Carrie's oldest son is 25. Jessica's oldest daughter is 21. That's how they did their mom math and arrived at 46 years of combined experience. Join them as they discuss meaningful lessons from their parenting journey. From embracing silliness and fostering open communication to admitting their own mistakes and savoring the little moments, they reflect on what it truly means to connect with your kids. Whether you're navigating the chaos of parenting teens or cherishing the fleeting moments with younger ones, this episode will inspire you to slow down, laugh more, and grow alongside your children. Tune in for practical insights and a whole lot of heart!

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Lori Alhadeff, a New Jersey native, is a former K-12 Health and Physical Education teacher and stay-at-home mom. Her life changed when her daughter, Alyssa, was killed in the 2018 Stoneman Douglas High School shooting. Married to Dr. Ilan Alhadeff for 23 years, Lori is a dedicated community safety advocate. She holds a BS in Health and Physical Education from The College of New Jersey and an MA in Education from Gratz College, with certifications in both New Jersey and New York. Lori served on the Broward County School Board, where she championed policies for student safety, including the Alyssa’s Alert panic button initiative. She is also president of Make Our Schools Safe, a nonprofit focused on school security and student well-being.

Lori shares the significant strides she's spearheaded to enhance school safety across the U.S. Following the tragic loss of her daughter Alyssa in the Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School shooting, Lori co-founded "Make Our Schools Safe" and played a crucial role in the inception and enactment of Alyssa’s Law. This law mandates panic button systems in schools, ensuring direct and swift communication with law enforcement during emergencies.

The conversation touches on many vital aspects, including comprehensive safety measures like strong fencing, secure entry processes, and robust mental health programs. Lori also emphasizes the importance of parental involvement, urging parents to be vigilant and proactive about their children's environment and interactions.

Takeaways

1. Know how your school handles safety.
2. Ask school administrators about safety.
3. Cyber threats are no joke and will lead to arrest.

Timestamps

00:00 Ensure school security, mental health, threat reporting.
03:59 Wearable panic button aids emergency response.
08:47 School threats are illegal, serious; kids face expulsion.
11:11 Serious consequences for threats; not a joke.
14:21 Kids retaliate against bullying through misbehavior.
18:38 Moss Clubs promote school safety and kindness.
21:29 Bulletproof backpacks required for children's safety.
25:11 Florida leads in school safety legislation initiatives.
26:40 Proactive school safety measures ensure student security.

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In this episode, Carrie and Jessica take a deep dive into the term "failure to launch" and what it really means for young adults and their families. We explore why some young people struggle to achieve independence and how family dynamics, societal expectations, and personal challenges can contribute to delayed adulthood. From the early steps parents can take to build independence in kids to strategies for empowering young adults to reach their full potential, we cover it all. Join us as we unpack practical insights for parents and caregivers who want to give their kids the confidence and skills to soar.

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Ken Wiesenfeld is a husband of 30 years, with 2 amazing young adult sons, who he could not be more proud of. He wishes that he had the wisdom of those lessons most recently learned about parenting while he was "winging it" during the pre-teen years. In addition to spending time with his family, Ken is the proprietor of a financial consulting practice, providing accounting, finance, and acquisition support to clients.

Lonny Anger has been married for 23 years, and has 3 children, and 2 dogs. He views being a parent as a great gift that comes with no instructions. He is proud to pass on his love of Billy Joel, skiing, and good food onto his children. When he is not with his family, Lonny owns a general contracting company that specializes in commercial interior renovation, and a separate company that builds pickleball courts (as well as tennis and basketball.)

Jessica and Carrie are joined by their husbands. They discuss the overwhelming stress parents face today. They explore the impact of social media on parenting, the importance of work-life balance, and the evolving roles of dads. The conversation also touches on conflict resolution, mindful parenting practices, and the legacy parents wish to leave for their children. Throughout the discussion, the importance of communication and support in parenting is emphasized, along with practical advice for new dads.

Takeaways

1. Communication is crucial.
2. Get comfortable with being uncomfortable.
3. Your own experiences will shape your role as a parent.

Timestamps

00:00 Introduction to the episode and guests
03:15 Discussion on the article about parental stress
07:45 Ken and Lonnie share why they sent the article
12:30 Lonnie on societal pressures and social comparisons
15:50 Ken emphasizes work-life balance and shared responsibilities
19:00 Generational shifts in parenting roles
22:45 Importance of communication in managing parenting roles
26:10 Personal experiences influencing parenting methods
30:00 Impact of conflict resolution visibility on children
33:20 Advice on mindful parenting and being present
37:00 Personal values and hopes for their children's future
40:15 Closing thoughts and appreciation for the podcast work
42:00 Invitation for listener feedback and final remarks

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Dr. Debra Green earned her PhD in School Psychology from NYU and is a certified school and licensed clinical psychologist in New York. She served as Chief Psychologist for the Pleasantville Union Free School District for over 20 years, retiring in 2018. With over 30 years in private practice, she has also been on the Board of the Westchester County Psychological Association and continues to supervise interns and early-career psychologists.

Dr. Jill Kristal is a clinical psychologist with over 30 years of experience in New York and London. She treats clients of all ages and has expertise in international relocation, creating game-based tools for families. Jill has worked with special needs children, co-authored a guide for Kimochis, and is trained in EMDR for PTSD. She leads the Westchester County Trauma Recovery Network, providing referrals for community members and first responders.

