• It's Giving - How to get a partner that's high value! with Sarah Fontenot
    Oct 30 2024

    Wow!! Sometimes it's just nice to sit and work through some of the questions in your mind... and then have the conversations out loud!

    Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!

    You guys asked, so here are her answers

    Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman
    https://mssarahfontenot.com/hvw-ebook

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    Host: Sarah Fontenot
    IG: @MsSarahFontenot
    https://www.instagram.com/mssarahfontenot/
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    0:00 - Intro
    2:05 - why is It that women pray for something then get It and treat It like trash?
    4:40 - what does It mean to treat you bad?
    6:25 - it’s always a ME thing!
    7:03 - should a woman take a man’s last name
    8:55 - when a woman marries a man she’s leaving her family behind
    11:15 - tips on how to carry a conversation with a man!
    14:20 - what do you want to talk about with your man?
    15:35 - now if we are in in person…
    16:40 - be INTERESTED not interesting
    18:38 - masculine men want to feel needed!
    19:25 - men love when you stroke their ego
    20:00 - make people feel SEEN!
    20:40 - master the art of manipulation
    21:30 - why do women raise the very men they don’t want?
    22:25 - women should not raise boys by themselves
    24:00 - women are raising women in their sons
    24:28 - ladies need to stop getting pregnant by losers that don’t support a child
    25:05 - why are you laying down with men you don’t like
    27:10 - ladies don’t squander your legacy
    29:30 - will you be a victim or a victor of your circumstances
    30:30 - do you feel like it’s okay to date someone that comes from a single mom?
    33:20 - as a single parent It does disqualify you from certain things
    36:15 - when a woman has a child and single you have to bring even more value
    38:30 - a pretty face will catch them but not keep them
    39:05 - you should never give a man more than one time to say he doesn’t want you
    40:40 - we have to stop allowing our desires of an outcome outweigh the reality of what It is!
    41:10 - if you find yourself saying… he wasn’t trying to hurt you… you have to ask yourself this?
    42:27 - how do you deal with people that don’t want you to be high value?
    46:50 - i met mean girls in Atlanta
    49:40 - I’m okay with vulnerable around me, i can’t let weak
    51:18 - is being a high value individual for being picky or is It valid?
    53:17 - is It fair to expect your partner to be high value if you’re not
    54:47 - high value is in you…
    55:12 - do you think high value are born or can learn It?
    *** 56:44 link to secure attachment styles ***
    56:55 - if you come from trauma it’s okay are you intentional about It growth?!
    59:19 - reaction videos
    How do you feel about the phone being facedown
    1:01:05 - Kenny’s male p

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    1 hr and 24 mins
  • It's Giving - What's with this TRASH dating pool? With Sarah Fontenot
    Oct 23 2024

    Wow!! Sometimes it's just nice to sit and work through some of the questions in your mind... and then have the conversations out loud!

    Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!

    You guys asked, so here are her answers

    Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman
    https://mssarahfontenot.com/hvw-ebook

    Join the community: mssarahfontenot.com
    Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/itsgivingpodcast/

    Host: Sarah Fontenot
    IG: @MsSarahFontenot
    https://www.instagram.com/mssarahfontenot/
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    0:00 - Intro
    3:09 - what are some boundaries a man should have in a relationship?
    5:04 - should a man want to provide for a woman he just met and is dating?
    7:30 - there are certain things that need to be reserved and exclusive
    8:14 - when I’m in a relationship i attract men that want to provide for me
    9:00 - share a 50/50 love - over a decade my experience has been so different
    11:20 - not every man is masculine by nature
    12:00 - I have a friend that hates the idea of “high value”
    13:10 - how do you help someone want to be high value
    15:20 - as a person that is on the healing journey i can’t function in the same disfunction
    16:40 - there’s power in rest
    18:19 - how do you deal with a partner that has trust issues?
    19:50 - we GIVE birth but we can’t…
    21:25 - you’ve got to learn to be emotionally regulated
    22:45 - there are some men that need the toxicity
    24:15 - I’ve gotten to q place where I’ll say okay
    25:00 - when should an unmarried wife start dating
    27:00 - if a man proposes after 2 months what would you say?
    29:08 - no one is a bad person some people are just weak!
    30:38 - only ONE of those are tangible
    31:15 - people see things through their experiences and perceptions and that’s okay
    33:26 - most people live in their experiences of course you wouldn’t like us
    34:58 - why do men get so sensitive about when women say they want a man with money? People are getting delusional
    38:00 - most people don’t want a solution they want to complain
    41:53 - people need to stop being delusional - people start dying after 30
    44:34 - why are women so jaded now a days - it’s a combination
    47:07 - Why do women actively lie to themselves
    48:45 - would you date someone shorter than you?
    52:25 - what is the easiest way to overcome trauma
    53:15 - It was the I’m sorry list that changed my list
    1:01:00 - what are the top 3 relationship killers?
    1:04:00 - why is It that we can operate at work but not in the home?
    1:06:25 - why do women want to work for real?
    1:07:42 - most people are so caught up in the things that they forget to be passionate and loving

