• How to Win the Argument
    Oct 3 2024

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    Winning the Argument with Yourself: The Power of Self-Awareness and Language

    In this episode of the Shift Happens podcast, hosts Robin McIntire, a certified life and transitions coach, and Monique Eckes discuss strategies to identify and overcome self-imposed limitations using self-awareness and language. They introduce common phrases that people use to justify not advancing towards their goals. Through personal anecdotes and practical tips, they bring light-heartedness to stopping these behaviors to unlock greater potential. Listeners are encouraged to stay out of judgement and find creative ways to challenge and change their perspectives.

    00:00 Joking About Bait and Switch
    00:48 You Can't Unhear This ;)
    02:00 Common Limiting Phrases
    04:57 Personal Experiences and Examples
    07:20 Overcoming Limitations
    08:06 Practical Tips for Success
    10:31 Listener Engagement: Share Your Thoughts
    11:23 Understanding the Stories We Tell Ourselves
    11:58 Personal Anecdotes and Reflections
    12:53 The Power of Language in Shaping Behavior
    13:33 Breaking Free from Limiting Beliefs
    14:39 Creative Solutions to Overcome Obstacles
    17:27 Sponsor Break and Freebie Download
    18:58 Famous One-Liners and Action Items
    20:12 Conclusion and Call to Action


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    ☮️🆓Download the Free Guide - Energy! Grind vs. Flow
    🆓Download the Free Workbook - The Domino Effect
    🆓Download the Free Guide - Unlock your 'Want To' Factor: Your First Step To Releasing Unwanted Habits

    💁🏼‍♀️🎇Ready to take action and learn to build new habits? Book a Spark Session Plus session with Robin
    📧Let's Chat! Request a Free Discovery Call or Contact Robin
    💻Visit Robin's Website at robinmcintire.com or https://linktr.ee/RobinMcIntire
    📧Contact Monique at Siver Paw Studio

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    22 mins
  • Tired of Worrying?
    Sep 26 2024

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    Navigating Worry and Embracing Trust - Shift Happens


    In this episode of the Shift Happens podcast, hosts Robin McIntire and Monique Eckes explore the pervasive issue of worry and its impact on our lives. Robin, a certified life and transitions coach, explains how chronic worry robs us of joy and energy, leading to stress and a diminished quality of life. They discuss the traits of chronic worriers, the negative effects of excessive worry, and the importance of faith and trust. The episode includes personal anecdotes, practical tips to manage worry, and the introduction of a free downloadable worksheet to help listeners navigate worry with confidence. Robin also shares a powerful mantra to foster trust and reduce worry.

    00:31 The Impact of Worry on Our Lives
    03:11 Strategies to Combat Worry
    04:06 Understanding the Habit of Worry
    07:17 Perfectionism and Worry
    08:36 Parental Worry and Its Effects
    11:35 Personal Struggles with Worry
    12:09 Understanding the Impact of Excessive Worry
    14:11 The Identity of a Chronic Worrier
    15:31 Parenting and Letting Go
    17:28 Practical Tips and Sponsor Break
    18:42 One-Liner and Final Thoughts


    😓🆓Download the Free Guide - Stop Worrying Start Living; 3 Stress-Busting Moves to Lighten Your Load
    ☮️🆓Download the Free Guide - Energy! Grind vs. Flow
    🆓Download the Free Workbook - The Domino Effect
    🆓Download the Free Guide - Unlock your 'Want To' Factor: Your First Step To Releasing Unwanted Habits

    💁🏼‍♀️🎇Ready to take action and learn to build new habits? Book a Spark Session Plus session with Robin
    📧Let's Chat! Request a Free Discovery Call or Contact Robin
    💻Visit Robin's Website at robinmcintire.com or https://linktr.ee/RobinMcIntire
    📧Contact Monique at Siver Paw Studio

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    23 mins
  • Season 2 Recap!
    Sep 19 2024

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    In this episode of the Shift Happens Podcast, hosts Robin McIntire, a certified life and transitions coach, and Monique Eckes, a question asker, provide a detailed recap of season two, covering episodes 12 to 20. If you've missed prior episodes, they hope this will help you decide which episodes you may want to go tune into!

    They reflect on themes such as overcoming resistance to achieve goals, the significance of having a deep 'why', managing chaotic urgency versus relaxed intensity, saying 'no' with love, the importance of the word 'and' in mindset, waiting for permission, the impact of losing momentum, reducing drama, and distinguishing hoping versus trying. The hosts share personal stories, quotes, and lessons learned from each episode to provide listeners with additional insights and actionable takeaways. They also emphasize the value of self-awareness, clarity, and emotional commitment in navigating life's challenges.