They explore the shortage of therapists in certain areas, the benefits of teletherapy, and the residual emotional impacts of missed milestones. The discussion also covers educational gaps, particularly for children with special needs, the importance of community support, and the evolving roles of parents, educators, and mental health professionals.

Takeaways

1. Recognize and Address "COVID Gaps"
2. Support childhood transition
3. Utilize online therapy options

Timestamps

00:00 Dr. Debra Green & Dr. Jill Kristal: Clinical Psychologist, International Experience.
05:40 Jill connects schools with psychologists and support.
06:32 Recent grads struggle with unmet job expectations.
11:06 Discussing major life and school transitions.
15:54 Listen to and support children's diverse interests.
18:53 Challenges with school refusal and attendance issues.
21:49 Parental involvement impacts a child's school attendance struggles.
24:55 Parents must recognize deeper reasons for noncompliance.
29:40 Online work enables effective global therapeutic treatments.
32:49 Kids express grief over missed opportunities, COVID.
36:12 Address COVID-related gaps; collaborate with educators.
39:02 Routine pediatric visits should include mental health checkups.
41:31 Emotional education in schools; WellCheck app helps.
44:34 Conversation's end: enlightening insights and contact information.

🔗 Connect with Dr. Debra Green & Dr. Jill Kristal

Email: jillkristalphd@gmail.com | dcgphd1954@gmail.com

Website: https://www.jillkristalphd.com/

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Barry Sokoloff, a seasoned expert in risk management and insurance, brings a wealth of knowledge and experience to the conversation, having started his career in 1994 and now leading Southeast Regional Personal Risk Practice for USI Insurance Services.

Barry highlights the importance of proactive measures, such as securing valuables, establishing parent-teen driving agreements, and understanding state-specific driving laws and insurance policies.

We'll also discuss the role of telematics in monitoring young drivers, the impact of advanced vehicle safety features on insurance rates, and strategies to manage rising auto insurance premiums. Barry will provide practical advice on ensuring comprehensive coverage while balancing costs, understanding parental liability, and preparing young drivers for independence.

Takeaways
1. Prioritize liability coverage to protect the family
2. Mitigate dorm risk
3. Manage insurance costs

Timestamps
00:00 Barry has been a risk manager since 1994.
04:14 Texas permits at 14; check your state's age.
06:35 Insurance requires listing household drivers 15+.
12:43 Parents worry about minor's driving; plan ahead.
15:58 Telematics app monitors driving, useful for parents.
17:49 Telematics could affect insurance premiums based on behavior.
22:17 Rising litigation, costly repairs, parts shortages, totaled cars.
23:55 Auto insurance for young adults is costly.
29:08 Clients mainly in suburbs; rural ZIP codes cheaper.
31:48 Vehicles titled to parents increase liability exposure.
34:55 HIPAA laws require advance permissions for medical decisions.
36:20 Having medical power of attorney is crucial.
40:05 University relocated students, remodeled dorm, avoided lawsuits.
44:47 Adult responsibility indicated by handling basic tasks.
47:53 Defensive driving requires early, serious training.
51:04 Claims in millions; operational knowledge challenges children.
52:42 Contact Barry or us for more information.

🔗 Connect with Barry Sokoloff:
Email: barry.sokoloff@usi.com

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There are many challenging times in our lives when we can the help from others is monumental. Instead of being someone who says, "Call me if you need help" be someone who says, "I'm free and here's how I can help!" Carrie and Jessica explore ways to help loved ones during the times they need you most: after a new baby is born, after surgery, dealing with a loss. Tune in to gain some perspective and some ideas on how you can help and begin to "pay it forward!"

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The most important job to Scott Schwartzberg is being a father. In listening to other men, he's heard so many give up time with their kids in order to put themselves first. Scott is a firm believer that a parent's first responsibility is to their children. It is his belief that men, more than women, put themselves first, and you can't do that with the expectation that your kids will want to continue to spend time with their fathers. Scott has been divorced for 13 years and lives by the philosophy that his daughter will always be his number one priority.

Scott opens up about the challenges and rewarding experiences of navigating single fatherhood after going through a difficult divorce. He emphasizes the importance of personal happiness and co-parenting with respect to create a positive environment for his 15-year-old daughter, Addie. Tune in for practical advice, sincere conversations, and a father’s perspective on raising a teenage daughter amidst life’s many hurdles.

Takeaways

1. Unified co-parenting
2. Your child's needs come before your own.
3. Prioritize personal happiness

Timestamps

00:00 Introduction with Carrie and Jessica
02:15 Welcoming Scott, the first dad guest on the show
04:30 Scott’s background: transition from a 10-year marriage to single fatherhood
09:45 Importance of prioritizing personal happiness in post-divorce life
13:20 Co-parenting aims: unified rules and open-door policy
18:05 Handling the teenage transition and consistent parental presence
22:40 The value of maintaining a supportive co-parenting relationship
27:50 Scott talks about sacrifice and focusing on daughter’s happiness
31:10 Listeners' questions and Scott’s advice for single dads
35:45 Carrie and Jessica’s appreciative closing remarks
37:20 Encouragement to email questions and feedback

🔗 Connect with Jessica Anger and Carrie Wiesenfeld:
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