Episodes

  • Queer Travel Guide | AMA

    Queer Travel Guide | AMA
    Feb 3 2025
    In today’s episode, I’m talking all about travel! You’ve asked about everything from the logistics of frequent flying to how I maintain some sense of stability while constantly on the go. This episode is all about practical tips and how I manage to make travel work—both for my career and my personal life. We’ll discuss: How I balance work and travel The best ways to handle turbulence My approach to booking flights Who watches Sarge when I’m away How I pack for long trips Sponsored By: CLEARSTEM Discover the CLEARSTEM difference and experience clear, healthy skin for life. Go to CLEARSTEM.com/MAX and use code MAX at checkout for 15% off your first order. Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Introduction 00:01:21 - Window vs aisle seat 00:02:03 - Travel with me? + booking 00:03:03 - Travel nonnegotiables 00:03:54 - Who watches Sarge? 00:06:30 - Which airline is the best? 00:07:06 - Mexico and New Zealand 00:07:30 - Turbulence & staying hydrated 00:09:40 - Travel itinerary 00:11:05 - Work vs vacation 00:12:14 - Rainbow surf & gay bars 00:13:08 - Underwear & threesomes? 00:13:59 - Hawaii 00:15:37 - Working internationally 00:16:04 - First class is a scam + packing 00:17:02 - Travel wish list 00:18:01 - How to pack a suitcase Show Links: Kindred | Go to https://livekindred.com/ and use code MAX.ISMS to skip the waitlist. OGIO Luggage Check Out Max: Instagram YouTube TikTok  Special thank you to the following: Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson
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    20 mins
  • What To Do Post-Election | Brian Sims

    What To Do Post-Election | Brian Sims
    Jan 27 2025
    In this episode, I chat with Brian Sims, a pioneering LGBTQ+ advocate and former Pennsylvania state legislator, who continues the fight for equality as the CEO of Agenda PAC. Brian shares his experiences as the first openly LGBTQ+ member of the Pennsylvania General Assembly, and as the only NCAA football captain to come out publicly while still active. We discuss his journey through politics, the importance of staying true to your values, and navigating challenges like discrimination and anti-queer legislation. Brian also reflects on the significance of intersectionality, the need for genuine allyship, and his advice for those wanting to get into politics. Highlights: Breaking barriers as an LGBTQ+ leader in politics and sports The challenges of being openly queer in traditionally conservative spaces Intersectionality and its role in advocacy How to engage with anti-equality politicians Staying grounded while leading a movement Advice for aspiring political activists Listen now for a powerful conversation on leadership, equality, and making change in the world. Sponsored By: Scandinavian Biolabs Go to Scandinavianbiolabs.com and start today with 20% off the Hair Activation Routine and any other products from Scandinavian Biolabs using code MAXEMERSON. Kindred Go to livekindred.com/ and:Use code MAX.ISMS to skip the waitlist. Max’s Patreon Join today and make the internet more colorful Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Introduction 00:02:46 - Who The Hell Are You? 00:09:15 - Closeted legislatures 00:11:14 - Choosing to stay closeted 00:12:13 - Discrimination and representation 00:15:25 - Challenges of getting elected 00:20:57 - Staying calm when debating 00:22:06 - Brain’s campaign 00:23:53 - Sticking to the issues, not being defined by your queerness/identity 00:25:30 - Intersectionality 00:28:08 - Allyship & avoiding white savior complex 00:29:47 - Handling antiqueer legislators 00:36:11 - Staying grounded - reword 00:38:30 - Leaving office 00:40:58 - Marriage equalities 00:43:46 - Post election advice 00:47:02 - Advice for getting into politics 00:48:44 - Fight Me!!! Show Links: Chris Colfer Episode coming soon! Check Out Brian Sims: Instagram X Check Out Max: Instagram YouTube TikTok Special thank you to the following: Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson
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    52 mins
  • Busting Skincare Myths: Accutane, Retinol, + Acne Treatment | CLEARSTEM

