Episodes

  • #408 Getting Neurospicy: ADHD and Sex (and Relationships) - with Leann Borneman

    #408 Getting Neurospicy: ADHD and Sex (and Relationships) - with Leann Borneman
    Nov 19 2024
    What is ADHD, and how would someone know if they have it? How does ADHD show up in sex and relationships? What are the common struggles, challenges, and superpowers? What about kink and ADHD? Why is setting up an ideal environment so important for sexual and relational success? How can people with ADHD become more sexually empowered? And why is there very little research on ADHD and sex? About our guest: Leann Borneman is a sexologist and certified sex therapist who specializes in the intersection of ADHD and sexuality. As an individual with ADHD, Leann brings a personal understanding to the challenges that can arise in intimate settings. Her approach emphasizes the importance of reshaping our environments rather than trying to change ourselves. Leann is dedicated to creating successful frameworks for our environments, relationships, and sexual experiences. To learn more go to http://bornemancoaching.com Instagram Tik Tok Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get soaking wet and bigger loads + 10% off with code SHAMELESS at http://soakingwet.com Early Black Friday Special! Get 30% off The Perineum Massager with code SHAMELESS at http://butterwellness.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
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    59 mins
  • #407 P-Spot Paradise: Unlocking the Secrets of Prostate Pleasure with Forrest Andrews

    #407 P-Spot Paradise: Unlocking the Secrets of Prostate Pleasure with Forrest Andrews
    Nov 12 2024
    Ready to explore the wonderful world of prostate health and pleasure? Shameless Sex welcomes back prostate expert Forrest Andrews for his fifth appearance, diving deep into the mysteries of the p-spot! Curious about what makes the prostate so special? Where is this magical gland, and why is everyone buzzing about it? In this episode, we'll uncover: The latest research on men's sexual health and prostate wellness Why choose an Aneros over fingers for p-spot stimulation? Step-by-step guide to using Aneros toys for mind-blowing experiences The lowdown on the new PSY product (and the story behind its intriguing name!) Forrest Andrews, the Product and Business Development manager of Aneros, brings his wealth of expertise to our show. As the brains behind the award-winning Trident Series, Trident Syn Series, VICE 2, Helix Syn V, PSY, and Eupho Syn V, Forrest has revolutionized the world of hands-free, self-powered, anally driven prostate massagers. His innovative designs have helped countless individuals explore new realms of pleasure and improve their sexual health. Curious about how these cutting-edge products can transform your intimate experiences? Forrest shares insider tips and tricks that will have you rethinking everything you thought you knew about pleasure. Whether you're a prostate play novice or a seasoned enthusiast, this episode is packed with valuable insights for everyone. Don't miss this opportunity to expand your sexual horizons and embrace a whole new world of sensation. Tune in now and get ready to elevate your pleasure game to unprecedented heights! Whether you're a prostate play newbie or a seasoned explorer, this episode is packed with practical tips, humorous insights, and expert advice to elevate your sexual wellness game. Join us for an informative and playful journey into the world of prostate health and pleasure. It's time to say goodbye to shame and hello to the Super O! Want to explore the Aneros line for yourself? Head over to purepleasureshop.com and embark on your journey to prostate bliss today! Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 20% off enhancing your bedroom performance with code SHAMELESS at https://www.tryjoymode.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
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    59 mins
  • #406 Testosterone Takeover: Dr. Dubin Spills the T on Men's Hormone Health