    😓🆓Download the Free Guide - Stop Worrying Start Living; 3 Stress-Busting Moves to Lighten Your Load
    ☮️🆓Download the Free Guide - Energy! Grind vs. Flow
    🆓Download the Free Workbook - The Domino Effect
    🆓Download the Free Guide - Unlock your 'Want To' Factor: Your First Step To Releasing Unwanted Habits

    💁🏼‍♀️🎇Ready to take action and learn to build new habits? Book a Spark Session Plus session with Robin
    📧Let's Chat! Request a Free Discovery Call or Contact Robin
    💻Visit Robin's Website at robinmcintire.com or https://linktr.ee/RobinMcIntire
    📧Contact Monique at Siver Paw Studio

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    42 mins
  • Perfection Can be Sneaky!
    Sep 12 2024

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    In this episode of the Shift Happens podcast, life coach Robin McIntire and question asker Monique Eckes dive deep into the topic of perfectionism, exploring its often sneaky nature. They discuss different types of perfectionism, how it manifests in various aspects of life, and the detrimental effects of unrealistic expectations. Robin shares personal stories about her journey from being a self-proclaimed perfectionist to a 'recovering perfectionist,' with significant insights from therapy and a pivotal book . The episode offers practical advice for recognizing and combating unhealthy perfectionism, highlighting the importance of self-compassion and celebrating small wins. They also introduce a special coaching offer, 'Spark Plus Session,' aimed at helping individuals make a quick positive change and get a feel for coaching with Robin.

    00:00 Introduction to Perfectionism
    00:50 Understanding Sneaky Perfectionism
    02:47 Personal Stories and Insights
    05:58 Types of Perfectionists
    06:59 Perfectionism and Control Issues
    12:57 Relabeling Perfectionism
    14:16 The Struggle with Asking for Help
    15:22 Healthy Striving
    17:42 Self-Compassion and Momentum
    20:35 Practical Tips and One-Liners
    23:22 Conclusion and Contact Information


    😓🆓Download the Free Guide - Stop Worrying Start Living; 3 Stress-Busting Moves to Lighten Your Load
    ☮️🆓Download the Free Guide - Energy! Grind vs. Flow
    🆓Download the Free Workbook - The Domino Effect
    🆓Download the Free Guide - Unlock your 'Want To' Factor: Your First Step To Releasing Unwanted Habits

    💁🏼‍♀️🎇Ready to take action and learn to build new habits? Book a Spark Session Plus session with Robin
    📧Let's Chat! Request a Free Discovery Call or Contact Robin
    💻Visit Robin's Website at robinmcintire.com or https://linktr.ee/RobinMcIntire
    📧Contact Monique at Siver Paw Studio

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    25 mins
  • Hoping Vs. Trying
    Sep 5 2024

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    In this episode of the Shift Happens podcast, life coach Robin McIntire and co-host Monique Eckes discuss the crucial difference between hoping and trying in the context of personal growth and goal achievement. They explore how shifting from passive wishing to active trying can lead to significant changes in one's identity and success. The hosts emphasize the importance of self-awareness, planning, commitment, and identity in reaching goals. They share personal anecdotes, practical tips, and motivational insights, including the influence of beliefs on actions and the power of defining oneself positively.

    The episode also features Robin's Spark Session Plus coaching offer and highlights a notable quote by Yoda: 'Do or do not, there is no try.'

    00:00 Introduction and Today's Topic
    00:36 Hoping vs Trying: An Overview
    03:03 The Power of Identity in Achieving Goals
    05:00 Real-Life Examples and Personal Experiences
    08:53 Action Steps and Practical Advice
    12:33 Sponsor Break turns humorous!
    13:51 Working from One-Liners
    14;14 What if?
    17:30 Conclusion and Resources


    😓🆓Download the Free Guide - Stop Worrying Start Living; 3 Stress-Busting Moves to Lighten Your Load
    ☮️🆓Download the Free Guide - Energy! Grind vs. Flow
    🆓Download the Free Workbook - The Domino Effect
    🆓Download the Free Guide - Unlock your 'Want To' Factor: Your First Step To Releasing Unwanted Habits

    💁🏼‍♀️🎇Ready to take action and learn to build new habits? Book a Spark Session Plus session with Robin
    📧Let's Chat! Request a Free Discovery Call or Contact Robin
    💻Visit Robin's Website at robinmcintire.com or https://linktr.ee/RobinMcIntire
    📧Contact Monique at Siver Paw Studio

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    19 mins
  • Drama Buster
    Aug 30 2024

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    In this episode of the Shift Happens podcast, hosts Robin McIntire, a Certified Life and Transitions Coach, and Monique Eckes discuss strategies for becoming a 'drama buster'—someone who remains calm amid drama and stress. They explore the concept of being the 'calm in the storm' through self-awareness, visualization, and focusing on what one can control. Real-life examples are given, highlighting the importance of maintaining calmness during high-stress moments, whether in social situations, family gatherings, or work environments. They introduce the ELI assessment which measures energy levels in normal and stressful situations, and suggest actionable steps, including mindful visualization, to develop and sustain calm energy. A free worksheet is also offered to help listeners identify whether they are more prone to drama or calmness.