    Busting Skincare Myths: Accutane, Retinol, + Acne Treatment | CLEARSTEM
    Jan 20 2025
    In this episode, I’m joined by Danielle Gronich and Kayleigh Christina, the co-founders of CLEARSTEM Skincare, to talk about everything from acne myths and skincare scams to gut health and the importance of clean, effective ingredients. Danielle, a licensed clinical esthetician, and Kayleigh, an integrative health practitioner, share their expert insights on managing acne, debunking common skincare misconceptions, and why it’s so important to be mindful of what’s in the products we use. We also discuss the impact of diet on skin health and how they approach both acne and anti-aging without using pore-clogging ingredients. Sponsored By: CLEARSTEM Discover the CLEARSTEM difference and experience clear, healthy skin for life. Go to CLEARSTEM.com/MAX and use code MAX at checkout for 15% off your first order. Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Introduction 00:02:23 - Who The Hell Are You? 00:07:58 - What kids today know about skincare 00:09:51 - Acne commercials & sharing bathrooms 00:10:57 - Sharing bathrooms 00:11:45 - Educating about acne 00:16:28 - Acne myths and social media 00:19:02 - Skincare scams and red flags 00:21:27 - What is acne? 00:23:44 - The future of clean skincare 00:26:48 - Why CLEARSTEM? 00:29:23 - Voting with your dollar 00:30:27 - Issues with acne prescriptions 00:33:43 - Managing cystic acne 00:35:09 - Acne education 00:35:18 - Gut health, sugar, and skin 00:37:50 - Skin health musts 00:40:19 - Antiaging skincare at a young age 00:45:21 - HOT PEOPLE GET ACNE 00:47:20 - Fight Me! Check Out CLEARSTEM: Website Check Out Max Emerson: Instagram YouTube TikTok Special thank you to the following: Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson
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    51 mins
  • Sex, Relationships + Personal Growth | Zach Noe Towers

    Sex, Relationships + Personal Growth | Zach Noe Towers
    Jan 6 2025
    In this episode, stand-up comedian Zach Noe Towers opens up about his bold and unapologetic approach to comedy, podcasting, and life. Zach, co-host of Confidently Insecure, shares insights into his journey from musical theater to comedy, how sobriety has influenced his career, and his unfiltered takes on sex, relationships, and personal growth. He also talks about what it’s like to push boundaries on stage, work with big names like Taylor Tomlinson and Bob The Drag Queen, and offers advice to aspiring comedians. Sponsored By: Scandinavian Biolabs Start today with 20% off the Hair Activation Routine and any other products from Scandinavian Biolabs using code MAXEMERSON. Go to ScandinavianBiolabs.com Nutrisense Click here and use code MAXEMERSON for $50 off of your first month Puori Go to Puori.com/maxemerson and use code MAXEMERSON for 20% off Max’s Patreon Join today and make the internet more colorful Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Introduction 00:02:40 - Who The Hell Are You? 00:10:58 - Deciding to work in entertainment 00:12:13 - Sobriety 00:13:02 - Musical Theatre Degree and experimentation 00:17:21 - Getting into show business 00:19:18 - Writing for different genres and platforms 00:24:19 - Hosting different red carpets 00:29:24 - Unapologetic and raw comedy 00:31:48 - Overstepping and pushing boundaries 00:33:43 - Comedy idols 00:34:43 - Podcasting 00:36:33 - Fetishes and plague 00:40:25 - Advice for inspiring comedians 00:41:57 - Where to find Zach Check Out ZNT: Instagram Linktree Website Check Out Max: Instagram YouTube TikTok Special Thank You To The Following: Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson
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    47 mins
  • All Love Is Equal: Photographing Queer Love Around The Globe | Braden Summers

