Episodes

  • 3663: Trojan Horses and Flying Dice by Dr. Kelly Flanagan on Healthy Boundaries and Relationships

    3663: Trojan Horses and Flying Dice by Dr. Kelly Flanagan on Healthy Boundaries and Relationships
    Jul 11 2025
    Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3663: Dr. Kelly Flanagan explores the invisible walls we build around our hearts and minds, revealing how these boundaries shape our relationships, protect our sense of self, and sometimes isolate us. He offers powerful insights into how therapy helps us thoughtfully renovate these walls, neither tearing them down nor fortifying them blindly, but crafting doors that allow connection on our terms. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://drkellyflanagan.com/trojan-horses-and-flying-dice/ Quotes to ponder: "Perhaps the biggest walls, the most important walls, are the ones that cannot be seen at all." "Therapy is not meant to be a wrecking ball for the walls we have built. Therapy is a place where our walls are given the renovation they require." "Not a revolving door, where anyone can come and go as they please, but a door of our choosing, that opens from the inside, a door that makes it possible for you to confidently invite people in to your lonely space, because it is good to have company we can trust." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    11 mins
  • 3662: 6 Reasons to Love Yourself - And Why Loving Yourself Will Change Your Life by Erica Layne on Quieting Self-Criticism

    3662: 6 Reasons to Love Yourself - And Why Loving Yourself Will Change Your Life by Erica Layne on Quieting Self-Criticism
    Jul 10 2025
    Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3662: Erica Layne shares six heartfelt reasons why embracing self-love can profoundly transform your life. From quieting self-criticism to deepening connections with others, her insights remind us that the path to growth, peace, and authentic relationships begins within. Discover how self-compassion not only lifts the weight of outside expectations but also models empowerment for those we care about most. Quotes to ponder: “Shame, the belief that you’re unworthy of love and belonging, does not support long-term, transformational change.” “Self-love helps us see our own potential, allows us to forgive ourselves when we take a step backward, and eliminates the shame spiral that so often lands us right back where we started.” “For every part of myself that I’ve decided to accept over the years, I’ve felt the pressure of other people’s opinions fall away.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    11 mins
  • 3661: Permission To Rest AND Extraordinary Love by Angelina Lee of Exploring Plan Be on Self-Care Advice

    3661: Permission To Rest AND Extraordinary Love by Angelina Lee of Exploring Plan Be on Self-Care Advice
    Jul 9 2025
    Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3661: Angelina Lee offers a heartfelt reminder that true restoration comes not just from pausing our bodies, but from quieting our minds and granting ourselves permission to rest fully. She also illustrates how small, thoughtful gestures, like a favorite snack delivered in a time of need, can embody extraordinary love and provide deep comfort. Together, these insights inspire us to embrace rest with intention and to recognize the powerful impact of simple acts of care. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://exploringplanbe.com/permission-to-rest/ & https://exploringplanbe.com/extraordinary-love/ Quotes to ponder: "Just because your body is lying down doesn’t mean that you are resting." "Extraordinary love looks like being able to show up just as we are, and being assured that that is enough." "After all, worrying while lying down is just burning energy in a different way." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    13 mins
  • 3660: Tell People What You Want by J. Money of Budgets Are Sexy on Generosity and Collaboration

    3660: Tell People What You Want by J. Money of Budgets Are Sexy on Generosity and Collaboration
    Jul 8 2025
    Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3660: Author J. Money encourages readers to voice their desires clearly and unapologetically, showing how openness can attract support, opportunities, and positive outcomes. He shares personal stories demonstrating that simply asking or stating what you want often leads to surprising generosity and collaboration. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://budgetsaresexy.com/tell-people-what-you-want/ Quotes to ponder: “I’m here to remind you today that if you want something, tell people about it.” “The more people that know what you want, the more people can help you get it.” “You might not always get what you’re looking for, but you’ll 100% get nothing if you never ask.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    10 mins
  • 3659: Helpful Tips When You're Stuck on Getting Started by Zoe Kim with No Sidebar on Lifestyle Design

