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Here Comes Sunshine with Sarah Valentine

Here Comes Sunshine with Sarah Valentine

By: Sarah Valentine. Musings on Life | Love | Mindset
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Hello and welcome! I'm Sarah Valentine, a Clinical Sexologist and Certified Coach, “Here Comes Sunshine” will be your dose of mindful and positive encouragement. Get motivation to level up your life and have a kick-ass day! Thank you for doing life with this Sensual Ninja, Dork, and proud GenXer. Visit www.intimateconsciousness.com to learn more about Sarah, and follow her on Instagram, Threads, and YouTube.Sarah Valentine. Musings on Life | Love | Mindset Personal Development Personal Success
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  • S4 | E13 Why Do Things Feel Off Lately? Understanding the Glitch in Your Mind.
    Jun 25 2025

    Are you feeling more forgetful, reactive, or emotionally flat lately? You’re not broken, you might just be caught in what Chase Hughes calls “The Glitch.”

    Watch the YouTube Here: https://youtu.be/wsF3REbr-44?si=kKGnRRgERH6su8vA


    In this episode of Here Comes Sunshine, we explore why so many of us feel off right now, what’s happening in our minds and nervous systems, and how to reclaim clarity in a world always demanding our attention.

    You’ll get:

    • Grounding questions to help you reconnect
    • A 7-day clarity check-in challenge
    • Simple rituals to reset your nervous system


    We also discuss how the glitch affects intimacy, emotional connection, and how we show up in relationships.

    Let’s move from fog to freedom, together.


    Resources:

    ⁠Substack: sarahvalentinemusings.substack.com⁠

    Stan Store: stan.store/the_sarah_valentine⁠

    Contact Sarah: ⁠sarah@intimateconsciousness.com⁠

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    12 mins
  • S4 | E12 Deciding to Stay or Go: A Soul-Searching Series for Men: If It’s Time to Let Go, How Do I Do It With Strength and Grace?
    Jun 23 2025

    Letting go isn’t weakness, it’s a powerful act of self-respect.

    In the final part of this 4-episode series, we talk about how to release a relationship that no longer honors who you are.

    Not with bitterness or blame, but with clarity, intention, and grace. You’ll learn how to grieve what’s ending, set firm boundaries, and create a healing plan to guide your next chapter. If you’re ready to stop living in limbo and start choosing growth, this episode will walk you through the first steps of moving forward, calm, clear, and grounded in your worth.

    Not revenge. Not bitterness. Not ghosting or disappearing in silence. But the kind of letting go that says:

    “I love myself enough to walk away from what no longer honors me.”


    You’re not alone.

    And you’re not stuck.Sunshine is always waiting.Find more reflection tools and support:Email: sarah@intimateconsciousness.comStan Store: https://stan.store/the_sarah_valentine

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    10 mins
  • S4 | E11 Deciding to Stay or Go: A Soul-Searching Series for Men: Am I Willing to Try One More Time but With Clarity?
    Jun 18 2025

    Sometimes we’re not ready to leave, but we don’t want to stay stuck. In Part 3 of this series, we explore what it looks like to give your relationship one more try, with clear intention and emotional integrity. If you’re wondering, “Can this still be rebuilt?”—this episode will walk you through how to show up differently, invite connection without pressure, and listen for the truth in her response because trying again doesn’t mean losing yourself. It means leading with love and letting the outcome reveal what’s real.

    1. Create a 30-Day Reconnection Plan. This isn’t about changing her. It’s about showing up differently and seeing what’s possible.

    Examples:

    • Plan a meaningful date night.
    • Ask her an open-ended question you’ve never asked before.
    • Express one honest feeling a day, without blame or bitterness.
    • “I’ve been thinking a lot about us and what I hope we can rebuild.”
    • “I want to feel closer to you again. Would you be open to trying something together, one step at a time?”
    • Am I willing to try without controlling the outcome?
    • Can I stay grounded even if she shuts down?
    • Am I doing this from love or fear?


    2. Use Clear, Compassionate Communication. Say things like: This is not about begging. It’s about an invitation.


    3. Ask Yourself: This kind of effort takes strength. And if she responds? Beautiful. If she doesn’t? You have your answer.

    And you tried with your whole heart.


    You can find more support and resources at my ⁠Stan Store⁠or by contacting me directly at ⁠sarah@intimateconsciousness.com⁠.See you next time!

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    9 mins
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