    All Love Is Equal: Photographing Queer Love Around The Globe | Braden Summers
    Dec 17 2024
    In this episode, we’re joined by Braden Summers, a commercial photographer renowned for his cinematic style and thought-provoking visual storytelling. Braden shares his journey of capturing queer relationships, particularly through his iconic All Love is Equal series, which reimagines classic romantic imagery with LGBTQ+ couples. He discusses the intersection of high-fashion aesthetics, inclusivity, and emotional resonance, and how he’s pushing the boundaries of representation in both commercial and creative photography. Plus, we explore his creative process, challenges, and the stories behind his most impactful projects. Tune in for a conversation about art, identity, and the power of visual storytelling. Sponsored By: Puori Go to Puori.com/maxemerson and use code MAXEMERSON for 20% off Nutrisense Click here and use code MAXEMERSON for $50 off of your first month Shilajit Use code: max for 15% off your first order at blacklotusshilajit.com Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Introduction 00:01:12 - Who The Hell Are You? 00:05:59 - San Francisco, diversity, and creative vision 00:07:44 - Art school takeaways 00:10:40 - Artistic vision and inspiration 00:12:30 - Mistakes and experimentation 00:14:47 - First job 00:17:12 - All Love Is Equal campaign 00:21:53 - Viralty, The Advocate, and Buzzfeed 00:23:34 - Crowd sourcing 00:28:20 - Casting difficulties 00:32:25 - Creating dreamlike images and feedback 00:35:21 - Creating moments of intimacy 00:38:35 - Real couples vs models 00:40:59 - Composing images 00:43:57 - Creative control 00:48:05 - Braden’s new projects 00:49:10 - Fight Me! Check out Braden: Website Instagram Check Out Max: Instagram YouTube TikTok Thank you to all my patreon subscribers! Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson
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    53 mins
  • Adoption Journey | Max & Andrés AMA

    Adoption Journey | Max & Andrés AMA
    Dec 9 2024
    In today’s episode, I’m joined by my partner, Andrés, to talk about our adoption journey. We’ll share where we are in the process, the challenges we’ve faced, and answer some of your questions about what it’s really like. From navigating agencies to dealing with the emotional ups and downs, we’re giving you an honest look at the highs, lows, and everything in between. Sponsored By: Puori Go to Puori.com/maxemerson and use code MAXEMERSON for 20% off Nutrisense Click here and use code MAXEMERSON for $50 off of your first month Shilajit Use code: max for 15% off your first order at blacklotusshilajit.com Max’s Patreon Join today and make the internet more colorful Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Introduction 00:01:44 - Where we are in the adoption process 00:02:24 - Adoption process length and where we are 00:03:16 - Hardest part of the process 00:08:06 - Deciding to adopt 00:10:06 - Infant newborn domestic adoption 00:12:25 - Our expectations 00:16:59 - Adoption agencies vs consultants 00:19:35 - Adoption cost 00:20:55 - Public & private adoption, age, and other preferences 00:24:33 - Adoption challenges 00:31:30 - Going back to phase one 00:35:42 - Vetting as a same sex couple 00:38:45 - Motivation 00:41:48 - Fight me Check out Andrés: Linktree Art Instagram Tik Tok Patreon Check Out Max: Instagram YouTube TikTok  Thank you to all my patreon subscribers! Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson
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    43 mins
  • Finding The Right Therapist, Mastering Communication, + Living Your Best Life | Matthew Dempsey

    Finding The Right Therapist, Mastering Communication, + Living Your Best Life | Matthew Dempsey
    Dec 2 2024
    In this episode, Matthew Dempsey, a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, gives us a behind-the-scenes look at therapy and mental health. With years of experience, he talks about creating a safe space for clients, how to approach therapy, and why finding a supportive community matters. He also discusses the misuse of therapeutic terms, the ever-evolving nature of psychology, and beating the stigma around therapy. It’s a real, down-to-earth conversation about building better connections and taking care of your mental well-being. Sponsored By: Shilajit Use code: max for 15% off your first order at blacklotusshilajit.com Nutrisense Click here and use code MAXEMERSON for $50 off of your first month Puori Go to Puori.com/maxemerson and use code MAXEMERSON for 20% off Sparkle Club Get your limited edition hard copy today Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Introduction 00:01:22 - Who The Hell Are You? 00:09:13 - Becoming a counselor 00:11:51 - Working with LGBTQ 00:13:31 - Identity, therapeutic practice, bullying 00:15:26 - Creating a safe space 00:19:00 - Finding a therapist and communicating with others 00:23:44 - Dark humor and direct communication 00:29:37 - Social media as a resource 00:31:54 - Beyond coming out 00:35:57 - Misusing therapeutic terms 00:40:05 - Finding queer community 00:43:12 - Changes in psychology 00:45:26 - Stigma around therapy and other resources 00:49:18 - FIGHT ME! Show Links: The Book Of Queer Queer American History, Gay Villains, History of Pride Parades + Representation | Dr. Eric Cervini Check Out Matthew: Website Facebook Instagram Youtube Check Out Max: Instagram YouTube TikTok  Special thank you to the following: Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson
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    53 mins
  • A-List Dancer and Choreographer On: How to Make It In The Industry + Finding Your Voice | Dexter Carr