    #406 Testosterone Takeover: Dr. Dubin Spills the T on Men's Hormone Health
    Nov 6 2024
    Get ready for a testosterone-fueled adventure with the Shameless Sex duo and special guest Dr. Justin Dubin! We're diving deep into the world of the big T, and trust us, it's not just about bulging biceps and bedroom antics. Did you know testosterone isn't just a "man's hormone"? Dr. Dubin spills the tea on how this powerful little molecule affects all genders and why it might be the secret sauce to feeling fabulous at any age. From our personal "pellet party" experiences to cutting-edge treatments, we're leaving no stone unturned. In this episode, you'll discover: The ABCs of testosterone and its superhero-like effects on your body Why your T levels might be playing hide and seek as you age (and what to do about it) Our shocking transformation stories with testosterone pellets (spoiler: game-changer alert!) The lowdown on different T-boosting methods - pills, gels, pellets, oh my! Dr. Dubin's expert take on who should (and shouldn't) hop on the T train A sneak peek into the future of hormone replacement (hint: it's exciting!) Dr. Justin Dubin, a rising star in men's health and sexual medicine, joins us to share his expertise on testosterone and its effect on sexual wellness. From his roots in Wayne, NJ, to his prestigious education at Johns Hopkins University and Rutgers Robert Wood Johnson Medical School, Dr. Dubin has dedicated his career to improving men's lives. His urology residency at the University of Miami and current fellowship in Male Infertility and Sexual Medicine at Northwestern University have honed his skills in this critical field. Whether you're a curious cat, a hormone health enthusiast, or just looking to spice up your life, this episode is your ticket to T-town. Don't miss Dr. Dubin's insights as co-host of the ManUpPod and get ready to level up your hormone game! Ready to get shameless about your hormones? Hit that play button and let's get this T party started! About our guest: Dr. Justin Dubin grew up in Wayne NJ and attended Johns Hopkins University for undergraduate school. He completed medical school at Rutgers Robert Wood Johnson, his urology residency training at the University of Miami, and more recently his fellowship in Male Infertility and Sexual Medicine at Northwestern University. Dr. Dubin is a Men’s Health specialist at Memorial Healthcare System in Hollywood, Florida. He's passionate about men’s health and education with the goal of improving both the lives of men and their partners. He has published multiple papers on both male infertility and sexual health, has been quoted in the NY Times, Insider, and Men’s Health and is the current co-host of the men’s health podcast Man Up: A Doctor’s Guide to Men’s Health. LINKS: https://www.themanuppod.com https://www.instagram.com/justindubinmd https://twitter.com/justindubinmd https://linktr.ee/JustinDubinMD https://www.mhs.net/physicians/d/dubin-justin Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get soaking wet and bigger loads + 10% off with code SHAMELESS at http://soakingwet.com Fall in love with our fave dating app that actually embraces your desires at https://feeld.co/ Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
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    1 hr and 17 mins
  • #405 How to Eat Pu$$y Like a Champ 2.0 - with Dr. Alison Ash

    #405 How to Eat Pu$$y Like a Champ 2.0 - with Dr. Alison Ash
    Oct 29 2024
    Dr. Alison Ash aka Dr. Aly returns for her eighth time on our show to do the 2.0 version of How to Eat Pussy Like a Champ. Dr. Aly covers everything from anatomy 101 when it comes to munching the box, why some people don't like eating pussy and how they can become pussy lovers, how learning and practicing oral skills leads more confidence around performance, applicable tips and tools that might apply to most pussy pleasure, 2.0 intermediate tips and tools for the advanced pussy lover, as well as how to talk to your partner about wanting more pussy loving. About our guest: Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she understands the complex societal challenges that lead to unsatisfying and disempowering intimate experiences. She has pioneer research on the orgasm gap, heterosexual dynamics, and queer and trans experiences. She has extensive training in Hakomi Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy, Innate Somatic Intelligence Trauma Therapy Approach, and Somatica Method. Dr. Aly designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers coaching to support her clients to cultivate and sustain nourishing emotional and sexual intimacy. Check out Dr. Aly's upcoming Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills course at http://TurnON.love/intimacy. Use the discount code "LoveShamelessSex" for $100 off! Check out Dr. Aly's upcoming Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills course at www.TurnON.love/intimacy. Use the discount code "shamelesssex" for $75 off! For on-demand workshops, including How to Eat Pussy like a Champ, visit www.TurnON.love/workshops For her Sustainable Intimacy course visit www.TurnON.love/sustainable-intimacy. Finally for intimacy coaching, visit www.TurnON.love/coaching Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Try our favorite dating app where you actually embrace your desires at https://feeld.co/ Get 20% off enhancing your bedroom performance with code SHAMELESS at https://www.tryjoymode.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
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    1 hr and 4 mins
  • #404 Why Compersion is Your New Favorite Relationship Tool - with Dr. Marie Thouin

