episode of Empowered by Hope, she shares her invaluable experiences. From dealing with feeding tubes and medications to navigating physical limitations, Emily and Ashlyn provide practical strategies and compassionate insights to help you become a confident advocate for your child within the school system. Learn how to tailor educational experiences that allow your child to grow, develop, and genuinely enjoy their learning journey despite the challenges they face.

We also discuss the critical role of parental advocacy, offering three essential tips that can make a world of difference. Find out how to secure an intervention specialist, leverage the power of parent support groups, and trust your instincts to ensure your child's needs are met effectively. Emily's firsthand advice underscores the importance of speaking up and recognizing that each child's school journey is unique—it's perfectly okay for their path to look different from others. Join us for this supportive and empowering conversation, and don't forget to subscribe, share your stories, and spread the word to those who might benefit from this invaluable guidance.

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Imagine the fear gripping you as you hear your child’s complex medical diagnosis for the first time. It’s a fear Ashlyn Thompson and Emily Whiting deeply understand and tackle head-on in this episode of Empowered by Hope. Join us as we explore ways to transform that paralyzing fear into a wellspring of courage and hope. From acknowledging the terror of the unknown to verbalizing your fears and reducing their grip, we share strategies to help parents advocate fiercely for their children while navigating their unique journeys with resilience.

We delve into the intersection of fear and faith, underlining the importance of accepting fear as a part of life and taking actionable steps to manage it. Highlighting the value of mental health support, whether through therapy or medication, we emphasize that seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness. Ashlyn’s personal story about Emory’s pre-op preparation shines a light on finding courage amid overwhelming dread. Remember, you are not alone in this journey—our community is here to offer comfort, support, and hope every step of the way. Subscribe, share your stories, and connect with us to find the strength and solidarity you need.

We kindly ask that you share this podcast with other families who might benefit from our insights and support. Additionally, please consider leaving a review on your preferred podcast platform. Our goal is to reach as many families as possible who are navigating this challenging journey, so they can find our support circle and access the assistance they rightfully deserve. No one should walk this journey alone.

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Imagine creating an eight-page care document for your in-laws just to ensure your child's complex medical needs are met. That's the reality many parents face, and it's exactly the kind of challenge we're tackling in this episode of Empowered by Hope. Emily, our go-to for all things organization, shares her tried-and-true methods for turning chaos into clarity. We explore the delicate balancing act required to manage medical appointments, household chores, and personal relationships, all while keeping your sanity intact.

When everything feels like it's on fire, how do you decide what to handle first? We discuss the art of prioritizing urgent tasks, emphasizing the importance of slowing down to be more effective. Emily and I delve into the emotional toll of caregiving and why giving yourself grace can be a lifesaver. From differentiating between emergent and non-emergent tasks to accepting and asking for help, we share personal anecdotes and practical strategies to help you keep your head above water.

Finally, we discuss the tools that help us stay organized even with ADHD. A simple notepad from Ashlyn's mom, listing the top three daily priorities, has been a game-changer. We talk about setting realistic goals, managing external pressures, and the pitfalls of procrastination. By the end of the episode, you'll feel empowered and reminded that you're not alone on this journey. Join our community, share your experiences, and together, let's find strength and support in one another.

We kindly ask that you share this podcast with other families who might benefit from our insights and support. Additionally, please consider leaving a review on your preferred podcast platform. Our goal is to reach as many families as possible who are navigating this challenging journey, so they can find our support circle and access the assistance they rightfully deserve. No one should walk this journey alone.

To get more personal support, connect with us directly at: CharlottesHopeFoundation.org
Email: Contact@CharlottesHopeFoundation.org
Facebook: Charlotte's Hope Foundation
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Get your copy of She is Charlotte: A Mother’s Physical, Emotional, and Spiritual Journey with Her Child with Medical Complexities by Emily K Whiting on Amazon