    A-List Dancer and Choreographer On: How to Make It In The Industry + Finding Your Voice | Dexter Carr
    Nov 18 2024
    Ever wondered how a young talent from Miami makes a leap to the grandeur of Broadway? Join us as we explore Dexter Carr’s remarkable journey from his early days dancing with entertainment icons like Chris Brown, Beyonce and Janet Jackson to gracing Broadway stages in "Bring it On" and "In the Heights." Dexter shares invaluable insights into the transformative shift from the exhilarating world of professional dance to the theatrical demands of Broadway. His story is a vibrant testament to the resilience and creativity needed to thrive in the arts, providing a unique perspective on the supportive nature of the dance community versus the competitiveness of the entertainment industry. Dexter opens up about the highs and lows of his career, including the challenges of imposter syndrome and the ever-evolving landscape of auditions and networking. He reflects on his experiences choreographing for megastars like Janet Jackson and Nicki Minaj, and how social media has become a critical tool for building connections and sustaining a career. With a focus on empowerment, Dexter delves into his role in projects like Megan Thee Stallion's reality series "Playground," which gives dancers a voice beyond being background performers. His insights encourage aspiring dancers to embrace their uniqueness and find strength in community and collaboration. Sponsored By: BIOptimizers Go to bioptimizers.com/maxemerson and use code MAXEMERSON for 10% off Nutrisense Click here and use code MAXEMERSON for $50 off of your first month Puori Go to Puori.com/maxemerson and use code MAXEMERSON for 20% off Max’s Patreon Join today and make the internet more colorful Check Out Dexter: Instagram Link Tree Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Introduction 00:01:56 - Who The Hell Are You: Rapid Fire Questions 00:07:30 - What Drew Dexter to Dance? 00:08:09 - Male Cheerleading as a Cover Up For Being in the Closet 00:08:43 - Auditioning for Chris Brown as a Dancer 00:10:00 - Being Chris Browns Body Double 00:10:37 - Dexter Transitioning from Pop Music to Broadway and Musical Theatre 00:12:52 - Learning How to Tour and Not Party on the Road 00:14:06 - How Does Dexter’s Personality Influence His Work and Creative Process 00:15:05 - Most Memorable Moments in Dexters Career 00:15:48 - Advice from Lin Manuel during “In the Heights” 00:19:34 - Dexter’s New Hulu Series, “Playground” Produced by Megan Thee Stallion 00:22:11 - What Impact Will the Playground Have on Aspiring Dancers? 00:23:12 - How To FInd Your Voice as a Dancer 00:23:50 - How to Adapt to Working with Different Artists 00:25:22 - Choreographing for The Nicki Minaj Tour 00:28:03 - How to Stay In the Game 00:29:00 - When Did Dexter Parents Stop Making Him Get a Real Job? 00:30:37 - Behind the Scenes with Janet Jackson 00:33:12 - How Do You Adapt Choreography To Each Project? 00:34:44 - Max’s Episode of Glee 00:35:20 - Current Projects that Dexter is Excited About 00:37:30 - Kaos 00:38:44 - What is Outlet By Dexter? 00:39:51 - TikTok Advice and How To Get TikTok Fame? 00:41:00 - How to Not Get Burnout on TikTok 00:42:11 - Nike App 00:43:40 - Dexter’s Advice for Other Dancers Special thank you to the following: Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson
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    48 mins