• Are we raising a Generation of Broken Women?(Audio Only)
    Nov 6 2024

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    Uncover the unseen cost of broken relationships in this thought-provoking discussion. We dive into how social media platforms influence perceptions and expectations in modern relationships, exploring the impact of accountability, self-worth, and societal norms. Discover the importance of personal growth and self-improvement in overcoming relationship challenges, with a focus on the roles of men and women in fostering healthier dynamics. Are you ready to confront the reality of broken relationships and their hidden costs? Join us as we unravel personal stories, share valuable insights, and offer guidance on building a more fulfilling life. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit that bell for more enlightening content.

    #focusonthefamily #modelingsuccessforyourkids #selfimprovement #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness

    CHAPTERS:
    00:00 - Why are women so broken
    01:46 - Financial stability without a woman
    04:24 - Men and self-worth tied to money
    06:34 - Joblessness and self-esteem
    08:59 - Men's emotional distance explained
    13:06 - Understanding Postpartum Depression
    20:33 - Making a positive change
    22:10 - Importance of Authenticity
    24:53 - Parenting and honesty issues
    26:36 - Reasons for having children
    33:05 - Men's accountability in relationships
    34:20 - Understanding child support
    38:30 - Co-parenting dynamics
    40:31 - Common excuses men make
    43:15 - Guiding a man towards growth
    46:54 - Choosing the right partners
    48:55 - The 6-6-6 Rule Explained
    53:18 - The 4% Rule in dating
    56:40 - The men you desire may not reciprocate
    59:45 - Societal pressures on attraction
    1:05:47 - Historical dating practices
    1:09:50 - Suggestions for single individuals
    1:13:00 - Readiness before dating
    1:13:30 - Building a solid relationship
    1:15:00 - Reasons men avoid commitment
    1:17:08 - Outro

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    1 hr and 18 mins
  • Would you Sell your Soul in order to Live your Dreams? A Cautionary Tale
    Oct 14 2024

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    In Hollywood, integrity is non-negotiable. Dive into a raw and unfiltered conversation about the industry's dark side, where power dynamics and moral dilemmas often overshadow talent and ambition. This video unpacks the recent controversies surrounding figures like Puff Daddy, exploring the high stakes of maintaining integrity in an industry where fame and fortune are tantalizingly dangled as rewards. With candid discussions on the pressures and choices faced by those in the spotlight, this video challenges viewers to consider the personal cost of success. From the manipulation of young talent to the systemic issues perpetuating these cycles, it's a thought-provoking look at Hollywood's cultural and ethical challenges. Join us for this eye-opening discussion, and don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell for more insights.

    CHAPTERS:
    00:00 - The Price of Fame
    11:17 - The Shirley Temple Effect
    14:49 - Corruption in Powerful Positions
    16:55 - Supporting Future Generations
    19:30 - The 50 Foot Bed
    22:00 - The Black Market
    26:10 - Choosing Cheaper Options
    28:40 - Importance of Access
    32:30 - Puff Daddy's Family Dynamics
    39:45 - CEO Accountability After Arrests
    43:15 - Impact of Stage Parents
    46:29 - Parental Involvement in Entertainment
    47:55 - The Silence of Amanda Bynes
    51:38 - Behind the Scenes in Hollywood
    54:14 - Lack of Support Systems
    56:16 - Consequences of Growing Up in Fame
    58:55 - Exploring Conspiracy Theories
    1:00:29 - Importance of Integrity
    1:02:47 - Like, Comment, & Subscribe

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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • Are You Sabotaging Your Dating Life with Poor Hygiene?
    Sep 9 2024

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    🔥 The SHOCKING Hygiene Habits Men MUST Change! 🔥 Are your cleanliness standards up to par? In this eye-opening discussion, we dive deep into the surprising hygiene practices that men need to rethink RIGHT NOW. From the importance of daily bathing to the necessity of proper grooming, we're calling out the routines that might just be holding you back. Discover why standards start at home and how they impact your personal and social life.

    Join us as we challenge outdated habits, expose the real consequences of poor hygiene, and reveal the secrets to presenting your best self. Don't miss out on these life-changing insights — your future self will thank you!

    CHAPTERS:
    00:00 - Intro
    00:22 - Standards
    06:37 - How to Tell Your Man He Needs to Wash
    14:56 - Sheer Clothing Fashion Tips
    17:40 - Dating Older Women
    18:50 - Moms and Relationships
    28:14 - Physical Health Tips
    31:31 - FDA and Your Health Concerns
    33:00 - Importance of Diet and Nutrition
    38:00 - Importance of Mental Health
    46:10 - Lack of Accountability in Relationships
    49:15 - Stop Trying to Change Your Partner
    51:37 - You Can’t Change a Man
    59:28 - Men Aren’t What You Think
    1:05:10 - Happy Anniversary
    1:05:42 - Thank You for the Love
    1:06:09 - We Live This Everyday
    1:07:09 - Outro

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    1 hr and 8 mins
  • Should Women Always Get Half in a Divorce? A Heated Debate
    Jul 10 2024

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    Dive into the heated debate on Kenya's controversial divorce ban: is it a move to protect men or an oppressive measure against women? In this eye-opening discussion, we explore the new law, the Prime Minister’s bold statements, and the implications for marriages in Kenya. Are prenuptial agreements and paternity tests really the answer to saving marriages, or are they just stoking the fires of gender inequality?