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    1 hr and 10 mins
  • It's Giving - Why should a man want to get married?! with @SarahFontenot
    Oct 16 2024

    Wow!! Sometimes it's just nice to sit and work through some of the questions in your mind... and then have the conversations out loud!

    Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!

    You guys asked, so here are her answers

    Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman
    https://mssarahfontenot.com/hvw-ebook


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    Host: Sarah Fontenot
    IG: @MsSarahFontenot
    https://www.instagram.com/mssarahfontenot/
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    0:00 - intro
    3:24 - should your wife have the last say so in the household
    5:57 - do black women feel regret when black men date outside of their race
    6:59 - a lot of white women are trained to be wives
    8:07 - i need someone that’s had my experience - cultural differences
    9:25 - i love a black king - a lot of black men have a chip on their shoulder
    10:38 - how do you feel about white families adopting black children
    12:50 - both my parents are black
    13:07 - black is an action and not a race - you don’t act like It
    15:00 - wow you speak really well for…
    15:46 - Kenny what do you think?
    17:45 - my dad is prejudice
    19:39 - why should a man get married when women leave so easily
    22:00 - most people break up a year later for what they saw in the first week
    23:07 - should you and your partner get tested before sex
    23:36 - how to be a high value gem woman
    25:04 - how do you correct a man in your femininity
    26:48 - what is one thing you’re willing to compromise in a relationship
    28:36 - if you don’t want a 50/50 man what should you do?
    30:55 - i don’t need a man to pay my bills but when im in a relationship he does
    32:28 - why are relationships so adversarial?
    36:55 - everyone successful has narcissistic traits
    39:05 - outside of infidelity and physical abuse is there any reason to divorce your wife?
    40:33 - marriage licenses weren’t created until…
    42:33 - why do women equate success to being masculine?
    46:08 - i don’t want to ask anyone for help
    47:00 - how do i get over an ex?
    49:45 - if i finally let you go, I'm gone
    Videos:
    52:00 - why should a man get married?
    https://youtube.com/shorts/QQkRmfLopxI?si=hT_Jx2pID9BLm-cp
    1:01:45 - there was a woman that agreed to a prenup and then didn’t want to sign it and he didn’t show
    1:02: 40 - what is the definition of love?
    1:05:09 - i would never date a black woman
    https://youtube.com/shorts/saF3ZjI8R6U?si=qdpIqjV5I4Jda8MF

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    1 hr and 11 mins
  • It’s Giving - LIVE with The Givers!
    Oct 9 2024

    Wow!! Sometimes it's just nice to sit and work through some of the questions in your mind... and then have the conversations out loud!

    Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!

    You guys asked, so here are her answers

    Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman
    https://mssarahfontenot.com/hvw-ebook

    Join the community: mssarahfontenot.com (http://mssarahfontenot.com)
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    Host: Sarah Fontenot
    IG: @MsSarahFontenot
    https://www.instagram.com/mssarahfontenot/ (https://www.instagram.com/mssarahfontenot/)
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    1 hr and 14 mins
  • It’s Giving - What do you bring to the table?!
    Oct 2 2024

    Wow!! Sometimes it's just nice to sit and work through some of the questions in your mind... and then have the conversations out loud!

    Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!