    #404 Why Compersion is Your New Favorite Relationship Tool - with Dr. Marie Thouin
    Oct 22 2024
    Get ready to dive deep into the fascinating world of compersion with our latest Shameless Sex episode featuring the brilliant Dr. Marie Thouin! As a leading expert and scholar on compersion in consensual non-monogamy, Dr. Thouin brings a wealth of knowledge and groundbreaking research to our listeners. Stay tuned because this episode will have some gold for you, too! What's in store for you: Discover what compersion really is (and what it's not!) Explore the relationship between compersion and jealousy Uncover the latest research findings on compersion in monogamy and Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) Learn practical tips for cultivating more compersion in your relationships Understand why developing compersion is crucial for healthy relationships Get insights on essential questions couples should discuss about compersion Dr. Thouin, the author of the first-ever scholarly book on compersion titled "What is Compersion," shares her journey in the field of sexuality and how she became a pioneer in compersion studies. She'll bust common misconceptions and provide evidence-based insights that could transform your approach to relationships. Whether you're in a monogamous relationship curious about compersion or practicing ENM, this episode is packed with valuable information to enhance your emotional toolkit. Dr. Thouin's expertise will guide you through the complexities of human emotions and help you foster more joy, love, and understanding in your relationships. Don't miss this opportunity to learn from one of the most respected voices in the field. Tune in to expand your understanding of compersion and take your relationships to new heights of emotional maturity and fulfillment. Ready to explore compersion further? Check out Dr. Thouin's offerings and connect with her: Website: http://www.mariethouin.com Instagram: @Drmariethouin Buy her book: What is Compersion Join us for this mind-expanding episode that promises to challenge your preconceptions and open new possibilities in your relational world. Let's get shameless about compersion! Come to our Shameless Sex Couple's Retreat in Costa Rica! We only have spots for six couples so sign up asap here: https://tinyurl.com/mpvf858h Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get soaking wet and bigger loads + 10% off with code SHAMELESS at http://soakingwet.com Fall in love with our fave dating app that actually embraces your desires at https://feeld.co/ Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
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    56 mins
  • #403 Overcoming Penis Size and Performance Shame in the Bedroom - with Keeley Rankin, MA

    #403 Overcoming Penis Size and Performance Shame in the Bedroom - with Keeley Rankin, MA
    Oct 15 2024
    Calling all penis owners and lovers! It's time to break free from shame and embrace your sexual confidence. In this eye-opening episode, we're joined by the incredible Keeley Rankin, MA, a seasoned sex and relationship coach based in San Francisco since 2010. Get ready to dive deep into the world of penis-related anxieties in this episode as we explore: The lowdown on erectile dysfunction (aka–erectile struggles–because it’s NOT dysfunction!), premature ejaculation (aka–ejaculatory control–because there’s NOTHING premature about it!), and delayed orgasm – what they are, why they happen, and how to overcome them Size matters... or does it? Discover the truth about average penis size and learn to rock what you've got Ejaculatory control mastery: Tips and tricks to last longer and enjoy more “Small” penis, big pleasure: Become a legendary lover regardless of size Hot sex hacks for partners of all penis sizes Keeley Rankin, MA is not just your average sex and relationship coach – she's a mentor, expert in male sexual struggles, and creator of The Sex Class (our new obsession!) as well as the Premature Ejaculation Mastery Video Course. With her wealth of experience and cutting-edge knowledge, Keeley has been supporting singles and couples to have better sex, build stronger relationships, and fully realize their sexual potential. To learn more and to get access to Keeley’s courses, including The Sex Class, go to https://www.keeleyrankin.com/ Plus, Keeley shares her fascinating journey in the sexuality field and drops some serious knowledge bombs on the latest research in penis health and performance. Her expertise shines through as she provides practical, shame-free advice for overcoming common penis-related issues and boosting sexual confidence. Don't miss this juicy, judgment-free discussion with one of San Francisco’s top sex-experts because it has insights to boost your bedroom confidence and take your sex life to the next level. It's time to conquer penis-anxieties, shed those insecurities and embrace shameless, satisfying sex! Exclusive offer for Shameless Sex listeners! Get 15% off Keeley's mind-blowing course, The Sex Class, with code Shameless15 (expires Oct 31st, 2024). Miss the deadline? No worries – use code Shameless for a forever 5% discount at http://keeleyrankin.com. Come to our Shameless Sex Couple's Retreat in Costa Rica! We only have spots for six couples so sign up asap here: https://tinyurl.com/mpvf858h Apply for our retreat scholarship spot here: https://forms.gle/7LeNJNLs7WdRufrL8 Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 45% off your subscription to our favorite ethical (and hot) porn with code 45SHAMELESS at https://erikalust.com Get 20% off enhancing your bedroom performance with code SHAMELESS at https://www.tryjoymode.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
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    1 hr and 13 mins
  • #402 Beyond Taboos: Killing Kittens and the New Sexual Revolution - with Emma Sayle

