• 383 - How Data Leads To Change w/ Daniel Copeland (Part 2/8)
    Nov 5 2024

    Daniel Copeland, Senior Lead Researcher of Barna Group, joins the podcast today for the second episode in our 8-part deep dive into the new data on pornography use, its impact on relationships, mental health, and the Church. Together, they explore how this research can guide the Church in addressing sexual brokenness and provide real hope for healing. This eight episode deep dive into Beyond the Porn Phenomenon features the voices of people prominently featured in the report.

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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • 382 - Beyond The Porn Phenomenon w/ David Kinnaman (Part 1/8)
    Oct 29 2024

    David Kinnaman, CEO of Barna Group, joins the podcast today to help kick off an 8-part deep dive into the new data on pornography use, its impact on relationships, mental health, and the Church. Together, with Nick Stumbo and Ashley Jameson, they explore how this research can guide the Church in addressing sexual brokenness and provide real hope for healing.

    This eight episode deep dive into Beyond the Porn Phenomenon features the voices of people prominently featured in the report.

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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • 381 - Moving Beyond Sobriety W/ Jenna Riemersma
    Oct 22 2024

    Jenna Riemersma is back again to explore why true healing goes beyond sobriety. This is a deep dive into the role of trauma and how Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy addresses underlying issues that drive compulsive behaviors. Whether you’re new to recovery or looking to deepen your healing journey, Jenna’s insights will offer fresh perspectives on understanding and embracing the parts of ourselves that carry pain and shame. Don't miss this powerful conversation on moving beyond mere behavior change to experiencing true transformation.

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    1 hr and 2 mins
  • 380 - Caring For Partners Well
    Oct 15 2024

    Jeanne Vittoni is the president of APSATS (Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists) and joins the podcast to discuss the vital role of partner care in sex addiction recovery.

    With over 25 years of experience working with trauma survivors, Jeanne unpacks how understanding trauma symptomatology, setting up safe support systems, and getting proper training can accelerate the healing process.

    Jeanne shares her insights on trauma recovery for betrayed partners, why it’s important to address both the addict’s and the partner’s healing, and how proper trauma care can transform a relationship.

    Whether you're a struggling addict, a betrayed partner, or a professional wanting to offer better support, this episode will provide valuable strategies for navigating the road to recovery together.

    Resources:

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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • 379 - The Role of Intensives in Recovery
    Oct 8 2024

    Nick is joined by Robert Vander Meer and Matt Wenger to discuss the transformative impact of two-week intensives on sexual addiction recovery. This episode is a deep dive into the TINSA model (Trauma-Induced Sexual Addiction) exploring how intensives help uncover the "why" behind addiction and the importance of addressing both personal trauma and relational healing.

    Matt Wenger is the Clinical Director of Boulder Recovery in Boulder, Colorado.

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    Full Episode on YouTube

    Boulder Recovery website

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    59 mins
  • 378 - Intimate Deception w/ Dr. Sheri Denham-Keffer
    Oct 1 2024

    Today’s guest, Dr. Sheri Denham-Keffer, is the author of Intimate Deception: Healing the Wounds of Sexual Betrayal, a therapist, and betrayed partner herself.

    Dr. Denham-Keffer shares insights on betrayal trauma, healing, and recovery. This episode offers hope and guidance for those facing betrayal or compulsive sexual behaviors. The discussion covers the impact of sexual deception, the importance of truth-telling, and practical steps for partners to rebuild their lives.

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    Full Episode On Youtube

    Intimate Deception: Healing The Wounds Of Sexual Betrayal

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    53 mins
  • 377 - Launching Pure Desire Group: A Church Success Story
    Sep 24 2024

    Nick and Rodney sit down with Pastor Ryan Oletzke of True Hope Church in Spokane, Washington, to discuss how to start Pure Desire groups in your church, break shame, and build a culture of honesty.

    Ryan shares how his church addressed sexual brokenness by launching Pure Desire groups, starting with over 200 people participating in Sexual Integrity 101. He offers practical insights on building a culture of vulnerability, lowering shame, and leading a church to find healing and freedom.

    This episode is a must-listen for pastors and church leaders looking to make a real impact in their communities by addressing sexual health and recovery.

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    TrueHope Website

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    55 mins
  • 376 - Reaching the Next Gen
    Sep 17 2024

    This episode explores the challenges young people face today, including mental health issues, pornography, and the impact of growing up in the digital age.

    Ben Bennett, leader of the Resolution Movement, shares his experience connecting with Gen Z through social media and offering hope, freedom, and healing through the message of Christ. Join Nick Stumbo, John Begeman, and Ben as they discuss how curiosity, compassion, and authentic relationships can help guide this generation toward healthy sexuality and mental well-being.

    Resources

    Full Episode on YouTube

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    1 hr and 4 mins