    3659: Helpful Tips When You're Stuck on Getting Started by Zoe Kim with No Sidebar on Lifestyle Design
    Jul 7 2025
    Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3659: Zoe Kim examines why we sometimes feel stuck even when we know what we want, highlighting how overthinking and perfectionism keep us from moving forward. She shares how simple, small steps can help us overcome inertia and create lasting momentum toward a more intentional life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://nosidebar.com/stuck/ Quotes to ponder: "Feeling stuck isn’t a reflection of your abilities or worth; it’s a normal part of growth." "Overthinking and perfectionism often keep us frozen in place." "Taking small steps creates momentum, and momentum is what carries us forward." Episode references: Essentialism: https://www.amazon.com/Essentialism-Disciplined-Pursuit-Greg-McKeown/dp/0804137382 The Slight Edge: https://www.amazon.com/Slight-Edge-Turning-Disciplines-Happiness/dp/1626340463 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    12 mins
  • 3658: Can We Choose How We Feel? by Allison Carmen on How to Cultivate Peace and Joy

    3658: Can We Choose How We Feel? by Allison Carmen on How to Cultivate Peace and Joy
    Jul 6 2025
    Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3658: Allison Carmen explores how our thoughts shape our emotional world and offers practical ways to break free from patterns that cause unnecessary suffering. By shifting perspective and embracing uncertainty, she shows how we can regain power over our inner lives and cultivate greater peace and joy. Read along with the original article(s) here: http://www.allisoncarmen.com/can-we-choose-how-we-feel/ Quotes to ponder: “We can’t always choose what happens to us, but we can choose how we respond and how we feel about it.” “Often, we create more pain and suffering by how we think about a situation than the situation itself.” “When we let go of needing to control everything, we create space for peace, acceptance, and even joy.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    9 mins
  • 3657: Small Steps, Big Strides by Kathy Robinson on Setting and Achieving Goals with Daily Progress

    3657: Small Steps, Big Strides by Kathy Robinson on Setting and Achieving Goals with Daily Progress
    Jul 6 2025
    Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3657: Small, consistent actions can transform daunting goals into achievable milestones. Kathy Robinson shares how steady daily effort and simple tracking methods helped her build strength and confidence over time, offering a practical blueprint for anyone ready to turn aspirations into lasting progress. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://athenawellness.com/blog/2022/1/1/small-steps-big-strides Quotes to ponder: "Small steps establish habits, give you confidence when you hit your micro-goals, and provide motivation for the enduring success." "Over time you’ll prove to yourself that small steps add up to big strides and long-term gains." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    11 mins
  • 3656: The Opposite of Loneliness by Ryan Frederick of Here.life on Intentional Lifestyle Design

    3656: The Opposite of Loneliness by Ryan Frederick of Here.life on Intentional Lifestyle Design
    Jul 5 2025
    Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3656: Loneliness is rising to dangerous levels, yet Ryan Frederick highlights how thoughtful choices about where and how we live can help foster deep social connections and belonging. Drawing on insights from researchers like Dr. John Cacioppo and examples such as co-housing and walkable communities, Frederick explores practical ways to make the opposite of loneliness part of everyday life. Discover how simple kindness, intentional design, and community spirit can transform isolation into connection. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.here.life/blog/the-opposite-of-loneliness Quotes to ponder: "We don’t have a word for the opposite of loneliness, but if we did, I could say that’s what I want in life. What I’m grateful and thankful to have found at Yale, and what I’m scared of losing when we wake up tomorrow and leave this place." "It’s not quite love and it’s not quite community; it’s just this feeling that there are people, an abundance of people, who are in this together. Who are on your team." "Loneliness and weak social connections are associated with a reduction in lifespan similar to that caused by smoking 15 cigarettes a day and even greater than that associated with obesity." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    13 mins