    #402 Beyond Taboos: Killing Kittens and the New Sexual Revolution - with Emma Sayle
    Oct 8 2024
    Get ready to unleash your inner kitten, Shameless listeners! This week, we're diving into the deliciously naughty world of Killing Kittens with the queen of female sexual empowerment herself, Emma Sayle. Buckle up for a wild ride as we explore how this badass entrepreneur turned her anger at sexual double standards into a global revolution of pleasure! From exclusive parties where women call the shots to the launch of the world's first sex-positive social dating app, WeAreX, Emma's spilling all the tea on how KK is changing the game. Curious about what goes down at a KK party? We've got the steamy details that'll make you purr with excitement! But wait, there's more! Emma's dishing on KK's expansion into KK Homme and the upcoming KK Cruise setting sail in 2026. Trust us, you don't want to miss this Mediterranean adventure that'll have you saying "Oh, buoy!" Whether you're a curious kitten or a seasoned sex-plorer, this episode is packed with empowering insights, tantalizing tidbits, and a whole lot of shameless fun. So, grab your favorite toy (we won't tell!), and get ready to kill it with Killing Kittens! Ready to join the revolution? Visit http://killingkittens.com and let your inner kitten roar! Come to our Shameless Sex Couple's Retreat in Costa Rica! We only have spots for six couples so sign up asap here: https://tinyurl.com/mpvf858h Apply for our retreat scholarship spot here: https://forms.gle/7LeNJNLs7WdRufrL8 Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get soaking wet and bigger loads + 10% off with code SHAMELESS at http://soakingwet.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
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    1 hr and 4 mins
  • #401 Naked Truth: Stripping Away Body Insecurities in the Bedroom - with Alicia and Erwan Davon

    #401 Naked Truth: Stripping Away Body Insecurities in the Bedroom - with Alicia and Erwan Davon
    Oct 1 2024
    Get ready to tantalize your senses and revolutionize your relationships, Shameless listeners! This week, we're diving deep into the world of tantra and body positivity with San Francisco's hottest power couple, Erwan and Alicia Davon. These relationship gurus have been spicing up love lives for 25 years with their game-changing Davon Method. Prepare to shed those pesky body hang-ups as we explore how shame impacts intimacy, debunk body myths, and learn to embrace our sexy selves. The Davons dish out sizzling strategies to stay present during steamy moments and create a safe space for vulnerability. Plus, hear a jaw-dropping success story that'll make you want to sign up for their next retreat ASAP! Whether you're single and ready to mingle or coupled up and looking to level up, this episode is packed with tantalizing tips to transform your love life. Don't miss out on the Davons' secrets to sensual success – your body (and partner) will thank you! Tune in now and discover how to work with Erwan and Alicia at davonmethod.com. Let's get shameless, baby! About our guests: Erwan & Alicia Davon are renowned Relationship Coaches and San Francisco's leading Tantra Teachers. They developed their signature process, the Davon Method, and have taught it to over 20,000 students in groups, retreats and individual sessions. As a married couple, they have been teaching singles to get into relationship & couples to thrive in relationship for the last 25 years. They have become the go-to place in the San Francisco Bay Area for all things romantic and sexual and are quickly becoming that worldwide through online learning. Erwan and Alicia have a unique approach to relationship coaching that combines their educational backgrounds in psychology and aspects of Zen Buddhism to provide a holistic method to effectively improve connection with the self and others. Erwan studied psychology and graduated with honors after a difficult childhood and an early introduction to therapeutic work. He went on to live and study in a Zen Monastery, direct a Yoga ashram, and teach personal development at one of the world’s largest personal growth organizations. Erwan’s passion for helping and teaching people led him to found The Davon Method in 1995, specifically to help people improve their romantic relationships. Alicia holds a Master’s degree in Integral Psychology with a focus on women’s romantic and sexual expression. She trained as a therapist before meeting Erwan and led numerous women’s groups devoted to female pleasure and life fulfillment from career to relationship. She met Erwan 22 years ago and started teaching with him soon after. They have spent years perfecting their curriculum and techniques and provide a safe place so you can improve chemistry, connection, communication, and passion in your love life! Get ready to have fun because working with them is a blast! To set up a consultation: 415 308 9580 https://davonmethod.com/consult Paradise Vacation Course webpage + video https://davonmethod.com/paradise-vacation-course/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=foorVBfAYPU Website https://davonmethod.com/ TikTok & Instagram @davonmethod Come to our Shameless Sex Couple's Retreat in Costa Rica! We only have spots for six couples so sign up asap here: https://tinyurl.com/mpvf858h Apply for our retreat scholarship spot here: https://forms.gle/7LeNJNLs7WdRufrL8 Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
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    1 hr and 8 mins