    00:00 Introduction to the Podcast
    00:27 Understanding Drama and Its Impact
    01:11 Examples of Drama in Everyday Life
    02:06 Managing Internal and External Drama
    03:08 The Importance of Calm Energy
    04:37 Working Your Side of the Street
    11:38 Visualization and Action Steps
    15:57 Conclusion and Final Thoughts


    😓🆓Download the Free Guide - Stop Worrying Start Living; 3 Stress-Busting Moves to Lighten Your Load
    ☮️🆓Download the Free Guide - Energy! Grind vs. Flow
    🆓Download the Free Workbook - The Domino Effect
    🆓Download the Free Guide - Unlock your 'Want To' Factor: Your First Step To Releasing Unwanted Habits

    💁🏼‍♀️🎇Ready to take action and learn to build new habits? Book a Spark Session Plus session with Robin
    📧Let's Chat! Request a Free Discovery Call or Contact Robin
    💻Visit Robin's Website at robinmcintire.com or https://linktr.ee/RobinMcIntire
    📧Contact Monique at Siver Paw Studio

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    18 mins
  • Are you Losing Momentum?
    Aug 22 2024

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    In this episode of the Shift Happens podcast, certified life and transitions coach Robin McIntire and her client Monique Eckes discuss the common challenge of losing momentum. They explore the role of energy and thoughts in maintaining momentum, tips for self-awareness, and overcoming distractions. The episode also highlights the importance of physical well-being and surroundings, culminating in actionable advice to recommit to goals and find accountability partners. Practical steps and personal anecdotes make this episode a valuable resource for anyone needing to regain or maintain their momentum in life.

    00:00 Introduction and Hosts Introduction
    00:36 Understanding Momentum Loss
    01:47 Identifying Triggers and Thoughts
    05:53 Dealing with Distractions
    10:45 Physical and Environmental Factors
    12:32 Practical Steps and Sponsor Break
    13:31 Final Thoughts and Conclusion


    😓🆓Download the Free Guide - Stop Worrying Start Living; 3 Stress-Busting Moves to Lighten Your Load
    ☮️🆓Download the Free Guide - Energy! Grind vs. Flow
    🆓Download the Free Workbook - The Domino Effect
    🆓Download the Free Guide - Unlock your 'Want To' Factor: Your First Step To Releasing Unwanted Habits

    💁🏼‍♀️🎇Ready to take action and learn to build new habits? Book a Spark Session Plus session with Robin
    📧Let's Chat! Request a Free Discovery Call or Contact Robin
    💻Visit Robin's Website at robinmcintire.com or https://linktr.ee/RobinMcIntire
    📧Contact Monique at Siver Paw Studio

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    18 mins
  • Waiting for Permission
    Aug 16 2024

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    In this episode of Shift Happens, hosts Robin McIntire, a certified life and transitions coach, and Monique Eckes, explore the concept of waiting for permission in life decisions. They discuss various aspects such as starting a new business, changing jobs, or even making daily choices, emphasizing the importance of self-trust. Through personal anecdotes and coaching insights, they stress the value of giving oneself permission and trusting one's intuition. The episode concludes with actionable advice, encouraging listeners to recognize their own expertise in their lives and to take decisive steps forward without seeking external validation.


    00:00 Introduction and Welcome

    00:31 Exploring the Concept of Permission

    02:06 Personal Stories and definitions of Success

    03:18 Overcoming Self-Doubt and Seeking Permission

    05:28 The Importance of Self-Permission

    09:12 Practical Steps and Sponsor Break

    10:57 Final Thoughts and Action Steps

    12:49 Conclusion and Call to Action

    📢Special 20% off Spark Session Plus w/Robin! https://robinmcintire.com/podcast-listener-offer/


    😓🆓Download the Free Guide - Stop Worrying Start Living; 3 Stress-Busting Moves to Lighten Your Load
    ☮️🆓Download the Free Guide - Energy! Grind vs. Flow
    🆓Download the Free Workbook - The Domino Effect
    🆓Download the Free Guide - Unlock your 'Want To' Factor: Your First Step To Releasing Unwanted Habits

    💁🏼‍♀️🎇Ready to take action and learn to build new habits? Book a Spark Session Plus session with Robin
    📧Let's Chat! Request a Free Discovery Call or Contact Robin
    💻Visit Robin's Website at robinmcintire.com or https://linktr.ee/RobinMcIntire
    📧Contact Monique at Siver Paw Studio

    #SHIFTHAPPENSPODCAST


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    14 mins