    Join us as we dissect the statistics showing that 80% of divorces are initiated by women and question if men are deliberately pushing their spouses to file for divorce. We'll also reflect on real-life stories and the emotional toll of these decisions. This video raises critical questions about the balance of power in relationships, societal expectations, and the true meaning of marriage.

    Don't miss out on this controversial and thought-provoking discussion. Like, subscribe, and hit the bell button for more deep dives into the issues that matter most. Share your thoughts in the comments below – we want to hear from you!

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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • Celebrity Scandals and Real-life Impacts: Lessons from the Diddy Saga
    Jun 6 2024

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    Discussing domestic violence statistics and the pitfalls of abusive relationships, On tha Mic w/M & T delve into current high-profile cases and personal anecdotes to illustrate the complexities and choices involved. They explore the psychological impacts of abuse, the influence of societal norms, and the importance of self-awareness and support systems. Practical advice is offered for those trapped in abusive situations, emphasizing the need for self-empowerment and the availability of resources. This episode is an eye-opening conversation on the realities of domestic violence, its pervasive nature, and the challenging journey toward recovery and resilience.

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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • Living on a Tightrope: Side Hustles, Social Media, and the Shifting Roles of Relationships
    May 1 2024

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    Have you ever caught a glimpse of the financial tightrope that teachers walk every day? Prepare to have your eyes opened as we peel back the curtain on the lives of educators, particularly those who turn to platforms like OnlyFans to supplement their incomes. As we navigate the uncomfortable intersection of private side hustles and public personas, we discuss the societal expectations that both confine and define the roles of teachers. The conversation traverses the rocky terrain of systemic educational funding failures, public discomfort, and the implications of educators' after-hours activities on their professional standing.

    This episode isn't just an exploration of the financial struggles within the education system; it's a deep dive into the tumultuous waters of modern relationships and the role of social media. We shine a light on the controversial topic of fidelity, societal reactions to unexpected revelations, and the accountability that married men have when engaging with content creators on platforms like OnlyFans. From the impact on marriages to the societal lens that magnifies every move teachers make, we dissect the complex dynamics at play. We also consider whether the traditional roles of men and women in relationships are shifting under the weight of new expectations.

    To round off our discussion, we tackle the emotionally charged topics of fatherhood, co-parenting, and blended family dynamics. We confront stereotypes, highlight the importance of a father's presence, and discuss the balance between financial provision and active parenting. With personal anecdotes and insights, we unpack the nuances of discipline within step-families and the essential communication needed to navigate the intricacies of co-parenting. Tune in for an episode that promises to challenge preconceptions, spark dialogue, and offer a fresh perspective on the responsibilities that define our most intimate relationships.

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    1 hr and 17 mins
  • Navigating Age Gaps: The Complexities of Dating, Attraction, and Social Stigmas
    Mar 28 2024

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    Have you ever found yourself at a family dinner where your uncle arrives with his new girlfriend who's suspiciously close to your age? It's a scenario that raises eyebrows and a multitude of questions, which we tackle head-on in our latest episode. Join us as we dissect the controversial topic of age in relationships, from the double standards faced by older women dating younger men to the stigmas of older men with much younger women. We'll share intimate family stories that reveal the potential for strife when age-gap relationships clash with societal norms, and discuss whether love truly knows no age—or if there's reason to be wary.

    Navigating the choppy waters of age-gap relationships isn't without its perils, as I can personally attest from a friend's experience that was more a cautionary tale than a fairytale. This episode isn't just about the drama, though; it's an eye-opening discussion about cultural and generational divides, the relatability factor in partnerships with wide age differences, and the sometimes-harsh realities of dating across life stages. We're pulling no punches as we draw from the world of sports and entertainment to paint a vivid picture of how varying years can translate to contrasting experiences and expectations.

    Ever wondered if that well-dressed individual at the bar is out of your league or simply playing it down to avoid unwanted advances? Our conversation veers into the complexities of dating for plus-size women, the psychology behind accepting less than you deserve, and the importance of body language in the art of attraction. We share tips on how to better signal your interest across the room with just a look, and muse on how wealth and attire play into the dynamics of attraction. Prepare to have your perspectives challenged and to walk away with a newfound understanding of the dating world's intricate dance.

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    1 hr and 7 mins
  • Unseen Red Flags: Navigating Respect, Control, and Communication in Relationships
    Mar 14 2024

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    Ever find yourself in a relationship that feels slightly off, but you can't quite pinpoint why? That's where our latest episode comes into play, offering an invaluable lens to identify the red flags in relationships that too often go unnoticed. We dissect everything from the subtle invasion of controlling behaviors to the crackling tension of unresolved issues. With each story and insight shared, we arm you with the knowledge to recognize problems and the tools to address them before they escalate.

    Setting boundaries and demanding respect aren't just buzzwords; they're your armor in the dating world. This episode isn't afraid to confront the uncomfortable truths about what respect really looks like and why it's non-negotiable. Listen as we pull back the curtain on the dynamics of control and trust, revealing how maintaining individuality is paramount and why communication is your best weapon in nurturing a healthy partnership. Relationships are a two-way street, and we're here to guide you through the give-and-take with practical advice and real-life examples.

    Wrapping up, we don't just leave you with a list of what to watch out for; we offer a path forward. From understanding how to navigate the murky waters of relationship dynamics to recognizing the importance of self-care and introspection, we dive into the essentials of personal growth. As we raise a toast to you, our loyal listeners, for helping us reach a new milestone on our YouTube channel, we also extend a heartfelt invitation to join us in this journey of self-discovery and relationship empowerment. Cheers to stronger, wiser connections.

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    1 hr and 11 mins