    You guys asked, so here are her answers

    Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman
    https://mssarahfontenot.com/hvw-ebook

    Join the community: mssarahfontenot.com
    Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/itsgivingpodcast/

    0:00 - Intro
    3:00 - do you believe people have a false sense of interest on social media?
    4:41 - do you believe the more money you have the more value you have?
    5:20 - is It wrong when a man sets a spending limit on a woman in a relationship?
    7:25 - why can’t men treat women that dress super sexy like a lady?
    10:28 - a man’s perspective on why a man won’t want to keep you if you’re overly sexy
    11:40 - a video talking a scantily clad woman - is this sexy or insecure?
    13:29 - do women deserve respect just because they’re women?
    13:50 - what is your perception of sexy?
    15:59 - why do women expect men to cheat, but men don’t expect women to cheat?
    18:01 - what is contravance? What is manipulation?
    20:25 - why can’t men say how they truly feel without hurting?
    24:42 - in your observation why is It that men have to come with everything but women have to come with nothing?
    26:06 - what do you think of a man who’s embarrassed because he grew up with all women in his life?
    29:18 - what does self hate look like?
    30:41 - bullying is at an all time high!
    31:56 - how do you explain soulmate love?
    33:49 - 4 types of soulmate love
    36:46 - when your partner asks how you feel, why isn’t the first instinct to validate their feelings?
    40:00 - we have an ebook!
    41:55 - what if you have a dismissive partner?
    44:51 - conversations go really far in relationships - I’ll be ready to jump ship if not
    47:12 - i shut down when there’s yelling
    48:08 - there’s more than just fight or flight
    49:44 - do you believe you should love people according to their love language or theirs?
    51:40 - what’s RULE #1?
    52:09 - you should study your partner!
    53:00 - warm body syndrome is messing people up!
    54:45 - At some point you have to hold yourself accountable
    55:53 - would you date someone that has mental health issues?
    56:40 - do you feel like men and women can be plutonic friends?
    56:55 - did you have to build up to the way you communicate?
    59:00 - should women give nerds a chance?
    1:01:15 - what mistakes have learned in a relationship?
    1:05:43 - what happens when your man stops supplying your needs and gets lazy?
    1:07:20 - i think people rush because…
    1:09:29 - we are going to be eaten alive!!
    Responses:
    1:10:45 - man humbles OF girl
    Video Credit: https://youtube.com/shorts/xjvpKKVTS7g?si=LFsVzSo_xlXpaWf2
    1:14:00 - what makes someone high value?
    1:15:15 - do you believe you can be high value without a high number in your bank account
    1:24:50 - does It matter what society thinks?
    1:27:11 - you’ve got to play the game
    1:28:00 - I’m getting my smile done

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    1 hr and 37 mins
  • It's Giving - Awareness, Respect And Vulnerability
    Sep 25 2024

    Wow! What an episode! The level of knowledge, transparency, and breakdown in this episode was mind blowing!!

    When we tell you @thehealthcareceo (https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCR6hXiWOlFWc46qMFMClKHA) left NOTHING out!

    Let us know what it's giving in the comments!

    Guest: Hanz Fequiere
    Instagram: @thehealthcareceo
    Link: https://www.instagram.com/thehealthcareceo_/ (https://www.instagram.com/thehealthcareceo_/)
    Check him out: https://thehealthcareceo.com


    Book: Battle Cry
    Link: https://www.audible.com/pd/1400228182?source_code=ASSORAP0511160006&share_location=pdp (https://www.audible.com/pd/1400228182?source_code=ASSORAP0511160006&share_location=pdp)

    Host: Sarah Fontenot
    IG: @MsSarahFontenot
    https://www.instagram.com/mssarahfontenot/ (https://www.instagram.com/mssarahfontenot/)
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    1 hr and 8 mins
  • It's Giving - Lasting In relationship means you're Equally Yoked!
    Sep 18 2024

    Wow!! Sometimes it's just nice to sit and work through some of the questions in your mind... and then have the conversations out loud!

    Some of the questions asked:
    - should you stay with someone that is DEPRESSED
    - what advice do you have for women dating in the midst of establishing their career?
    - how do you feel about people who use the excuse of poly to sleep with other people?

    Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!

    You guys asked, so here are her answers

    Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman
    https://mssarahfontenot.com/hvw-ebook

    Join the community: mssarahfontenot.com
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    Host: Sarah Fontenot
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    1 hr and 20 mins
  • It's Giving - A Weak Man is a Dangerous Man! With @SarahFontenot
    Sep 11 2024

    Wow!! Sometimes it's just nice to sit and work through some of the questions in your mind... and then have the conversations out loud!

    Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!

    You guys asked, so here are her answers

    Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman
    https://mssarahfontenot.com/hvw-ebook


    Join the community: mssarahfontenot.com
    Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/itsgivingpodcast/

    Host: Sarah Fontenot
    IG: @MsSarahFontenot
    https://www.instagram.com/mssarahfontenot/
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    Book:
    Attached - https://www.audible.com/pd/0593171667?source_code=ASSORAP0511160006&share_location=player_overflow

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    1 hr and 16 mins